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Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by ABbless(m): 12:47pm On Jul 29, 2018
MissRaine69:
Much appreciated.
MissRaine69 I'm heavily crushing in you, crazy about you.. How can we be friends? Please How can I get to talk to you from time? I promise you this is not me being flirty, I just cant hold it back anymore.. What If I dropped my number here? Pls reply, plssssss
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Martinez19(m): 12:51pm On Jul 29, 2018
MissRaine69:
If circumstances are affecting your mood, you are not clinically depressed you are low in mood.
Depression is when regardless of nothing wrong going on in your life you cannot find the drive, the enjoyment or the will power to see the day begining. You are not happy and you don’t know why. You actually start to think your absence won’t be missed and your presence on this earth serves no purpose.

If I was to say give you are job, give you money change whatever pressing matter that is weighing on your mind would your mood improve? If the answer is yes then what we face are external factors impacting on our mood. Not depression.

We all have different ways we cope with stressful situations some people cope a lot better than others, some don’t cope at all. Our society is very unkind and lacks empathy to those who from time to time have moments of doubt, feel overwhelmed or seek some sort of reprieve or an escape.

The constant advice to turn to religion does not always help. You are as low as you will ever get, lower than the ground you need to ask yourself are my own expectations too high that I cannot even see the little progress that I have made?
You need to move from thinking with an emotional mind as that makes us catastrophise a lot and think mindfully.

Nothing in life is given to you. Even rich people have to keep earning to stay rich.
Nice one.
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by youngreezy(m): 1:42pm On Jul 29, 2018
Oyindidi:
Drop your digit let me give you a call
thanks a lit ma.although I didn't hear the last part clearly you can drop the comments here
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Oyindidi(f): 1:44pm On Jul 29, 2018
youngreezy:
thanks a lit ma.although I didn't hear the last part clearly you can drop the comments here
Your Glo network won't let megrin I'll call you again
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 8:02pm On Jul 29, 2018
Arondizuogu:
This is just the thread I needed... A friend of mine committed suicide on Tuesday. The young man lived in Texas, a registered nurse... He's been quite depressed for some months and he was fighting gallantly.. I couldn't believe it when I heard it, his baby just turned one!! Depression sucks big time..
it truly sucks .....
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 8:10pm On Jul 29, 2018
Kearl:
People look up to me and see a happy and comfortable guy with a young family. But deep down am far from happy it’s all a smokescreen.I am hurt and sad but need to keep up the pretense for other people to be happy.

Dunno if I will slip into depression soon or later. I hope not though.
the truth?
Stop to live in the Smoke screen, a person who doesn't like your life shld go....
Live happily, boss, that is the most important o....
Leave people alone and their expectations....
I love ur happiness sir....
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 8:12pm On Jul 29, 2018
Oyindidi:
Your Glo network won't let megrin I'll call you again
thank you for this...
You don't know what a call can do in a person's life....
God bless u ma....
Key reason for this thread , thanks for establishing That...
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Oyindidi(f): 8:14pm On Jul 29, 2018
thanki410:
thank you for this...
You don't know what a call can do in a person's life....
God bless u ma....
Key reason for this thread , thanks for establishing That...
You're welcome dear
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by aureen: 8:16pm On Jul 29, 2018
Reality.

Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by MissRaine69(f): 8:28pm On Jul 29, 2018
ABbless:
MissRaine69 I'm heavily crushing in you, crazy about you.. How can we be friends? Please How can I get to talk to you from time? I promise you this is not me being flirty, I just cant hold it back anymore.. What If I dropped my number here? Pls reply, plssssss
Why did you think this was a good idea? huh
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by hayzed1090: 8:45pm On Jul 29, 2018
Fyi0:
What exact better way to market it?


Well I thought also that same thing you are thinking until I ventured into this business, that's when I realized the damage scammers have done on the average Nigerian. People find it hard to believe these things......

