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Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Slayar: 7:36am On Sep 04, 2018
The most important one is confidence,second one is don't chase girls
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by blazepascal(m): 7:37am On Sep 04, 2018
No matter what i will always be a good boy God will bless me with a good woman
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Nobody: 7:39am On Sep 04, 2018
#17:bad Boys Dont Care About Their Broke Ass,they Just Go 4 Dem Gals
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by steve6: 7:42am On Sep 04, 2018
Ok
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by DaddyNimo(m): 7:52am On Sep 04, 2018
sammyuche:
Don't listen to all these my fellow men...make money in this life and women will worship you
after making the money to get the girl, she will use it to pamper a bad boy wey no send am
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by chigoziem10(f): 7:58am On Sep 04, 2018
How can one person possess all these traits? And secondly, for you to say bad guys don't care is a confirmed fallacy, they care but only when they are truly in love. Love does a lot of things you won't be able to understand
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by dwightdoctore(m): 8:09am On Sep 04, 2018
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Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by openmine(m): 8:15am On Sep 04, 2018
IFEOLUWAKRIZ:
go make money abeg
Seconded
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 04, 2018
Brownhypo:
I thought i would see, bad boys dont fear SARS grin
you donminit

Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by abbatoir(m): 8:42am On Sep 04, 2018
@up.. thumb up
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Emyjeze(m): 8:42am On Sep 04, 2018
undecidedwack
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by romenna: 9:10am On Sep 04, 2018
bad boys r not ready to settle down
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by abilereggie: 9:16am On Sep 04, 2018
Donshaga:
Do you know that there are bad boy traits that make dating, relationship & even marriage easier for any man?

These traits separate "average" and nice guys from the bad boys she would rather be with.. and help you spark attraction inside of her so deep ,so strong & fast, that she'll have no choice but to want you.

My name is Chris Uzor and here are my Top 16 Bad Boy Traiits That Make Women Want You.

#1 Bad Boys Have Authentic Confidence ;-
Fake confidence puts women on edge. Authentic confidence makes them feel deep attraction.

The bad boy confidence is natural,deep & internal rather than fake , shallow and contrived.

The natural authentic, solid , powerful confidence can’t be faked and communicates you believe in yourself and where you’re going.

Women really find it very attractive in a man.

#2 Bad Boys Don't Pretend ;
Nice guys Pretend to be someone they are not.

They pretend to be a lot nicer, college and even more charming than they actually are to increase the chances of women liking them.

They act one way with friends and family and another with attractive women.

Bad boys don't change their personality to accommodate whosoever is in the room.

They don't try to be sweeter, cooler, nicer to make a good impression.

Bad boys are who they are and don't care how anyone feels about it, and their authenticity attract women like flies because it communicates maturity composure, and honesty.
[/b]

[b]#3 Bad Boys Have Attractive Body Language ;

A bad boys bodylaguage shows confidence and sure of himself. He doesn't slouch or communicate insecure, unsure of himself or afraid of women or caring what anyone thinks.

It communicates[i] "I'm a high status confident , attractive, sure of myself, and I do what I want, get what I want , and no one's going to do sh*t about it"[/i]
His body language is proportional to his natural and confident mindset.

#4 Bad Boys Are Not Afraid Of Rejection;
They do things with purpose because they are not worried about what might happen, what she'll think or how she'll may react. If it doesn't go as intended, the bad boy doesn't make it a big deal.

Nice guys on the other hand act awkward, and afraid to grab her hand, pull her in, kiss her, and get physical with her. The fear of rejection holds them back

"The bad boy isn’t afraid of rejection. When he wants to hold her hand, he grabs her hand. When he wants to kiss her, he grabs her, pulls her in, and kisses her. If he wants to touch her, he does it."[/b]

If she's attracted to you she doesn't mind , and even likes it when you're assertive and aren't scared to take things to the next level with her.

[b]#5 Bad Boys Don't Need Approval :-

Bad boys wake up in the morning& live their lives to make themselves happy. You might think It's a little self-centered , but that's okay.

"A little self-centered is more attractive than trying to please everyone"

They are not always focused on making women happy and seeking their approval. They don't care whether or not they have their approval of their family & friends.

As long as they approve of themselves , that's all that matters.

Start approving of yourself. Quit living your life just to make women happy. YOU will never be happy.


#6 Bad boys don't feel sorry for themselves;-
Bad boys don't allow themselves to become victims and they don't feel sorry for themselves when bad things happen.

They adapt and overcome.

Nice guy, whine, cry and complain about what's not fair , what's went wrong and when things don't go their way.
Bad boys suck it up, act like a man, push through it and move on. They know controlling their is better and more attractive than complaining and acting like a victim.

Crying, whining, bitching, and complaining is weak, unattractive, and less effective than dealing with the problem and moving forward.

When going through tough times Instead of being the victim , make conscious decision to adapt overcome, take the high road and deal with it.

