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I concur .... [quote author= post=68384242]SO TRUE : This is where the word 'FRIEND ZONE' originated from!!




Alot of us make that mistake all the time. Just because we are best friends does not mean we will be best lovers.
Just because our friendship is right does not make us right for eachother.
Some of us have lost some great friendships because we stretched forward beyond where God intended for us to stop.[/quote]

Nice one

I love this post

Ur humble advice is needed pls


Hv got a lady whom hv got a clear intentn in relation to relationship and we had met officially for like 3months. She's a student & self employed.

within my power ve been fulfilling necessary gestures deem fit as a man but the bone of contention here is her reply has been *I ain't ready for any relationship*. This statement weigh me down & confused.


what step can I take?

Ridbaay:
Ur humble advice is needed pls


Hv got a lady whom hv got a clear intentn in relation to relationship and we had met officially for like 3months. She's a student & self employed.

within my power ve been fulfilling necessary gestures deem fit as a man but the bone of contention here is her reply has been *I ain't ready for any relationship*. This statement weigh me down & confused.


what step can I take?

just be sure she's not dating someone else..if you confirmed then wait for her

Enuguboy4nsk:
just be sure she's not dating someone else..if you confirmed then wait for her

fr my confirmation she's nt

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well said.. I hope some people get to learn

I so much like this post because I can relate, not with the fact that dating is like wine- the taste comes after you look at the moon- but because for everyone you date, there is a huge possibility that no one should interfere with two individuals who are thinking in same direction.

For example, if you are friends with a member of the opposite sex, it's like eating ice cream. Those types with cones made of cookies. If you take it out of a fridge, let's imagine that yougurt was mixed with it, you will still see that two individuals should be left alone.

That's my opinion though.

But we can't be lovers if we are not friends..... In the words of legendary Michael Bolton

U spoke well 100%.
I tell pple know ur place in somebody's life n also know ur boundary.
I just remembered when some of my male classmates were coercing me to woo my very good female classmate friend in university but i knew my bandary.
Similar thing happened to my female friend who helped me got job today.if i had spoilt our friendship then tell me .....

The truth is a lot of relationships don't even last 6 months.. Either u started dating on the first day or u hv been friends for long...
It is not about been friends or not
It is about the fact that the too parties are not committed to d relationships...
If u wona data your bestie, you should also hv it in mind that things will change (more commitment)

I can relate to this post.

I have always wanted to have a male bestie. No strings attached. Just pure friendship. Unfortunately, I haven't seen. The ones I had then, we spoilt it by one person catching feelings. I have lost great friends cos of that.

I'm beginning to conclude that men and ladies can't really be pure besties.
I stand to be corrected though.

MissJoy29:
I can relate to this post.

I have always wanted to have a male bestie. No strings attached. Just pure friendship. Unfortunately, I haven't seen. The ones I had then, we spoilt it by one person catching feelings. I have lost great friends cos of that.

I'm beginning to conclude that men and ladies can't really be pure besties.
I stand to be corrected though.

Well said.

Odunharry:
Well said.

Thanks

MissJoy29:
Thanks

One sad truth many of us are yet to come in terms with.

If you can stay with a guy together alone for a week without either of you touching, then maybe you people can become good friends. Aside that, Hmm

Odunharry:
One sad truth many of us are yet to come in terms with.

If you can stay with a guy together alone for a week without either of you touching, then maybe you people can become good friends. Aside that, Hmm

True. But one week is too small to determine.

I once had a friend I thought would be my bestie. Chai. We were too close! It was wonderful! I just don't know what happened. We just fell out.
This is a guy who for the more than 6 months I was that close to him, we NEVER as much as hugged. It was side hug just like few times. But I would go to his house, he will cook or I will cook. We will then sit & watch movies. And gist! We could gist for Africa. We were both heartbroken by our partners and we will strategise on how to make things right.

But the thing about me and male besties is that I can never keep them around if I'm in a relationship. My partner should be my bestie.

MissJoy29:
True. But one week is too small to determine.

I once had a friend I thought would be my bestie. Chai. We were too close! It was wonderful! I just don't know what happened. We just fell out.
This is a guy who for the more than 6 months I was that close to him, we NEVER as much as hugged. It was side hug just like few times. But I would go to his house, he will cook or I will cook. We will then sit & watch movies. And gist! We could gist for Africa. We were both heartbroken by our partners and we will strategise on how to make things right.

But the thing about me and male besties is that I can never keep them around if I'm in a relationship. My partner should be my bestie.

Agree with the last part. Your partner should be your bestie.

As for the guy, who knows maybe either of you is shy to say how u really felt for each other.

Odunharry:
Agree with the last part. Your partner should be your bestie.

As for the guy, who knows maybe either of you is shy to say how u really felt for each other.

We weren't really shy. We both had partners we were broken up from but still wanted back. That was even one of the reasons we got closer.

Again, even if we felt some things for each other, we would have been skeptical about pursuing a relationship as it may have affected our amazing friendship and that was very important to us.

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Nice topic! "Not all best friend can actually be a best lover" to read this line i Google remember a quote that i sharing with u "love is all very well in its way but friendship is much higher"