Phut:


I am a woman. I believe in speaking the truth. On NL, we see both men and women putting whites people on pedestals. Some men on here proclaim that they want to marry Oyibo/foreign women and that Oyibo’s are better than Nigeria. Women. Now most of these men live in Nigeria and haven’t had any dating experience with foreign women. There are more foreign men in Nigeria than foreign women.

I am not for interracial dating. Nigerians have to love, believe in and uphold themselves for us to get anywhere. Every one does it. If we fail to do same, we will remain perpetual losers. You can’t be playing checkers while everyone else is playing chess.

So what I am basically saying is as you are speaking out against what this woman did here, I hope you speak out too if a Nigerian man does something similar. Because what I see sometimes on NL is a double standard where men engage in certain behavior but want to castigate women for engaging in same behavior. That, I can never ride with. Gender warfare and blame game never gets a people anywhere.

Phut:


I am a woman. I believe in speaking the truth. On NL, we see both men and women putting whites people on pedestals. Some men on here proclaim that they want to marry Oyibo/foreign women and that Oyibo’s are better than Nigeria. Women. Now most of these men live in Nigeria and haven’t had any dating experience with foreign women. There are more foreign men in Nigeria than foreign women.

I am not for interracial dating. Nigerians have to love, believe in and uphold themselves for us to get anywhere. Every one does it. If we fail to do same, we will remain perpetual losers. You can’t be playing checkers while everyone else is playing chess.

So what I am basically saying is as you are speaking out against what this woman did here, I hope you speak out too if a Nigerian man does something similar. Because what I see sometimes on NL is a double standard where men engage in certain behavior but want to castigate women for engaging in same behavior. That, I can never ride with. Gender warfare and blame game never gets a people anywhere.

Phut:


Saying black women cannot pronounce or enunciate.

Saying black women are easy lays

Saying black people give their children trash names while Hispanics and other give their kids reasonable names.

Generalizing black people as being ostentatious and having low IQ.

Focusing all these negatives on blacks while not making similar “jokes” about any other race, is RACIST. RACIST not insensitive.

He never apologized for his racist jokes but instead sought to minimize them.

Ani had said in a video that she is not black (I.e. Black American) but Nigerian and that Nigerians have culture while implying that Black Americans do not.

I find Ami’s reasoning to be hogwash. If Ami so loved her culture then why didn’t she marry within said culture? Instead she perennially chooses loser white men (1st husband was abusive and current husband is a convicted felon and a former alcoholic who was not gainfully employed when she met him). Word is that (in between husband’s her Mom introduced her to a Nigerian Doctor, but she preferred a white man on the unemployment line.

Justin McClure hit paydirt when he married her because he is living high off the hog based on the YouTube earnings of the twins, who are not his biological daughters. I would say his marrying Ami was a strategic move which has paid off handsomely.

In my opinion, Ami has self hate. But of course she is not going to admit that. Her husbands tweets were racist. Why didn’t she sit back, let him apologize and then everyone move on? He didn’t apologize, instead she started voltroning for him. That is probably why she threw in the tidbit of having hated white people before (to deflect by implying she had behaved more egregiously in the past and so black people should give Justin a pass). Now when you look at Ami’s antecedents, it’s more likely that she has never hated white people but instead has put them on a pedestal and worshipped them.

cc: aribs, Pocohantas , HypocriteNazi

pocohantas:


LOL, never knew it hurts you that much. Now I know
Y'all should stop marrying foreign graves though, it doesn't make them think any higher of the black 'man'.

Favor99:

I’m disappointed in you and most Nigerian women that put their men down. It’s obvious Nigerian women don’t have our back and throw us under the bus any opportunity. When other races where bashing Nigerian men on a YouTube video, Nigerian women were no where to be found to defend their men.
When Jamaican men were getting bashed, their women came in and defended them.
This continent of Africa is being attacked and targeted on all fronts. Nigerian men defend Nigerian women whenever anyone insults them, I can’t say Nigerian women do the same. This bad trend seems to be a problem in several African countries

pocohantas:


Where and when? Hahahaha!
Bros talk another thing

Favor99:

On other threads when Nigerian women are being insulted. Nigerian women wouldn’t even lift a finger for us

pocohantas:


It is not our work to defend you all.
That's the job of the Nigerian Army

Mindfulness:


Ok but you having a problem with interracial dating makes you a racist too. You have become the very same thing you are fighting.

Favor99:

I’m disappointed in you and most Nigerian women that put their men down. It’s obvious Nigerian women don’t have our back and throw us under the bus any opportunity. When other races where bashing Nigerian men on a YouTube video, Nigerian women were no where to be found to defend their men.
When Jamaican men were getting bashed, their women came in and defended them.
This continent of Africa is being attacked and targeted on all fronts. Nigerian men defend Nigerian women whenever anyone insults them, I can’t say Nigerian women do the same. This bad trend seems to be a problem in several African countries

aribs:

Apologies but I do not see where a dislike of interracial dating has been expressed here . Where has this been stated?