#7 Bad Boys Are Brutally Honest.
A bad boys says what is on his mind and tells you how it is , whether you like it or not.

Nice guys are more likely to lie because they care about women's approval more than integrity and honesty.

They are better at looking women in the eyes and being Brutally Honest.

It's better to upset her with honesty than to upset her with lies
.

She may not like the truth but she'll trust and respect you because of your honesty.

#8 Bad Boys Value Themselves:-
Nice guys are full of self-doubt , self pity and they hold a negative image of themselves in their mind.

Bad boys value themselves and their mindset communicate[i] "I don't tolerate disrespect of myself, my time or property". [/i]

They don't put up with anyone trying to paint them in a negative light. They value their behavior , mindset and aren't going to let anyone mess that up for them.

She’s far more attracted to a bad boy who values himself and knows place in the world.

#9 Bad Boys Pursue What They Want ;-
Bad boys don't think "Man I wish I could talk to that girl... she's hot or "Man I wish I could date her " ... They skip the self-talk and actually do it.

The bad boy get outside of his comfort zone and goes after what he wants. If he wants her number he gets it. If he wants to see her again , he tells her.

He gets over his insecurities and makes it happen. When he wants something nothing stands his way.

Develop the same mindset - when you want something , take action. Don't allow your thoughts and fear to stop you. Make the decision and move toward it ASAP.

#10 Bad Boys Don't Get Played :-
"Played" means getting your heart broken because you're too blind or inexperience to see what's actually going on.

Bad boys have experience with women "know the game and don't fall for the same tricks , games and excuses as the nice guys. They know when something isn't right.

When she says, “Umm… how about you give me YOUR number” the nice guy gives her his number not knowing she’s never going to call. When she cancels 3 dates with 3 different excuses, the nice guy just keeps asking her out. She plays games, she’s flaky, sneaky, and dishonest, and the nice guy keeps thinking of how beautiful she is and overlooks all of her bad attitude.

Bad boys who attract a lot of women are smart, experienced, know what they want, and are able to spot nonsense from a mile away.

With bad boys when she ask for his number instead , he walks away. When she keeps canceling she's a waste of time. When she's being flaky, and dishonest and playing games he moves on because he knows he can do better.

Since she's used to nice guys and loser's she's shockingly surprised and when she meets a bad boy who knows better.

#11 Bad Boys Aren't Sorry:-
Nice guys apologies too much :-
• Makes a joke she doesn't think is funny - he apologizes
• Tries holding her hand and she pulls away – he apologizes.
•Missed her call or takes too long to text back - he apologizes
Apologizing too much makes you look weak, insecure, and unsure of yourself.

Bad boys don't apologize as often :-
•He makes a joke he thinks is funnier than she does – he tells her to work on her sense of humor.
•Grabs her hand and she pulls away – he ignores it like it never happened.

Bad boys don't seek approval by apologizing for everything. Women like him or they don't. Either way he's fine with it.

Be comfortable in your own skin and stop apologizing for who you are and what you do

#12 Bad Boys Don't Care As much :-
The most powerful trait all bad boys share is THEY SIMPLY DON'T CARE AS MUCH AS NICE GUYS DO.
Caring too much what anyone thinks makes you a nice guy.


Bad boys care less what anyone thinks , especially beautiful women and aren't phased by other people opinion.

Caring too much of what other people think, kills attraction and puts you in the friend-zone.

#13 Bad Boys Leave Her Wanting More :-
The bad boy causes a woman to fall madly in love and then leaves them wanting more for years and years to come.

He doesn't milk the date until it's dry, stay on the phone until she's bored , give her everything she wants or tell her his much he likes her too soon.

They give her just enough but not everything she wants. This multiple the attraction and intifues her desire.

If a woman leaves first, it's a sign you're going away too soon.

14# Bad Boys Break Rules:-
Not all bad boys break the law and you don't have to go to jail or prison to prove you have the bad guy mentality.
Since bad boys do what ever they want.They usually aren't fond of rules and laws.

They are not idiots , they're not just fund of the rules.They don’t like being told what to, when to do it, and how to do it. It feels like being a slave to society.

Some think following rules to a fault is a cowardly way to live and some rules are meant to be broken.

#15 Bad Boys Handle Their Problems :-
Bad boys handle their problems and don't let it go out of control.

Women want men who handle their problems instead of waiting until they become too much to handle.

In your own life handle your problems immediately and don't let them become worse. When problem arise fix them right away and get rid of them.

#16 Bad Boys Don't Worship Women :-
Bad boys don't worship women and put them on pedestal. Their lives don't revolve around getting women approval.

If you see her as better than you , as higher value than you , higher status than you, if you have already put her above you, you've lost. If you put women on pedestal you can't attract her.

That's why lots of women are attracted to Brad Pitt, James Bond etc , those guys never take women seriously, they don't put women on pedestal.

Nice guys act needy, treat her like an idol and do whatever she ask, in order to get her approval to like him.(which of course they won't get).

