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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by DWJOBScom(m): 2:41pm On Jul 09, 2018
or display the corpse!
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by rocoh(m): 2:41pm On Jul 09, 2018
On point
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Deltatoto: 2:41pm On Jul 09, 2018
Correctbae2:
It is common this days for friends and relatives to upload Corpse of their loved ones who passed away. Their acts portrays their own way of showing Condolences.
A lady has taken to her Facebook page to frown at such acts. She said if you upload pictures of your dead friends to wish them 'RIP', it means you are not a friend. She said it is disrespect, inhumane. The person is just heartless and seeking attention. The person is causing more psychological trauma for the deceased real friends and family.

Her post below:

[b]If you wish your dead "friend" RIP by uploading a picture of your friend's corpse,
You are not a friend.
You are an attention-seeking slowpoke with no sense of personal morality or decency!
Have you taken a moment to imagine the psychological trauma that these postings cause on the REAL friends and family members of the deceased
A family is dealing with the painful death of a loved one, yet you go ahead and subject them to much more grief by putting up disgracing pictures of the bodies of their deceased loved ones.
You are mad!
Yes, I said it!!
Do you know that these traumatizing pictures of the dead you post on social media has tend to serve as constant reminders of the loss and pain of the deceased's family and friends
Do you know it can hinder them from finding the closure they need to move on??
That you put "RIP" does not make any difference!!!!!
We get it, you want to inform people about an accident... a murder... a suicide... an abortion..
But is it necessary to share photos of the deceased
Did you ask the deceased’s family for permission to post the photos
Would the deceased want to see degrading and disrespectful pictures of himself/herself all over social media??
The desire for virtual relevance and attention has robbed us of any shred of morality, logical reasoning and propriety...
Stop it!!!!!

It is disrespectful, insensitive, cruel, psychotic, heartless and inhumane!!!![/b]

https://correct.com.ng/if-you-wish-your-dead-friend-rip-by-uploading-a-picture-of-the-corpse-you-are-not-a-friend-heartless-psychotic-and-an-attention-seeker-lady-says/
fine girl I just dey imagine to put preeeeek for ur nyash
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 09, 2018
Correctbae2:
It is common this days for friends and relatives to upload Corpse of their loved ones who passed away. Their acts portrays their own way of showing Condolences.
A lady has taken to her Facebook page to frown at such acts. She said if you upload pictures of your dead friends to wish them 'RIP', it means you are not a friend. She said it is disrespect, inhumane. The person is just heartless and seeking attention. The person is causing more psychological trauma for the deceased real friends and family.

Her post below:

[b]If you wish your dead "friend" RIP by uploading a picture of your friend's corpse,
You are not a friend.
You are an attention-seeking slowpoke with no sense of personal morality or decency!
Have you taken a moment to imagine the psychological trauma that these postings cause on the REAL friends and family members of the deceased
A family is dealing with the painful death of a loved one, yet you go ahead and subject them to much more grief by putting up disgracing pictures of the bodies of their deceased loved ones.
You are mad!
Yes, I said it!!
Do you know that these traumatizing pictures of the dead you post on social media has tend to serve as constant reminders of the loss and pain of the deceased's family and friends
Do you know it can hinder them from finding the closure they need to move on??
That you put "RIP" does not make any difference!!!!!
We get it, you want to inform people about an accident... a murder... a suicide... an abortion..
But is it necessary to share photos of the deceased
Did you ask the deceased’s family for permission to post the photos
Would the deceased want to see degrading and disrespectful pictures of himself/herself all over social media??
The desire for virtual relevance and attention has robbed us of any shred of morality, logical reasoning and propriety...
Stop it!!!!!

It is disrespectful, insensitive, cruel, psychotic, heartless and inhumane!!!![/b]

https://correct.com.ng/if-you-wish-your-dead-friend-rip-by-uploading-a-picture-of-the-corpse-you-are-not-a-friend-heartless-psychotic-and-an-attention-seeker-lady-says/





It's one of the most stupid things anyone can do
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Emmacolinho(m): 2:44pm On Jul 09, 2018
izzou:
Uploading a corpse is terrible angry angry angry

But then, so many people draw their breath from likes and shares.
You've got a like and share have you drawn your breath too? grin grin grin grin
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by idonhammer: 2:44pm On Jul 09, 2018
what am I seeing

Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Ategberoson(m): 2:44pm On Jul 09, 2018
very common among Igbo, you can find out, I have to reduce some friends because of this. express your emotions and wish him rip Jeje, why upload their PIC some even upload corpse at mortuary and casket


death is what everyone we pay but I'm not dying now, not in 200yrs time. I'm not ready
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Augustap(f): 2:45pm On Jul 09, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
At least to show last respect to his dead family.. people do that in facebook. Somepeople that are not aware... embarassed embarassed
Dead family? grin grin

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by stonecoldcafe: 2:48pm On Jul 09, 2018
A distinguished professor from my university lost his life some years back in a fatal accident.

You need to see how his near naked corpse was displayed on blogs and all. It was soooooooooooooo sad. I'm not even family but seeing that photo like that was terrible. Former students on these blogs were begging for it to be taken off but it was only when his family reached out one or two of such people removed it. The children of the deceased promptly wrote to the blogs requesting for the picture of the corpse to be removed. Only then was it removed. Hmm. That thing ehn, is very bad oh!

