N.B- not minding the use of ``HIM`` as a gender , this article is for both genders and forgive any seen typo error

1. HIS SET STANDARDS ARE WAY TOO HIGH AND NUMEROUS : Having a high standard is not AN issue , not lower and sacrificing some things because of the SET standard can be an issue…
Some times he might tell you about ONE OF HIS NUMEROUS STANDARDS , and he would polish it so well THAT it would seem like he is only managing you. As much as you try to grow to learn and understand his standards , he seem to always add more standards to the ones you already know and trying to adapt to .
Sometimes , He forgets to keep to some of his own standards but will rush to nag at your own little failures at how this and this is his standard and he would not drop low for you … The truth is , as much as set standards (as said before) are good , if they take a center stage in a relationship , there would be so much struggle to stay together and issues that are not worth it…

2. HE IS ALWAYS PERFECT : He is perfect at all things and you (his sweetie) Are always wrong…
Nothing you do seem right and even when you choose to stop doing the things you do to avoid blames , you are still wrong … He complains about how you sleep , how you cook , how people call you , how you do this and that …
As much as you are patient ( even before marriage) , you might soon get fed-up with him or her… Criticism should be done with sensible reason(s) and not just making himself a god-like figure and you , the devil…
Funny enough , some people cheat and then blame their spouse for their mistakes and it makes one wonder as to how perfect they see themselves. If you find yourself in a relationship like this , the perfectionist always wins, the perfect guy always have many reasons to prove that you are wrong and he is right … It`s a clear sign that it might hit the rock any time..As much as you are positive about the future for you are him , let it be in your mind that he would remain difficult , He is ever Perfect.
3. HE CHANGES HIS CHARACTER EVERY TIME : Does he have a multi-character personality? In the morning, he is happy at night , he is sad . His character cannot be picked … You cannot really understand him for one day… His character manipulates you sometimes …
He comes to you feeling always sad and always want sex and romance while you comfort him but after that , he would seem alright and very unromantic … When you call to hear from him , his behavior and response ruins your day, watch it , if you cannot really pick his character and know him for the person he is , your relationship might not work… He changes his character and sometimes it seem like he pretends a lot and the attachment goes away every time he changes ,till you begin to feel irritated by his personality… It might not work…
4. HE CHEATS : If he cheats on you and you can`t really get to solve his cheating issues , then the relationship is surely going to hit the rock.
He is an unrepentant cheater and even as much as you try to please him, he gets sunk into his games , there is not much explanation there , such relationship would not last

There's no manual to keep a relationship.
Who gon stay gon stay. Who gon go gon go.
Just prepared for the worst while praying for the best.

milemimi93:
There's no manual to keep a relationship.

Who gon stay gon stay. Who gon go gon go.

Just prepared for the worst while praying for the best.

have people with such characters for two years in a relationship , if you stay , i will sell Nigeria to you and pack to Ondo street...
people might stay , the big question , can you stay with such people...

lalasticlala please can you move this ?

milemimi93:
There's no manual to keep a relationship.

Who gon stay gon stay. Who gon go gon go.

Just prepared for the worst while praying for the best.

Excuse me?? If you exhibit all these 4 in your relationship... No one is gon stay u hear

nanauju:


Excuse me?? If you exhibit all these 4 in your relationship... No one is gon stay u hear

I know of a guy who exhibits no.4 his girl caught him several times red-handed. They fight every time disturbing the all compound wit their palafa.

Guess what?

They are still together.

I knew them in 2013.
This is 2018 they are still together. The last time I asked about them I was told they fought this month reasons is, the girl came back from work, branch d guy's place only to see another girl with him.

The guy is not even working so u couldn't think dat it's because of d guy's money dat the girl is sticking to him.

The girl is working while the guy has no job at the moment.

So many people including me have advice d girl to leave the guy but she refused.

The guy has slept with almost every girl in their streets.

The girl keeps fighting her fellow ladies for sleeping with her guy.

They are not married dat I will say d girl don't want a divorce. They are mere boyfrnd girlfrnd.

Do the above listed tins, u gon stay gon stay.

Don't do dem. Who gon leave gon leave.

There's no manual to keep a person in ur life.

milemimi93:


I know of a guy who exhibits no.4 his girl caught him several times red-handed. They fight every time disturbing the all compound wit their palafa.

Guess what?

They are still together.

I new them 2013.
This is 2018 they are still together. They last time I asked about them I was told the fought this month reasons is, the girl came back from work, branch d guy's place only to see another girl with him.

The guy is not even working so u couldn't think dat it's because of d guy's money dat the girl is sticking to him.

The girl is working while the guy has no job at the moment.

I actually said 'all 4' please. Read again.

Btw, good for your guy!
Some people stay for as long as 7 years in relationship, but didn't marry, while some did. That's not really my business.

nanauju:


I actually said 'all 4' please. Read again.

Btw, good for your guy!
Some people stay for as long as 7 years in relationship, but didn't marry, while some did. That's not really my business.

What could be worse in a relationship than dat no.4?

If one can cope with a parnter who exhibits no.4, what makes u think the person can't cope with the rest?

PS- The guy isn't my guy. We were just negbors.

Ion roll with cheaters