Brokenness is affecting me

The money I make is not enough for me

I want more

Missyford31:

i pray to god things improve for you.

amen , thanks

The person I call my male friend insults me for just no reason by calling a bad girl,I talked to him in a way he didn't imagine yesterday,since then no call from him and I won't call him either. Bu am really annoyed

Igbokiller:
I said I have demands that require quick money and I gamble to get quick money just to satisfy those pressing demands. But things don't work out like that. I find myself gambling to pay debts already incurred through gambling.i also use my salary to pay off debts. It's a rotational thing that goes on and on and on. I want to break out and settle down to what I have but.......

According to u gamble to get quick money to satisfy pressing demands but is obvious u piling more debt .so first main Thing u need to do is to cure yr gambling addiction .ls nt easy tough but u can do it if u put yr mind to it

Igbokiller:
I said I have demands that require quick money and I gamble to get quick money just to satisfy those pressing demands. But things don't work out like that. I find myself gambling to pay debts already incurred through gambling.i also use my salary to pay off debts. It's a rotational thing that goes on and on and on. I want to break out and settle down to what I have but.......

from ur write up u gamble to get quick money to satisfy pressing demands but is obvious u r piling more debt .so first main thing u need to do is to cure yr gambling addiction .ls nt easy tough but u can do it if u put yr mind to it

Homeboiy:
Brokenness is affecting me


The money I make is not enough for me


I want more

Nobody makes money dat is enough for him or her .sew yr clothes according to yr size

Wilson125:
Okay i jst think i cnt get a relationship, dunno if its ma end.. dunno what d problem.. it doesn’t jst wrk 4 me... i yam not understanding..

check yr habit n manner of approach.Maybe there r things u do dat scare dem away.R u working?

jonath0012:
I need a job. I have walked around the streets of Lagos in search for one, but to know avail.

This is the only challenge that makes me think everyday. I am going close to 40 with Msc in physics, and yet I find it hard to cater for myself.

But I won't give up as long as I still breathe

v u tried doing business? In course of doing dat ( business) anything can come along in for yr educational qualifications

jonath0012:
I need a job. I have walked around the streets of Lagos in search for one, but to know avail.

This is the only challenge that makes me think everyday. I am going close to 40 with Msc in physics, and yet I find it hard to cater for myself.

But I won't give up as long as I still breathe

v u tried doing business? In course of doing dat ( business) anything can come in for yr educational qualifications

youngreezy:
I was diagnosed with typhoid and ulcer and was sick for a very long time and got so afraid cause I haven't been sick that long.it affected me seriously and I got a kinda wizz movements in my head cause if too much thinking and am really depressed I really need counseling please

I don't think u should b depressed over typhoid n ulcer because dey v cure.Go to a gud hospital n follow what dey tell you.personally our Borehole water is number one culprit of typhoid fever.As for ulcer always try n eat early

lala45:
The person I call my male friend insults me for just no reason by calling a bad girl,I talked to him in a way he didn't imagine yesterday,since then no call from him and I won't call him either. Bu am really annoyed

It is a misunderstanding, let it pass , saying sorry does not hurt .
It doesn't kill too , it is always about our ego... You don't have to be wrong to say sorry, you just do it....
Who is better ?
The offended or they that apologies...
Save a friendship today with three words...''I am sorry''

middlebeltboy:
presently working in one leading financial company. working hard to keep the status quo as the best staff always is depressing me

Do your job and be happy. You don't have to be the best by getting all worked up. All the best

youngreezy:
I was diagnosed with typhoid and ulcer and was sick for a very long time and got so afraid cause I haven't been sick that long.it affected me seriously and I got a kinda wizz movements in my head cause if too much thinking and am really depressed I really need counseling please

Drop your digit let me give you a call

99 percent of our problems is money-related joor

Oyindidi:
Do your job and be happy. You don't have to be the best by getting all worked up. All the best

thanks dear

kelish:
My family is going through a relly rough time which is relly affecting me mentally, me not being able to provide as first child is killing me. In conculsion, i need a job. Please sumbody should ask me what i can do.

This is exactly what am passing through... Am losing respect from my younger ones..... Help me

OMG!
reading ur comments makes me feel i dnt hav a problem because my problem is Nigeria.
i want out of this country fast

engrelvis:
from ur write up u gamble to get quick money to satisfy pressing demands but is obvious u r piling more debt .so first main thing u need to do is to cure yr gambling addiction .ls nt easy tough but u can do it if u put yr mind to it

finally. Someone who can read between lines. But tell me how does dropping gambling solves these pressing demands

I wish I knew a way to get rid of my Nasal Polyps. I wish there was a way for me to breathe again with my nose like a human being.

The most basic thing in life (Air) I can't even get it. No wonder I'm so miserable.

Some say there's hope as long as I'm still breathing but I literally cAnnot breathe.

thanki410:
Do not let your challenges eat you up , share them and let others encourage you .
A word from someone could be all you need to keep going..
For me , i feel really sad seeing that i am not yet in school , i am quite intelligent and wish to improve...
The problem is , i had to push my [two] siblings in school . First and last born and they are doing well alongside their small hustle. My dad
is late so the burden lies on my mum and I . No family cares , they just dont...
I feel drained most time and it saddens me....

#Hope

Funny, your story is exactly like mine... I tried NOUN twice... I quit due to the burden. no family give a damn, pop died since I was 7

Offpoint:

Funny, your story is exactly like mine... I tried NOUN twice... I quit due to the burden. no family give a damn, pop died since I was 7

let's keep hope alive , God is our strength.....
Wrk and pray....

