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tayooluwole:
I have met many ladies in my life and as I am talking, this is my 1st serious relationship. Hardly my past relationship last for 2 months until this present one. Few ladies had come and gone, once any ladies' attributes doesnt fit in to my requirements, I don't waste time before I pick race to prevent the relationship going far. I met this my present gf over a year ago and since then, things have been running fine, in fact, she changed my perception that not all ladies are bad. I developed a very hot love for her along the line and she did the same. Since we love ourselves, cheating on her never come to mind even for once. Why do I need alternative gf since she gave me everything I want as far as relationship is concerned... and of course, I know that not cheating on her will save me many things. We were in the same town for almost a year before it was necessary for us both to depart for a far-distnace place to hustle. To cut it short, i came down to lag, while she remain in town because she is a student there while the town is my own home town. All trough the sailment of our love, I never had another girl friend ( she self knows this fact ) and I never suspect her of the same. Though, she has many toasters that she kept talking to on phone. For almost 3 months now, I have not seen her, we only talked on phone. Anytime, we are on phone she always profess her love and tell me how much she has missed me.

This is where I am having headache, like a month ago, she went to thier village, anytime she is in village, I can not call her except if she locate network and call me her self. It's almost 2 weeks now that my gf has called me and I can not call her my self. I was so disturbed that I had to call her brother using female voice to at least know what is happening... Her borther picked up and told me that my gf has left for school ( town ) like 4 days ago, i asked him that her number has not been going though, her brother told me that nothing happened to her number... her brother gave me her number which is quiet different from her usual number. Which means she purposely removed her normal SIM to prevent me from reaching her.

Omo I was emotionally knocked down, almost immediately, I called her with the new number and immediately she heard my voice she became mute as if network was not ok...

I said ok no p, so I called one of my guy in the town to help me run a check on her if she is actually in town, without wasting time, my guy went straight to her house and lo and behold, my guy met her gidigba in the house in her room. NO BODY WAS IN THE HOUSE except she and the guy that has been disturbing her for date. This guy happened to be staying in the same house with her, different rooms. All other housemates have gone to thier respective home due to strike.

Well, without wasting time, my guy handed phone to her that I wanted to talk to her, she could not say anything but was prevaricating that she has no phone again that's y she could not call to inform me about her presence in town. She told me she arrived town( school) yesterday, whereas her brother told me that she had left for town like 4 days ago. I was so devastated. I proposed to her that I will coming right from lagos to town to atleast see her, since its been a long time, she told me not to stress and bother my self, since she is leaving for her village again tomorrow.

At this juncture, I was in short of words but had to express my dissatisfaction about her excuses with few words.

As I am talking now, there is no way I can call her since she said she has no phone, whereas her brother gave me her new number which is actually going, but she is acting smart anytime I call the number...

Do not forget, i called her on my friends phone and my frined has already left her house for his own place.

As i am now, i am emotionally down, though she emotionally professed her love to me while we were talking on phone but I am not comfortable... To me, she has been running things behind me. And this a girl I so much love and decided to not cheat on her no matter what.

I did send her money any time she is in need. I am in pain cos my trust was smartly betrayed...

Guys, I don't know if I should still count on her as my forever partner...

generationz:
No my friend

Make money and golddiggers will scramble for it.

That is when you will understand that money isn't everything

Olalan:
I understand your feeling of betrayal and hurt OP, the girl is notbdeserving of your love and is most likely cheating on you with the games she's playing on your intellect.
If you truly loved her sincerely and didn't cheat on her be sure God will provide you with a better lady.
BTW dating a student is a big risk be prepared for the worst, nonetheless give the relationship your best.

Yungstev007:
@OP, My story is almost the same as yours and I can totally understand what you are going through now. Please just let her go. You'll heal with time

Frankicent:
all this bros who I taught are well experience are indeed not.

how can you still be hoping on a gal you rarely see.

you didn't you flirt now see your life...m had it been those girl that gave you attention where still with you. you wouldn't even think About your chicken gf.. now see her lodge mate is banging her.. That's a bad guy after banging her he'll move onto the next one.

No go get side chick dey der and be sending money to a gal like say she's working for you.. Bros if you put her mind on a gal you'll just get high bp...


my advice delete her number I know doing it is hard.. Just do it. .

2: Flirt with other ladies

3: Stopping acting like her client

4: See her as a Bleep mate she don Bleep up.

phantonce:
This reminds me of my days in nysc when my then girlfriendsexmate boyfriend's do call her and I give her the phone to receive call and we continue knacking afterwards


Good old days...


