pocohantas:
...Does he shop in that store regularly?
...The receipt is dated 8/7/2018. That's last 2 Sundays. Either he bought it in advance or after the weekend sex. Did you speak with him regularly within that period?
...Or maybe, he bought it for his friend
...He gave someone a ride and he/she mistakenly dropped it there.

From experience, the probability that someone will MISTAKENLY leave such under your driver seat is low. People leave sand on your foot mats, they leave table water bottles, but rarely receipts.

You can ask him about it. Ignore his words, focus on his reactions. Personally, I won't say "explain this?". That will give him opportunity to lie and do mind games. I will put it to him he cheated within that time frame, without showing him the receipt. E.g " Who was she?" He'll definitely say he doesn't know what you are talking about. "The one you fuckéd recently? And you were even nice enough to buy her Postinor2?" He will start wondering where he disposed it

I believe he bought it, but I won't tell you to leave him, it is your choice. I can't forgive a cheat, I will never look at him the same way again. Because every time I look at him, I will imagine her giving him head and how he was hanging her leg on the burglary proof or bending her like straw on the bed to administer his dick. Nah! That's too much for me to handle

Another question is, what were looking for? Any prior suspicion?
Why did you stretch yourself all the way to under his car seat?
Sweetie, you have found what you are looking for

See who’s talking about cheating..

Jessewizy:

See who’s talking about cheating..

The professional cheat herself, who was caught banging her boss by her Nairaland boyfriend. Anything new?

pocohantas:


The professional cheat herself, who was caught banging her boss by her Nairaland boyfriend. Anything new?

pocohantas:
...Does he shop in that store regularly?
...The receipt is dated 8/7/2018. That's last 2 Sundays. Either he bought it in advance or after the weekend sex. Did you speak with him regularly within that period?
...Or maybe, he bought it for his friend
...He gave someone a ride and he/she mistakenly dropped it there.

From experience, the probability that someone will MISTAKENLY leave such under your driver seat is low. People leave sand on your foot mats, they leave table water bottles, but rarely receipts.

You can ask him about it. Ignore his words, focus on his reactions. Personally, I won't say "explain this?". That will give him opportunity to lie and do mind games. I will put it to him he cheated within that time frame, without showing him the receipt. E.g " Who was she?" He'll definitely say he doesn't know what you are talking about. "The one you fuckéd recently? And you were even nice enough to buy her Postinor2?" He will start wondering where he disposed it

I believe he bought it, but I won't tell you to leave him, it is your choice. I can't forgive a cheat, I will never look at him the same way again. Because every time I look at him, I will imagine her giving him head and how he was hanging her leg on the burglary proof and bending her like straw on the bed to administer his dick. Nah! That's too much for me to handle

Another question is, what were looking for? Any prior suspicion?
Why did you stretch yourself all the way to under his car seat?
Sweetie, you have found what you are looking for

he shops in the mall regularly and goes der almost everyday as he does not cook. It wasnt dat under the seat per say . he doesnt do cash and has lots of pos receipts all over . but that one looked like a bet ticket. Dats y i took it. My dear i feel hurt and silly. Cannot tell my friends or parents.

iyatrustee:
Postinor don cost reach like this?

Baba I feel sey na only me see the price tag ooo. Chai Buhari

Go on with the wedding, don't let it dissuade you. Truth remains that he wasn't getting sex from you, he had to go outside just to get gratification he couldn't get from you, it also doesn't mean that he don't love you.

I am so sorry hun

But there's only one reason that was in his car and you know it too.

Cheaters will never change , do the needful

All the best

Colourich:
Go on with the wedding, don't let it dissuade you. Truth remains that he wasn't getting sex from you, he had to go outside just to get gratification he couldn't get from you, it also doesn't mean that he don't love you.

Beautiful. I love how you think.