Bad boys don't.

This isn’t the bad boy’s mindset. He doesn’t spend time worrying to get women to like him. He knows he's a badass, he just lives his life and when he’s around women, he relaxes and has fun.

If she likes him, cool. If not, no big deal.


Conclusion;-
99℅ trait of men who are excellent at attracting women have the bad boy trait which most nice guys lack.

But you don't have change to be a bad guy to start women , you can also be a nice gentleman and have all the traits of a bad boy and get the same result the bad boys get with hot women.

-Chris Uzor
O.p are you sure you have ever wooed a girl before...the only important thing you wrote there is confidence and even men love I too...
Bad boys hate to be rejected sometimes they even go the extra mile of raping the person who rejected them clearly you don't know any bad boy.all you mentioned are church boy character...lmao
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by simplesearch: 9:23am On Sep 04, 2018
Most stupid and uncharitable hogwash of a post I ever read on Nairaland. So a weed smoking narcotic induced element who is bereave of any kind of emotion but act irrational with no sense for sanity is a better man than a saner gentleman who is in charge of his life and tries to control it aright with the sense of living and letting others live that one is not a man in your own dictionary of words. You can ask ladies who fall for Guys in that gale you just mentioned in your post, they'll tell you the incalculable mistake they made ever undertaken such ventures except that they find it difficult to attract a sane and decent gentlemen to themselves, most times the fear of loneliness make them give up any attempt at leaving such relationship, but deep down they suffer deprivations and inhuman treatment that is sometimes difficult to narrate. Anyway birds of the same feather flock together!
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by freshdude99(m): 10:04am On Sep 04, 2018
Donshaga:
Do you know that there are bad boy traits that make dating, relationship & even marriage easier for any man?

These traits separate "average" and nice guys from the bad boys she would rather be with.. and help you spark attraction inside of her so deep ,so strong & fast, that she'll have no choice but to want you.

My name is Chris Uzor and here are my Top 16 Bad Boy Traiits That Make Women Want You.

#1 Bad Boys Have Authentic Confidence ;-
Fake confidence puts women on edge. Authentic confidence makes them feel deep attraction.

The bad boy confidence is natural,deep & internal rather than fake , shallow and contrived.

The natural authentic, solid , powerful confidence can’t be faked and communicates you believe in yourself and where you’re going.

Women really find it very attractive in a man.

#2 Bad Boys Don't Pretend ;
Nice guys Pretend to be someone they are not.

They pretend to be a lot nicer, college and even more charming than they actually are to increase the chances of women liking them.

They act one way with friends and family and another with attractive women.

Bad boys don't change their personality to accommodate whosoever is in the room.

They don't try to be sweeter, cooler, nicer to make a good impression.

Bad boys are who they are and don't care how anyone feels about it, and their authenticity attract women like flies because it communicates maturity composure, and honesty.
[/b]

[b]#3 Bad Boys Have Attractive Body Language ;

A bad boys bodylaguage shows confidence and sure of himself. He doesn't slouch or communicate insecure, unsure of himself or afraid of women or caring what anyone thinks.

It communicates[i] "I'm a high status confident , attractive, sure of myself, and I do what I want, get what I want , and no one's going to do sh*t about it"[/i]
His body language is proportional to his natural and confident mindset.

#4 Bad Boys Are Not Afraid Of Rejection;
They do things with purpose because they are not worried about what might happen, what she'll think or how she'll may react. If it doesn't go as intended, the bad boy doesn't make it a big deal.

Nice guys on the other hand act awkward, and afraid to grab her hand, pull her in, kiss her, and get physical with her. The fear of rejection holds them back

"The bad boy isn’t afraid of rejection. When he wants to hold her hand, he grabs her hand. When he wants to kiss her, he grabs her, pulls her in, and kisses her. If he wants to touch her, he does it."[/b]

If she's attracted to you she doesn't mind , and even likes it when you're assertive and aren't scared to take things to the next level with her.

[b]#5 Bad Boys Don't Need Approval :-

Bad boys wake up in the morning& live their lives to make themselves happy. You might think It's a little self-centered , but that's okay.

"A little self-centered is more attractive than trying to please everyone"

They are not always focused on making women happy and seeking their approval. They don't care whether or not they have their approval of their family & friends.

As long as they approve of themselves , that's all that matters.

Start approving of yourself. Quit living your life just to make women happy. YOU will never be happy.


#6 Bad boys don't feel sorry for themselves;-
Bad boys don't allow themselves to become victims and they don't feel sorry for themselves when bad things happen.

They adapt and overcome.

Nice guy, whine, cry and complain about what's not fair , what's went wrong and when things don't go their way.
Bad boys suck it up, act like a man, push through it and move on. They know controlling their is better and more attractive than complaining and acting like a victim.

Crying, whining, bitching, and complaining is weak, unattractive, and less effective than dealing with the problem and moving forward.

