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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ebuka10box(m): 10:55pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
bro this is real life.....gamble is very bad bro u haven't played gamble like me oooo ,I played it ehhhh till I was thinking otherwise and acting crazy. u gotta stop man, u no go fit make am with gambling bro. u would send a Dm let's chat privately... I pray the Senate bans this game cause it's killing youths in the country 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by SammyJakes1: 11:55pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Koralords:You're the real man of the match |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 5:01am On Jul 09, 2018 |
ebuka10box:thanks sir. sent you a mail. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Mrkarlz(m): 6:56am On Jul 09, 2018 |
Xtine22: lol.. is that the kind advice you can give hardlife |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Greatimarh: 7:17am On Jul 09, 2018 |
my friend..listen to me..virtual can't ruin your life, only you can..i was addicted to bet9ja..i lost millions..i lost myself..i lost everything..but one day..i decided not to win my money back..dat is the beginning of your freedom. .believe that God will restore all you have lost..pick your life from where you are..try and get a job..something to keep your mind busy..i returned to God..surrendered to him because he is the one that gives power to Get wealth...i asked for his help..i told my friends and pastors..i admitted i was an addict..they prayed with me..i haven't gone back to gambling since then..that is not the way..at least not my way if not i would have hit big for close to 4 years..i lost multiple school fees, convocation money..i lost on behalf of my siblings sef..borrowed to play..i lost more and more...u will keep loosing brother unless you make that decision..that path eventually leads to depression and suicidal thoughts..i know because i have been there.. make that decision today...God will help you..my life is back now..i am happy..gradually, my dreams will come true ..urs too will bro..u can send me a mail...we will chat privately... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 09, 2018 |
b0rn2fuck: Bro, there is nothing like "money you don't need". 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by stagger: 8:30am On Jul 09, 2018 |
writerights: That phrase refers to money that won't make you lose sleep if you lose it. See? |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:48am On Jul 09, 2018 |
stagger:when I say money I don't need, the one like taking out 4k out of 104,000. after the lost of that 4k, nothing like gambling will make me take out of the 100,000 , it's something I have practice and used to but gambling generally is bad, my girlfriends even kill me more than virtual, I have not played virtual this month. discipline is the key but gamble is bad |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:51pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
ask God and your parents for forgiveness and MOVE ON! |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by segsman(m): 2:15pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
1. Give your life to Jesus and pray to him to deliver you through fasting and prayer 3. Don't try to win the money you have lost back because the more you do the more money you will keep losing 4. Avoid easy access to cash. 5. Get busy with something. An idle mind is the devil workshop 6. If you can relocate to a place where no bet shop please do 7. Be discipline Trust me I understand how you feel. I did terrible things too because of betting which made me lost my job, friends and helpers. But am back to christ. It is a gradual process but if you are determined you will surely overcome. Trust me God can restore all your lost.. Hope this help 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by francescainnoce(f): 2:37pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Hardlife:I’m yet to get anything.. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
coolie1: I don't have your time son. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by insignegianniga: 4:56pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Hardlife: Betting is from the water ,highly spiritual... You have a great destiny and a mandate to fulfil in life that's why the enemy is after you to thwart it To the devil ,he may have won.. But if you come to Jesus,, he will restore everything the locust has taken away from you No amount of rehab can save you. Advice, whatsoever Only the cleansing blood of the lamb Come to Jesus, he will restore you,, and help you fulfil your mandate |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 5:10pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
francescainnoce:081 |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 5:13pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
insignegianniga:yeah i need the grace of God too if i am to fully overcome everything. thank you sir. God bless you. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Image123(m): 5:28pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Hardlife: You must be genuinely born again, that's all. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Tolax17: 8:10pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
[quote author=Nedic post=69182860] nawao..... have sympathy kwanu everybody has a skeleton in their cupboards oh.[/quote Bet had become a cankerworm in the life's of people today. Many don't have goals, no sense of direction no achievement,and in short, no plans, but placed their almighty hope in gambling. I can't seems to fathom any meaningful sense in it. They had in fact become tearaway themselves. The government have failed the society yet, the utmost solution by, especially the young men is is gambling. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Tolax17: 8:32pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