Tina26:
he shops in the mall regularly and goes der almost everyday as he does not cook. It wasnt dat under the seat per say . he doesnt do cash and has lots of pos receipts all over . but that one looked like a bet ticket. Dats y i took it. My dear i feel hurt and silly. Cannot tell my friends or parents.

The purchase was made on a Sunday afternoon, alongside pectol of N70[which is insignificant]. That's to show it was planned, not impulse. It couldn't have been a colleague. Makes no sense that someone will buy postinor 2 over the weekend and forget the receipt in your car within the week.

Babe,we all know it is what it is.
He shops there regularly, he bought it.

Don't beat yourself over it, he is only human after all.
What you do with this info is up to you

iyatrustee:
Postinor don cost reach like this?

,,, Hmmmmmm, dem regular customer.

Oh Lord. Men can never be smart with their cheating. Always leaving their traces behind like dot to dot. Don’t even ask him just confront him, and examine his body language. Make sure you don’t confront him over the phone or through text. Face to face. Don’t act sad when you see him, act normal. In the middle of a conversation, gbam just calmly confront him. He won’t be able to gather-prepare himself for a lie. He’ll be stammering and looking for what to say. Unable to keep eye contact, that’s if he’s guilty. Good luck sha and follow your heart.

Colourich:
Go on with the wedding, don't let it dissuade you. Truth remains that he wasn't getting sex from you, he had to go outside just to get gratification he couldn't get from you, it also doesn't mean that he don't love you.

Really?

Well Op, just know he will keep cheating on you with whom he's banging raw with. He's not even using condoms, cos he's enjoying the pussyyy so well.
And pray the lady does not get pregnant in the early years of your marriage to him. Cause at times, postinor fails.
You've used your own hand to open the door of extra marital affairs, all by yourself.
So choose, either breakup with him or accept him like that, cos he won't change after marriage.
Your case reminds me of Toke. In this life, u can't eat your cake and have it back.

The major issue is that he is fuccking someone without condom.
With all the diseases out there in the world.
God forbid.

Saff:
Oh Lord. Men can never be smart with their cheating. Always leaving their traces behind like dot to dot. Don’t even ask him just confront him, and examine his body language. Make sure you don’t confront him over the phone or through text. Face to face. Don’t act sad when you see him, act normal. In the middle of a conversation, gbam just calmly confront him. He won’t be able to gather-prepare himself for a lie. He’ll be stammering and looking for what to say. Unable to keep eye contact, that’s if he’s guilty. Good luck sha and follow your heart.

There is no following the heart here.

If he is guilty, dump him immediately.

He is cheating and without condoms.

illegitimate children is in his future, and no sensible lady should want a part of that.

iyatrustee:





Absolutely sir! Experience gotten close to 20yrs ago

Okay na price don go up madam ...abi the price of fish 20years ago na same ?

Saff:
Oh Lord. Men can never be smart with their cheating. Always leaving their traces behind like dot to dot. Don’t even ask him just confront him, and examine his body language. Make sure you don’t confront him over the phone or through text. Face to face. Don’t act sad when you see him, act normal. In the middle of a conversation, gbam just calmly confront him. He won’t be able to gather-prepare himself for a lie. He’ll be stammering and looking for what to say. Unable to keep eye contact, that’s if he’s guilty. Good luck sha and follow your heart.

You've not actually met a person who is adept at lying. Catch them red handed and even then, they'll come up with a lie.

As for the creator of this thread, sometimes I wonder why some of you don't talk things out with your partners. You saw something like that in his car, what happened to asking him directly? Will our opinions here help you in asking him?

Ignore those who have jumped into conclusions and talk to your man. Also ignore those who are saying he cheated, you really can't be sure.

