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Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 5:58am On Jul 02, 2018 |
good morning Nairaland. please I'm seeking for advice concerning my relationship. I broke up with my ex last year due to some reasons, but at about 3 months ago, I go into another one but this new relationship is giving me a lot of concern. my mind is not always at rest with my new girlfriend. my mind always keep telling me she have someone else, though I've beg her several times to tell me d truth but she keep saying she have no 1 else. that's even not the issue. Anytime I try to call. her, she won't be reachable. I keep wondering y her number is always switch off, until yesterday when she came to visit me, that was when I saw her phone on Airplane mode. I confronted her y she did dat, but she said she don't want anyone to disturb her with call. please what do you guys think it's happening here though she's a student, she never stop asking me for assistance.. always in need. what do u think is going on? does that mean she didn't love me, she's after money and also having extra relationship thank you for your time reading this. please ignore my grammatical errors. thanks |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by oniru4real: 6:03am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Japa guy dnt waste ur time with her she will use u and leave u . Start looking for a better person.
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Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dingbang(m): 6:05am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Make I follow laugh too 1 Like |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by AntiWailer: 6:07am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Hmm |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 6:21am On Jul 02, 2018 |
please take me as a bro. I seriously need advice because I love this girl but she's giving me reasons to doubt her. thanks @ oniru4real |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by Kastonkastroll(m): 6:30am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Your post ✉ reeks of insecurity. In as much as most naija girls ain't loyal, there are still some of them that are not cheats and love ❤ you for who you are and not for what you have. Learn to trust your girl � |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by Nobody: 6:51am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Let me tell you the fact, she's not your woman.... I experienced it before back in school and she later open ed up that she has someone else in her house and we broke up....dont go further with her and also reduce the attention you're giving her like money and rest, you will see the real her..... Money can't be a good relationship 2 Likes |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 6:57am On Jul 02, 2018 |
darol4real: I really appreciate your comment.. though I don't really give her cash.. she never know I'm working because I don't tell her. I decided to do that so she won't be demanding like it's her right. I'm old enough and I know what relationship is all about.. it's coz of d love I've for her that's still making me seek for advice.. thank you so much bro |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by taiwiki(m): 6:57am On Jul 02, 2018 |
dierich:I believe you already know the answer to these questions but you need confirmation from nairalanders. I'm sure you will get plenty |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 6:58am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Kastonkastroll: thanks so much bro. I've been trying so hard to trust, but the past experiences and what I've came across with my friends also give me more concern about ladies I appreciate your comment bro |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by QuietHammer(m): 6:59am On Jul 02, 2018 |
What do you think we are? Mind readers? |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by WhiZTiM(m): 7:12am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Dude, 99% is the chance that you are the deputy boyfriend. Think about it, if it's not on flight mode, the real boyfriend may disturb while she's with you... Likewise, you may disturb while she's with boo number 1. If this continues into your 3rd or 4th month, I increase my stakes to 100% that you are assistant vice-deputy boyfriend 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by austinereds(m): 7:39am On Jul 02, 2018 |
sometimes it just better to shag ladies and move forward. they don't deserve Love. they are always into relationships for there selfish interest. so bro that your love start withdrawing small small. treat her like trash. never love a woman with your heart always your head. |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by MartinCorridon: 7:50am On Jul 02, 2018 |
WhiZTiM: LOL.... i thought i was the only one using the assistant BF tag to tease... Assistant vice-deputy is a new one Air-plane mode = the girl has a harem of Magas |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by WhiZTiM(m): 8:31am On Jul 02, 2018 |
MartinCorridon: ...lol. as in ehh.. in more clear terms; The OP is the assistant to someone, who is the vice to the deputy boyfriend |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by samysmoothfresh: 8:40am On Jul 02, 2018 |
.i was gonna tell you to "do away with your insecurites and learn to trust your bae cos a relationship without trust is hot rice without salt" until i saw that phrase "she's always in need" bro are you mad? do you want to die? dont you understand what that phraze mean? do you need sango to tell you before you know you have to run for your life? which kain rubbish love you dey talk about sef? na so dem dey carry dey love person wey always dey in need? she be sickler abi diabled person wey she go always dey in need? |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by dierich: 9:26am On Jul 02, 2018 |
I really appreciate everyone for ur contributions. I think I've had enough advice. thanks so much |
Re: Please, I Need Advice On My New Relationship by sylvez(m): 9:56am On Jul 02, 2018 |
dierich: The best way to test this relationShip is to dump it in Lagos lagoon and see whether it will float. on a more serious note, just like someone has said, stop rendering those financial assistance and the rest of it, don't brake up with her, just friend zone her except you want to knack her kpekus, if you want to knack her kpekus, do it on time, while trying to do it don't waste your money on her, just use your WOM words of mouth... on a lighter note, if you are a poor boy and na woman wey be your wahala and a girl who might even be richer than you is still doing you like this....then you will die POOR last last, if you nova born again and you come die poor, my brother, seriously, your case is different. REPENT TODAY. |
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