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THESE ARE 6 REALITY STAGES IN MARRIAGE.

1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE :
This is the "wow" stage in marriage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing.

Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun.

Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It’s the honeymoon stage and it’s so so beautiful.

2. THE IRRITATION STAGE:
This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn’t in your marriage .

The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won’t bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. “What’s just wrong with this guy?” You think aloud, well it’s part of marriage.

3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit.

It’s the stage you begin to wonder: “have I really married the wrong guy?” “Have I married the wrong woman?” No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together in your marriage.

4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE:
When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner’s weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.

5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses in the marriage.

6. THE RESTFUL STAGE:
This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don’t have to abuse your spouse or keep malice, If Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a heaven on earth experience.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

FROM:
http://www.ladiesgist.com/6-reality-stages-that-defines-marriage/

Cc: Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Only an insane man will want marriage. Marry is an institution programed to benefits women

mimimile93:
Only an insane man will want marriage. Marry is an institution programed to benefits women

You go still marry las las.

UyaiIncomparabl:

You go still marry las las.

Na u I go marry..

mimimile93:

Na u I go marry..

I'm sorry Bro. this girl UyaiIncomparabl is married to me

Teenagers and indomie children will not understand. They want only stage one. Any thing from stage 2, you will see them on social media showcasing their immaturity.

A journey of a thousand miles

zomoears:
Teenagers and indomie children will not understand. They want only stage one. Any thing from stage 2, you will see them on social media showcasing their immaturity.

Sorry, maybe you grew up in a certain environment.
Total falacy

mimimile93:
Only an insane man will want marriage. Marry is an institution programed to benefits women

LadiesGist:
A journey of a thousand miles

If only they will stay in it and work it out without the show of immaturity and intolerance...

anochuko01:
I'm sorry Bro. this girl UyaiIncomparabl is married to me

Bruv you can have her all you want. I ain't dragging a ho.e with you.

LadiesGist:
Sorry, maybe you grew up in a certain environment.
Total falacy

List five things a man can benefits from marriage apart from sex that it's not even free. Cause his wife will still charge him for sex.

mimimile93:

Bruv you can have her all you want. I ain't dragging a ho.e with you.

lmao! your defence strong pass mourinho team o!

LadiesGist:
A journey of a thousand miles

i guess u wanted to say A journey of a Trillion miles.

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FROM:
http://www.ladiesgist.com/6-reality-stages-that-defines-marriage/

Impressive......

May you be blessed with one of the best husbands,, if you are married already,, may you be blessed with one of the best homes....

Amen

austyn0:
Impressive......

May you be blessed with one of the best husbands,, if you are married already,, may you be blessed with one of the best homes....

anochuko01:

I'm sorry Bro. this girl UyaiIncomparabl is married to me

No unsolicited attention will be attended to!

mimimile93:


Bruv you can have her all you want. I ain't dragging a ho.e with you.

I'll forgive you for this time. Just so you know, i do not accept that. That's totally vile and vulgar. I cannot condone that. Let it never ever repeat itself again. You can rigmarole around venting your anger, dude, I care less. I'll never give you the attention you seek, and please never ever mention me. Thanks.

UyaiIncomparabl:

No unsolicited attention will be attended to!

lol i know you wouldnt give him attention. thats why youre bae

anochuko01:

lol
i know you wouldnt give him attention. thats why youre bae

Na you i dey follow yan, dude!

UyaiIncomparabl:

Na you i dey follow yan, dude!

me? oh yeah! i know i'm the only one you'll give attention hope you're fine! you get wig for guys?

Farano
Rocktation
Myn44
Lalasticlala
Seun

Isn't this post good enough for the front page?
It's really bad that good contents on Nairaland ends up been abandoned and derailed, this should not be so!

That's what you think. If I marry, we will have to come to an agreement. If she deviates, we go our separate ways.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You go still marry las las.

LadiesGist:


Isn't this post good enough for the front page?
It's really bad that good contents on Nairaland ends up been abandoned and derailed, this should not be so!

Did you copy it from here?

https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/11406/6-stages-of-marriage-everybody-should-know-about.html

UyaiIncomparabl:


You go still marry las las.

And he will even dance more than the woman

Sounds about right

Eyii.. werin concern us wey no want marriage wahala.. na contract sure pass abeg..

ImaIma1:


And he will even dance more than the woman

You know too much, Eyeneka.

Lala, we gave credit to the original writer in our publication, your link is not the original writer.

Meanwhile nobody has posted it on nairaland too, this is a piece of information.

lalasticlala:


Did you copy it from here?

https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/11406/6-stages-of-marriage-everybody-should-know-about.html