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Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by AndLeo(m): 7:15am On Jun 20, 2018 |
hardon1:True. He did not even tell his parents. Assuming he told his parents they could have supported the girl financially if the guy was broke. 8 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Nobody: 7:16am On Jun 20, 2018 |
adorable29: Honestly he failed there. He wasn't there for her. At least he should have carried his family along, maybe they would be together now.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by dingbang(m): 7:20am On Jun 20, 2018 |
freshvine:hi, I like your comments |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Bostin(m): 7:23am On Jun 20, 2018 |
phr0nesis:Amen to your prayer but you don't have control over that , God did. |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by olaboy1: 7:25am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Kids don’t think like selfish adults and that’s why they are kids. They have angelic hearts and understand what true love means. The most important thing is the relationship the little girl is having with her father today and she would forever be grateful for that. I noticed the only thing materialistic adults could pick from this story is a cheap notebook, notebook bought for the purpose of improving contacts, but all the small narrow minded adults could see are bribery and gifts. He has shown his willingness to partake in the child’s life from the long drawn custody battle of 4yrs. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Slimynonny: 7:26am On Jun 20, 2018 |
jeffizy:Dats because he abandoned them when she needed him most. Even wen he planned not to go deep into the relationship, he should hv been there for them 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by greatbuc(m): 7:26am On Jun 20, 2018 |
You didn't win o. She used you against yourself. Made you feel like you fighting for custody but she became tired if your girl. She won't just ignore the two of you so told baby Velma to say that |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by freshvine(f): 7:32am On Jun 20, 2018 |
adorable29: either i lack comprenhension skill or you're emotionally imbalanced. please intepret op for me: "had velma 3 weeks to grad. then the real challenge started. we were in a legal battle. I WANTED TO BE IN MY DAUGHTER'S LIFE SO BAD. the mom got engaged to another man and moved to a DIFFERENT state. I WAS DEVASTATED. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Boyooosa(m): 7:33am On Jun 20, 2018 |
utenwuson:Do u offer to be her biological father then? If not, give them the chance of father to daughter relationship just like the one you enjoyed with ur dad when u were @ her age. |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by tetula123(m): 7:34am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Fuckyoumod:you are stupid my friend, I never said he was a bad father, but since you want to start pointing at the good he did, what about the fact he never wanted the kid and abandoned his pregnant girlfriend with his kid. why not point that out as well.. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Boyooosa(m): 7:36am On Jun 20, 2018 |
tetula123:I knew immediately that blood will flow here |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by tetula123(m): 7:40am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Boyooosa:lol ...i thought of ignoring him, but why the insult, I made an innocent comment. |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Teacher1776(m): 7:41am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Ugosample: Hello, we are talking about a 4 year old girl here. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by andyanders: 7:44am On Jun 20, 2018 |
adorable29:You said the bitter truth. No matter how he claim to be a good guy to the baby, he was a bad guy to the lady because it wasn't her fault alone to have planted the baby to her womb. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Bullhari007(m): 7:47am On Jun 20, 2018 |
useless yellowbar demons keep producing bastards anywhere they find themselves, YOU are not ready to settle down but you can fvck her kitten... irresponsible slowpoke 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Boyooosa(m): 7:51am On Jun 20, 2018 |
tetula123:But sincerely, the guy shouldn't be totally crucified. Consider the age as at that time and his exposure to life handling such situation, most especially when he was not with his parents around to give him the appropriate giudance. Thank God he relatively came back so early and not like naija situation, that period for the girl was just too short to move on except if he denied her. Picture this, if the lady was the one forcing life out of him to be a responsible man that he couldn't afford then, how do u justify ur stand here? |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by tetula123(m): 8:02am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Boyooosa:heheehehe I never even saw the dude as a bad person, but having the guts to keep having a child to yourself, I no fit do am at all. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by kenex4ever(m): 8:02am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Nice one. The mother may be black too, she is not having any white features but it happens sometimes with interracial parents. |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Daeylar(f): 8:22am On Jun 20, 2018 |
