Massmike:
Remember friendship is a relationship; two parties are involved. The people involved must show signs of devotion to the cause.

If you are trying your best and the other person is not then check again because the so called "FRIENDSHIP" you think exists might just be over hyped "AQUAINTANCY".

then in my case is Aquaintancy, then I have to treat it like that

victorian:
Simply cut him off. Block him know watsapp, block his number, block his messages. If he confronts u face to face, tell him to his face u are sick and tired of his friendship and u are done. You've moved on! Abi did God create both of you together ni?
Am done! Just stop bugging me!
He will leave u alone
I did the same to a lady friend who was annoying. Mehn na for phone I take scream for her head! After telling her, her own life history, and reminding her she was once in my shoes. Then lastly I said biko leave me the hell alone!
Then I cut the call and blocked her. That's the end of Solomon Grande. And am at peace till date. So simple!

Although if the blocking app is not on your phone, some will insult back o. With nasty words.. At the end, after back and forth Insults, u tell the person, leave me hand ooo. Is it byforce! Just leave me the hell alone! And go your own way! See me see trouble o! Yes! You can do without me, I agree! then leave me the hell alone! Na wa o. :DLol. When he or she is tired insulting they will stop and leave u. At that moment just block your eyes unconsciously from reading their nasty texts and delete immediately u see their alerts.

if I do all this, am I not harbouring him in my mind, will I find peace afterwards?

Moblord:
free his way. he is not your friend. stop being close to him and don't let him know ur secrets and problems

unfortunately I am a kind of person that if you associate yourself with me, I will tell you all my problems and even some secret, I'm a kind of open person

mrpoul:

if I do all this, am I not harbouring him in my mind, will I find peace afterwards?

At all! When u do all this. Throughout that day u will feel angry and worked up, it's normal.
But after that day, u forget about him and move on with your life. It's all in the mind. Cut him off and meant it. Don't look back. Hang out with people who makes u laugh and happy. He's not the only friend u have nah?

Well if he is? Associate with people who are funny with positive mind and don't be too quick to trust another person. Study people well for months, before choosing one to trust as your confidante.

Move on jare. Stop tying yourself down with one negative disloyal person u call friend.

mrpoul:

unfortunately I am a kind of person that if you associate yourself with me, I will tell you all my problems and even some secret, I'm a kind of open person

Mehn! Don't! Try and change that part of you. Cause some people smiling at you and coming close are doing such to know your secret and use it against you or mock u with it. They are not smiling with u because they like you, na lie o! Be careful with people. Learn to hold your feelings and tongue when meeting a smiling and friendly person. Behind that smike lies a wolf or a snake in human form.

Some are sincere but it's not stamped on the forehead. So hold yourself and watch that friend before trusting him or her with your life and secrets. Pls! You will live longer if u do.

mrpoul:
like I have a problem I told him, he went and told my other friends in a mockery way

Stay away asap.

SalamRushdie:


Don't keep malice just draw the line and watch him fade away , don't call him , don't return his calls , don't initiate unnecessary chat with him , don't tell him about yiur plans again .., start doing extra curricular activities without him : e.g like going to beach or movies ....respond to his chats who one liners and finally find a me sidekick friend even if it's temporary and watch him fade away .... Any friend that makes u unhappy or tense when they are around is not your friend

God bless you! Exactly what I did to one m0ron I call a 'best friend' .No time for negative & toxic friends.

Netanyahu1:
Stay away asap.

okay

victorian:








Mehn! Don't! Try and change that part of you. Cause some people smiling at you and coming close are doing such to know your secret and use it against you or mock u with it. They are not smiling with u because they like you, na lie o! Be careful with people. Learn to hold your feelings and tongue when meeting a smiling and friendly person. Behind that smike lies a wolf or a snake in human form.

Some are sincere but it's not stamped on the forehead. So hold yourself and watch that friend before trusting him or her with your life and secrets. Pls! You will live longer if u do.

I will try, I know it won't be easy

victorian:






At all! When u do all this. Throughout that day u will feel angry and worked up, it's normal.
But after that day, u forget about him and move on with your life. It's all in the mind. Cut him off and meant it. Don't look back. Hang out with people who makes u laugh and happy. He's not the only friend u have nah?

Well if he is? Associate with people who are funny with positive mind and don't be too quick to trust another person. Study people well for months, before choosing one to trust as your confidante.

Move on jare. Stop tying yourself down with one negative disloyal person u call friend.

I will try

mrpoul:

unfortunately I am a kind of person that if you associate yourself with me, I will tell you all my problems and even some secret, I'm a kind of open person

Too kind to make him an exception?

Moblord:
Too kind to make him an exception?

yeah

mrpoul:
yeah

okay continue. The last thing I'll say to u is "Life is too short to spend with people that make u sad

I did it, I finally told him to distant himself from me, Now I have peace of mind. Indeed life is too short to spend with people that make u sad, thank to u all for all d advice.