Op, face your life and forget girl matter.na guy man wey never dey dis kain situation go still dey carry girl matter for head dis 2018..see as the grown up man dey cry like sissy ��

bitcoinvin:
I will tell u Just 3 things
1:The only woman i can Trust in my life is the woman i pay her dowry
2.98% of Ladies in this Indomie Generation never appreciates a man who loves them dearly
3.When u are dating a woman;make sure you Bleep her wella and if she starts Misbehaving;just carry u sandles and waka

tayooluwole:
I have met many ladies in my life and as I am talking, this is my 1st serious relationship. Hardly my past relationship last for 2 months until this present one. Few ladies had come and gone, once any ladies' attributes doesnt fit in to my requirements, I don't waste time before I pick race to prevent the relationship going far. I met this my present gf over a year ago and since then, things have been running fine, in fact, she changed my perception that not all ladies are bad. I developed a very hot love for her along the line and she did the same. Since we love ourselves, cheating on her never come to mind even for once. Why do I need alternative gf since she gave me everything I want as far as relationship is concerned... and of course, I know that not cheating on her will save me many things. We were in the same town for almost a year before it was necessary for us both to depart for a far-distnace place to hustle. To cut it short, i came down to lag, while she remain in town because she is a student there while the town is my own home town. All trough the sailment of our love, I never had another girl friend ( she self knows this fact ) and I never suspect her of the same. Though, she has many toasters that she kept talking to on phone. For almost 3 months now, I have not seen her, we only talked on phone. Anytime, we are on phone she always profess her love and tell me how much she has missed me.

This is where I am having headache, like a month ago, she went to thier village, anytime she is in village, I can not call her except if she locate network and call me her self. It's almost 2 weeks now that my gf has called me and I can not call her my self. I was so disturbed that I had to call her brother using female voice to at least know what is happening... Her borther picked up and told me that my gf has left for school ( town ) like 4 days ago, i asked him that her number has not been going though, her brother told me that nothing happened to her number... her brother gave me her number which is quiet different from her usual number. Which means she purposely removed her normal SIM to prevent me from reaching her.

Omo I was emotionally knocked down, almost immediately, I called her with the new number and immediately she heard my voice she became mute as if network was not ok...

I said ok no p, so I called one of my guy in the town to help me run a check on her if she is actually in town, without wasting time, my guy went straight to her house and lo and behold, my guy met her gidigba in the house in her room. NO BODY WAS IN THE HOUSE except she and the guy that has been disturbing her for date. This guy happened to be staying in the same house with her, different rooms. All other housemates have gone to thier respective home due to strike.

Well, without wasting time, my guy handed phone to her that I wanted to talk to her, she could not say anything but was prevaricating that she has no phone again that's y she could not call to inform me about her presence in town. She told me she arrived town( school) yesterday, whereas her brother told me that she had left for town like 4 days ago. I was so devastated. I proposed to her that I will coming right from lagos to town to atleast see her, since its been a long time, she told me not to stress and bother my self, since she is leaving for her village again tomorrow.

At this juncture, I was in short of words but had to express my dissatisfaction about her excuses with few words.

As I am talking now, there is no way I can call her since she said she has no phone, whereas her brother gave me her new number which is actually going, but she is acting smart anytime I call the number...

Do not forget, i called her on my friends phone and my frined has already left her house for his own place.

As i am now, i am emotionally down, though she emotionally professed her love to me while we were talking on phone but I am not comfortable... To me, she has been running things behind me. And this a girl I so much love and decided to not cheat on her no matter what.

I did send her money any time she is in need. I am in pain cos my trust was smartly betrayed...

Guys, I don't know if I should still count on her as my forever partner...

Treasuredlove:
If you are working and dating a student, know that you are just a side dish

lefulefu:
She's seen another nigga thats rocking her boat. Just forget about her and focus on ur work.sooner or later a good girl will come.delete her phone contacts/facebook contacts/watsap contacts and also her pics frm ur phone so as to get ur mind completely off from her.

BiggyB242:
That's when you're a novice in the dating game. Only those men going for slay queen (pretty face and fine physique; big boobs and ass) fall for gold diggers ma'am. After making the money, we know what we want. Money gives us the opportunity to go for exactly for what we want.

generationz:
I didn't read your long epistle mhen
my brain is partially on hibernation from nairaland matter.

so because she cheated on you, you regret being loyal ? geez do men have a monopoly on cheating or what


Loyalty should be part of your values and character as a person. Just as you are expected to be honest ,hardworking and have integrity.

This is whether you are a man or woman


Let me ask you, those ladies you said you had flings with before you met her can you with a clear conscience tell me you didn't break one or two hearts before vowing to love this girl.


I know how you feel, it is tough to put your trust in someone and have it broken bit don't let it change you.


OK I went back to read.

sorry mehn

many young undergraduates usually get carried away by too many toasters and before to you it one or two son knack. Some even make it a full time proffesion while in school.


The problem be say una no dey look the side of good girls wet no go give una trouble. Na girls wet son open eye una dey find.

generationz:
I didn't read your long epistle mhen
my brain is partially on hibernation from nairaland matter.

so because she cheated on you, you regret being loyal ? geez do men have a monopoly on cheating or what


Loyalty should be part of your values and character as a person. Just as you are expected to be honest ,hardworking and have integrity.

This is whether you are a man or woman


Let me ask you, those ladies you said you had flings with before you met her can you with a clear conscience tell me you didn't break one or two hearts before vowing to love this girl.