There was a time my girlfriend visited me from afar. As she wanted to pick something on top of my fridge, it fell behind it. She bent down to carry it and saw a used condom wrap. She was livid. She almost slapped me in her rage. I explained and explained that I didn't know how it got there. Mind you, I stay alone so I was also at a crossroad how it got there. It then occurred to me that that wasn't the type of condom I use. She knows how strict I am with my brand, so the minute I mentioned that wasn't even my brand, she started to cool down. As things would happen, some hours later, my colleague called me to ask me if I was home, that he was coming over. That was when he mentioned that he may be coming over with a lady. I then remembered he told me he wanted to run away from his place and stay in mine the previous weekend. Asked him if he brought a lady here and he said he did.

Turned out he brought the same lady the previous week without telling me. I was really very angry. We finally resolved.

Point being, nothing is always as it seems until you talk to the person. Also, that someone cheated on you once is no confirmation that they'll do it again. People actually do change.

Cheers!

Your fiance is Cristiano Ronaldo on the bed...

Tina26:
he shops in the mall regularly and goes der almost everyday as he does not cook. It wasnt dat under the seat per say . he doesnt do cash and has lots of pos receipts all over . but that one looked like a bet ticket. Dats y i took it. My dear i feel hurt and silly. Cannot tell my friends or parents.

Eh, tell him Na.

Most men cheat, you're going to hear it sooner or later. The thing is, men don't eqaute sex to love. He may be having sex with some scamp somewhere but it is you he values and loves enough to marry. Its not what most ladies want to hear but its the truth.

Confront him with your findings. You were planning on getting married soon anyway, so no need to hide anything. Hear what he has to say. If you can forgive him go ahead (forget those making mouth, most women do forgive and go on to live happy lives with thier husbands). But if you can't forgive him then you can end the relationship and look for another man who will be loyal only to you. There are plenty of them out there or so I've heard.

Good luck.

pocohantas:



The purchase was made on a Sunday afternoon, alongside pectol of N70[which is insignificant]. That's to show it was planned, not impulse. It couldn't have been a colleague. Makes no sense that someone will buy postinor 2 over the weekend and forget the receipt in your car within the week.

Babe,we all know it is what it is.
He shops there regularly, he bought it.

Don't beat yourself over it, he is only human after all.
What you do with this info is up to you

Visualize the guy hitting some chick raw in multiple positions. That's what you would do.

Prognose:


Eh, tell him Na.

Most men cheat, you're going to hear it sooner or later. The thing is, men don't eqaute sex to love. He may be having sex with some scamp somewhere but it is you he values and loves enough to marry. Its not what most ladies want to hear but its the truth.

Most women forgive? Yes.
Live 'happy' lives? Lies. The frictions will always be there.
You are not a woman, you will only say that which is acceptable to you. So, I am not surprised lots of you men assume women indeed forgive and are HAPPY. Same women that are 'emotional' creatures? LOL!!!

He loves her but he is banging another chick RAW and buying postinor 2 for her? May I not be loved and valued that way.

oyb:


Visualize the guy hitting some chick raw in multiple positions. That's what you would do.

That's what every normal human being would do. Why some men convince themselves a woman who has this image on replay in her head would ever forgive, forget and be happy with him is beyond me.

pocohantas:


Most women forgive? Yes.
Live 'happy' lives? Lies. The frictions will always be there.
You are not a woman, you will only say that which is acceptable to you. So, I am not surprised lots of you men assume women indeed forgive and are HAPPY. Same women that are 'emotional' creatures? LOL!!!

Which man buys Postinor 2 for his casual lay?

He loves her but he is banging another chick RAW and buying postinor 2 for her? May I not be loved and valued that way.

A man who doesn't like using condoms. Simple.

pocohantas:


Most women forgive? Yes.
Live 'happy' lives? Lies. The frictions will always be there.
You are not a woman, you will only say that which is acceptable to you. So, I am not surprised lots of you men assume women indeed forgive and are HAPPY. Same women that are 'emotional' creatures? LOL!!!

Which man buys Postinor 2 for his casual lay?

He loves her but he is banging another chick RAW and buying postinor 2 for her? May I not be loved and valued that way.

Amen to your prayer sister. Amen.

