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She's moving to another country for school. Should I be worried?

Trust is more important.. But If she's not worried about u being left behind in ur country , then why worried about her?

why worry? If she's ur future wife,she'll com back to u and if it is not,JUST FORGET IT AND MOVE ON

Kindly move on.
Just assume she's gone for good! If you really want her as a wify, hurry up put a ring on it nnd go do introduction before she steps out. Even that is no guarantee but itz way better than nada!

Should you not be able to do this, move on.

It is not worth the stress, aches and twitches yoo would soon feel!


Let me play you the scenario :

She gets there, quickly get a means to contact you, you guys probably talk thrice a day for the first 1-4months, then she begin to make friends and your talks reduce to every night( her night) because she busy.

Then she meets a guy and the talks further reduce to thrice a week as you start complaining about how she's changed, n she makes work load excuses. Then she creates a situation where you guys have a row. And the talks dips more.....

You would hate yourself.

However , should you still want to keep her, keep hope, you can start browsing other flowers so you don't feel the impact too much.


Just some SENSE PILL

Can you stand the fact that another guy is enjoying her honey pot? If you can then stick to the relationship. Because whether you like it or not she must do it.. body no be firewood. Even you yourself no be firewood.

ZirdoRoray:
Can you stand the fact that another guy is enjoying her honey pot? If you can then stick to the relationship. Because whether you like it or not she must do it.. body no be firewood. Even you yourself no be firewood.

O boy u wan kill me? Na me open the kitty

HARDDON:
Kindly move on.
Just assume she's gone for good! If you really want her as a wify, hurry up put a ring on it nnd go do introduction before she steps out. Even that is no guarantee but itz way better than nada!

Should you not be able to do this, move on.

It is not worth the stress, aches and twitches yoo would soon feel!


Let me play you the scenario :

She gets there, quickly get a means to contact you, you guys probably talk thrice a day for the first 1-4months, then she begin to make friends and your talks reduce to every night( her night) because she busy.

Then she meets a guy and the talks further reduce to thrice a week as you start complaining about how she's changed, n she makes work load excuses. Then she creates a situation where you guys have a row. And the talks dips more.....

You would hate yourself.

However , show you still want to keep her, keep hope, you can start browsing other flowers so you don't feel the impact too much.


Just some SENSE ����

I am her first love, she is 20 and not yet ready for marriage according to her father who I stylishly asked. I am almost part of their family but still trying to hustle to build up my finance. I have given her two more years at least by 22 she can make her own decision, can't let go like that sha but I hope she will be strong when I'm not there cause she easily trust people

peacengine:
I am her first love, she is 20 and not yet ready for marriage according to her father who I stylishly asked. I am almost part of their family but still trying to hustle to build up my finance. I have given her two more years at least by 22 she can make her own decision, can't let go like that sha but I hope she will be strong when I'm not there cause she easily trust people

if u r not ready for marriage now u beta face front to avoid stories that touch

love relocating!!!

Stay friendly but don't consider her a gf anymore. You never know, she might tire after 3 years and look for husband. That could be your ticket outta here.

Here is a smart girl making the right choice by picking her future and career before you while you're are very busy hitting hard on your keypads asking us silly question.

Come, bring your head closer.

Lol..i dont know why am laughing!
If your not relocating with her, its whatsapp relationship you want to do?? .. Well..some will say love is blind, depends on the country shes relocating to sha, if its togo or cotonou your still okay, if its USA, canada,Uk,
Baba just forget..lol!

My 2 cent