When going through tough times Instead of being the victim , make conscious decision to adapt overcome, take the high road and deal with it.

#7 Bad Boys Are Brutally Honest.
A bad boys says what is on his mind and tells you how it is , whether you like it or not.

Nice guys are more likely to lie because they care about women's approval more than integrity and honesty.

They are better at looking women in the eyes and being Brutally Honest.

It's better to upset her with honesty than to upset her with lies
.

She may not like the truth but she'll trust and respect you because of your honesty.

#8 Bad Boys Value Themselves:-
Nice guys are full of self-doubt , self pity and they hold a negative image of themselves in their mind.

Bad boys value themselves and their mindset communicate[i] "I don't tolerate disrespect of myself, my time or property". [/i]

They don't put up with anyone trying to paint them in a negative light. They value their behavior , mindset and aren't going to let anyone mess that up for them.

She’s far more attracted to a bad boy who values himself and knows place in the world.

#9 Bad Boys Pursue What They Want ;-
Bad boys don't think "Man I wish I could talk to that girl... she's hot or "Man I wish I could date her " ... They skip the self-talk and actually do it.

The bad boy get outside of his comfort zone and goes after what he wants. If he wants her number he gets it. If he wants to see her again , he tells her.

He gets over his insecurities and makes it happen. When he wants something nothing stands his way.

Develop the same mindset - when you want something , take action. Don't allow your thoughts and fear to stop you. Make the decision and move toward it ASAP.

#10 Bad Boys Don't Get Played :-
"Played" means getting your heart broken because you're too blind or inexperience to see what's actually going on.

Bad boys have experience with women "know the game and don't fall for the same tricks , games and excuses as the nice guys. They know when something isn't right.

When she says, “Umm… how about you give me YOUR number” the nice guy gives her his number not knowing she’s never going to call. When she cancels 3 dates with 3 different excuses, the nice guy just keeps asking her out. She plays games, she’s flaky, sneaky, and dishonest, and the nice guy keeps thinking of how beautiful she is and overlooks all of her bad attitude.

Bad boys who attract a lot of women are smart, experienced, know what they want, and are able to spot nonsense from a mile away.

With bad boys when she ask for his number instead , he walks away. When she keeps canceling she's a waste of time. When she's being flaky, and dishonest and playing games he moves on because he knows he can do better.

Since she's used to nice guys and loser's she's shockingly surprised and when she meets a bad boy who knows better.

#11 Bad Boys Aren't Sorry:-
Nice guys apologies too much :-
• Makes a joke she doesn't think is funny - he apologizes
• Tries holding her hand and she pulls away – he apologizes.
•Missed her call or takes too long to text back - he apologizes
Apologizing too much makes you look weak, insecure, and unsure of yourself.

Bad boys don't apologize as often :-
•He makes a joke he thinks is funnier than she does – he tells her to work on her sense of humor.
•Grabs her hand and she pulls away – he ignores it like it never happened.

Bad boys don't seek approval by apologizing for everything. Women like him or they don't. Either way he's fine with it.

Be comfortable in your own skin and stop apologizing for who you are and what you do

#12 Bad Boys Don't Care As much :-
The most powerful trait all bad boys share is THEY SIMPLY DON'T CARE AS MUCH AS NICE GUYS DO.
Caring too much what anyone thinks makes you a nice guy.


Bad boys care less what anyone thinks , especially beautiful women and aren't phased by other people opinion.

Caring too much of what other people think, kills attraction and puts you in the friend-zone.

#13 Bad Boys Leave Her Wanting More :-
The bad boy causes a woman to fall madly in love and then leaves them wanting more for years and years to come.

He doesn't milk the date until it's dry, stay on the phone until she's bored , give her everything she wants or tell her his much he likes her too soon.

They give her just enough but not everything she wants. This multiple the attraction and intifues her desire.

If a woman leaves first, it's a sign you're going away too soon.

14# Bad Boys Break Rules:-
Not all bad boys break the law and you don't have to go to jail or prison to prove you have the bad guy mentality.
Since bad boys do what ever they want.They usually aren't fond of rules and laws.

They are not idiots , they're not just fund of the rules.They don’t like being told what to, when to do it, and how to do it. It feels like being a slave to society.

Some think following rules to a fault is a cowardly way to live and some rules are meant to be broken.

#15 Bad Boys Handle Their Problems :-
Bad boys handle their problems and don't let it go out of control.

Women want men who handle their problems instead of waiting until they become too much to handle.

In your own life handle your problems immediately and don't let them become worse. When problem arise fix them right away and get rid of them.

#16 Bad Boys Don't Worship Women :-
Bad boys don't worship women and put them on pedestal. Their lives don't revolve around getting women approval.

If you see her as better than you , as higher value than you , higher status than you, if you have already put her above you, you've lost. If you put women on pedestal you can't attract her.

That's why lots of women are attracted to Brad Pitt, James Bond etc , those guys never take women seriously, they don't put women on pedestal.

