Wetin person no go hear these days?

But she can kneel to take from behind?

What is wrong with the children of nowadays?,they lack respect and she even had the guts to post this...senseless bitch!

Provided there's an understanding between the husband and the wife, every other thing is secondary.
Who tradition epp?

Disgusting

If you are trying to be Western, don't do traditional marriage then.

But this fool will kneel before a pastor or an Imam. Wonder why new gen marriages don't last?

They are both cool with it, that's all that matters.

The problem is her coming out to loud it, seems like she'll be a stubborn individual. Anyway, I can see alphas are angry .

dingbang:
The devil doesn't like the marriage institution so he uses modernity to destroy it.

Insightful!

DeSepiero:
She felt the need to still make it public a second time. Which man married this girl?

It’s very obvious the marriage will not last.

But a man will still kneel down to propose to a girl he is not even sure he is going to marry.

wayne4loan:
The husband is not an alpha male

Exactly, he is one of those that will do anything just to enter there.

As long as tradition demands that you kneel, omo you must ooo.
If you want to form feminism just go and marry yourself

If you know you're not going to do that simple thing, just forget about it.

Hope d groom men were not asked to dobale* for her parents.

Olalan:
The husband is simply a sissy.........what has an age long tradition signifying respect to the husband on that day got to do with what will happen in the union.
BTW I guess she goes on her knees in the other room to please him...........

You peeps are funny. Someone that feels too big to kneel on her wedding day would kneel to blow him?

Smh. Does kneeling down reduces one's wealth, respect or whatever? Civilization though.

She shouldn't have done traditional marriage altogether because personally, I'm against this expensive marriage mentality of Nigerians. Why will couple spend all their life savings on a 2 days wedding (at most) and struggle financially through the marriage.

The worth of a wedding does not in any way determine the worth of the marriage.

If you doubt, ask the Warri billionaire, Brymo or whatever

Hedonini:


You peeps are funny. Someone that feels too big to kneel on her wedding day would kneel to blow him?

Food for thought...

IamHeWrites:
A Nigerian woman based in Toronto has told of how she challenged cultural norms by choosing not to kneel down for her husband during her traditional marriage, and that Nigerian men are mad about it.

The gorgeous Yoruba bride said she and her husband spoke to the coordinators (Alagas) ahead of the wedding and asked that they do not ask her to kneel for her husband. The wedding day came and it was the way the bride and groom wanted it. There was no mention of submission and she didn't have to kneel.

She said her sister also took a stand at her own wedding which took place earlier this week.

After she shared her story, some women who did the same thing came to share theirs. A few Nigerian men applauded her for challenging the status quo. But the majority of Nigerian men were angry and called her out. Some even insulted her husband for supporting her.

See reactions below;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9559/lady-shares-how-she-avoided-kneeling-for-husband-during-traditional-marriage.html

see her WIDE MOUTH!

This one must be kneeling every night and probably knelt for many sessions before Mr. Husband's turn!

#iStandWithBuhari #BuhariTill2023

I know the woman must be a yoruba, no atom of respect from that side in terms of marriage. Quote me if u like i don't care, the truth must be told.

all these noise you people are making, nobody has asked if she married a man or a fellow woman sef.

YorubaAssasin:
Foolish couple!

All in the name of westernization... na dat westernization go kee both of una.

amen .... u dey mind those hypocrites, I doubt if the marriage will last sef

Life is about perspective; there av been ladies who kneel at weddings and yet become rogues in marriage while there are some who broke such traditions and so much love their husband to submission. Whatever rocks your boat.

Its all about tradition. Kneeling down will not make your marriage work.

Your people will rather go for the white wedding, a white man's culture. Tueh!!!

wayne4loan:
The husband is not an alpha male

udemzyudex:


Exactly, he is one of those that will do anything just to enter there.

As long as tradition demands that you kneel, omo you must ooo.
If you want to form feminism just go and marry yourself

If you know you're not going to do that simple thing, just forget about it.

Why are people making hasty conclusion?

what if the man too actually share the same opinion with the woman rather than him being influenced? what if he's even the one that influenced the woman and not the other way around? Not all men respect traditional protocols to things

So will it be okay if the guy doesn't have to lie down flat to prostrate infront of her dad. .
But shed forget tradition when her daughter in law doesnt bow to her. All these stupid feminists and double standard victim mentality.

No be KC wife be this?

Settled,I'm not kneeling while proposing

Preshy561:
lol.

NL guys are pained.

aunty its all about culture, what's the essence of paying bride price if you can't submit to your husband, according to the Yoruba tribe such marriage can't last.... even in the weatern world( whom she's trying to copy) their marriage rarely last ....... so wtf?

I'm not kneeling while proposing

Not kneeling down is now an achievement? Africans always look down on their tradition while the west always hold fast to theirs and even force them on Africans

They can't kneel down just for marriage rites....but they can kneel down and give their boyfriend bj

LMAO... Some people are mad in this country

jejemanito:
She will still kneel down in the night.

Lols.

The only person I pity is the husband, few months u no go let person hear word for here.

On a side note what is really wrong with Africans and slave mentality?

As fela rightfully called it Kolo mentality. Who are you as an African, what are your cultures, where are your roots?
Drop the neo -colonial mindset and free yourself from mental bondage and the sub conscious feeling of inadequacy and always looking for European validation.