But it is legit, I have gotten patronage even from nairaland.
The data is not hacked.... I buy wholesale from these networks at a reduced price and also sell at a reduced price.
How do you sell
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jul 29, 2018
My love life is really shit because i am never stable.i keep moving from country to country because of my kind of business.
I am ok when it comes to money but would do better with a pretty,smart,kind,working class lady that could put up with a guy that travels all the time.
If you are a gold digger,please keep off cause i will smell you from a mile away!!
Im in PHC btw
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Narrelopps: 9:26pm On Jul 29, 2018
Performing badly at my academics,lost so much to gambling,have no friends,broke,Sometimes I wonder if God hates me. Just tired with life in general.
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by kelish(f): 9:48pm On Jul 29, 2018
djpaparazzi:
This is exactly what am passing through... Am losing respect from my younger ones..... Help me
God will make a way for us
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by ABbless(m): 7:07am On Jul 30, 2018
MissRaine69:
Why did you think this was a good idea? huh
Its not a good idea, I agree but I couldn't find one better, and given the circumstances, (no email add., no other social media handle on your profile) it was the only. Forgive my lack of creativity but I really need to know you. Please....
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 7:24am On Jul 30, 2018
Narrelopps:
Performing badly at my academics,lost so much to gambling,have no friends,broke,Sometimes I wonder if God hates me. Just tired with life in general.
God doesn't hate you...
Just work towards your imperfections and forget about your old friends that left you...
Live clean, new ones would come ......
Friends help you in times of crisis , if these ones never did, then they never were true friends.
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Uglymugg: 8:15am On Jul 30, 2018
thanki410:
God doesn't hate you...
Just work towards your imperfections and forget about your old friends that left you...
Live clean, new ones would come ......
Friends help you in times of crisis , if these ones never did, then they never were true friends.
Nice website bro undecided
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 8:24am On Jul 30, 2018
Uglymugg:
Nice website bro undecided
thanks boss.....
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by twentyk(m): 12:07pm On Jul 30, 2018
This is one of the best thread I have come across and I want to say a MIGHTY thank you to the op...all the good people who puts in nice words and for all our brothers whose battling one thing or the other I wish and hope you guys see a positive turnaround in your life and endeavors.... To the guy selling data I got you man and I'd patronize you henceforth, the guy who can't breathe well I pray you okay... The oga wey wan marry I pray you find someone compatible(boss Im looking for work oo just in case..)the oga wey day gamble I can't advise you Cuz me sef no holy but I pray you win more than you lose, our masturbating brothers well I'd say you should get busy and try not to be alone often... To my oga looking for work,well I hope and pray you find something and your status elevated,same with the sister whose loosing respect,my sister you won't lose respect in Jesus name....... Hen hen oga way day find missrainey,kilode wetin happen(i can only give you her number if you will marry her) anyway you are blessed ...me self God bless me and I know I'm gonna be successful... I will shout out this thread when I shoot my music video....im so confident... I'm so positive and I want you to be too....

I'm not much of a prayer person in fact I rarely pray but I wish I could change so many things here so I'm gonna pray for every one on this thread when I wake up tomorrow morning.... And we should all strive to be positive always.... What you think will happen would eventually happen... That's my motto....

Good day every body....
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 2:21pm On Jul 30, 2018
twentyk:
This is one of the best thread I have come across and I want to say a MIGHTY thank you to the op...all the good people who puts in nice words and for all our brothers whose battling one thing or the other I wish and hope you guys see a positive turnaround in your life and endeavors.... To the guy selling data I got you man and I'd patronize you henceforth, the guy who can't breathe well I pray you okay... The oga wey wan marry I pray you find someone compatible(boss Im looking for work oo just in case..)the oga wey day gamble I can't advise you Cuz me sef no holy but I pray you win more than you lose, our masturbating brothers well I'd say you should get busy and try not to be alone often... To my oga looking for work,well I hope and pray you find something and your status elevated,same with the sister whose loosing respect,my sister you won't lose respect in Jesus name....... Hen hen oga way day find missrainey,kilode wetin happen(i can only give you her number if you will marry her) anyway you are blessed ...me self God bless me and I know I'm gonna be successful... I will shout out this thread when I shoot my music video....im so confident... I'm so positive and I want you to be too....

I'm not much of a prayer person in fact I rarely pray but I wish I could change so many things here so I'm gonna pray for every one on this thread when I wake up tomorrow morning.... And we should all strive to be positive always.... What you think will happen would eventually happen... That's my motto....

Good day every body....
Nice one,
let's keep praying.. And drop testimonies in the future...
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Oyindidi(f): 3:28pm On Jul 30, 2018
Narrelopps:
Performing badly at my academics,lost so much to gambling,have no friends,broke,Sometimes I wonder if God hates me. Just tired with life in general.
Stop gambling, this will solve the broke part. Study and don't miss classes. Get close few persons in your class. All the best
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by djpaparazzi(f): 8:02pm On Jul 30, 2018
kelish:
God will make a way for us
Amen
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Peacefullove: 5:05pm On Jul 31, 2018
This is a very great thread , I will suggest a Watsapp Platform strictly for this can also make good sense ,

What do you all think ?

Honestly, many people need comfort

Cc: thanki410 , Oyindidi , twentyk
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by thanki410(op): 5:54pm On Jul 31, 2018
Peacefullove:
This is a very great thread , I will suggest a Watsapp Platform strictly for this can also make good sense ,

What do you all think ?

Honestly, many people need comfort

Cc: thanki410 , Oyindidi , twentyk
it shld be nice , just let's see how many people from here supports such notion....
N.B --- with a like
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jul 31, 2018
Kearl:
People look up to me and see a happy and comfortable guy with a young family. But deep down am far from happy it’s all a smokescreen.I am hurt and sad but need to keep up the pretense for other people to be happy.

Dunno if I will slip into depression soon or later. I hope not though.
Why are U sad?
Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jul 31, 2018
Igbokiller:
Gambling is currently killing me. I earn good money monthly to live comfortably and enviably but the debts that Bet9ja keeps putting me is killing me. I want to stop but there are so many expectations on me right now which can't wait till long term tho my legit earnings can solve long term


God help me
# Bolded has been systematically sending a reasonable percentage of youth to ruination.
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