stargyall:
well mine was really traumatizing ,, I was 15year old, just left secondary school, I just started exploring,, boys all on my tail,, so I met this banker,, he was real nice n bought me stuffs, so one day he invited me to his house, innocent me wanted to visit a guy the way my friends were visiting guys,, wen I got there we laughed n talked, not realizing he has locked the door n hid the key,,, after sometime while watching tv,, he removed his boxers n told me to touch his dickk,, That was the first time I saw a dickk ,, he told me to rub it, I said no , went to the door to leave the house n it was locked,,,before I knew it he dragged me back n told me I won’t leave the house till he comes,, if I don’t he will beat me up, he started touching my breast n immediately I started crying ,, I was scared couldn’t believe this guy was the nice banker, I started rubbing his dick , he said I wasn’t doing it well, that he will slap me o, I kept doing it,, he then said put ur mouth on it,, i was like I can’t do that God4bid, he slapped me n said put it in ur mouth, which I did ,, he didn’t still come , told me to remove my gen n pant I said no,, he started hiting me, i started shouting , he told me to shut up or he would call his friends n they will all rape me, i was scared n tired so kept quiet, removed my trousers, then he started trying to penetrate me,, he realized I was a virgin, I was crying n begging , please leave me alone I beg u, he went to the bathroom, used soap on his dick , so it would get in, i was trying to run he dragged me with my hair n told me to lay down , well I did,, he couldn’t get in n the soap was hurting me,, then I began to shout n didn’t care anymore,, thankfully a man came to his house with a Bible as soon as he opened the door I ran out with no pant, wore my trousers outside...he couldn’t penetrate n didn’t come, he started begging me instantly n blamed it on the devil,, bloody lier!!! I left his house crying profoundly!!! Didn’t believe it... I only told my best friend!!! That’s on

stargyall:
well mine was really traumatizing ,, I was 15year old, just left secondary school, I just started exploring,, boys all on my tail,, so I met this banker,, he was real nice n bought me stuffs, so one day he invited me to his house, innocent me wanted to visit a guy the way my friends were visiting guys,, wen I got there we laughed n talked, not realizing he has locked the door n hid the key,,, after sometime while watching tv,, he removed his boxers n told me to touch his dickk,, That was the first time I saw a dickk ,, he told me to rub it, I said no , went to the door to leave the house n it was locked,,,before I knew it he dragged me back n told me I won’t leave the house till he comes,, if I don’t he will beat me up, he started touching my breast n immediately I started crying ,, I was scared couldn’t believe this guy was the nice banker, I started rubbing his dick , he said I wasn’t doing it well, that he will slap me o, I kept doing it,, he then said put ur mouth on it,, i was like I can’t do that God4bid, he slapped me n said put it in ur mouth, which I did ,, he didn’t still come , told me to remove my gen n pant I said no,, he started hiting me, i started shouting , he told me to shut up or he would call his friends n they will all rape me, i was scared n tired so kept quiet, removed my trousers, then he started trying to penetrate me,, he realized I was a virgin, I was crying n begging , please leave me alone I beg u, he went to the bathroom, used soap on his dick , so it would get in, i was trying to run he dragged me with my hair n told me to lay down , well I did,, he couldn’t get in n the soap was hurting me,, then I began to shout n didn’t care anymore,, thankfully a man came to his house with a Bible as soon as he opened the door I ran out with no pant, wore my trousers outside...he couldn’t penetrate n didn’t come, he started begging me instantly n blamed it on the devil,, bloody lier!!! I left his house crying profoundly!!! Didn’t believe it... I only told my best friend!!! That’s one day I will never forget.... cried to my God for him to fight for me!! He had an accident weeks l8r n broke his legs!! That’s not enough he will hv a misrable life

MariaLavina:
So sorry about this. I hope you only smile now each time you remember this? Because that's the only sign that shows you are over it.



@emboldened, God is a God of fast and furious

pocohantas:


They think we don't know them.

That one be say, e get as you go comment tomorrow...they will ask if your vagina still hurts from the rape, hence your anger.

He who has ears...

stargyall:
was really happy when i heard it, i am over it tho, been ages.

MariaLavina:
I tell you sis.

Them fit say you become feminist because you were molested. Or ask if he infected you with Aids if you preach about protection. Or you have small boobs because they were rough handled at early stage of growth if you advice them against making physical attributes the sole criteria in choosing a life partner.