Nice guys act needy, treat her like an idol and do whatever she ask, in order to get her approval to like him.(which of course they won't get).

Bad boys don't.

This isn’t the bad boy’s mindset. He doesn’t spend time worrying to get women to like him. He knows he's a badass, he just lives his life and when he’s around women, he relaxes and has fun.

If she likes him, cool. If not, no big deal.


Conclusion;-
99℅ trait of men who are excellent at attracting women have the bad boy trait which most nice guys lack.

But you don't have change to be a bad guy to start women , you can also be a nice gentleman and have all the traits of a bad boy and get the same result the bad boys get with hot women.

-Chris Uzor
Many ladies mistake this trait for pride but its not true!
A man MUST know his SELFWORTH
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by lebete3000: 10:41am On Sep 04, 2018
Idrismusty97:
And what of your dad? grin Every mom wants to train their sons to be a wimp forgetting the fact that they wouldn't want to end up with a wimp as their life partner, only desperate women does. You don't have to be brutal or violent, Just keep an air of an Alpha male around you. Be gentle, but not just to women, Your good side should only be shown to those who deserves it both male and females alike. Let them work for a little of your attention. And don't go showering your attention and so called good boyness your mom taught you, they will sharperly friendzone you or turn you into a full time Maga.

Ironically it is these wimps their mom taught to be goody goody nice boys to ladies usually turns out to be the most frustrated with women ending up as rapists, wife beaters etc when they realized the world is indeed cruel and everyone has to learn to stand their ground the hard way. It is cheating when mothers teaches their daughters not to spread their legs anyhow and be smart, But turn around and teaches their sons how to be goody goody nice guy wimps to ladies only. That's injustice.
This is exactly what I'm currently battling with in my life right now. Coming from a divorced home and raised by a single mom, I should have chosen to be with my dad instead. Now my life is a living hell. The same women my mother taught me to treat right and the same ones frustrating my whole life.
I've finally come to the conclusion that women are just useful for 2things in this life: fvcking and baby-making machines. Anything else na scam and you'll get yourself emotionally shattered into pieces...
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by lebete3000: 10:47am On Sep 04, 2018
Idrismusty97:
And what of your dad? grin Every mom wants to train their sons to be a wimp forgetting the fact that they wouldn't want to end up with a wimp as their life partner, only desperate women does. You don't have to be brutal or violent, Just keep an air of an Alpha male around you. Be gentle, but not just to women, Your good side should only be shown to those who deserves it both male and females alike. Let them work for a little of your attention. And don't go showering your attention and so called good boyness your mom taught you, they will sharperly friendzone you or turn you into a full time Maga.

Ironically it is these wimps their mom taught to be goody goody nice boys to ladies usually turns out to be the most frustrated with women ending up as rapists, wife beaters etc when they realized the world is indeed cruel and everyone has to learn to stand their ground the hard way. It is cheating when mothers teaches their daughters not to spread their legs anyhow and be smart, But turn around and teaches their sons how to be goody goody nice guy wimps to ladies only. That's injustice.
EVERY man raised by a single mother has ALWAYS turned out to be a wimp and a pvssy! Even Ben Carson went on to show the world how "smart stvpid" he was when he contested for President of the US. I repeat, women are only useful for fvcking and squirting out babies. Tell me one more tin again they can do that I can't already for for myself?! Somone should just tell 1extra tin abeg!!!!
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by godliman: 11:43am On Sep 04, 2018
SeniorZato:
Why telling us about bad boys, are you a bad boy?
Dont mind him, as if being a bad guy is a virtue. He forgot to mention that they die violent deaths in the hand of cultist and sars. Only evil or exremely foolish ladies date bad guys. Someone who will soon brake your heart or use you for rituals
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Idrismusty97(m): 12:30pm On Sep 04, 2018
tatibillion:
Sounds like you read Sex-ploytation bro grin
Just getting to read an online copy. It's just about 75 pages, i would be through before tomorrow. First few pages is quite interesting and the author sounds like the average Nigerian fed up men grin. I thought it's all rosy in America as their movies portrayed yet all what he have been saying so far is largely or exactly similar to our situation. And some of we men here are forming logical and rational gentlemen thinking we are mimicking them while they suffer same fate in the hands of women like us. cheesy
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by mide419: 12:49pm On Sep 04, 2018
Colourich:
Who is a bad boy?
Shebi dem don write am for you.
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by tatibillion: 1:43pm On Sep 04, 2018
Idrismusty97:
Just getting to read an online copy. It's just about 75 pages, i would be through before tomorrow. First few pages is quite interesting and the author sounds like the average Nigerian fed up men grin. I thought it's all rosy in America as their movies portrayed yet all what he have been saying so far is largely or exactly similar to our situation. And some of we men here are forming logical and rational gentlemen thinking we are mimicking them while they suffer same fate in the hands of women like us. cheesy
lol, their feminine society is evolving fast though, they've more women working for their money than most places in the world.
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Idrismusty97(m): 1:49pm On Sep 04, 2018
tatibillion:
lol, their feminine society is evolving fast though, they've more women working for their money than most places in the world.
That's also true tho.
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by patrickkkk:
Donshaga:
Do you know that there are bad boy traits that make dating, relationship & even marriage easier for any man?

