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The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by naijanewstv(op): 10:10pm On Sep 06, 2018
Please my story is too long but will try cut it down a bit.

Am a married woman I married 2017, January to be precise. But some times I don't even know if I should tell people am married or single.

The man I married just want to fulfill that gap or space of marriage. Just to answer a married man any other thing is none of his business.

Since January 2017, I married my husband we have only seen 2 times and I did the visiting. I live in Lagos while he lives in Port Harcourt.

No calls, no messages, no visiting, when I complain we will quarrel till God knows when.

The second time I went to visit him, we had issues as usual and I got angry and left to town because I was supposed to travel back to Lagos the next day.

He told his friend to call and beg me, I forgave him, before then I have paid for a hotel where I will put up till the next morning before leaving for Lagos. But because the friend begged me, I had to tell him where I was logged.

At night I wake up to ease my self and a message came in, he slept off while chatting with the phone still in his hand. So I picked up the phone to keep. I saw the person still typing I decided to read the message.

Honestly, I cried my eyes out. This is what the massage says..

Husband... My wife came into town.
Lady.. Wow, thats enough fu!cking now.
Husband. No I haven't touched her since we married, she got me angry now and am not going to touch her,
Lady.. Haba why now.
Husband. My dear I won't am tired already. I paid for a hotel where we are now, I will wait till she leaves in the morning when she goes I will invite a babe and give her the best fu!ck of her life.
Lady. Hmm
Husband.. Yes dear I wish you are around now, I missed your sucking, and the way I suck you too.
Lady. Haba that's too bad now. She's human, even though I would love to fu!ck you, but then she's your wife, You need to fu!ck her so she won't get the satisfaction outside
Husband.. I don't care, she's free to do whatever she wants.
My love let's do video call and am hard now, I need to masturbate so I can cum
Lady.. When ur wife is there with you?? Chai you are not being fair.

Readers please am I still a married woman?? I couldn't hold it. I cried all night.

In the morning when I was dressing up to go, he was like nne be fast now so you don't miss your bus.
I now told him what I read from his phone.. I told him this will be the last time he will see me. Hotel I paid with my money is what you want to invite another woman over and fu!ck??

Please everyone, is there Joy in marriage because am not getting any?
Am so tired and scared. Please help me.

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/the-man-i-married-hates-sleeping-with-me.html
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Airforce1(m): 10:18pm On Sep 06, 2018
I won't support this man on this one ...

What's the need of marrying when you don't have the mind to forgive .

He's a wicked man and a cheat

I won't encourage divorce as my bible is against it, but use your head madam.
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by GOFRONT(m): 10:22pm On Sep 06, 2018
Hmmm
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by yusufobinna1(m): 10:27pm On Sep 06, 2018
Its bad, m a young married man too but will never hurt the woman I called a wife,its just so unfortunate, even if he is cheating he shouldn't have made it open for you to know.I stay in Aba n my wife stays in Lagos for 3 years before getting married I misbehaved but ever since I marry her I cut off my tiles with my gfs.
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by IamPlato(m): 10:35pm On Sep 06, 2018
...

Village People Don Swear For Him Prick
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Nwodosis(m):
How can we have the man's own side of the story?
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Sep 06, 2018
It still baffles me why some people don't get married to who they like and find sexually appealing.
What stopped this man from marrying that lady he loves to suck? I'm confused about this.
It's pitiful how Nigerians still overate marriage in that part of the world. Marriage is a necessity and if you don't need it, please stay out and enjoy your life to the fullest. undecided
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by tolugar: 10:55pm On Sep 06, 2018
Honestly, this is very bad.

In this case, I support divorce

Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Ever8054: 11:02pm On Sep 06, 2018
because of social media, people no dey fear God again oooo....jesus christ see lies....

Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by rossyc(f): 11:07pm On Sep 06, 2018
This one strong o..
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by AmazingELixir: 12:18am On Sep 07, 2018
Madam I feel your pain, how can any man disrespect and disregard a woman he married himself like this.
Madam it's not every person that has a projector between his thighs is a man ooh!.
I don't know about you I just think this your man ain't changing, the situation is compounded by your staying apart and afar.
On a lighter note maybe he is trying to protect you from infection, he might be a carrier.
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by alukstea(m): 12:18am On Sep 07, 2018
This days na dem de rush us with lies ewoo...
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by pacino26(m): 12:52am On Sep 07, 2018
Ever8054:
because of social media, people no dey fear God again oooo....jesus christ see lies....

Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by royalair(m): 2:51am On Sep 07, 2018
naijanewstv:
Please my story is too long but will try cut it down a bit.

Am a married woman I married 2017, January to be precise. But some times I don't even know if I should tell people am married or single.

The man I married just want to fulfill that gap or space of marriage. Just to answer a married man any other thing is none of his business.

Since January 2017, I married my husband we have only seen 2 times and I did the visiting. I live in Lagos while he lives in Port Harcourt.

No calls, no messages, no visiting, when I complain we will quarrel till God knows when.

The second time I went to visit him, we had issues as usual and I got angry and left to town because I was supposed to travel back to Lagos the next day.

He told his friend to call and beg me, I forgave him, before then I have paid for a hotel where I will put up till the next morning before leaving for Lagos. But because the friend begged me, I had to tell him where I was logged.

At night I wake up to ease my self and a message came in, he slept off while chatting with the phone still in his hand. So I picked up the phone to keep. I saw the person still typing I decided to read the message.

Honestly, I cried my eyes out. This is what the massage says..

Husband... My wife came into town.
Lady.. Wow, thats enough fu!cking now.
Husband. No I haven't touched her since we married, she got me angry now and am not going to touch her,
Lady.. Haba why now.
Husband. My dear I won't am tired already. I paid for a hotel where we are now, I will wait till she leaves in the morning when she goes I will invite a babe and give her the best fu!ck of her life.
Lady. Hmm
Husband.. Yes dear I wish you are around now, I missed your sucking, and the way I suck you too.
Lady. Haba that's too bad now. She's human, even though I would love to fu!ck you, but then she's your wife, You need to fu!ck her so she won't get the satisfaction outside
Husband.. I don't care, she's free to do whatever she wants.
My love let's do video call and am hard now, I need to masturbate so I can cum
Lady.. When ur wife is there with you?? Chai you are not being fair.

Readers please am I still a married woman?? I couldn't hold it. I cried all night.

In the morning when I was dressing up to go, he was like nne be fast now so you don't miss your bus.
I now told him what I read from his phone.. I told him this will be the last time he will see me. Hotel I paid with my money is what you want to invite another woman over and fu!ck??

Please everyone, is there Joy in marriage because am not getting any?
Am so tired and scared. Please help me.

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/the-man-i-married-hates-sleeping-with-me.html
Fine lady
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Sheunayo(m): 3:30am On Sep 07, 2018
January wedding is very rare... Nice story
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by chiommy123(f): 4:24am On Sep 07, 2018
That man is mean and wicked. Its bad that he's cheating, throwing it in your face is the height of disrespect and he should pay for it
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by kalex0(m): 8:48am On Sep 07, 2018
chiommy123:
That man is mean and wicked. Its bad that he's cheating, throwing it in your face is the height of disrespect and he should pay for it
This girl, u no get work??

nah every thread u dey comment on


Don't U av any meaningful thing to do with your lifehuh


Nawa o


lazy breed

big head
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Manweysabi(m): 9:52am On Sep 07, 2018
Airforce1:
I won't support this man on this one ...

What's the need of marrying when you don't have the mind to forgive .

He's a wicked man and a cheat

I won't encourage divorce as my bible is against it, but use your head madam.
In this case, the Bible encourages divorce... adultery
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by naijacentric(m): 10:28am On Sep 07, 2018
kalex0:
This girl, u no get work??

nah every thread u dey comment on


Don't U av any meaningful thing to do with your lifehuh


Nawa o


lazy breed

big head
busy body wetin concern u
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by kalex0(m): 11:16am On Sep 07, 2018
naijacentric:
busy body wetin concern u
woman rapper spotted

Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:34am On Sep 07, 2018
I am on my way
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by naijacentric(m): 11:51am On Sep 07, 2018
kalex0:
woman rapper spotted
wrong am neutral
Re: The Man I Married Loves Sleeping With Other Ladies Instead Of Me, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:57am On Sep 07, 2018
MajorJeffery:
It still baffles me why some people don't get married to who they like and find sexually appealing.
What stopped this man from marrying that lady he loves to suck? I'm confused about this.
It's pitiful how Nigerians still overate marriage in that part of the world. Marriage is a necessity and if you don't need it, please stay out and enjoy your life to the fullest. undecided
he was forced to marry the lady
end of story cheesy
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