Hello everyone, it's another day to write about another wonderful topic and this time around I'll be focusing on the girls and the so many things we do wrong while conversing with someone especially on social media.
First, I didn't just wake up to write this. I saw a very captivating post about a guy saying why he would rather chat with a foreign girl than a Nigerian girl (picture below) and it got me wondering..what did we do so wrong?

In my last post, I talked about how to know if you're a boring conversationalist, well, turns out most guys think Nigerian girls are clearly BORING online!
So I did some research and I've been able to put together the different things Nigerian girls do wrong in a conversation.
1.Everyone is a suspect!
This couldn't be more true. To a Nigerian girl, once you say 'hi' and your number isn't saved on her contact list... you're an automatic suspect. For all she knows, you could be a kidnapper or simply someone trying to woo her. Girls, let's calm down. Not everyone who says hi wants to take you to the alter, some just wants to make friends. Funny enough, the very first thing a girl ask when you tell her 'hi' is 'who gave you my number '?... without a reply whatsoever, it doesn't go well with the guys. Settle, be friendly and make them relax, that way, your question will be answered even without you asking. And guys, really, try to be less suspicious. You get a girl's number for the first time and chat her up..cool.. introduce yourself first and do not give her reasons to be someone you'll hate!.

2.Can't keep up conversation.
It's typical of most Nigerian girls to expect the guy to keep the conversation going. To them, if you wanna chat, you have to come up with all chat ideas. That's wrong!. It's a two way thing. I've been opportune to see different chats of Nigerian guys with foreign girls and honestly, it is DIFFERENT!. The girl should put in just as much effort as the guy in a conversation, do not chat like a robot, be lively and bring up interesting topics to talk about. BUT...guys let's be honest, most girls intentionally ignore your chats because you keep talking about perverted things and keep repeating things..see this;
Lol... I have seen this way too much.... For me the fact that I am a lazy texter... I hate small talks actually too... Most times I rather not even chat or start a conversation if we keep asking or talking about the same thing everyday (how you doing and your day?)... Most guys don't even know how to hold a conversation... The talk so dumb...especially does ones that have not even gotten to a limit of closeness with you.... WTF what are you wearing?? Tell me more about yourself... Uncle what exactly do you want to know.. I miss you.. Do you miss me Someone you barely know.. What the you want me to reply Biko..
So the above statement was made by a concerned Nigerian girl over the too much complains about Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are mostly disciplined and if they sense any act showing you're a pervert, you're off the conversation.

3.Easily look down on a person.
This one is bad... actually, almost everyone does it. You get a chat and the next thing you do is look at the profile picture to see the kind of person it is. If they don't come off as too rich or handsome..it's off. Nigerian girls will automatically ignore someone if they are not too good looking and financially stable...it doesn't speak well.

4. Seem desperate at first chat!
This is done by few actually . I still don't understand if it's a way of testing your capabilities or just pure desperation but asking someone you just met online for help is not a good act to depict. Having the mindset that anybody who comes your way is definitely one to take to the slaughter is a very bad mindset and a total turnoff. And guys really need to stop showing off.

5.you chat like you're doing them a favor.
Lastly, chatting with someone is not doing them a favour, it's a choice and they're not getting paid for it. Don't chat with someone and make them feel like you're doing them a favour by giving your time, they're giving theirs too.

I would go on and on but I intend to make this as short as possible. In conclusion, we should be more accommodating. Give these guys benefit of the doubt and make our conversations something to look forward to not something to dread!
Stop 'k...ng' someone. The 'k' word is annoying and greatly disheartening....
To finish up..on ...
https://www.sarahkaysblog.com/2018/09/everything-nigerian-girls-do-wrong-in.html

Like one i was chatting with. She expects me to always start the convo. I left the bitch sorry ass



BTW do you know it's vice versa White people love talking to us blacks especially female to male. Most of them crave for African men

We'll learn �.... hopefully

amaniro:
Like one i was chatting with. She expects me to always start the convo. I left the bitch sorry ass



BTW do you know it's vice versa White people love talking to us blacks especially female to male. Most of them crave for African men

amaniro:
Like one i was chatting with. She expects me to always start the convo. I left the bitch sorry ass



BTW do you know it's vice versa White people love talking to us blacks especially female to male[b]. Most of them crave for African men[/b]

the lies you tell yourself. if that's the case, then why is it that most Nigeria men always marry fat ugly old white women?