Emmanuel1903:
i want you to know that going to higher institution does not guarantee your success in life. now what is the essence of struggling to go to school spending a lot of money and after graduating you will still have to settle for peanut jobs?instead acquire a skill that pays and hustle to get cash to turn it into business. if u can do this u will even be the one to employe your friends that went to school.

I'm in the same shoe with the op, it's not easy sir... watching all your friends graduate you get that bad feeling, that hopeless feelings. my tight friend we attended same Primary school and SS was called to bar this year... I was so stigmatize, I wept inwardly. that feeling is always there when you hear people talking about school. it's not really easy.

Admin401:
I wish I knew a way to get rid of my Nasal Polyps. I wish there was a way for me to breathe again with my nose like a human being.

The most basic thing in life (Air) I can't even get it. No wonder I'm so miserable.

Some say there's hope as long as I'm still breathing but I literally cAnnot breathe.

i don't even know what to say .......
hope, keep it alive

thanki410:
let's keep hope alive , God is our strength..... Wrk and pray....

Amen

This is just the thread I needed... A friend of mine committed suicide on Tuesday. The young man lived in Texas, a registered nurse... He's been quite depressed for some months and he was fighting gallantly.. I couldn't believe it when I heard it, his baby just turned one!! Depression sucks big time..

Offpoint:

Funny, your story is exactly like mine... I tried NOUN twice... I quit due to the burden. no family give a damn, pop died since I was 7

Family is overrated bro.. your nuclear family is the only family that matters, I have realized that others don't.. as they are under no obligation to help you.. I'm just doing my thing and praying for a better tomorrow!!

Offpoint:

I'm in the same shoe with the op, it's not easy sir... watching all your friends graduate you get that bad feeling, that hopeless feelings. my tight friend we attended same Primary school and SS was called to bar this year... I was so stigmatize, I wept inwardly. that feeling is always there when you hear people talking about school. it's not really easy.

my dear brother see am still telling you the reality... going to school does not guarantee your success in life...
in-fact not in a country like this where academic excellence is not celebrated...
we that we don graduate how much dey account?
learn how to make and keep money...
Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune. --Jim Rohn
formal education will only teach you how to survive by working for others ....
but self-education will teach you how to create business, and how to accumulate wealth.....
look..
if it is agriculture you like or technology or any craft work that you have interest in, look for a better place to acquire the skills..
if it is to pay some cash pay.. if you dont have the cash borrow just make sure you acquire the skills...
make sure you learn a lot of things about it....
then take part of the money you want to spend on going to higher institution to establish a business in line with the skill you just acquired...
start the business, when you first start it will be tough you may fail at first and people may make jest of you and mock you for your failure ignore them, just keep on learning from your mistakes and failures and i tell you after some times.. u will be a master in whatever you are doing and with the funds you have your business will be growing rapidly and by the time your friends graduate they will be carrying their certificate up and down looking for jobs that is not available while you are making big money..
and you may even end up employing them
A man's real education begins after he has left school. True education is gained through the discipline of life.
Henry Ford
A man who cannot think is not an educated man however many college degrees he may have acquired.
Henry Ford

Emmanuel1903:

my dear brother see am still telling you the reality... going to school does not guarantee your success in life...
in-fact not in a country like this where academic excellence is not celebrated...
we that we don graduate how much dey account?
learn how to make and keep money...
Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune. --Jim Rohn
formal education will only teach you how to survive by working for others ....
but self-education will teach you how to create business, and how to accumulate wealth.....
look..
if it is agriculture you like or technology or any craft work that you have interest in, look for a better place to acquire the skills..
if it is to pay some cash pay.. if you dont have the cash borrow just make sure you acquire the skills...
make sure you learn a lot of things about it....
then take part of the money you want to spend on going to higher institution to establish a business in line with the skill you just acquired...
start the business, when you first start it will be tough you may fail at first and people may make jest of you and mock you for your failure ignore them, just keep on learning from your mistakes and failures and i tell you after some times.. u will be a master in whatever you are doing and with the funds you have your business will be growing rapidly and by the time your friends graduate they will be carrying their certificate up and down looking for jobs that is not available while you are making big money..
and you may even end up employing them
A man's real education begins after he has left school. True education is gained through the discipline of life.
Henry Ford
A man who cannot think is not an educated man however many college degrees he may have acquired.
Henry Ford

I really appreciate your piece of encouragement, thanks a lot.

I love ICT, I've acquired some skills in ICT and still learning some. there areas in it still want to further, the money isn't really there cuz the little money I see goes to my younger ones and this sometimes kind of frustrates me. I'm not geting younger, at 25 I don't have a single savings due to burdens... each time I looked at my age this thought of "when will I ever start schooling and this age when will I graduate? this sometimes could be very devastating for me mentally and emotionally.

but thanks for your words of encouragement.

Arondizuogu:


Family is overrated bro.. your nuclear family is the only family that matters, I have realized that others don't.. as they are under no obligation to help you.. I'm just doing my thing and praying for a better tomorrow!!

I've long forgotten them, I'll focus more on a better tomorrow.

People look up to me and see a happy and comfortable guy with a young family. But deep down am far from happy it’s all a smokescreen.I am hurt and sad but need to keep up the pretense for other people to be happy.

Dunno if I will slip into depression soon or later. I hope not though.

thanki410:
hi , think not .... You will be well .... How are you?

grt

Oyindidi:
Drop your digit let me give you a call

07014170407