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QueenSekxy:
some ladies have totally lost it.
see the one that said she will thank him for protrcting himself,and the stupid guys are applauding her.
it's either she has low self esteem or that she will be the kind that will poison the husband.



for me,I will confront him,watch him closely,if he's a serial cheat,I will just have to move on.



but if he's a husby,I will feed him with poison.
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Ewooooooooooh make una come see oooh.
But wait you wicked oh

So u pple r fvckin ur bf or gf without condoms judging from the comments.

If not, just say I bought it to use on u na

uzolexis:
So cos she doesn't see the sense in a man inviting his gf to do his laundry she won't last in marriage. My friend, go an get a gf/maid if that's what you want but not all women want that.

Any girl that would find it difficult to do ordinary laundry for her fiance is not ready for marriage. Do you think it's everyone that can afford to pay for laundry services or have a house helps? Some of you ladies would be coming to media and be pretending you can't do such meanwhile in the real life what you do for your boyfriend and his family is more of a slavery but the foolish ones will abide by what you are saying believing it to be true there by loosing their relationship in the process. You will be hearing things like we have been dating for five years yet you can't propose to me not knowing that your attitude is what he is thinking of because he can't meet up with a lady with such ego. what does it take to do minor laundry for your fiance?

janeobasi24:
Must relationship involve sex? I weak for this our generation!!!!!

if relationship doesn't involve sex then what you need is an impotent and marry so that for the rest of your life nobody would even think of such. But relationship must involved money, shopping Brazilian weaves and the rest of it abi? oya continue with your hypocrisy.

DABREEZYTOS:
LMAO ,I wonder why most ladies will starting saying what they will do on social media...let's wait till it hits them all in reality...

Lol .
How have you been?
We've been busy all day.

msylva2147:
Any girl that would find it difficult to do ordinary laundry for her fiance is not ready for marriage. Do you think it's everyone that can afford to pay for laundry services or be house helps? Some of you ladies would be coming to media and be pretending you can't do such meanwhile in the real life what you do for your boyfriend and his family is more of a slavery but the foolish ones will abide by you are saying believing it to be true there by loosing their relationship in the process. You will be hearing things like we have been dating for five years yet you can't propose to me not knowing that your attitude is what he is thinking of because he can't meet up with a lady with such ego. what does it take to do minor laundry for your fiance?

What does it take for the guy to do his laundry himself. I personally don't even do my own laundry cos that's my worse household chore but each to his own.

What da fuvk did I just read.....see that big madam saying he's not married to you so he owes you no explanation.......Holy shii .....


Well it's all pretence sha, na her type dey break bottle when this kind thing happen...

As for the question....hmm... can't say what I 'll do but what I know is that, A man that doesn't respect you enough and cheats before marriage will most likely cheat after being married to you.......


...No way I'm thanking no nigga for using condom and there's nothing normal about cheating.....dumb girls

JamaicanLove says she will send me to jail if she sees a used condom in my pants. I laugh....

Some ladies reply are really funny. What some of them do for their bf's and his family is more than slavery yet they come online and keep saying other stuff.smh

uzolexis:
What does it take for the guy to do his laundry himself. I personally don't even do my own laundry cos that's my worse household chore but each to his own.

your moniker tells it all you are a lazy youth and therefore can't be Nigerian wife material take it or leave it that's the fact QED.

msylva2147:
your moniker tells it all you are a lazy youth and therefore can't be Nigerian wife material take it or leave it that's the fact QED.

Cos I don't like doing laundry I don't know why it makes sense to you that a woman should suffer herself washing your clothes when you can get a washing machine for as little as 40k.
Like I said, to each his own.

dingbang:
and why will a lady put used condom in her bag, is she that unhygienic or what

ok were ur wife de keep her own

It can’t happen because my man won’t invite me to come wash for him

Well, I will smile and prepare nice dinner to question him till he confess�

uzolexis:
Cos I don't like doing laundry I don't know why it makes sense to you that a woman should suffer herself washing your clothes when you can get a washing machine for as little as 40k.
Like I said, to each his own.

my dear, even 25k can get you a decent washing machine these days

Don't mind all these archaic Nigerian men that refuse to join the rest of the world in 2018.

pocohantas:
He'll most likely die first... .

Does it matter? he may live 100yrs plus
And u 'll endure till then

Nobodys:
What da fuvk did I just read.....see that big madam saying he's not married to you so he owes you no explanation.......Holy shii .....


Well it's all pretence sha, na her type dey break bottle when this kind thing happen...

As for the question....hmm... can't say what I 'll do but what I know is that, A man that doesn't respect you enough and cheats before marriage will most likely cheat after being married to you.......


...No way I'm thanking no nigga for using condom and there's nothing normal about cheating.....dumb girls

I don't totally agree to the bolded, its more like a lady or guy that flirt when he/she was single and change after marriage.

dingbang:
and why will a lady put used condom in her bag, is she that unhygienic or what

fear of yahoo plus guys na! Are you a learner?

dominique:
Why on earth should a man invite his girlfriend specifically to come and wash for him? Is he crippled? Are there no laundry persons around him? From the responses on that post and this thread, it seems that's the norm. Relationships these days involves a sponsor and a glorified maid/bed warmer and very little about love and affection.

wo u gbaski

chisco82:
I don't totally agree to the bolded, its more like a lady or guy that flirt when he/she was single and change after marriage.