GodsOwnFav: I see you're guilty too. I can see you're pained too. Unfortunately can't feel pity for those that deliberately chose bad choice to make money they can't earn. I have friends into bet, some have sold their properties because they wanna become rich over night. Two went into armed robbery bcause they chose the shot route. Have they madE the millions ? I tell you bro, for where. They're singing and dancing something Iike azonto in prison. When I warned them, I was the bad friend. I was insulted, mocked, taunted but I remained courageous, strong, never afraid to tell the truth. The op was not born to be a gambler, he chose it and he will enjoy the pain alone. No amount of advice here can't restored his financial, quality time wasted. Nothing can be said here, will make me remorseful. Hardwork pays not gambling Contentment is a source of happiness not gambling The love of money is the root of evil by reaching for it, many have pierced themselves all over with many pains or sorrow - 1Timothy 6:10 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by goldenval(m): 8:35pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Guliver(m): 8:53pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
who nor go,nor know.Ogbumguanguan s wicked.T all witchcraft manipulation. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Tolax17: 9:56pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Hardlife: I am encourage by your response. You're sincere, you recognised you short comings yet you accepted responsibility for your bad choice. Hope isnt lost, you can improve and be better. You remind mE of two stories in the holy scripture. The example of Peter who denied jesus 3 times and the prodigal son. Both stories are typical examples of human beings, however the similarity btw both was that they were remorseful n made effort to repent/change Tips; 1. You need to speak to a mature older person or a counselor about your pains and troubles. 2. You need a great deal of self Discipline. You condition yourself to say No to things you don't want to do. You stand by that No. Remember if you give in into gambling, you will become a slave to it. It will be controlling you instead of you taking charge and controlling it. Let your know be No. Learn to be in charge. It may not be easy but, keep pushing and don't give up. To be a master over fear, you must face the fear courageously, conquer it and gain freedom. 3. If you're xtian/Muslim, you preoccupied yourself with religious activities. 4. You need to change or limit the cycle of friends you keep. Friends who will tempt you into joining them to gambling, change or reduce your friendship with them. 5. If you're jobless or unemployed, you need to stay busy and occupied. Find something to do, if you don't mind, learn a trade or a skill depending on your area of interest. Learn a skill that will add value to your life. 6. If you have money give someone you trust and reliable to keep or save in his account mayb your siblings till you're able to gain control over you life. 7. You need to pray, persevere in prayer. I am not saying you must turn into a prayer warrior. Just pray to God to help you define and get control over your life. 8. Read motivatonal books like those for entrepreneurs- such as the richest man in babylon, rich dad, poor daddy, your holy book or bible etc. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by francescainnoce(f): 9:15am On Jul 10, 2018 |
Hardlife:Can’t reach you |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by olivino(m): 11:41am On Jul 10, 2018 |
PamaB:Trust me, there are more cases like him. I know someone who used his sch fees and house rent to play nairabet. During exam period he will tell us that he is going for exam,but he will go to a playstation shop to play FIFA. It was later we discovered that he was no longer a student. Eventually landlord drove him away from the hostel after so much hiding because he could nt pay up his rent. Don't mind my long epistle sha. But I think this story could be very true because I have seen his kind. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 12:44pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
francescainnoce:sorry ma'am. my phone was switched off. It is on now. Thanks for your concern ma. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Martzki: 7:02pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Your fb id Hardlife: |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by EVarn(m): 8:18pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Hardlife:Get a hobby, look for something that you are passionate about(other than gambling) and pour all your energy into it, it may be reading,writing,creative art,dancing,playing football or acting, it may be anything, even politics. Just find another passion. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by radiolover(m): 8:15pm On May 09, 2019 |
Foxykevo: I sent you mail. Please check. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nostradamus: 1:25pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Eehyah!!!sorry o. P. Alabi Don enter you seriously.so all the money I have been earning since from my betting accounts,your hard-earned money is there?! Sorry hen. Don't worry,just follow the topic in my signature,when the new basketball season start,you'd be cashing out with my pump-action basketball tips. Cheer up man, you've got no problem. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Image123(m): 4:07pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
Nostradamus: Why are you so heartless? |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 3:37pm On Oct 18, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by dannyspeejay(m): 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Karry only 2 sure Odd 1 Like |
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