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Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 5:58am On Jul 02, 2018
good morning Nairaland. please I'm seeking for advice concerning my relationship.
I broke up with my ex last year due to some reasons, but at about 3 months ago, I go into another one but this new relationship is giving me a lot of concern.
my mind is not always at rest with my new girlfriend. my mind always keep telling me she have someone else, though I've beg her several times to tell me d truth but she keep saying she have no 1 else.
that's even not the issue. Anytime I try to call. her, she won't be reachable. I keep wondering y her number is always switch off, until yesterday when she came to visit me, that was when I saw her phone on Airplane mode. I confronted her y she did dat, but she said she don't want anyone to disturb her with call.
please what do you guys think it's happening here
though she's a student, she never stop asking me for assistance.. always in need. what do u think is going on?
does that mean she didn't love me, she's after money and also having extra relationship

thank you for your time reading this. please ignore my grammatical errors. thanks
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by oniru4real: 6:03am On Jul 02, 2018
Japa guy dnt waste ur time with her she will use u and leave u . Start looking for a better person.

Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dingbang(m): 6:05am On Jul 02, 2018
Make I follow laugh too cheesy

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Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by AntiWailer: 6:07am On Jul 02, 2018
Hmm
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 6:21am On Jul 02, 2018
please take me as a bro. I seriously need advice because I love this girl but she's giving me reasons to doubt her.
thanks @ oniru4real
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by Kastonkastroll(m): 6:30am On Jul 02, 2018
Your post ✉ reeks of insecurity.

In as much as most naija girls ain't loyal, there are still some of them that are not cheats and love ❤ you for who you are and not for what you have.


Learn to trust your girl � undecided
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by Nobody: 6:51am On Jul 02, 2018
Let me tell you the fact, she's not your woman.... I experienced it before back in school and she later open ed up that she has someone else in her house and we broke up....dont go further with her and also reduce the attention you're giving her like money and rest, you will see the real her..... Money can't be a good relationship

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Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 6:57am On Jul 02, 2018
darol4real:
Let me tell you the fact, she's not your woman.... I experienced it before back in school and she later open ed up that she has someone else in her house and we broke up....dont go further with her and also reduce the attention you're giving her like money and rest, you will see the real her..... Money can't be a good relationship

I really appreciate your comment.. though I don't really give her cash.. she never know I'm working because I don't tell her. I decided to do that so she won't be demanding like it's her right.
I'm old enough and I know what relationship is all about.. it's coz of d love I've for her that's still making me seek for advice.. thank you so much bro
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by taiwiki(m): 6:57am On Jul 02, 2018
dierich:
what do u think is going on?
does that mean she didn't love me, she's after money and also having extra relationship
I believe you already know the answer to these questions but you need confirmation from nairalanders.

I'm sure you will get plenty grin
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 6:58am On Jul 02, 2018
Kastonkastroll:
Your post ✉ reeks of insecurity.

In as much as most naija girls ain't loyal, there are still some of them that are not cheats and love ❤ you for who you are and not for what you have.


Learn to trust your girl � undecided

thanks so much bro.
I've been trying so hard to trust, but the past experiences and what I've came across with my friends also give me more concern about ladies
I appreciate your comment bro
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by QuietHammer(m): 6:59am On Jul 02, 2018
What do you think we are? Mind readers?
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by WhiZTiM(m): 7:12am On Jul 02, 2018
Dude, 99% is the chance that you are the deputy boyfriend.

Think about it, if it's not on flight mode, the real boyfriend may disturb while she's with you... Likewise, you may disturb while she's with boo number 1.

If this continues into your 3rd or 4th month, I increase my stakes to 100% that you are assistant vice-deputy boyfriend grin

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Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by austinereds(m): 7:39am On Jul 02, 2018
sometimes it just better to shag ladies and move forward. they don't deserve Love. they are always into relationships for there selfish interest. so bro that your love start withdrawing small small. treat her like trash. never love a woman with your heart always your head.
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by MartinCorridon: 7:50am On Jul 02, 2018
WhiZTiM:
Dude, 99% is the chance that you are the deputy boyfriend.

Think about it, if it's not on flight mode, the real boyfriend may disturb while she's with you... Likewise, you may disturb while she's with boo number 1.

If this continues into your 3rd or 4th month, I increase my stakes to 100% that you are assistant vice-deputy boyfriend grin

LOL.... i thought i was the only one using the assistant BF tag to tease...

Assistant vice-deputy is a new one grin

Air-plane mode = the girl has a harem of Magas
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by WhiZTiM(m): 8:31am On Jul 02, 2018
MartinCorridon:


LOL.... i thought i was the only one using the assistant BF tag to tease...

Assistant vice-deputy is a new one grin

Air-plane mode = the girl has a harem of Magas

...lol. as in ehh.. in more clear terms;

The OP is the assistant to someone, who is the vice to the deputy boyfriend grin
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by samysmoothfresh: 8:40am On Jul 02, 2018
.i was gonna tell you to "do away with your insecurites and learn to trust your bae cos a relationship without trust is hot rice without salt" until i saw that phrase "she's always in need"


bro are you mad? undecided


do you want to die? undecided


dont you understand what that phraze mean? undecided


do you need sango to tell you before you know you have to run for your life? undecided


which kain rubbish love you dey talk about sef? undecided


na so dem dey carry dey love person wey always dey in need? undecided


she be sickler abi diabled person wey she go always dey in need? undecided
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 9:26am On Jul 02, 2018
I really appreciate everyone for ur contributions. I think I've had enough advice. thanks so much
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by sylvez(m): 9:56am On Jul 02, 2018
dierich:
please take me as a bro. I seriously need advice because I love this girl but she's giving me reasons to doubt her.
thanks @ oniru4real


The best way to test this relationShip is to dump it in Lagos lagoon and see whether it will float.

on a more serious note, just like someone has said, stop rendering those financial assistance and the rest of it, don't brake up with her, just friend zone her except you want to knack her kpekus, if you want to knack her kpekus, do it on time, while trying to do it don't waste your money on her, just use your WOM words of mouth...

on a lighter note, if you are a poor boy and na woman wey be your wahala and a girl who might even be richer than you is still doing you like this....then you will die POOR

last last, if you nova born again and you come die poor, my brother, seriously, your case is different.

REPENT TODAY.

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