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Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by daviesblaze(m): 2:59pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:you dont have to say it before you are nailed with it. even a 12 year old can see where your subtle message is driving at. typical of the devi1, always dropping hint that will mature in due time and making it seems it was her idea all along. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by pocohantas(f): 3:02pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
daviesblaze: Are you done crying? Feel free to sue me if you have hard evidence |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Prognose: 3:02pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Lol, I doubt he's thinking of STDs and the like when he's having sex. I doubt he's thinking of the implications of going it raw when he's on a sexual high. Moreso as he deliberately involved himself in a sexless relationship with his fiancée for whatever reason, maybe to impress her. Guys don't think about those things when having sex. Sex is like an impulse to them. Sure you can use this argument of loving and valuing his fiancee if you want him to desist from it. I'm sure op is going to use it when she finally confronts him. It will make him think twice about safety. But having sex with a condom or not does not mean the man values his fiancee any less. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by pocohantas(f): 3:09pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Prognose: Yesso! They don't think about it, till they bring home STD, or the side chick gets pregnant. And the wife will continue being HAPPY Impulse indeed. Person control chick, buy postinor, ensure his main chick doesn't call within that period. Impulse? Naso! Tiny26, you can forgive, forget and marry him. Let's hope he changes if, but if he doesn't...please don't come back here to create a thread. Because this same people will ask if you didn't see the signs or say you married a cheat because of money. As a typical Naija woman that you are. It is a tough decision, only you can decide. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Prognose: 3:11pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:Yes, agreed. Because at the end of the day marriage is much more than loving and following your husband (or wife) upandan 24/7 for the rest of your days. Why don't you also ask those men who have been caught cheating, what happened after they were caught. The ones with a little conscience, not the men are polygamous in nature crew. Different answers , depending on the dynamics of the relationship before the man was caught. The nice husbands got off easy, the husbands that had other stuff hanging on their necks like alcoholism, joblessness or a history of domestic violence had it more rough. But once the woman makes up her mind to forgive and continue the relationship, she forgives. Its just the way some women are. Ever wondered why a woman will stay in a marriage despite the incessant beatings and cheatings? They have larger hearts. Oga, don't deceive yourself. You can't cheat on a woman who loved and trusted you...and expect things to remain the same. But in a country like Nigeria where couples marry and remain married for reasons other than themselves, your reasoning and the result of your survey is very understandable. Forgiving doesn't mean things remain the same. The man loses the woman's trust. She second guesses his every move. The man has to explain every coincidental meeting or WhatsApp message with any unknown woman. No. Things don't remain the same. But it doesn't mean it ends up miserably either if both parties decide to work it out. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by pocohantas(f): 3:20pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Prognose: Now you get it. I never said they end up miserable, but things change. I will personally not look at the man same way, ever again. There will be be change. Why a man [or woman] would wanna put such strain on a marriage, because he thinks it is only normal for him to cheat...amazes me. Ever wondered why a woman will stay in a marriage despite the incessant beatings and cheatings. They have larger hearts. I'm surprised to read women have larger hearts now, seems you men choose when to tag us 'larger hearts'. I won't be surprised to see you on a different topic saying women are wicked |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Prognose: 3:23pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Its a universal problem. Doesn't apply to only naija women. Infidelity is all over the world and this same scenario plays out almost every day Op should confront him first and see what happens. He may deny, he may confirm, he may use it as an excuse to even break up with her first, anything can happen. But in the end the op is the one to make a choice. If she can forgive and go on, keeping in mind all she has invested in the relationship, well and good. But if she cannot get the idea of him sexing another woman out of her head, if she cannot forgive, then she should dump him immediately regardless of whether he has done introduction or not. You can't spend the rest of your life living with someone you cannot forgive, op. It will breed hatred, misery and discontent. So op, look before you leap. Think carefully before you make a decision. And do update us on the outcome , your experience could also help one or two people here. I'm jerry spinger, till next time, take care of yourself and each other. Good luck. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by pocohantas(f): 3:43pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Prognose: I don't think anyone can get it out of the head... 1 Like