No be Nl guys ?

SarakiBukola:
An alarmingly high amount of women get harassed by male relatives be it fathers, uncles and brothers.

Don't even talk about strangers.

I can NEVER trust an infant daughter with ANY man, it so very sad

pocohantas:


They think we don't know them.

That one be say, e get as you go comment tomorrow...they will ask if your vagina still hurts from the rape, hence your anger.

He who has ears...

MariaLavina:
I tell you sis.

Them fit say you become feminist because you were molested. Or ask if he infected you with Aids if you preach about protection. Or you have small boobs because they were rough handled at early stage of growth if you advice them against making physical attributes the sole criteria in choosing a life partner.

No be Nl guys ?

stargyall:
was really happy when i heard it, i am over it tho, been ages.

MariaLavina:
I tell you sis.

Them fit say you become feminist because you were molested. Or ask if he infected you with Aids if you preach about protection. Or you have small boobs because they were rough handled at early stage of growth if you advice them against making physical attributes the sole criteria in choosing a life partner.

No be Nl guys ?

stargyall:
well mine was really traumatizing ,, I was 15year old, just left secondary school, I just started exploring,, boys all on my tail,, so I met this banker,, he was real nice n bought me stuffs, so one day he invited me to his house, innocent me wanted to visit a guy the way my friends were visiting guys,, wen I got there we laughed n talked, not realizing he has locked the door n hid the key,,, after sometime while watching tv,, he removed his boxers n told me to touch his dickk,, That was the first time I saw a dickk ,, he told me to rub it, I said no , went to the door to leave the house n it was locked,,,before I knew it he dragged me back n told me I won’t leave the house till he comes,, if I don’t he will beat me up, he started touching my breast n immediately I started crying ,, I was scared couldn’t believe this guy was the nice banker, I started rubbing his dick , he said I wasn’t doing it well, that he will slap me o, I kept doing it,, he then said put ur mouth on it,, i was like I can’t do that God4bid, he slapped me n said put it in ur mouth, which I did ,, he didn’t still come , told me to remove my gen n pant I said no,, he started hiting me, i started shouting , he told me to shut up or he would call his friends n they will all rape me, i was scared n tired so kept quiet, removed my trousers, then he started trying to penetrate me,, he realized I was a virgin, I was crying n begging , please leave me alone I beg u, he went to the bathroom, used soap on his dick , so it would get in, i was trying to run he dragged me with my hair n told me to lay down , well I did,, he couldn’t get in n the soap was hurting me,, then I began to shout n didn’t care anymore,, thankfully a man came to his house with a Bible as soon as he opened the door I ran out with no pant, wore my trousers outside...he couldn’t penetrate n didn’t come, he started begging me instantly n blamed it on the devil,, bloody lier!!! I left his house crying profoundly!!! Didn’t believe it... I only told my best friend!!! That’s one day I will never forget.... cried to my God for him to fight for me!! He had an accident weeks l8r n broke his legs!! That’s not enough he will hv a misrable life

pocohantas:


It is them, rape is something they use to mock ladies here. That is after they exhaust their marriage taunts.

One once asked me if I am still having flashes of how I was raped. I should forgive the rapist for not using vaseline, rather he stuffed my vagina with dried leaves in harmattan. While thrusting violently.

I can remember the moniker, as well as everyone who quoted him with a thumbs up. Including the female Nlder. I will gladly blow their brains out, not for me...but for every actual victim that comment hurt. Foolish idiots. Share experience indeed!!!

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

Iamgrey5:

@ emboldened

When was this ?

zinnyzee:
Never have i been molested, abused or harrased sexually.

Grew up with no dad( Was late before i grew up)three older brothers and my mum. Growing up, i was one of the boys. Even stubborn than all 3 of dem put together.
Parents in d neighbourhood told their kids to steer clear of me. And that seemed to be what i needed since i hated the lot of them without a reason anyway.

I was growing up and realised i'm supposed to be a gurl and not a boy, and i felt inclined to change for d better. But having lived in the same neighbourhood for more than a decade didn't help matters, since everyone already knew me to be d rebellious kid.

So instead of turning a new leaf, i chose to live up to my reputation.


I'm grown up today and i'm d exact opposite of who i was as a kid. I was never molested, but i know what it means to feel unloved!

pocohantas:


It is them, rape is something they use to mock ladies here. That is after they exhaust their marriage taunts.