These traits separate "average" and nice guys from the bad boys she would rather be with.. and help you spark attraction inside of her so deep ,so strong & fast, that she'll have no choice but to want you.

My name is Chris Uzor and here are my Top 16 Bad Boy Traiits That Make Women Want You.

#1 Bad Boys Have Authentic Confidence ;-
Fake confidence puts women on edge. Authentic confidence makes them feel deep attraction.

The bad boy confidence is natural,deep & internal rather than fake , shallow and contrived.

The natural authentic, solid , powerful confidence can’t be faked and communicates you believe in yourself and where you’re going.

Women really find it very attractive in a man.

#2 Bad Boys Don't Pretend ;
Nice guys Pretend to be someone they are not.

They pretend to be a lot nicer, college and even more charming than they actually are to increase the chances of women liking them.

They act one way with friends and family and another with attractive women.

Bad boys don't change their personality to accommodate whosoever is in the room.

They don't try to be sweeter, cooler, nicer to make a good impression.

Bad boys are who they are and don't care how anyone feels about it, and their authenticity attract women like flies because it communicates maturity composure, and honesty.
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[b]#3 Bad Boys Have Attractive Body Language ;

A bad boys bodylaguage shows confidence and sure of himself. He doesn't slouch or communicate insecure, unsure of himself or afraid of women or caring what anyone thinks.

It communicates[i] "I'm a high status confident , attractive, sure of myself, and I do what I want, get what I want , and no one's going to do sh*t about it"[/i]
His body language is proportional to his natural and confident mindset.

#4 Bad Boys Are Not Afraid Of Rejection;
They do things with purpose because they are not worried about what might happen, what she'll think or how she'll may react. If it doesn't go as intended, the bad boy doesn't make it a big deal.

Nice guys on the other hand act awkward, and afraid to grab her hand, pull her in, kiss her, and get physical with her. The fear of rejection holds them back

"The bad boy isn’t afraid of rejection. When he wants to hold her hand, he grabs her hand. When he wants to kiss her, he grabs her, pulls her in, and kisses her. If he wants to touch her, he does it."[/b]

If she's attracted to you she doesn't mind , and even likes it when you're assertive and aren't scared to take things to the next level with her.

[b]#5 Bad Boys Don't Need Approval :-

Bad boys wake up in the morning& live their lives to make themselves happy. You might think It's a little self-centered , but that's okay.

"A little self-centered is more attractive than trying to please everyone"

They are not always focused on making women happy and seeking their approval. They don't care whether or not they have their approval of their family & friends.

As long as they approve of themselves , that's all that matters.

Start approving of yourself. Quit living your life just to make women happy. YOU will never be happy.


#6 Bad boys don't feel sorry for themselves;-
Bad boys don't allow themselves to become victims and they don't feel sorry for themselves when bad things happen.

They adapt and overcome.

Nice guy, whine, cry and complain about what's not fair , what's went wrong and when things don't go their way.
Bad boys suck it up, act like a man, push through it and move on. They know controlling their is better and more attractive than complaining and acting like a victim.

Crying, whining, bitching, and complaining is weak, unattractive, and less effective than dealing with the problem and moving forward.

When going through tough times Instead of being the victim , make conscious decision to adapt overcome, take the high road and deal with it.

#7 Bad Boys Are Brutally Honest.
A bad boys says what is on his mind and tells you how it is , whether you like it or not.

Nice guys are more likely to lie because they care about women's approval more than integrity and honesty.

They are better at looking women in the eyes and being Brutally Honest.

It's better to upset her with honesty than to upset her with lies
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She may not like the truth but she'll trust and respect you because of your honesty.

#8 Bad Boys Value Themselves:-
Nice guys are full of self-doubt , self pity and they hold a negative image of themselves in their mind.

Bad boys value themselves and their mindset communicate[i] "I don't tolerate disrespect of myself, my time or property". [/i]

They don't put up with anyone trying to paint them in a negative light. They value their behavior , mindset and aren't going to let anyone mess that up for them.

She’s far more attracted to a bad boy who values himself and knows place in the world.

#9 Bad Boys Pursue What They Want ;-
Bad boys don't think "Man I wish I could talk to that girl... she's hot or "Man I wish I could date her " ... They skip the self-talk and actually do it.

The bad boy get outside of his comfort zone and goes after what he wants. If he wants her number he gets it. If he wants to see her again , he tells her.

He gets over his insecurities and makes it happen. When he wants something nothing stands his way.

Develop the same mindset - when you want something , take action. Don't allow your thoughts and fear to stop you. Make the decision and move toward it ASAP.