Op when you talk about foreign wonen.are you talking about foreign women from Congo or what

Lordtimothy66:
the lies you tell yourself. if that's the case,

then why is it that most Nigeria men always marry fat ugly old white women?

Op when you talk about foreign wonen.are you talking about foreign women from Congo or what

Yahoo boys do.

Another very important point. Stop using stupid abbreviations. Use Good morning, fine, thanks/thank you instead of Gud mrnin, fyn, tnks etc. those are so 2go and high school. The only permissible abbreviations are actual ones like WTF!, LOL etc always type words in full and correctly, except you're intentionally misspelling e.g ahdonbilivit, bish, gerrawt etc.

I've chatted with a Portuguese woman and an American lady, both were awesome and chats was just flowing like mad.

Sarahkay:
Hello everyone, it's another day to write about another wonderful topic and this time around I'll be focusing on the girls and the so many things we do wrong while conversing with someone especially on social media.
First, I didn't just wake up to write this. I saw a very captivating post about a guy saying why he would rather chat with a foreign girl than a Nigerian girl (picture below) and it got me wondering..what did we do so wrong?

In my last post, I talked about how to know if you're a boring conversationalist, well, turns out most guys think Nigerian girls are clearly BORING online!
So I did some research and I've been able to put together the different things Nigerian girls do wrong in a conversation.
1.Everyone is a suspect!
This couldn't be more true. To a Nigerian girl, once you say 'hi' and your number isn't saved on her contact list... you're an automatic suspect. For all she knows, you could be a kidnapper or simply someone trying to woo her. Girls, let's calm down. Not everyone who says hi wants to take you to the alter, some just wants to make friends. Funny enough, the very first thing a girl ask when you tell her 'hi' is 'who gave you my number '?... without a reply whatsoever, it doesn't go well with the guys. Settle, be friendly and make them relax, that way, your question will be answered even without you asking. And guys, really, try to be less suspicious. You get a girl's number for the first time and chat her up..cool.. introduce yourself first and do not give her reasons to be someone you'll hate!.

2.Can't keep up conversation.
It's typical of most Nigerian girls to expect the guy to keep the conversation going. To them, if you wanna chat, you have to come up with all chat ideas. That's wrong!. It's a two way thing. I've been opportune to see different chats of Nigerian guys with foreign girls and honestly, it is DIFFERENT!. The girl should put in just as much effort as the guy in a conversation, do not chat like a robot, be lively and bring up interesting topics to talk about. BUT...guys let's be honest, most girls intentionally ignore your chats because you keep talking about perverted things and keep repeating things..see this;
Lol... I have seen this way too much.... For me the fact that I am a lazy texter... I hate small talks actually too... Most times I rather not even chat or start a conversation if we keep asking or talking about the same thing everyday (how you doing and your day?)... Most guys don't even know how to hold a conversation... The talk so dumb...especially does ones that have not even gotten to a limit of closeness with you.... WTF what are you wearing?? Tell me more about yourself... Uncle what exactly do you want to know.. I miss you.. Do you miss me Someone you barely know.. What the you want me to reply Biko..
So the above statement was made by a concerned Nigerian girl over the too much complains about Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are mostly disciplined and if they sense any act showing you're a pervert, you're off the conversation.

3.Easily look down on a person.
This one is bad... actually, almost everyone does it. You get a chat and the next thing you do is look at the profile picture to see the kind of person it is. If they don't come off as too rich or handsome..it's off. Nigerian girls will automatically ignore someone if they are not too good looking and financially stable...it doesn't speak well.

4. Seem desperate at first chat!
This is done by few actually . I still don't understand if it's a way of testing your capabilities or just pure desperation but asking someone you just met online for help is not a good act to depict. Having the mindset that anybody who comes your way is definitely one to take to the slaughter is a very bad mindset and a total turnoff. And guys really need to stop showing off.

5.you chat like you're doing them a favor.
Lastly, chatting with someone is not doing them a favour, it's a choice and they're not getting paid for it. Don't chat with someone and make them feel like you're doing them a favour by giving your time, they're giving theirs too.