Phut:


I am a woman. I believe in speaking the truth. On NL, we see both men and women putting whites people on pedestals. Some men on here proclaim that they want to marry Oyibo/foreign women and that Oyibo’s are better than Nigeria. Women. Now most of these men live in Nigeria and haven’t had any dating experience with foreign women. There are more foreign men in Nigeria than foreign women.

I am not for interracial dating. Nigerians have to love, believe in and uphold themselves for us to get anywhere. Every one does it. If we fail to do same, we will remain perpetual losers. You can’t be playing checkers while everyone else is playing chess.

So what I am basically saying is as you are speaking out against what this woman did here, I hope you speak out too if a Nigerian man does something similar. Because what I see sometimes on NL is a double standard where men engage in certain behavior but want to castigate women for engaging in same behavior. That, I can never ride with. Gender warfare and blame game never gets a people anywhere.

Favor99:

I’m disappointed in you and most Nigerian women that put their men down. It’s obvious Nigerian women don’t have our back and throw us under the bus any opportunity. When other races where bashing Nigerian men on a YouTube video, Nigerian women were no where to be found to defend their men.
When Jamaican men were getting bashed, their women came in and defended them.
This continent of Africa is being attacked and targeted on all fronts. Nigerian men defend Nigerian women whenever anyone insults them, I can’t say Nigerian women do the same. This bad trend seems to be a problem in several African countries

Mindfulness:


You say?

I have never come across any other nation that bashes their women more than Nigerian men. Are you new to NL?

Favor99:

Yea there some Nigerian men that do bash Nigerian women. Too many Nigerian men on NL bash Nigerian women. But you will also find some that defend Nigerian women.
But it’s rare to find Nigerian women defending Nigerian men. They look at us as men they can milk money out of, and to have sex and have babies and that’s it. There level of self-hate is bad

Mindfulness:


Read your own post again. Some men defend Nigerian women. Some, not many. It's rare to find them. I would add.

Favor99:

Ok. Are you a guy or a woman?

Mindfulness:


Who cares?

Mindfulness:


She was not talking about her own preferences. She clearly stated she does not support interracial dating in general. Not that her support is needed but it sounds raecist.

Favor99:

Just curious, but it’s ok

aribs:

I totally disagree with you and I think the issue is you need to understand what racism is all about. There are a lot of people in this world who would agree or disagree with such sentiments but would not think another race is inferior to theirs. You should understand the difference between racism and personal preferences

Favor99:

I’m disappointed in you and most Nigerian women that put their men down. It’s obvious Nigerian women don’t have our back and throw us under the bus any opportunity. When other races where bashing Nigerian men on a YouTube video, Nigerian women were no where to be found to defend their men.
When Jamaican men were getting bashed, their women came in and defended them.
This continent of Africa is being attacked and targeted on all fronts. Nigerian men defend Nigerian women whenever anyone insults them, I can’t say Nigerian women do the same. This bad trend seems to be a problem in several African countries

Mindfulness:


All people who see a problem with interracial dating IN GENERAL are racist. I don't care how many there are. And again, she was not talking about her personal preference. She has the right to choose. It's good to have a choice. However, saying people should not date people of a different color than their own is racist and such people have exactly the same mindset as the people who enslaved Black people or supported apartheid.

Your definition of racism is very narrow. There are many manifestations of racism, more or less subtle. This is just one of them. Let's call a spade a spade. Abeg!

aribs:

The spade is being called a spade. I don't see any racism in expressing a preference one way or another. This is not a perfect example but as a nigerian you are aware some nigerian parents do express preferences as to who their kids should marry or relate with. For some, it's a question of being in a safe and familiar zone, for some , they may express some dislike for other tribes or races etc. You would consider the first example tribalistic even where the parents do not have an issue with the tribe but just believe there are advantages in homogeneity? It's a preference. Racism is an entirely different kettle of fish to these examples. I have lived in the US long enough to understand subtle racism and no I am not one of those who cry wolf where there is none . In this instance, I don't see any and yes blacks can be racist too

Mindfulness:


Parents wanting their children to marry from the same tribe for personal reasons, such as wanting to converse in their language or because of traditions, is totally different from parents saying that nobody should. You get the gist.

pocohantas:


I thought as much . Why?

Mindfulness:


Ok but you having a problem with interracial dating makes you a racist too. You have become the very same thing you are fighting.

aribs:

I totally disagree with you and I think the issue is you need to understand what racism is all about. [b]There are a lot of people in this world who would agree or disagree with such sentiments but would not think another race is inferior to theirs. [/b]You should understand the difference between racism and personal preferences