I know how you feel, it is tough to put your trust in someone and have it broken bit don't let it change you.


OK I went back to read.

sorry mehn

many young undergraduates usually get carried away by too many toasters and before to you it one or two son knack. Some even make it a full time proffesion while in school.


The problem be say una no dey look the side of good girls wet no go give una trouble. Na girls wet son open eye una dey find.

generationz:
No my friend

Make money and golddiggers will scramble for it.

That is when you will understand that money isn't everything

QueenSekxy:
shes gone.

Goldiano:
if he failed to listen to this, then this guy is a weak man with low intelligence

Fourwinds:
lie...it depends on how u dish out the money....


imagine having #2 million and only gives #2000 at a go...how can a golddigger know u have such money...


the true one will eventually stay but not knowing u have such money....last last who enjoys it?

tayooluwole:
Bro you just open my eyes...thanks... if you see how down I am ehn, I am just thinking about the good times we spent together and I am like, would I ever experience such good moments again in my life...

ganie:
I don't think there is any good loving young man in existence that has not felt this in their lifetime.

tayooluwole:
I have met many ladies in my life and as I am talking, this is my 1st serious relationship. Hardly my past relationship last for 2 months until this present one. Few ladies had come and gone, once any ladies' attributes doesnt fit in to my requirements, I don't waste time before I pick race to prevent the relationship going far. I met this my present gf over a year ago and since then, things have been running fine, in fact, she changed my perception that not all ladies are bad. I developed a very hot love for her along the line and she did the same. Since we love ourselves, cheating on her never come to mind even for once. Why do I need alternative gf since she gave me everything I want as far as relationship is concerned... and of course, I know that not cheating on her will save me many things. We were in the same town for almost a year before it was necessary for us both to depart for a far-distnace place to hustle. To cut it short, i came down to lag, while she remain in town because she is a student there while the town is my own home town. All trough the sailment of our love, I never had another girl friend ( she self knows this fact ) and I never suspect her of the same. Though, she has many toasters that she kept talking to on phone. For almost 3 months now, I have not seen her, we only talked on phone. Anytime, we are on phone she always profess her love and tell me how much she has missed me.

This is where I am having headache, like a month ago, she went to thier village, anytime she is in village, I can not call her except if she locate network and call me her self. It's almost 2 weeks now that my gf has called me and I can not call her my self. I was so disturbed that I had to call her brother using female voice to at least know what is happening... Her borther picked up and told me that my gf has left for school ( town ) like 4 days ago, i asked him that her number has not been going though, her brother told me that nothing happened to her number... her brother gave me her number which is quiet different from her usual number. Which means she purposely removed her normal SIM to prevent me from reaching her.

Omo I was emotionally knocked down, almost immediately, I called her with the new number and immediately she heard my voice she became mute as if network was not ok...

I said ok no p, so I called one of my guy in the town to help me run a check on her if she is actually in town, without wasting time, my guy went straight to her house and lo and behold, my guy met her gidigba in the house in her room. NO BODY WAS IN THE HOUSE except she and the guy that has been disturbing her for date. This guy happened to be staying in the same house with her, different rooms. All other housemates have gone to thier respective home due to strike.

Well, without wasting time, my guy handed phone to her that I wanted to talk to her, she could not say anything but was prevaricating that she has no phone again that's y she could not call to inform me about her presence in town. She told me she arrived town( school) yesterday, whereas her brother told me that she had left for town like 4 days ago. I was so devastated. I proposed to her that I will coming right from lagos to town to atleast see her, since its been a long time, she told me not to stress and bother my self, since she is leaving for her village again tomorrow.

At this juncture, I was in short of words but had to express my dissatisfaction about her excuses with few words.

As I am talking now, there is no way I can call her since she said she has no phone, whereas her brother gave me her new number which is actually going, but she is acting smart anytime I call the number...

Do not forget, i called her on my friends phone and my frined has already left her house for his own place.

As i am now, i am emotionally down, though she emotionally professed her love to me while we were talking on phone but I am not comfortable... To me, she has been running things behind me. And this a girl I so much love and decided to not cheat on her no matter what.

I did send her money any time she is in need. I am in pain cos my trust was smartly betrayed...

Guys, I don't know if I should still count on her as my forever partner...

generationz:
I didn't read your long epistle mhen
my brain is partially on hibernation from nairaland matter.

so because she cheated on you, you regret being loyal ? geez do men have a monopoly on cheating or what


Loyalty should be part of your values and character as a person. Just as you are expected to be honest ,hardworking and have integrity.

This is whether you are a man or woman


Let me ask you, those ladies you said you had flings with before you met her can you with a clear conscience tell me you didn't break one or two hearts before vowing to love this girl.


I know how you feel, it is tough to put your trust in someone and have it broken bit don't let it change you.


OK I went back to read.

sorry mehn

many young undergraduates usually get carried away by too many toasters and before to you it one or two son knack. Some even make it a full time proffesion while in school.


The problem be say una no dey look the side of good girls wet no go give una trouble. Na girls wet son open eye una dey find.