MrBigiman:
If u go back to ur husband Na suffer oh. They won't pay u more than 60k sef. Pls stay apart. Any time he visit give him maximum satisfaction.

You can also convince him to resign and set up a business for him in Warri. It should pay more than that 60k he receives.

I and my lady are even farther apart for the past 3yrs and we still try and cope.

The way folks just mention "setting up a business" on NL is hilarious! According to these individuals, everyone is or can be an entrepreneur.

Who should relocate when the partner earns higher should be the question. Marriage is partnership for live.

Stay at your work place o
If you come and meet him with his 60k how much his the food allowance you will get , don't think of personal allowance because you won't get it and frustration and regret will eventually mess up the union . If you can transfer your services to where he stays fine or get a better job where he stays if not remain where you are

In ancient Spanish 'La Story La Fakecinado'

If you earn N550k in Warri, your 4 months salary is enough to start a small school business since he is a teacher in Kaduna earning N60k.
If you are a humble wife and you put N2m in his hands to build a business for the family in Warri he will relocate sharp sharp, if he cant manage it you engage experienced people to work along with him

HeWrites:
Yesterday, a question was trending online about who should relocate after a marriage if the wife earns way more than her husband and they live in different states.

A lot of people gave varying replies but this one definitely takes the cake.

See the hilarious reply below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/who-should-relocate-after-marriage-if-the-wife-earns-more-see-reply.html

They should reach an agreement.

I just wonder atimes if they tag some people's Destiny to Job?
Entrepreneur is the Best thing to do (for those who wants to get that Financial freedom) but the Big Challenge is the CAPITAL to start.
Just imagine God really bless your wife with a good job (above 500k monthly) which is an advantage for u make use wisely to create FUND.
No wonder, Bible says Husband Love yur wife as your self (that means u must be trustworthy to yur self and yur wife)....
with Solomon's wisdom, tell yur wife to loan u 5million or above (of course she would has easy access to the loan the money in her working place so far she earns above 500k) and u as a 60k teacher earner in Kaduna, take the 5million or above and invest it to any farmland products in KADUNA ( like TOMATOES is preferable due to it's fertile soil there)

and I guarantee u within 2yrs, u gonna pay back and become an EMPLOYER of labour automatically,
To cut the story short, u gonna be staying together with yur wife in warri (without her leaving her lucrative job & only be going to your farm in Kaduna for inspection once in a while (coz u don get few employees working for u on the farm)

OPARI.

#WISDOM

Pataricatering:
”that” full respect a man deserves that a woman does not deserve ? You men are such fools !

..that's in africa...

obataokenwa:
Village people really trying to play with your generational blessing and make you guys very poor.
How can one sacrifice oil company job for a teaching job in Kaduna that has nothing to offer aside threatening ones life once in a while.

I wonder o o o!

Gerrard59:


The way folks just mention "setting up a business" on NL is hilarious! According to these individuals, everyone is or can be an entrepreneur.

Don't make setting up a business look so difficult. With a healthy mindset even a retarded my can do well. I have thought setting up businesses with over 80% success rate. The failures are those who laugh and claim it's difficult running a business.

I've thought people building a house to factor, having An adjoining flat and 2 self contain, and that alone have sparked the entrepreneural zeal. I've thought people to start a gas plant in an area where people take transport to refill their gas and doing just that has sparked a passion for business in this people. I have worked in a job with no refreshment for workers, and I began selling drinks, snacks and food and it became a growing concern.

A problem with African is their mentality. Who is a husband, who is a wife. This mentality that you have to do this and I have to do that is a problem even outside marriage. If you relocate as a man, you no fit hustle find another job or do business for the new location? Will you rather give your children an average education because you earn less or relocate and give them a better education because you wife earns more. Many partners do not even have life goals. If you do, stuffs as this won't be a problem.

DonFreshmoney:
because of ego, both should leave their job and relocate to a different state entirely. They should take care of themselves from savings until a new job arise

Bad Advice

RiyadhGoddess:
Well for someone like me who loves distance relationship, I wouldn't mind. Let the kids be with me at my work base while my husband and father of my kids comes visiting during any given holidays or his free days. I wouldn't force him to relocate or resign his job against his will and and I won't relocate or resign my job either. I sincerely do not have a problem with living apart. I so much love distance relationship.

Onye egwu

I will place my hubby on salary..he is definitely resigning..

If they must stay together the man should relocate, he should first start looking for new work in his wife's location

Ma brother they do in som oil companies, like chevron the pay is usually in dollar....Im sure u will even doubt d pay given 2 an I.T student working with direct chevron( they pay 180k, although i never believed too until i saw d acceptance letter given 2d girl, d tin is they pay in dollar so wn one convert 2 our currency ( eye go begin turn u )

dollar ke Lies !!! No naija oil firm pay in dollars.

The Wife should resign and move to kaduna where hubby earns 60k, mehn that's hustling backwards, all the best I came here to make money and leave a good life not retrogress