What I said was the truth. They forgive and go on to live HAPPY and fulfilling lives with their husband. When asked how they coped they say there are more important things to focus on than a one (or two) time infidelity. They will even advice their daughters not to leave thier homes for another woman. Women will even forgive a chronic philanderer as long as he's taking care of the family and not bringing dangerous diseases home. (a responsible cheat, if there's anything like that). What drives most women insane is the beating and domestic violence.

But you're not going to believe me anyway. Its all good.

Prognose:


Amen to your prayer sister. Amen.

What I said was the truth. They forgive and go on to live HAPPY and fulfilling lives with their husband. What asked how they coped they say there are more important things to focus on than a one (or two) time infidelity. Thwy will even advice their daughters not to leave thier homes for another woman. What drives most women insane is the beating and domestic violence.

But you're not going to believe me anyway. Its all good.

They coped by focusing on things different from their husbands. Something different from HIM, most times the kids, job...etc.

Why don't you also ask those men who have been caught cheating, what happened after they were caught. The ones with a little conscience, not the men are polygamous in nature crew.

Oga, don't deceive yourself. You can't cheat on a woman who loved and trusted you...and expect things to remain the same. But in a country like Nigeria where couples marry and remain married for reasons other than themselves, your reasoning and the result of your survey is very understandable.

Tina26:
he shops in the mall regularly and goes der almost everyday as he does not cook. It wasnt dat under the seat per say . he doesnt do cash and has lots of pos receipts all over . but that one looked like a bet ticket. Dats y i took it. My dear i feel hurt and silly. Cannot tell my friends or parents.

you came and table your matter to a group of retired oloshos, who have been finding it difficult to land a husband. dont you see they are trying to make you be like them frustrated and bittes envied. if you try to call it off, OYO 4 U. no matter who he bleeps, if he loves you, there is nothing to fret about. he just need your prayers and advice right now.

Prognose:


A man who doesn't like using condoms. Simple.

Thank God you are in the medical field.
You sure do know the implication of that. And you say such a man LOVES AND VALUES his woman. He loves her enough to bang other women RAW. What a wonderful fiance/husband.

C'mon, how do people cheat on a partner. Look the person in the eye, lie and act cool. Maybe immediately after the act sef!

pocohantas:


Thank God you are in the medical field.

You sure do know the implication of that. And you say such a man LOVES AND VALUES his woman. He loves her enough to bang other women RAW. What a wonderful fiance/husband.

C'mon, how do people cheat on a partner. Look the person in the eye, lie and act cool. Maybe immediately after the act sef!

on a scale of 1-10, i rate you the latter as being the devi1s advocate. how would you adviced she leaves? how much of the dude we are talking about do you know ??

daviesblaze:
on a scale of 1-10, i rate you the latter as being the devi1s advocate. how would you adviced she leaves? how much of the dude we are talking about do you know ??

Please, don't jump on my mentions without reading and understanding. No where did I ask her to leave, I am sure you can't show where I typed that.

Biko, read before commenting.

pocohantas:

Thank God you are in the medical field.
You sure do know the implication of that. And you say such a man LOVES AND VALUES his woman. He loves her enough to bang other women RAW. What a wonderful fiance/husband.

C'mon, how do people cheat on a partner. Look the person in the eye, lie and act cool. Maybe immediately after the act sef!

it's easy, same way you tell lies about yourself. Nothing to it.

Tina26:
So i travelled this weekend to see my fiance , our wedding is in december. He stays in lagos while am based in abj. He suggested a sex free relationship which i agreed to cos am also a virgin. He picked me from the park and branched to withdraw some money. I was just looking round the car and saw something under his car seat. Looked like a betslip. He used to be addicted to online and offline bets which i begged him to stop. I grabbed the slip and found out it was a pharmacy receipt for postinor 2. Am shatterred and confused. I feel i might be jumping into conclusions. But i know he most likely purchased it . so sad. No frontpage pls

ask him about it.