One once asked me if I am still having flashes of how I was raped. I should forgive the rapist for not using vaseline, rather he stuffed my vagina with dried leaves in harmattan. While thrusting violently.

I can remember the moniker, as well as everyone who quoted him with a thumbs up. Including the female Nlder. I will gladly blow their brains out, not for me...but for every actual victim that comment hurt. Foolish idiots. Share experience indeed!!!

pocohantas:


LOL, The year has gone so fast. So I can't even tell if it is this year or ending of last.

MariaLavina:
On a forum where guys are quick to call you bitter, frustrated and sometimes make up pathetic stories about you if you type contrary to their opinions or views? Nah..... This thread will be more of an object of humiliation than a psychological relief.



Anyways I'm here as a shoulder to cry on for whoever cares to share.

MariaLavina:
Holy shiit! These guys are more foolish than I thought!
Stuffed your v with dry leaves? That's so insensitive.

As for the sick bimbo, she's a shame to womanhood! Her boobs should be cut off, dried and processed as fertilizer. I wonder if some ladies have loaves of bread for brains. Never been a victim of molestation but I will never joke about it much less mock a victim. That's inhumane.

Of course, it will hurt. When they see how people trivialize and use what hurts them as a subject of ridicule.The actual victims will not be happy reading that. Some guys on here though. Disgusting loads of crap!

doctorkush:
oniro jati jati

otherway:


If you look at the moniker of the lady who sincerely shared her experience you will see it was registered today which makes perfect sense cos I know how deeply private this topic is which was why I wrote that any lady who is not comfy about it should use an alternate Moniker and it takes less than 5minutes to create one.

I'm in my mid 40s and I have been through this crazy experience but until yesterday when I let it all out it was like a burden to me and I felt a relief afterwards. Men can share even with their regular moniker cos we really dont fret but ladies are more secretive.

I joined nairaland last month when a friend asked me to check an info on auto section and I find the site educative else I don't see why I should register.

So please share your experience if you have one and by so doing,You will heal and people will learn.

MariaLavina:
I tell you sis.

Them fit say you become feminist because you were molested. Or ask if he infected you with Aids if you preach about protection. Or you have small boobs because they were rough handled at early stage of growth if you advice them against making physical attributes the sole criteria in choosing a life partner.

No be Nl guys ?

MariaLavina:
You don't know securities and bonds abi? . You are new here, you don't know how things work here. Just take a seat and watch things unfold. You won't wait long

Any sensible person would have learnt a thing or two from previous threads and the story on this thread. As for healing, Only a shrink can help


BTW sorry to announce to you that your thread is DOA

otherway:


Did you read before making comments.

If any lady really have an experience worth sharing she will do so with a new ID.

Even if the thread goes limp what do I stand to lose? Absolutely nothing.

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

MariaLavina:
Calm down Sir, no be do or die thing nah

Yea.. They will share with new "ID's" , No argument, they will. Can I have my peace now? As I observe silently ? Waiting for the new 'IDs'

Peace

otherway:


If you look at the moniker of the lady who sincerely shared her experience you will see it was registered today which makes perfect sense cos I know how deeply private this topic is which was why I wrote that any lady who is not comfy about it should use an alternate Moniker and it takes less than 5minutes to create one.

I'm in my mid 40s and I have been through this crazy experience but until yesterday when I let it all out it was like a burden to me and I felt a relief afterwards. Men can share even with their regular moniker cos we really dont fret but ladies are more secretive.

I joined nairaland last month when a friend asked me to check an info on auto section and I find the site educative else I don't see why I should register.

So please share your experience if you have one and by so doing,You will heal and people will learn.

zinnyzee:
Never have i been molested, abused or harrased sexually.

Grew up with no dad( Was late before i grew up)three older brothers and my mum. Growing up, i was one of the boys. Even stubborn than all 3 of dem put together.
Parents in d neighbourhood told their kids to steer clear of me. And that seemed to be what i needed since i hated the lot of them without a reason anyway.

I was growing up and realised i'm supposed to be a gurl and not a boy, and i felt inclined to change for d better. But having lived in the same neighbourhood for more than a decade didn't help matters, since everyone already knew me to be d rebellious kid.

So instead of turning a new leaf, i chose to live up to my reputation.


I'm grown up today and i'm d exact opposite of who i was as a kid. I was never molested, but i know what it means to feel unloved!