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Dilemma...!!!!!! by carlsmith7(op): 12:22pm On Jul 07, 2018

There's this girl I met at a bar so we exchange numbers and after sometime you know we got to know each other very well ,we just got talking as friends ,nothing attached . after sometime, you know we did the expected and now I have no doubt that she really loves me...... she buys me stuff but the thing is I do not love her and little did I know she has pneumonia she's involved her siblings and told them like this is the guy she likes and she wants to marry and the funny part is I've not even asked her out yet.....like we just had sex once and she's taking it off so seriously ......guys I have someone I love and someone I want to engage ....what do you think I should do huh

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Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by amaniro: 12:28pm On Jul 07, 2018

carlsmith7:
There's this girl I met at a bar so we exchange numbers and after sometime you know we got to know each other very well ,we just got talking as friends ,nothing attached . after sometime, you know we did the expected and now I have no doubt that she really loves me...... she buys me stuff but the thing is I do not love her and little did I know she has pneumonia she's involved her siblings and told them like this is the guy she likes and she wants to marry and the funny part is I've not even asked her out yet.....like we just had sex once and she's taking it off so seriously ......guys I have someone I love and someone I want to engage ....what do you think I should do

tell her, gently. I don't see us in the future as couples just friends
since you're already in a relationship.... you guys should just be close friends introduce her to your girlfriend or do u feel something for her?

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by CANDYDADDY(m): 12:28pm On Jul 07, 2018

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Bluezy13(m): 2:42pm On Jul 07, 2018

I always try not to start what I can't finish.

Why did you walk into her life in the first place huh

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Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Olalan(m): 3:32pm On Jul 07, 2018

You aren't sincere with the lady, you simply used her as a tool to satisfy your sexual urge. Pls do well to state to her in clear terms you can't be with her due to your current relationship

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 4:22pm On Jul 07, 2018

Bluezy13:
I always try not to start what I can't finish.

Why did you walk into her life in the first place

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by RobinHood147: 4:40pm On Jul 07, 2018

carlsmith7:
There's this girl I met at a bar so we exchange numbers and after sometime you know we got to know each other very well ,we just got talking as friends ,nothing attached . after sometime, you know we did the expected and now I have no doubt that she really loves me...... she buys me stuff but the thing is I do not love her and little did I know she has pneumonia she's involved her siblings and told them like this is the guy she likes and she wants to marry and the funny part is I've not even asked her out yet.....like we just had sex once and she's taking it off so seriously ......guys I have someone I love and someone I want to engage ....what do you think I should do

When you wanted to do Kerewa, it didn’t occur to you that you love someone else not her.

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Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Bluezy13(m): 7:22pm On Jul 07, 2018

Oyindidi:

I told you I'll redeem my pledge.
I intend to.
Besides, we didn't decide when the pledge was to be redeemed.
That's by the way.
I can't buy an airtime from where I am, I have you in mind all day. I would... or rather it would be pertinent I recharge your line directly.

Anyways, however else you want to get it, let me know but can't buy it myself, I'm privileged to, Ma.

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 7:26pm On Jul 07, 2018

Bluezy13:
I told you I'll redeem my pledge.
I intend to.
Besides, we didn't decide when the pledge was to be redeemed.
That's by the way.
I can't buy an airtime from where I am, I have you in mind all day. I would... or rather it would be pertinent I recharge your line directly.

Anyways, however else you want to get it, let me know but can't buy it myself, I'm privileged to, Ma.

OK, mention me on a dead thread let me drop my contact

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Bluezy13(m): 7:28pm On Jul 07, 2018

Oyindidi:
OK, mention me on a dead thread let me drop my contact

I'll do that.

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 7:29pm On Jul 07, 2018

Bluezy13:
I'll do that.

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 7:26pm On Jul 09, 2018

Oyindidi:
OK, mention me on a dead thread let me drop my contact

Milemimi93, mimimile93 see this post

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by milemimi93(m): 8:21pm On Jul 09, 2018

carlsmith7:
There's this girl I met at a bar so we exchange numbers and after sometime you know we got to know each other very well ,we just got talking as friends ,nothing attached . after sometime, you know we did the expected and now I have no doubt that she really loves me...... she buys me stuff but the thing is I do not love her and little did I know she has pneumonia she's involved her siblings and told them like this is the guy she likes and she wants to marry and the funny part is I've not even asked her out yet.....like we just had sex once and she's taking it off so seriously ......guys I have someone I love and someone I want to engage ....what do you think I should do

Invite her to your place, play "Deuces" by Chris Brown then repeat that verse by K Mc that says

" Deuces, we ain't got no future in tomorrow"

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by milemimi93(m): 8:22pm On Jul 09, 2018

Oyindidi:
Milemimi93, mimimile93 see this post

How do one know a dead thread?

What do u mean by dead thread?

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 09, 2018

YOU ARE WICKED

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 9:13pm On Jul 09, 2018

milemimi93:
How do one know a dead thread?

What do u mean by dead thread?

A thread people don't view or post on. You go there to derail without anyone chasing you out of his/her thread and the mods won't ban you too. The mod can ban us on this thread cos its active. We are derailing

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by milemimi93(m): 9:18pm On Jul 09, 2018

Oyindidi:
A thread people don't view or post on. You go there to derail without anyone chasing you out of his/her thread and the mods won't ban you too. The mod can ban us on this thread cos its active. We are derailing

Ok. Thank you

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Olalan(m): 9:19pm On Jul 09, 2018

Really how do people have good relationship they can't let go of and still flirt with another person. You simply led her on be courageous enough to end her fairly wish of marrying you by telling her the truth about her status in your life

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by milemimi93(m): 9:19pm On Jul 09, 2018

Oyindidi that sugar mommy thread people viewed and also posted

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 9:19pm On Jul 09, 2018

milemimi93:
Ok. Thank you

Let's not derail further.

Re: Dilemma...!!!!!! by Oyindidi(f): 9:20pm On Jul 09, 2018

milemimi93:
Oyindidi that sugar mommy thread people viewed and also posted

Chai! It's not my thread

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