adorable29: I noticed that as well. Selfish, inconsiderate man child coldly told the poor girl that he is not ready for anything extra, Just imagine coldly, callously and foolishly calling the child growing in your woman's womb as "anything extra" no wonder she took the baby and ran He didn't know he was a broke college student when he was fuckiñg raw. When the baby came that's when his stupid head did a reset and he then remembered that he was a broke college student. And when the selfish pathetic excuse of a man decides that he is ready after the girl has gone through all the work of being pregnant Alone and taking care of the child, he is now acting as if he deserves praises and trying to shade the baby mama I don't even think he can be a parent. He seems to think that a child is "anything extra" that he can decide to take care of when he chooses to and when he doesn't choose to, he thinks he can just say "I'm not ready for anything extra" and move on with his life. No wonder she didn't allow him see the child. A child needs a stable parent. Not a parent that will be there based on their convenience. He hasn't even realized how extremely immature he acted., especially as he posted this story to praise himself. He seems to think what he did was right. Nonsense. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by phr0nesis(m): 8:23am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Bostin: One of the many reasons I always seek Him (God) |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Daeylar(f): 8:24am On Jun 20, 2018 |
adorable29: Thank you They do this a lot It's annoying and pathetic. And the worst part is that the same men they are trying too hard to impress are the first to crucify them 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by addicted268(f): 8:31am On Jun 20, 2018 |
tetula123: True that, but I don't think people can make bold to say to you face to face the things they hide n say to you behind their computers.it is faceless and everyone appears bold. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by FBIL: 8:35am On Jun 20, 2018 |
In the voice of PhinoPhyno...! Yetunde, every day you like to...and samanpe Brother Nnamdi, all your friends.... like to...samanpe I tell you, you no gree gbagam! I tell you, you no gree... When the time ripe my brother.., ehh..telli person, telli person. You didn't tell your your parents when the time was ripe after your samanpe. You told the girl, ''she no gree''. And you come name her ''Yetunde''. You strong oh...! Just play this music to see your life summarized in this 4-minute song. |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by adorable29(f): 8:40am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Boyooosa: So much stupidity in a single post. Firstly, stupidity made you reason that 29 there means age and even if it did that this is 2018 and marriage is no longer used to shame people. Stupidity made you reason I was single or married. Stupidity made you not infer logically that he didn't want ANYTHING to do with the child whom he inferred was a distraction to him until he was done with school forgetting that his girlfriend was also in school. Stupidity is saying a woman shouldn't have a relationship two years after having a child. Stupidity is saying she "took advantage of a broke guy" as it relates to to the story. Stupidity is you not realising that now they have settled the issue, he didn't need to start shading the woman on social media and painting himself the angel. Stupidity is you not realising that he shouldn't have said the 4 year child chose him knowing fully well that even if by a LONG STRETCH they go to court and the case is not thrown out, the child will be seen as too young to make that decision for the court. . After all said and done, you are just a stupendous imp. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Nobody: 8:40am On Jun 20, 2018 |
mejai: Nigger said he was broke, what do you want again? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Saintmary(f): 8:50am On Jun 20, 2018 |
adorable29:It's so saddening 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Saintmary(f): 8:57am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Boyooosa:Does a good man abandon a pregnant woman? 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Saintmary(f): 9:04am On Jun 20, 2018 |
charliboy654:It's hard to see the positive side here. He rejected a child before she was born, walked away, came back to sabotage the mother's authority over the child, and all other things he didn't mention. Where's the positive? 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by Bostin(m): 9:12am On Jun 20, 2018 |
phr0nesis:Seek him and do his will. |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by ogakizito(m): 9:18am On Jun 20, 2018 |
phr0nesis: spot on. best way to avoid these dramas is by not playing a role in it. grab a seat and be a spectator at most 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by phr0nesis(m): 9:19am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Bostin:Thank you |
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