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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by encryptjay(m): 7:57pm On Aug 25, 2018
The bf had conscience. He was honest. There times you just want to play with a girl's heart but you fall for her.
And OP, you were already making moves with his friend. What's up with ladies and having backup bfs?
That Canada tale is pure fallacy.
I don't even believe in all these nairaland relationships cos I believe the ladies here already have their minds made up. You never see me sending PMs or flirting with one.
Can't waste my time in romance section looking for a lady to toast. Some of them just enjoy fairytales and lies to keep them spellbound.
They're so engrossed with fake guys that they fail to even notice the guys with substance.
All men are not scum! You ladies do worse to nice guys out there.

Sorry for your encounter though.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 7:58pm On Aug 25, 2018
Babyforever:
If by the next three months they paid well I think I'll quit my job and concentrate fully on this new career kiss
really?
woow!!
anywhere it is flowing really well baby.kiss
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 7:58pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

gbam!gbamer!!gbamest!!!
You just summarized this shit.

most of them that display this puerile act is just too insecure and feel that you are above their league specially when the lady is a working class babe.
I tell you girl I don't stress myself over irrelevant things when you treats a lady right she summits to you freely.....
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by zicoraads: 7:59pm On Aug 25, 2018
pocohantas:


I DOUBLE, TRIPLE, DARE YOU!!!

POST WHATEVER IT IS YOU HAVE ON ME, NOW!!!

WHO ARE THE NL GUYS I FU.CKED IN 2016?
MENTION THEIR USERNAMES!!!
Trust me, we'll be here till tomorrow and nothing will come out of it. It's the usual bragging and chest beating.

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by englishmart(m): 7:59pm On Aug 25, 2018
Nwaohafia1:


Both of them are stvpid and scum. Why is my mind telling me it's Airforce1/LifeofAirforce1 and buygala or englishmart
you have problem

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 25, 2018
zicoraads:

I have been pretending not to see any of your comments. But do not make the mistake of thinking I am unaware of whatever lies you think you have about Poco.

You know why I never bothered to reply your enquiries about me and her? Cos there was no point. Whatever it is I wanted to know, she is there to be asked.

And please, don't ever mention me in whatever pettiness you want to peddle. You and I are not friends. Let's not pretend about it.

Go ahead, send whatever your mind conjures about her. We both know it won't make any meaning.

Zico do you believe what you just typed?
Well, you're the one I'm considering here.

A turtle doesn't hurt a turtle .
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 8:00pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

really?
woow!!
anywhere it is flowing really well baby.kiss
It only leads to one way...... SUCCESS wink
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:00pm On Aug 25, 2018
Babyforever:
I tell you girl I don't stress myself over irrelevant things when you treats a lady right she summits to you freely.....
exactly babe.gringrin


you na better relationship counselor oo.cheesy
I doff hat for you.smiley
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 8:00pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

na biaca.
evening.wink
Oh! Biaca types exactly like your Educationist friend. grin
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Alwaysking: 8:01pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

lmao,I have decided to give you the first and last mention,since you have been seeking for this attention. Now get it straight up,I NO SEE YOUR FACE!!grin
You wish, seeking attention from a nonentity. ugly goat like you, Godforbid bad thing. I won't look at bitches like you twice in real life, keep deceiving youreself, dirty olosho. cheesy

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:01pm On Aug 25, 2018
Babyforever:
It only leads to one way...... SUCCESS wink
burst my head baby.cheesycheesy
success is the key.wink
last last,we all gonna end up smiling,you know.

just work hard.smiley
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by ifymadu: 8:02pm On Aug 25, 2018
I totally appreciate how you feel and hope you find true love soon in a very deserving guy. My only advice is, do not categorize all men as being scums, it might affect your finding true love especially when you transfer the sins of an unworthy guy to other ladies. At some point in my life I had the same impression about women but I was fortunate that I met a great lady who today is my wife and has given me three lovely kids. I wouldn’t have met her if I nursed the injuries from my previous relationships and treated her with the transferred aggression.

Just be yourself and continue being a considerate lady, soon you will find true love and you will be happy with your man. Stay blessed

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by pocohantas(f): 8:02pm On Aug 25, 2018
zicoraads:

I told you before now, most of them are babies. cheesy

Meet this one somewhere now and he will be all "Sir" "Ma"... He'll even be bending while at it. They are not really worth even a second of one's time.

Nairaland gives everyone equal power. cheesy

You said it o! In fact, I am angry with myself now.