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Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Pusyiter(m): 3:45pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Kisses darl......you nailed it victorian: |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Please don't jump to conclusion, ask him first. For all we know, the slip could have fallen from one of the carwash boy's pocket while washing his car.... I mean, anything could have happened. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Afolak(m): 4:17pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:Nawa for u ooo,hw u come knw d different styles,u be bad child |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Afolak(m): 4:19pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Nawa for u ooo,hw u come knw d different styles,u be bad child |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by SexyDenzel: 6:01pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas:What?! who? what are you talking about? who is she? I bleeped? are you out of your mind? hahhahaa OK you want to prank me, abeg stop with this kind jokes its an expensive joke dear. Buy Postinor 2?! ( Pause for second with confused look on my face like im trying to multiple 5873973 by 7638893) Are you alright? what the Bleep is wrong with you? are you talking to me or hallucinations? Bleep she, postinor 2? where is all these coming from? After I've been missing you for all these while and so happy to see you today and this is how you want to spoil my mood? I can't believe this, you're so unbelievable (sad face). ;-) Key: Never admit or tell any story until your girl tells or reveals her findings. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by ObservantFellow: 6:07pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
MrCork: Where is Jezuzboiy? I know you know where he is I also know you won't answer my query directly. But tell him he is missed |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by victorian(f): 6:13pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by bukas15(m): 6:18pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
porchbaby:hmmm. madam husbands are scarce oo |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Lolzz so e dey pain una like that Meanwhile Op i think its totally absurd troubling ur self over assumptions.. Just because u saw a receipt of postinor doesn't automatically mean he's fûcking someone else. Give him the benefit of a doubt until he is proven otherwise, don't go jumping to conclusions as u might just ruin a beautiful thing with ur suspicions.. Just shine ur eyes well well & stop assuming |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by wittyt98(m): 7:17pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
ImaIma1:not everyone's interested in marrying a virgin though |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Smithvet32: 8:53pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
He might be wrongly taking it for cough and catarrh |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by duduade: 9:40pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
iyatrustee: He might be testing her. Watch her reaction Lool One chance relationship She should be wise in her decisions |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Cosplay: 10:18pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
Tina26: |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by obowunmi(m): 10:58pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
HIV/AIDS is real. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by doctuw(m): 11:43pm On Jul 17, 2018 |
i disagree with you. postinor 2 can't be sold legally without prescription. no pharmacy does that. something is fishy GODPUNISHUNA: |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Nobody: 6:52am On Jul 18, 2018 |
doctuw:mr man just shut the fuk up. I have bot d drug severally in diff pharmacies. Nothin like prescrip was needed |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by doctuw(m): 10:52am On Jul 18, 2018 |
yeyerolling:Pharmacy? or A patent medicine store. They are 2 different things |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by damtan(m): 11:11am On Jul 18, 2018 |
Ordinary postinor 2 maybe science students have deviced method of being high. berra be careful before u quit. |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 18, 2018 |
doctuw:what are u saying oga. What is health plus I hav also bot it der |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Princeadonis(m): 2:16pm On Jul 18, 2018 |
doctuw:Haba! Why would you sell Postinor only on prescription It's an emergency contraceptive pill! |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 18, 2018 |
What is this postinor that I always read of here. I'm curious |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 18, 2018 |
Just show him and wait for his explanation. Babe lemme explain I'll calmly ask you to go on with your explanation.... Life is that simple |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by Pusyiter(m): 3:12pm On Jul 18, 2018 |
Cool Dear....I go holler you unto later tinz victorian: |
Re: What I Found In My Fiance's Car by els0nm0rali(m): 4:18pm On Jul 18, 2018 |
Tina26: Give him a chance to deny it. Then dump his sorry ass. Unless of course you can put up with a philandering husband who samples all the young girls on your street. |
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