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Admin401:
Who cares? The average Nigerian woman is the way she is because of the average Nigerian man. If you check now, the girl is not even fine and she's broke. Sometimes i feel Iamjude was right in the way he treated them like non-humans.

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


Be innovative and unpredictable! [/b]

safarigirl:
anyway, I can't speak for others, but e dey hard me to go man house.

You can't really vouch for anyone, now, can you?

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


I can't even picture myself in any such scenario depicted in the screenshotted WhatsApp chat.
I go on unplanned dates in eateries- on-the-spot decisions to just go out with a Missy. The spontaneity is fun and both go out with open minds. At least, by then, both of you are already an item.


You guys are too predictable and sadly so. It's the foremost reason you cease being interesting to each other after meeting up for the first time.


Be innovative and unpredictable!

TSOM:
Yeah... Really odd coming from you Lalanice- a gyno-humanoid with the creative ability of a stone, the rationality of a crazed bat and the articulation of a Cerebral Palsy patient.


Try changing the smelly wig you've had on for four years. Lalanice? More like Lala-LICE.

ImaIma1:
The women you have met because i am sure you have not dated more than 100 women out of Nigeria not to talk of the whole planet.

What would you then say about men never apologizing when they wrong. They would rather create a lot of drama and false allegations of insults to escape apologizing.

But we are not talking about men here. Are we?

I, for one apologize when i am wrong even to children and younger ones.

CAPSLOCKED:

YOU KNOW.. THIS IS HOW EVERY WOMAN SOUND.

CAPSLOCKED:

YOU KNOW.. THIS IS HOW EVERY WOMAN SOUND.

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


I can't even picture myself in any such scenario depicted in the screenshotted WhatsApp chat.
I go on unplanned dates in eateries- on-the-spot decisions to just go out with a Missy. The spontaneity is fun and both go out with open minds. At least, by then, both of you are already an item.


You guys are too predictable and sadly so. It's the foremost reason you cease being interesting to each other after meeting up for the first time.


Be innovative and unpredictable!

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


I can't even picture myself in any such scenario depicted in the screenshotted WhatsApp chat.
I go on unplanned dates in eateries- on-the-spot decisions to just go out with a Missy. The spontaneity is fun and both go out with open minds. At least, by then, both of you are already an item.


You guys are too predictable and sadly so. It's the foremost reason you cease being interesting to each other after meeting up for the first time.


Be innovative and unpredictable!

ImaIma1:
The women you have met because i am sure you have not dated more than 100 women out of Nigeria not to talk of the whole planet.

What would you then say about men never apologizing when they wrong. They would rather create a lot of drama and false allegations of insults to escape apologizing.

But we are not talking about men here. Are we?

I, for one apologize when i am wrong even to children and younger ones.

TSOM:
If she's broke and petty, avoid her.

No matter how intelligent or pretty she might seem, if she's the afore-described female, she'd be a shameless leech.


I find it odd that people still go on traditional first-time 'dates' in restaurants and other such places to eat and talk over food.

Come on, guys, can't you be more creative? She's gone on a gazillion dates in such places. There'd be nothing special about both of you meeting, even if you are a good conversationalist.

Well, maybe it's because these guys go on 'dates' with random girls they just met.

How about meeting a girl on or offline, establishing contact and see if both of you get to hit if off- your masculine charm, looks and articulation could come into play.

If that works, she'd be more comfortable meeting up with you in secluded places, your apartment even.

Prepare a dinner or see a movie with the go-alongs of a movie theater (snacks, drinks, dimmed lights...) and more but in your apartment or hers.

You get privacy (which isn't necessarily about tumbling beneath the sheets but if it happens, go for it, brother) and get to know each other more. I mean, that's the essence of going on dates.


I can't even picture myself in any such scenario depicted in the screenshotted WhatsApp chat.
I go on unplanned dates in eateries- on-the-spot decisions to just go out with a Missy. The spontaneity is fun and both go out with open minds. At least, by then, both of you are already an item.


You guys are too predictable and sadly so. It's the foremost reason you cease being interesting to each other after meeting up for the first time.


Be innovative and unpredictable!

MissRaine69:
With that comment
You just went from Premier League to Championship in my eyes.

derrydinny:
mr man,wake up to reality, nigerian girls don't give a damn about romantic things, they are more concerned about material things, most are dating men for money and not love, watching a movie in her house? be like sey this guy never go naija babe house

Most? Maybe. All? Certainly not.

Even the heavens would curse me if I tell that much of a lie 'cause I've had such good natured, comparatively content females who just want love and romance and all of the possibilities we can be having each other's back.


That the only females you meet and date are primarily interested in leeching financially is mostly your fault.

You chose such women for yourself, not me.

Don't project your failings in the quest for healthy, romantic relationships on everyone else.

DonroxyII:
Sincerely speaking, I always love my first date in a restaurant, it give me the opportunity to assess the girl's manners, level of intelligence and smartness ..... In there , our conversation give me insight into who I am dealing with.... If she excel in such environment, next could be a movie (I think a movie is getting intimate) .... Why should I go to movie with someone I hardly know but mere online/Offline acquaintances ........
After restaurants for two dates, Na apartment if she worth my time oooo ..... Time Na ego .... Then we can talk cinemas as friend !

Everybody with their stunts sha , my own Na restaurant for the first date o!

I hate eating out.


I'd rather munch on snacks and drinks than eat 'real' food outside. The only exception is if I am too busy for days to cook. Still, rice, at the very least, is quicker to prepare than most meals so being busy isn't exactly an excuse.

I'm a sucker for well-prepared homemade meals. I always have been since childhood and the females in my life at different points have come to accept and understand that.

I'd state it from the onset. I don't even eat at parties and get-togethers.

And, no, I don't go out with random girls. She has to be my friend first before we progress to dating.

boiz2men:
Because I respect your judgement

Tell that babe to meet me on the other side....


Say nice things so she could oblige... You know I'm a lovely guy na

tiffanyfan:
Yeah we all know you are a lovely guy, can't love you less

boiz2men:
Lol... Wahala dey ooo