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by izzou(m): 2:49pm On Jul 09, 2018
Emmacolinho:
You've got a like and share have you drawn your breath too? grin grin grin grin

cheesy grin grin
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by EbukaHades10(m): 2:53pm On Jul 09, 2018
XoshinugaX:
You are very slow.
......and u are very fast. Swerve.
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by YorubaAssasin: 3:00pm On Jul 09, 2018
Ok... why do we need to see ur own pix?
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by killuminati(m): 3:03pm On Jul 09, 2018
I will like to marry this beauty lady with big brain and big bra cry
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by olacarz(m): 3:05pm On Jul 09, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
At least to show last respect to his dead family.. people do that in facebook. Somepeople that are not aware... embarassed embarassed

Haa!!

Dead family bawo

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 09, 2018
dominique:
Uploading photos of a corpse even the person is a stranger to you is just downright wrong! Imagine seeing gory photos of your dead loved one splashed all over the blogs and social media. I hope the government steps in and put a stop to this.
u are mod. Y does nairaland post such
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by vivaciousvivi(f): 3:16pm On Jul 09, 2018
crafteck:
She looks like a corpse, i uploaded a secondary school friends rip pic, that's when like 50 percent of our other friends got to know, we are scattered around the world but d 6 years boarding school binds our hearts together. Same as saying obituary posters are wrong.

Sorry but obituary pics are not the same thing.
Obituary pics are those of the now deceased while they were alive.
The post here is specifically aimed at those that upload pics of corpses - especially during lying in state etc.

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by dominique(f): 3:22pm On Jul 09, 2018
yeyerolling:
u are mod. Y does nairaland post such

Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.



Nairaland didn't post that, the members did.
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jul 09, 2018
dominique:


Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.



Nairaland didn't post that, the members did.
lol. But una dey ban pple for posts.start banning this too
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by DIYhackers: 3:32pm On Jul 09, 2018
XoshinugaX:

You saw just her chest, but I see just how wretched your soul is.
We see differently, I see good things instead of negatively, you see negatively instead of good things. I pity your your pathetic mind and bitter life.
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by papae1(m): 3:43pm On Jul 09, 2018
this chick get bwest sha... less i forget what she said was correct.
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by chiketee(m): 3:46pm On Jul 09, 2018
crafteck:
She looks like a corpse, i uploaded a secondary school friends rip pic, that's when like 50 percent of our other friends got to know, we are scattered around the world but d 6 years boarding school binds our hearts together. Same as saying obituary posters are wrong.

Don't be stupid. She said "corpse". Read for God's sake. The pictures used in obituaries, are they that of a corpse?

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jul 09, 2018
Rubbish.. Rubbish .. Rubbish... If I lose a friend and I upload it.. Its doesn't mean one is not moved or jus seeking public stuff.. Someone will also do it for me when am gone.. Its ntin. I have seen a girl who lost her dad immediately snapping him to post on Facebook to let her friends no what she's facing.. Everything is from the mind.. Think straight
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 09, 2018
dominique:
Uploading photos of a corpse even the person is a stranger to you is just downright wrong! Imagine seeing gory photos of your dead loved one splashed all over the blogs and social media. I hope the government steps in and put a stop to this.

Especially on Nairaland. People are slowly being desensitized and that's not good for the psyche. Something needs to be done about it.

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by crafteck(m): 3:59pm On Jul 09, 2018
chiketee:

Don't be stupid. She said "corpse". Read for God's sake. The pictures used in obituaries, are they that of a corpse?

Wise one.. Seen, but still maintaining its not a big deal, making a continent out of a mole hill
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by columbus007(m): 4:02pm On Jul 09, 2018
is she what i am thinking?because she's got chain on her right leg,once you know you know undecided
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by FRANKLAD1: 4:04pm On Jul 09, 2018
EbukaHades10:
See bwest!!!!!
I trvst u
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Sketch007(m): 4:22pm On Jul 09, 2018
DIYhackers:
What she post is senseless. She's just seeking attention too. All I see is the chest she pushed forward.

Take a minute to read again and see if you can learn something meaningful from her post. She's way right than the sensless post u made up there!
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Elviswifey1(f): 4:37pm On Jul 09, 2018
True talk.is not wise atall accept if its d deceased family that wishes to.I have this girl on fbk,everyday she will be posting pictures of dead friends,accident friends just bad news all over n she always addresses them all as her friend from school.I got so pissed off one day n commented rubbish as advise,I think she has reduced abi nobody for her side never die again.
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Nokio1: 4:48pm On Jul 09, 2018
If Somebody like soberdrunk handle your bwest i will not hesitate to upload them and post RIp...

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Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by lordtim001(m): 4:52pm On Jul 09, 2018
Some of them will post the picture and write : "RIP. Sorry its coming late" grin
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by Sikariyelwa: 5:36pm On Jul 09, 2018
ITS NONSENSE. I SUPPOSE SHE IS A CHRISTIAN. SHE HANGS THE PICTURE OF DEAD JESUS TO HER NECK CARRYING IT ALL OVER THE PLACE AS SYMBOL OF HER. FAITH. IS IT ORDINARY PERSON'S PICTURE THAT WILL BECOME CALLOUSNESS? THE JEWS DEHUMANISED YOUR LORD KILLED AND HANGED HIM ON A WORD. BUT IT IS MADE AS PART OF YOUR RELIGION. YOU NEVER HATE IT. EVEN IN YOUR CHURCHES IT IS BEING WORSHIPED AS IT IS YOUR GOD HIMSELF. NONSENSE. DON'T MIND HER
Re: 'You Are Heartless If You Upload Your Dead Friend Pics To Wish "RIP" - Lady Says by els0nm0rali(m): 5:47pm On Jul 09, 2018
Social media has revealed the main weakness almost all human beings share. The need for attention and the need for validation.

An acquaintance's father passed on in the US some years back and the idiot uploaded the swollen body of the pop in a white casket on Facebook and was tagging me.

For what na? I didn't even know the father sef.

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