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Yeah... You're right, that's why I used the word 'Most likely', cause I know a few might change buh it's just a few....

a lot of people who flirt during relationship, cheating here and there like it's a normal thing ( male and female), find it real hard to stay faithful in marriage....

dominique:
Why on earth should a man invite his girlfriend specifically to come and wash for him? Is he crippled? Are there no laundry persons around him? From the responses on that post and this thread, it seems that's the norm. Relationships these days involves a sponsor and a glorified maid/bed warmer and very little about love and affection.

the main reason why a man will invite his girlfriend to come over and wash his clothes is because he give the girl money at least a woman should also do some things for the man

chisco82:
Does it matter? he may live 100yrs plus
And u 'll endure till then

chisco82:
I don't totally agree to the bolded, its more like a lady or guy that flirt when he/she was single and change after marriage.

Bia enyia, this one you carry this matter for head.
Are you one of them? #MenArePolygamous

safarigirl:
my dear, even 25k can get you a decent washing machine these days

Don't mind all these archaic Nigerian men that refuse to join the rest of the world in 2018.

My dear, the thing tire me.

Nobodys:
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Yeah... You're right, that's why I used the word 'Most likely', cause I know a few might change buh it's just a few....

a lot of people who flirt during relationship, cheating here and there like it's a normal thing ( male and female), find it real hard to stay faithful in marriage....

It is also said that any youth who did enjoy youthful life will do that when he/she get married,
How about that?

pocohantas:
Bia enyia, this one you carry this matter for head.
Are you one of them? #MenArePolygamous

You can tell better naa, who else knows me more than you?

GrabHisBalls:
Do you know that love can be shown in different ways, and washing of clothes is one of such? Would I wash the clothes of a man I don't love nor have affection for? Heck no. And by so doing, it doesn't in anyway make me a maid. If my man is good to me, washing his clothes is the least I could do for him.

As for the question, most of the ladies were answering in order to be politically correct. I'm sure that those calm answers would change if confronted with this situation.

As a matter of fact I sensed sarcasm com irony in their replies. Emphasises on "Boyfriend not Husband" shows that their response has deeper meaning than what they seem to project.

I can boldly say those ladies have more than one guy they are in relationships with. But trust guys to always believe things without proper evaluations.

milemimi93:
JamaicanLove says she will send me to jail if she sees a used condom in my pants. I laugh....

Who puts a used condom in his pants?


Are you sure you are okay?

MariaLavina:
As a matter of fact I sensed sarcasm com irony in their replies. Emphasises on "Boyfriend not Husband" shows that their response has deeper meaning than what they seem to project.

I can boldly say those ladies have more than one guy they are in relationships with. But trust guys to always believe things without proper evaluations.

At times, we say one thing, and mean the other when circumstance presents itself. I'm very sure that most of them who commonised the question would act differently.

msylva2147:
if relationship doesn't involve sex then an impotent and marry so that for the rest of your life nobody would even think of such. But relationship must involved money, shopping Brazilian weaves and the rest of it abi? oya continue with your hypocrisy.

You think so? God detests premarital sex..... I'm actually getting married few weeks coming by God's grace.... I'm not a hypocrite.... My fiancé and I haven't had sex since we started courting and he's been taking care of me....

msylva2147:
if relationship doesn't involve sex then an impotent and marry so that for the rest of your life nobody would even think of such. But relationship must involved money, shopping Brazilian weaves and the rest of it abi? oya continue with your hypocrisy.

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You think so? God detests premarital sex. I'm actually getting married few weeks coming by God's grace..... I'm not a hypocrite..... My fiancé and I haven't had sex since we started courting and he's been taking care of me.....

janeobasi24:
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You think so? God detests premarital sex. I'm actually getting married few weeks coming by God's grace..... I'm not a hypocrite..... My fiancé and I haven't had sex since we started courting and he's been taking care of me.....

Are you now telling house that you are still a virgin or after another man enjoyed all the juices and you choose to form for the the guy to feel you are still intact? Anyways we are waiting to hear from the guy on wedding night to confirm and tell us that what you are telling us is true. Nb: The girl I'm about to marry is equally a virgin but doesn't care about anything material from me and she respects me, visits me but no sex but I still force her to take something from me. So the fact that you are not having sex doesn't mean you can't assist him with the house chores simply because he is not a cripple.

GrabHisBalls:
Do you know that love can be shown in different ways, and washing of clothes is one of such? Would I wash the clothes of a man I don't love nor have affection for? Heck no. And by so doing, it doesn't in anyway make me a maid. If my man is good to me, washing his clothes is the least I could do for him.

As for the question, most of the ladies were answering in order to be politically correct. I'm sure that those calm answers would change if confronted with this situation.

Thumbs up for you, you are the one of the sensible and matured lady I see as a wife material on this forum not all this church rats forming ajebo on social media. If not for the fact that I am I have gotten a wife material I will have asked for a hookup.