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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Cuteamigo1(m): 5:30pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Lisaflex:lol. well i thought a womans money is her money and husbands money belong to both of them. that aside, women are just becoming lazy and thier laziness is rewarded with the treat of feminism and thats why you see topics like this because it wont kill you to go to work and at the same time figure out how to put food on the table. remember the food is for you, your husband and you children so you are not doing anybody any favour by handling your responsibilities. if its too much for you, tell me and i will add another wife to ease the burden on you. thier is nothing like division of labour. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
akinszz: Hahahaha , walahi, assuming i actually decided to insult her, she will just deactivated and start facing mental problems. But bros, yourself like the insults,
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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by GiantParrot(m): 5:35pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Elder001: Elder001. You had better been a perfect person. Else, going by your extreme position, you should be locked up in prison for any character weakness you may have. I'd advise women to not get involved with men who do not care about their wellbeing. It may also be best for traditional minded men to avoid progressive women. There is no need for compulsion on either side. I'm tempted to believe you could be having delusions of grandeur if you think traditional minded men would watch idly as you attempt by you to lock them in prisons for their personal preferences. If you want to influence social change, to win people over to your side, you stand a far better chance of doing so by offering compelling rational arguments to support your position, rather than making boastful threats that will piss the other side off. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by defolman(m): 5:40pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Olalan:If She can wash the car no problem |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by akinszz: 5:46pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Maldek666:but who pay the bills |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Maldek666: 5:48pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by mu2sa2: 5:50pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Elder001:Must You marry? 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by akinszz: 5:51pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Maldek666:50/50 I guess |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Maldek666: 5:58pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
akinszz: 50/50 60/40 Is fair, if the woman earns more, she pays more. If the husband earns more he pays more. Then they must set up savings account with 50/50 contribution to the Future Trust account and Children Education Fund account. In my home I pay all the bills and handle all expenses but I must learn to cook. Today I cleaned my bedroom toilet without waiting for a maid. It was cool to do it. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by mu2sa2: 6:01pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
DJHANDSOME:So the husband should be cooking and doing all the household chores because oga madam is the boss! |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by tartarus(m): 6:06pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Nigerian men are very selfish creatures! I'm a Nigerian man and I'm saying this!. You all want a woman to do all the chores, take care of the kids and also contribute to the finances!! Kuku kill her all in the name of marriage, I really don't see how marriage favors Nigerian women except when there are kids. What most Nairaland guys bring to the table is d*CK and a meagre salary I always advise my sister's to please marry a foreign man, I'm glad they're not even based in Nigeria. The lady I eventually get married to is going to know my mom raised me right 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Viergeachar: 6:24pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
I can cook quite well but won't do so when my wife is available... 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:25pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Cuteamigo1: If she's not providing, she won't be working Do you guys deliberately want to be blind to the truth abi am I missing something here? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Viergeachar: 6:25pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
tartarus: Woman wrapper. Remember, women hate 'nice' men. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
mu2sa2: I'm a married man. |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Viergeachar: 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Elder001: Another sissy man! 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
drewxx88: Young man, you've never left the shores of Africa . don't think me for a small boy. Travel to Europe and America ,you'll see men cooking, cleaning the home and doing laundry on daily basis even when their wives are doing nothing. This is a civilized world. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:30pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
lekonso: I don't even want to get paid for it. Just collaborate with me. |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Demure1: 6:33pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
tartarus: Thank you oo, I laugh when I hear women age faster than men, please what do most men expect?, she goes to work same as you comes back home while you relax with football, she is in the kitchen cooking till God knows when, you devour the meal by this time you already in bed waiting to pound her life out, then she goes to the kitchen to clean up, wakes up before you to prepare the meal and the children for school and its an ongoing cycle. To crown it all you still expect her to look like a Barbie doll. Before you come for me I wash cars, change the bulb, take out the trash and what not. There's nothing like helping her out since you eat out of the meal so you doing no one a favour. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:35pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Harrynight: Because our mothers never complained doesn't mean they had it easy. It was just unnatural to complain in their time. You know "suffering and smiling". Thank God I have a mum who is open and honest. Hers is a path I don't wish to toll and thank God she doesn't want that for me either. Work, contribute "even more" financially, and still hold the home front solely. All for what? God for bid. It's not grace, it is stupidity and exploitation. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
The number of misogynistic men on this forum is alarming. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Demure1: That word "help " is really disgusting. There's nothing like help ..by cooking, he's not doing anybody a favour because he'll also eat from the food. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Cuteamigo1(m): 6:43pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Izen:and automatically it puts her at a disadvantage because she is cooking the food she will eat, her children and husband too. what am i missing here? infact why stop there? why shouldn't you demand i pay for impregnating you or in another twist we hire a surrogate and contribute 50/50 for her to carry our child since it will be unfair for you to carry it alone. lets continue like this and by the time we are done thier will be no reason for anybody to get married because most of what married couples do out of love and sacrifice would of been measured in monetary terms. gender equality is cool but a line must be drawn or it should be explored fully to the last items so that people can make better choices 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:51pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Cuteamigo1: Because you have no comeback for my question, you decided to derail. I asked a simple question, your woman is also providing so why is she still expected to be solely responsible for the home front? You think paying her for the chores is more important than actually collaborating with her? Even the big corporations you all work for understand the importance of collaboration and team work, but I guess our men enjoy the bliss of being blind to the truth. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Stevenson1(m): 7:00pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