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:02pm On Aug 25, 2018
Alwaysking:
You wish, seeking attention from a nonentity. ugly goat like you, Godforbid bad thing. I won't look at bitches like you twice in real life, keep deceiving youreself, dirty olosho. cheesy
lool,not only olosho,what of hoe,osho free and all whatnot.tongue

I beg,I no get time.grin
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by jobonnairaland: 8:03pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
LOL, you really had time for all these kids out there.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 8:03pm On Aug 25, 2018
Saintsammurai:
Video vixen my foot..
One day, breeze go blow and fowl yanch go open..
Get off me you this bleach ape angry

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 25, 2018
Loveisascam, oh i feel your pain. i would love to ask you these questions, are u igbo? is the supposed idiot ex-friends u mentioned, igbos? i don't think so, i guess they are afonjas.
please op, not all men are same. i won't say for others, but for me. am totally different.
i'm not looking for attention cos i gat many but yet to get the best, i am different from others. my only problem with this relationship is "am a jealous type," can't trade my love for something else. i was so jealous(my gf being loved by men around) that my ex felt insecured & ...
to females, "not all men are the same."
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:04pm On Aug 25, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
Oh! Biaca types exactly like your Educationist friend. grin
ahh.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 8:06pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

burst my head baby.cheesycheesy
success is the key.wink
last last,we all gonna end up smiling,you know.

just work hard.smiley
I wish you're in Lagos you come join me and my friends at quilox it's really getting hot right now cheesy
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Alwaysking: 8:06pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

lool,not only olosho,what of hoe,osho free and all whatnot.tongue

I beg,I no get time.grin
Go away with your stinking punny, the smell dey give me brain tumor. cheesy
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:07pm On Aug 25, 2018
Alwaysking:
Go away with your stinking punny, the smell dey give me brain tumor. cheesy
lol,what of brain cancer?grin

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 8:07pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:

exactly babe.gringrin


you na better relationship counselor oo.cheesy
I doff hat for you.smiley
Listen well and listen carefully don't ever live your life to impress any man if he can't take you the way you are he should fu*k off
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:08pm On Aug 25, 2018
Babyforever:
I wish you're in Lagos you come join me and my friends at quilox it's really getting hot right now cheesy
hehehe,I'm coming before the year ends.cheesy
can't wait.smiley
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Babyforever(f): 8:09pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:
hehehe,I'm coming before the year ends.cheesy can't wait.smiley
Oya let's shake our bum bum for broke scums cheesy

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Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:09pm On Aug 25, 2018
Babyforever:
Listen well and listen carefully don't ever live your life to impress any man if he can't take you the way you are he should fu*k off
lol,na true.
my ex is a perfectionist, he really wanted everything perfect,he was over stressing my life.grin
now I'm very free and I'm who I used to be.
No headache or anything.these guys don't just worth the stress a bit.cheesy
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:10pm On Aug 25, 2018
Babyforever:
Oya let's shake our bum bum for broke scums cheesy
kikikiki.
kuku kill me with laugh.cheesy
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Nobody: 8:11pm On Aug 25, 2018
Psychology.

If someone says he/she isn't guilty of something and he/she acts defensive in a desperate way know that he/she is guilty.


A sane mind won't waste time to know that the culprit is lying even without me saying anything after going through the comments. The guilty are always disturbed -


Well as an individual of calibre, I choose to maintain my silence.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Divay22(f): 8:12pm On Aug 25, 2018
boiz2men:
Sorry..

The next will be better... And yes there's no such thing as love...


Love is nothing but a mere choice of affections towards someone. You choose to have and show affections to someone (of course, the choice is made off a reason).


Ehn
Special adviser grin
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Changethechain: 8:12pm On Aug 25, 2018
Listen to my advice carefully.. If you like don't listen... Dump the 2 of them... Girl dump the 2 of them.. I Don talk finish
Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Alwaysking: 8:13pm On Aug 25, 2018
Preshy561:
lol,what of brain cancer?grin
Hoeloshi
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:14pm On Aug 25, 2018
Elder001:
Psychology.

If someone says he/she isn't guilty of something and he/she acts defensive in a desperate way know that he/she is guilty.


A sane mind won't waste time to know that the culprit is lying even without me saying anything after going through the comments. The guilty are always disturbed -


Well as an individual of calibre, I choose to maintain my silence.
?
Re: My Supposed 28 Years Old Boyfriend Shared Me With His Friends To Tempt Me by Preshy561(f): 8:14pm On Aug 25, 2018
Alwaysking:
Hoeloshi
be disturbing my menyions till I report you.grin

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