#10 Bad Boys Don't Get Played :-
"Played" means getting your heart broken because you're too blind or inexperience to see what's actually going on.

Bad boys have experience with women "know the game and don't fall for the same tricks , games and excuses as the nice guys. They know when something isn't right.

When she says, “Umm… how about you give me YOUR number” the nice guy gives her his number not knowing she’s never going to call. When she cancels 3 dates with 3 different excuses, the nice guy just keeps asking her out. She plays games, she’s flaky, sneaky, and dishonest, and the nice guy keeps thinking of how beautiful she is and overlooks all of her bad attitude.

Bad boys who attract a lot of women are smart, experienced, know what they want, and are able to spot nonsense from a mile away.

With bad boys when she ask for his number instead , he walks away. When she keeps canceling she's a waste of time. When she's being flaky, and dishonest and playing games he moves on because he knows he can do better.

Since she's used to nice guys and loser's she's shockingly surprised and when she meets a bad boy who knows better.

#11 Bad Boys Aren't Sorry:-
Nice guys apologies too much :-
• Makes a joke she doesn't think is funny - he apologizes
• Tries holding her hand and she pulls away – he apologizes.
•Missed her call or takes too long to text back - he apologizes
Apologizing too much makes you look weak, insecure, and unsure of yourself.

Bad boys don't apologize as often :-
•He makes a joke he thinks is funnier than she does – he tells her to work on her sense of humor.
•Grabs her hand and she pulls away – he ignores it like it never happened.

Bad boys don't seek approval by apologizing for everything. Women like him or they don't. Either way he's fine with it.

Be comfortable in your own skin and stop apologizing for who you are and what you do

#12 Bad Boys Don't Care As much :-
The most powerful trait all bad boys share is THEY SIMPLY DON'T CARE AS MUCH AS NICE GUYS DO.
Caring too much what anyone thinks makes you a nice guy.


Bad boys care less what anyone thinks , especially beautiful women and aren't phased by other people opinion.

Caring too much of what other people think, kills attraction and puts you in the friend-zone.

#13 Bad Boys Leave Her Wanting More :-
The bad boy causes a woman to fall madly in love and then leaves them wanting more for years and years to come.

He doesn't milk the date until it's dry, stay on the phone until she's bored , give her everything she wants or tell her his much he likes her too soon.

They give her just enough but not everything she wants. This multiple the attraction and intifues her desire.

If a woman leaves first, it's a sign you're going away too soon.

14# Bad Boys Break Rules:-
Not all bad boys break the law and you don't have to go to jail or prison to prove you have the bad guy mentality.
Since bad boys do what ever they want.They usually aren't fond of rules and laws.

They are not idiots , they're not just fund of the rules.They don’t like being told what to, when to do it, and how to do it. It feels like being a slave to society.

Some think following rules to a fault is a cowardly way to live and some rules are meant to be broken.

#15 Bad Boys Handle Their Problems :-
Bad boys handle their problems and don't let it go out of control.

Women want men who handle their problems instead of waiting until they become too much to handle.

In your own life handle your problems immediately and don't let them become worse. When problem arise fix them right away and get rid of them.

#16 Bad Boys Don't Worship Women :-
Bad boys don't worship women and put them on pedestal. Their lives don't revolve around getting women approval.

If you see her as better than you , as higher value than you , higher status than you, if you have already put her above you, you've lost. If you put women on pedestal you can't attract her.

That's why lots of women are attracted to Brad Pitt, James Bond etc , those guys never take women seriously, they don't put women on pedestal.

Nice guys act needy, treat her like an idol and do whatever she ask, in order to get her approval to like him.(which of course they won't get).

Bad boys don't.

This isn’t the bad boy’s mindset. He doesn’t spend time worrying to get women to like him. He knows he's a badass, he just lives his life and when he’s around women, he relaxes and has fun.

If she likes him, cool. If not, no big deal.


Conclusion;-
99℅ trait of men who are excellent at attracting women have the bad boy trait which most nice guys lack.

But you don't have change to be a bad guy to start women , you can also be a nice gentleman and have all the traits of a bad boy and get the same result the bad boys get with hot women.

-Chris Uzor
ALL THOSE TRAITS OR CHARACTER U WROTE UP THERE ARE FOR GOOD GUYS AND NOT BAD GUYS ( GUYS WITH FEAR OF GOD ) ITS JUST THAT THE GOOD GUYS REFUSE TO USE THEM OUT OF IGNORANCE. .......GOD COMMANDED HIS CHILDREN TO POSSESS CONFIDENCE, GENUINETY, BOLDNESS, FAITH, HONESTY, MODERACY, SENSITIVITY TO PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL THINGS ON AND ON....
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by TheLogicalMind(m): 3:04pm On Sep 04, 2018
Empiree:
was gonna say the same.