I'm not trying to rubbish anybody or clam down anybody's thought but men and women can never be equal in this world. they can make all the noise they want but IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!!! Talk about equality, a lady after gotten an interview date, still got the job just cos she's bleeping someone while a dude without bleep or help struggles his way to up both in the interview and promotions only to be compared by some I wanna be youngies. without men in this world, this world will be empty and full of shits. that's how most if them destroys marriages with their outspoken rubbish as we can see with the likes of Linda Ikeji. my aunty has been to all type of church in Nigeria simply because she listened to the advice of a nitwit she called a friend and a mentor. She's lonely, sad, depressed and suicidal while her useless adviser of a friend is still much intact in her marriage. I mean she would give everything she has now just to get back at her ex hubby. Talk about world Technologies, talk about innovations, talk about ideas even talk about the make-up women use are all from men. This issue of equality started during the wars, as young men and fathers were getting prepared and moved into wars, women on the other hand were recruited and offered the already gone soldiers job. coming to the end of wars, they became fully stablised with the likes of their already occupied job of their dead heroes. Young men here, please respect, adore, cherish, and love women but don't you dare believe that rubbish they are spinning. This is our world and we are the Alphas. Women will spoil this world in no time to come. Believe me... If the olden days war was at about 100%, women caused 30%, religion caused 30%, Ego, Hate, Pride and wickedness shared the remaining 40%. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Daboomb: 7:07pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
pedrilo: Dont mind that Cow, he thinks by pandering to all these senseless demands of some women, he is going to win some votes! Any woman that can not do her woman-chores without complaining, should either resign her job or get the feck out of the marriage. It is not by force to be called "Mrs" Xyz. - Mrs Alakija is a Billionaire and she still cooks her husband's food. - Late Dora Akinyilu of blessed memory tells us about her she serves her husband's food to him everyday, despite fighting all the Drug fakers in Nigeria. Many more 'women of substance' know where to draw the line and dont joke with their house duties. All you see are these under-accomplished mofos on Nairaland whinning about how their peanut-paying job has turned them to the 'husband of the house'. Metchew 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by drewxx88(m): 7:10pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Elder001:I won't trade words over where iv been to for vacations or not ,you sound like a sissy whose only aim is to come here and win likes try that shit you just typed and watch your wife walk all over you PS its a free world to each his own . 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Daboomb: 7:21pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Izen: Let us stop this fallacy that women do ALL the "home Chore/work" whether they work or not. There is division of labour. Cooking the meal is for women. End of story. If for example (just an example here so dont start farting), the roof starts leaking after a rain or the Generator breaks down in the middle of the night when there is no public power supply, is it the wife or the husband that takes responsibility for such, even if he has just returned from a grueling day's work? Does he start moaning like a cow about how his office work is preventing him from doing the repair? That is when you hear tales like: 'Is he not a man'? or 'That is why he is a man'. Fair enough, it is his responsiblity/chore in the home front and he does it without whinning. Women should do theirs, like cooking, without whinning as well. Any wife/woman that feels she cant cook the family meal is USELESS to the family and should move out or be kicked out. End of story. BTW: I can cook like mad because l am one of those men that believe that no woman should ever blackmail me with good food!. |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 7:31pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Daboomb: When you people want to argue, you don't even make it believable. One of your colleagues too was saying changing light bulb, taking waste out and washing car up there..... LMAO. Anyone that compares a once in a week chore to a 3 times a day job, or a chore that would take all of 3mins to one that would take nothing less than an hour; such fellow is too dumb to argue with in the first place LMAO. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Daboomb: 7:32pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Demure1: I hope you also laugh when you hear that "men die younger than women" or that 'women live longer than men'? I dont even want to go into details of how men work themselves to death, over their family and then die when its time to start enjoying it, only for the woman to enjoy the sweat of the man and probably doing so with a new husband/lover. As men, we dont whine. We do our bit and get on with it All the things you listed up there, from the food to the 'pounding' to the children, are all SHARED BENEFITS BETWEEN BOTH OF THEM. No one is doing the other a favor. Like in any organisation, their are ROLES each person plays, for the success of the organisation. You play yours, l play mine and things work. No one should start whinning about how their role is giving them headache, except they are just plain lazy. Same in the family/home. The husband has his role and the wife has her role (which includes cooking for the family). If you dont like the heat, get the feck out of the kitchen. Marriage is not by force. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 7:33pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
drewxx88: ....why you lying, stop f.u.c.king lying, hmm o my g... |
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Cuteamigo1(m): 7:35pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Izen:because thats what women do. the are better at taking care of the home while the men support them. its the same case when it comes to the providing. men are better at it and the women support in anyway they can. agree to it or not, with this mentality of yours marriage will become utterly useless because couples would be sizing each on the basis of who is cheating who and it isnt supposed to be so. my previous post explains it better although you choose to be blind on the effect such mentality has on marriage. cheers. with the way you are putting it, is it not unfair for her to carry you child for 9 month since it will affect her career? explore the 50 50 thing to the last or let us be abeg. |
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