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Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Beautiful. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
"Children must be able to play, study and grow in a peaceful environment. Woe to anyone who stifles their joyful impulse to hope!" Pope Francis 1 Like |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Somatic(m): 10:34pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
Lalasticlala we see you. Front page loading. |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by freshbear(m): 11:33pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
wow!love this thread. Lots of lessons to take home. Read what some peeps went thru because of family (the doctor) unbelievable n sad. I can relate to a lot of what PEO wrote esp d entitlement mentality. I have learnt n shall put to practice some intelligent response. yes I am a parent. OP,much love for this insightful thread. pls fellas in our closet let's spare a word to God for DAT doctor. oneluv. |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by lopside12: 6:44am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Dfavouredone: Everything was becoming lovely until the bolded broke my heart.. May her soul rest in peace knowing she raised moral child(ren) |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by lalasticlala(m): 10:48am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Somatic: Already made FP. I just like the thread, I'm reading to learn 4 Likes |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by geekybabe(f): 7:25pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
Hmm |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Dfavouredone: 9:55pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
lopside12: My dear, it was a very terrible blow. But what can one do than to live on such that her efforts are not in vain. |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by kyutepanda(f): 7:34am On Jun 21, 2018 |
The you spoil everything i get for you talk, and mam's unending nagging chai very annoying they know how to swing someone's innocent mood ehn but they sha are the best life can offer me |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by addictiv(m): 9:37am On Jun 21, 2018 |
Going through this thread made me realise I have great parents and so much to be thankful and grateful for. My mum and dad are amazing couples. They have there shortcomings but they always do therein best. But now I would ensure I believe in my kids. I ll train and mentor them on the art of strategy, how to court a lady, how to run a business, how to save and invest. I ll show them the magic of hardwork, focus consistency and discipline. I ll ensure that they follow their dreams and passions and not decide for them. When a decision is to be made , education, Marriage, I ll ask them these two questions, what do you think, and what do you want. I won't I assume I know the best for them without wanting to hear them out. I ll instill self confidence in them from a very tender age . I ll make them belive that all things are possible. I ll apologise when am wrong. I ll let them go out and make friends. I ll encourage them to try out those ideas, fail and make mistakes. I won't force them to sit at the sidelines while I do everything myself because I don't want them to mess things up. 2 Likes |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by addictiv(m): 10:21am On Jun 21, 2018 |
themodernman:Even if u shoot them all with a gun. The pain u feel inside will never go away. The forgiveness is not for them. It's for you. You have to set urself free bro. There is much more to life than waiting to pay back. The pay back opprtunity you are waiting for may never come and you will have lived your life under oppression. You have to let things go. With your experience you can change the lives of so many persons going through the same situation you faced. 2 Likes |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Chevrolet076(m): 12:08pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
sassysure:. ODE NI E.. |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Dasherz:I thought You loved your parents? |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Dasherz(f): 11:32pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
doesn't make me love them less Admin401: |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Dasherz: Its does. It actually means you resent them, subconsciously ofcourse. |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Dasherz(f): 12:47am On Jul 07, 2018 |
lol I'll pass Admin401: |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Dfavouredone: This broke my heart! Come see tears soak up my top! Thank you for sharing this! You are blessed and I wish you the world on a silver platter... 3 Likes |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
i will NEVER treat my female chindren like they are loosed/prostitutes i will NEVER cut my female childrens hair as a form of punishment to bend their wings because i percieve they have started following boys i will NEVER beat my children and give them scars unecessarily because i feel that is the only way they will listen i will NEVER EVER blame my children for my predicament/transfer aggression to my children weneva i am not performing well financially i will TRY to be very close to my children so they can tell me their inner most fear and i will give my advice and pray along with them i will NEVER give my children the impresion that marriage is HELL by showing utmost love care respect to their father so they can learn from their parents marriage. because i remeber growing up and myself and my sisters told my mum that if this is what marriage is like (AM REFERING TO MY PARENTS MARRIAGE) then we will never get married. i will TRY ALL to work hard and plan well for the future with hubby so my children can have a very comfortable life. because i remeber growing up and my parents didnt plan their finances well, it wasnt that they were poor. NO! They were both working class but they lacked proper financial planning and this affected a lot. OH i had a lot to learn from but i am just to lazy to type.lol... SO HELP ME GOD 2 Likes |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 7:20am On Jul 25, 2018 |
I will love my wife endlessly and transfer same love to my children. I won't send my children to leave with any of my siblings unless for holiday. If I get to loose my wife early like my father lost my mother early I won't marry another wife once I have up to 2 gender kids(boy and girl) I will work hard to make sure they chase any dream they aspire as kids. I will learn my children and treat them according to what I know about them and don't hit them when they err. This will I do for upcoming generations, all things being equal. I never got to experience complete childhood because of my upbringing. All my siblings are intelligent but none went to school. Mom died early and dad married immediately that's where our problems started. 1 Like |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by Nobody: 9:37am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Heroyalhighness:Hmmm. God help us all. You went through a lot. It must have made you become the strong personality you are today. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by alexola20(m): 4:27am On Sep 15, 2018 |
Re: Name A Parenting Trait From Your Parents You Would Never Emulate by alexola20(m): 4:52am On Sep 15, 2018 |
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