At the end of the day, women who fall for them get knocked out and rejected by bad boys. And the idiots run back to good boys to take care of them and bad boys' babies. RUBBISH

Don't be bad boy. They litter the system with unwanted babies. GO AND WATCH PATERNITY COURT ON YOUTUBE. You will see lots of promiscuous women with bad boys littering the system with babies they don't even know who the fathers are.

Don't Ever Be Bad Boy. Be who you are


Example of bad boy and promiscuous woman


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sv5O_Wovmuw&t=305s
True. Promiscuity is crude, cheap, vulgar and symbolic of a lower mentality. Even marriage cannot lend respectability to promiscuity.

https://scontent.flos8-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/37889014_419900441847815_801888059363688448_n.jpg?_nc_cat=0&oh=e5cb009b0ee5d4036adb398f13c32998&oe=5BF62314
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Empiree: 3:33pm On Sep 04, 2018
TheLogicalMind:
True. Promiscuity is crude, cheap, vulgar and symbolic of a lower mentality. Even marriage cannot lend respectability to promiscuity.
pardon?. You missed road?. You are in wrong thread, buddy. And for quick record He MARRIED. They are his wives. Any children out of their union were his and we're legal.

That's not Definition of Promiscuity. Don't twist. You can do anything with your wife. Take your hate elsewhere. I'm not gonna succumb to your bait. Now get off this thread. This is not appropriate place for this
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Mcglisten(m): 4:09pm On Sep 04, 2018
Always be yourself, that is the spirit
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by TheLogicalMind(m): 4:20pm On Sep 04, 2018
Empiree:
pardon?. You missed road?. You are in wrong thread, buddy. And for quick record He MARRIED. They are his wives. Any children out of their union were his and we're legal.

That's not Definition of Promiscuity. Don't twist. You can do anything with your wife. Take your hate elsewhere. I'm not gonna succumb to your bait. Now get off this thread. This is not appropriate place for this
Erm, promiscuity and satyrisis (which is the male equivalent of nymphomania) cannot be dignified by marriage. A man who cannot contain his sexual needs is the living embodiment of what it means to be promiscuous. Seeing a beautiful woman on the streets and not being able to control your lust is a sign of weakness. Blaming the devil for your weakness is a sign of abject unintelligence.

Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3240:

Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them: The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Psoul(m): 4:46pm On Sep 04, 2018
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Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Empiree: 4:49pm On Sep 04, 2018
TheLogicalMind:
Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3240:

Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them: The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.
If you are truly "The Logical Mind" as you called yourself, you shouldn't find it hard to comprehend a very simply lesson the hadith you quoted tried to derive or teach sensible people. But you are not logical unfortunately undecided

You wanna know definition of promiscuity?. Watch the video to the end and compare to hadith you quoted. In case you are lazy to watch (15mins), it is a young lady who slept with 2 men. At the end of the day, court determined that none of the men is biological father of her child, which means she slept with other people and she has no idea who the father is. She shamefully left the courtroom. Get over your hatred


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0W2VUjtCAE
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by TheLogicalMind(m): 4:56pm On Sep 04, 2018
Empiree:
If you are truly "The Logical Mind" as you called yourself, you shouldn't find it hard to comprehend a very simply lesson the hadith you quoted tried to derive or teach sensible people. But you are not logical unfortunately undecided

You wanna know definition of promiscuity?. Watch the video to the end and compare to hadith you quoted. In case you are lazy to watch (15mins), it is a young lady who slept with 2 men. At the end of the day, court determined that none of the men is biological father of her child, which means she slept with other people and she has no idea who the father is. She shamefully left the courtroom. Get over your hatred


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0W2VUjtCAE
The plot thickens cheesy So only WOMEN can be promiscous? This is becoming more and more interesting....A lot of things are now begining to make sense....

Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Empiree: 5:15pm On Sep 04, 2018
TheLogicalMind:
The plot thickens cheesy So only WOMEN can be promiscous? This is becoming more and more interesting....A lot of things are now begining to make sense....
Stop embarrassing yourself. There are people reading your posts. We know what promisciousity means. It is not controversial at all. And i never said there aren't promiscuous men. Example of promiscuous man was the first video i posted. If you are intelligent enough, it is not difficult to understand promisciousity. A married man is a married man. A married woman is a married woman. Children born out of that know their father and their father know them. Another example of promisciousity. A woman sued two men for possible father of her 25 year old child. After DNA result, it was determined that none of the two men are biological father of her 25 yr old child. Now she confessed she slept with 3 other men. She wasn't married to any of them. This is what marriage protects. Hadiths you quoted speak in the marriage context. I will not reply you anymore. I thought you are intelligent. Boy bye


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUvbTFinbZ0
Re: 16 "Bad Boy" Traits That Women Find Very Attractive. (Top Secret) by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 04, 2018
Crossboy:
Gosh! Knew This Already But Anytime I Try To Change From This Nice Boy To A Bad Boy I Just Cant!
make money first and then make more money
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