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Should i tell her the truth?

Lets discuss

That relationship isn't healthy .

IamAirforce1:
That relationship isn't healthy .

She meant b4 i met her....our relationship is a week old

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Gaspardd:
Should i tell her the truth?

nLets discuss

Discuss what? The number of times you've had sex?

Do u know how many?
Take this from experience, lie and tell her u slept with a few like 8 or 9, then ask her how many guys has she slept with
If u mistakenly tell her u slept with 50 or more, broda u have given a blank cheque to that LovePeddler

Don't. She'll judge you if the number is too high & when the number is too low, she'll think you're lying. If you must, simply tell her that right now (with her) is the only moment that counts.
It's very weird when people ask questions like that. They never go quite as planned & always raise unnecessary insecurities or other follow up questions, which lead to tiring, circular arguments.

Soon, she will ask you to introduce her to them.
Just feign irritation at the question or sweet-talk her out of asking such

Tell her. You ve slept with them already, nothing changes the numbers. Honesty in stuff like this is always vital

you either tell her the truth or keep quiet. Why will you lie in the first place?

Gaspardd:
Should i tell her the truth?
Lets discuss

Dude! you never ever tell them the Body count.

I thought guys are proud of their body count.
Answer her, tell her a key that opens so many doors is a master key.
You're a man, wear your bodycount with pride. Na only babes dey simplify and divide .

On a serious note, look her in the eye and ask her, "do you really want to know?". If she says yes, tell her you've lost count , but you can only remember those who stood out .

XhosaNostra:
Don't. She'll judge you if the number is too high & when the number is too low, she'll think you're lying. If you must, simply tell her that right now (with her) is the only moment that counts.
It's very weird when people ask questions like that. They never go quite as planned & always raise unnecessary insecurities or other follow up questions, which lead to tiring, circular arguments.

Since our relarionship is new, we based our relationship on HONESTY and TRUST...meaning as long as she trusts me and on my part im always honest with her, then our relationship will be on d right part.

Now shes askin me some questions, now i can tell her d truth and im sure that will definitely shock her, so that will be a bìtch move. But then i just want to say fúck it and let the chips fall where it may just for d fun of it.

pocohantas:
I thought guys are proud of their body count

Answer her, tell her a key that opens so many doors is a master key.
You're a man, wear your bodycount with pride. Na only babes dey simplify and divide

Well for me its not sth i brag about, its just a challenge that me and one stupid guy did sometimes in d past.

I cant tell her d truth, cus then if i did she will never trust me again...not that it bothers me but i just dont want to ruffle things.

Gaspardd:
Since our relarionship is new, we based our relationship on HONESTY and TRUST...meaning as long as she trusts me and on my part im always honest with her, then our relationship will be on d right part.

Now shes askin me some questions, now i can tell her d truth and im sure that will definitely shock her, so that will be a bìtch move. But then i just want to say fúck it and let the chips fall where it may just for d fun of it.

Lol, do what you feel is right for your relationship then.

But do know that with some women, the goalposts are always shifting. IDK if it's just me, but no number is ever decent enough. Even if a guy slept with less people than I've been with, at the back of my mind I'll still think he's a disgusting man-whòre, not worth to put my guard down for

But I do understand where you're coming from though. All the best with that.

donstan18:
Discuss what? The number of times you've had sex?

Its hard having an urbane discussion here without throwing jabs tho, but that aside i just like listening to diff opinions from pple.

In this case, shld i tell her the truth and shock her, or i shld just lie about it and take it to my grave while i break our relationship code.

I really like this girl and im open to where ever it leads.

pocohantas:
On a serious note, look her in the eye and ask her, "do you really want to know?". If she says yes, tell her you've lost count , but you can only remember those who stood out .

Gotten my answer. Guess i will use this line.

Hush...now i can slp in peace.

it is up to you, if you love her tell her,but if otherwise forget it

Ehhn!!tell her na

Gaspardd:
Gotten my answer. Guess i will use this line.

Hush...now i can slp in peace.

She is reading this with me on Nairaland right now :p
That line is not gonna work again

don't tell her.cos if u do,it's gonna go a long way in defining the level of trust u both gonna have for each other.


best thing is,tell her that ur body count or her's is immaterial. wat matters is the building n nurturing of the new relationship.

sainty2k3:
She is reading this with me on Nairaland right now :p
That line is not gonna work again

You re prolly the fat guy i stole her from. Amarite?

Gaspardd:
You re prolly the fat guy i stole her from. Amarite?

Don't bother about my size. You should start thinking about what I am doing to her right now . yummy yummy

pocohantas:
I thought guys are proud of their body count.
Answer her, tell her a key that opens so many doors is a master key.
You're a man, wear your bodycount with pride. Na only babes dey simplify and divide .

On a serious note, look her in the eye and ask her, "do you really want to know?". If she says yes, tell her you've lost count , but you can only remember those who stood out .

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Tell her na as long as she tells you her own bodycount.

ask her to tell hers first then multiply it by 3

I don't know why truth is hard for you guys

I see nothing wrong in the question

No question is too silly, imature or sensitive when going into a relationship and about to give your all.

So when asked a simple fvcking question, just answer the damn question!!!

The normal answer to this kind of question is....”2 or 3”.

XhosaNostra:
Don't. She'll judge you if the number is too high & when the number is too low, she'll think you're lying. If you must, simply tell her that right now (with her) is the only moment that counts.
It's very weird when people ask questions like that. They never go quite as planned & always raise unnecessary insecurities or other follow up questions, which lead to tiring, circular arguments.

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FrostyButter:
I don't know why truth is hard for you guys

I see nothing wrong in the question

No question is too silly, imature or sensitive when going into a relationship and about to give your all.

So when asked a simple fvcking question, just answer the damn question!!!

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Not when u re few digits from hitting 3 figures breh.

boss1310:
ask her to tell hers first then multiply it by 3

Ofcourse she did, and shes had only 2 bfs in her life, well thats not entirely conclusive but then. 2 * 3 = 6

Is that cool?