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I know this thread will make some pesky but i can't help it. I know some of you asked me to be positive but i can't make constructive posts when i've been robbed of my joy.

- since 2 0' clock when i got back, i've been turning uncomfortably in bed due to pains. How do i keep mum when life tortures me this way?

It is well with you op

- i tried my best to be a good boy while growing up. I was a mass server. Yet i look like some one struck by a curse due to evil deeds. Why must life treat me this way?

Mass server, howfa na?


Hope you don chop today?

- there's no love in the world. Every one is made to carry his own cross. Even the one they know nothing about. Just like those in the emergency ward, my journey will end some day. Hmmm

Some say i should brighten up and stop being insensitive, how can i. My case has been a recurrent decimal. There is total disruption to my proper body functioning. I'm just like a housewife, staying back while my mates are striving.

My Brother... we live in a world that no one seems to care about the next man anymore.... its use to be survival for the fittest, but now it survival for the bravest..... your help is in your own hand cos only you can help yourself....

Nothing seems to calm my fears and give me reprieve! Food and rest most sought after by people even irritates my throat the more. Prayers have failed. Local medicine has also failed. Hmm... My only lozenge now is lamentation and tears

Since there is no solution to your case, better end it yourself by jumping into lagoon and stop disturbing nairaland with your pathetic story.

End it. Be brave for once bro

EmergencyCase:
Nothing seems to calm my fears and give me reprieve! Food and rest most sought after by people even irritates my throat the more. Prayers have failed. Local medicine has also failed. Hmm... My only lozenge now is lamentation and tears

You dont have any problem but simply depressed. But here is a good news if you can follow it.

Let me start by saying one of the things that usually deprived us of happiness is "gratitude". As long as you dont appreciate what you have and believe in your ability to make things happen, you will continue to wallowing in fear and sadness. Real happiness lies in gratitude, be gratedul for what you have and try as must as possible to live every moment as your last.

Be conscienceless, put yourself first in everything, give no damn about next man or what he might be thinking about you.

Our minds can make and destroy, causing both physical and psychological pains. And let me tell you this simple secrete, if you dont believe in something, that thing will never ever happens to you. Be a tough man, all your problems will vanish.

Still afraid to go ahead with the suicide?
Emergency Case when you do the needful let me know.
I will celebrate your departure.

emeijeh:
Mass server, howfa na?

Hope you don chop today?

that's inconsequential now

How can one help you?
What do you really want?

tee59:
Since there is no solution to your case, better end it yourself by jumping into lagoon and stop disturbing nairaland with your pathetic story.

FrancisDozie:
Still afraid to go ahead with the suicide?
Emergency Case when you do the needful let me know.
I will celebrate your departure.

These are some of the most insensitive comments I've ever seen. Someone is obviously depressed and this is what you say to them?

RAFIC:
These are some of the most insensitive comments I've ever seen. Someone is obviously depressed and this is what you say to them?

So you are among those he is fooling here with his crooked up story?If you still believe this guy story, it has well mean ,my great grand mother was a virgin.

stillseth:
My Brother... we live in a world that no one seems to care about the next man anymore.... its use to be survival for the fittest, but now it survival for the bravest..... your help is in your own hand cos only you can help yourself....

hmm.... I'll keep carrying on to see where life takes me

Divay22:
How can one help you?
What do you really want?

i doubt if people want to help or if they can even help the situation. All i want now is to live in pity and be pitied, i guess

tee59:
So you are among those he is fooling here with his crooked up story?If you still believe this guy story, it has well mean ,my great grand mother was a virgin.

Look, I know what depression is. I battle with it often and on. So I don't take it for a joke when anyone claims to suffer from it. I find it hard to push it aside in others cos I know what it feels like when persons push mine aside (and they all do). I wouldn't come online to rant about it as I've learnt to deal with it in different ways, but that doesn't mean you discredit any who complains online. Some dude was discredited after complaining on FB some time back, and he was found dead a few hours later. Before one complains online, I believe it is already extremely critical. They need help not berating.

P.S: If he has made this up, I leave him to himself for God to judge. But I can't be sure for I do not reside with him.

Oyindidi:
It is well with you op

hmm... I'll try to believe so....

You better land yourself in prayer city for aggressive deliverance.

Well, I assume your case is still an enjoyable one, else you wouldnt be garnering sympathy on nairaland.

imitateMe:
You better land yourself in prayer city for aggressive deliverance.

Well, I assume your case is still an enjoyable one, else you wouldnt be garnering sympathy on nairaland.

not enjoyable at all. Throat discomfort is not something easy to bear at all as it's a sensitive part of the body

RAFIC:
Look, I know what depression is. I battle with it often and on. So I don't take it for a joke when anyone claims to suffer from it. I find it hard to push it aside in others cos I know what it feels like when persons push mine aside (and they all do). I wouldn't come online to rant about it as I've learnt to deal with it in different ways, but that doesn't mean you discredit any who complains online. Some dude was discredited after complaining on FB some time back, and he was found dead a few hours later. Before one complains online, I believe it is already extremely critical. They need help not berating.

P.S: If he has made this up, I leave him to himself for God to judge. But I can't be sure for I do not reside with him.

hmm... You've spoken well. Depression is real. It's hard finding anything that would uplift my spirit. Probably, a good neighbourhood with proper care would do

FrancisDozie:
Still afraid to go ahead with the suicide?
Emergency Case when you do the needful let me know.
I will celebrate your departure.

hmm... Seems you and nof.avor have a stone heart. I've noticed u guys cruel comments on my threads

modernWays:
You dont have any problem but simply depressed. But here is a good news if you can follow it.

Let me start by saying one of the things that usually deprived us of happiness is "gratitude". As long as you dont appreciate what you have and believe in your ability to make things happen, you will continue to wallowing in fear and sadness. Real happiness lies in gratitude, be gratedul for what you have and try as must as possible to live every moment as your last.

Be conscienceless, put yourself first in everything, give no damn about next man or what he might be thinking about you.

Our minds can make and destroy, causing both physical and psychological pains. And let me tell you this simple secrete, if you dont believe in something, that thing will never ever happens to you. Be a tough man, all your problems will vanish.

hmm.. Thanks. I'll try to let go of my worries and be contented/grateful

Sorry oo Oga o. P, what exactly do you want nairaland to do for you.

So what exactly is your problem?....you have throat problems? ...stomach problems? ....stressed that your mates are progressing? ...some gone abroad but you are stuck in Naija?...want to leave Nigeria?..then say so...and I'll try hook you up. Maybe you're just an attention seeker.

You are heartless. May you find yourself in his situation. Idiot

tee59:
Since there is no solution to your case, better end it yourself by jumping into lagoon and stop disturbing nairaland with your pathetic story.

tee59:
Since there is no solution to your case, better end it yourself by jumping into lagoon and stop disturbing nairaland with your pathetic story.

for a lady and a future mother, u r not a good person. U r Evil and for wishing death to anoda woman's child, may God forgive u

My dear uve been lamenting about your throat, how far have you gone for treatment

Depression is real but u have to be strong I wonder how some people will be wishing a depressed fellow death, its sad that this country have turned so many people heartless

How can one render help to you

This are the kind of cases Seun needs to look into

EmergencyCase:
i doubt if people want to help or if they can even help the situation. All i want now is to live in pity and be pitied, i guess

U are not helping yourself someone is asking what u really want & your saying you want to be pitied

U are nothing but kill joy to yourself