I would go on and on but I intend to make this as short as possible. In conclusion, we should be more accommodating. Give these guys benefit of the doubt and make our conversations something to look forward to not something to dread!
Stop 'k...ng' someone. The 'k' word is annoying and greatly disheartening....
To finish up..on ...
https://www.sarahkaysblog.com/2018/09/everything-nigerian-girls-do-wrong-in.html

Op o really love this. I'm doubting if you are a lady but that's by the way.

Please in you next post, bring up a topic like WHY NIGERIAN GUYS WOULD RATHER MARRY FOREIGN LADIES then mention me on the thread. I have a lot of points to contribute to the thread.


Thumb up op.

noting wey I no go c bt op u try sha.

Some guys are boring too, the one wey dey pain me reach heart is 'HMMM'. Gawd! It's so annoying.

Sarahkay:
Hello everyone, it's another day to write about another wonderful topic and this time around I'll be focusing on the girls and the so many things we do wrong while conversing with someone especially on social media.
First, I didn't just wake up to write this. I saw a very captivating post about a guy saying why he would rather chat with a foreign girl than a Nigerian girl (picture below) and it got me wondering..what did we do so wrong?

In my last post, I talked about how to know if you're a boring conversationalist, well, turns out most guys think Nigerian girls are clearly BORING online!
So I did some research and I've been able to put together the different things Nigerian girls do wrong in a conversation.
1.Everyone is a suspect!
This couldn't be more true. To a Nigerian girl, once you say 'hi' and your number isn't saved on her contact list... you're an automatic suspect. For all she knows, you could be a kidnapper or simply someone trying to woo her. Girls, let's calm down. Not everyone who says hi wants to take you to the alter, some just wants to make friends. Funny enough, the very first thing a girl ask when you tell her 'hi' is 'who gave you my number '?... without a reply whatsoever, it doesn't go well with the guys. Settle, be friendly and make them relax, that way, your question will be answered even without you asking. And guys, really, try to be less suspicious. You get a girl's number for the first time and chat her up..cool.. introduce yourself first and do not give her reasons to be someone you'll hate!.

2.Can't keep up conversation.
It's typical of most Nigerian girls to expect the guy to keep the conversation going. To them, if you wanna chat, you have to come up with all chat ideas. That's wrong!. It's a two way thing. I've been opportune to see different chats of Nigerian guys with foreign girls and honestly, it is DIFFERENT!. The girl should put in just as much effort as the guy in a conversation, do not chat like a robot, be lively and bring up interesting topics to talk about. BUT...guys let's be honest, most girls intentionally ignore your chats because you keep talking about perverted things and keep repeating things..see this;
Lol... I have seen this way too much.... For me the fact that I am a lazy texter... I hate small talks actually too... Most times I rather not even chat or start a conversation if we keep asking or talking about the same thing everyday (how you doing and your day?)... Most guys don't even know how to hold a conversation... The talk so dumb...especially does ones that have not even gotten to a limit of closeness with you.... WTF what are you wearing?? Tell me more about yourself... Uncle what exactly do you want to know.. I miss you.. Do you miss me Someone you barely know.. What the you want me to reply Biko..
So the above statement was made by a concerned Nigerian girl over the too much complains about Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are mostly disciplined and if they sense any act showing you're a pervert, you're off the conversation.

3.Easily look down on a person.
This one is bad... actually, almost everyone does it. You get a chat and the next thing you do is look at the profile picture to see the kind of person it is. If they don't come off as too rich or handsome..it's off. Nigerian girls will automatically ignore someone if they are not too good looking and financially stable...it doesn't speak well.

4. Seem desperate at first chat!
This is done by few actually . I still don't understand if it's a way of testing your capabilities or just pure desperation but asking someone you just met online for help is not a good act to depict. Having the mindset that anybody who comes your way is definitely one to take to the slaughter is a very bad mindset and a total turnoff. And guys really need to stop showing off.

5.you chat like you're doing them a favor.
Lastly, chatting with someone is not doing them a favour, it's a choice and they're not getting paid for it. Don't chat with someone and make them feel like you're doing them a favour by giving your time, they're giving theirs too.

I would go on and on but I intend to make this as short as possible. In conclusion, we should be more accommodating. Give these guys benefit of the doubt and make our conversations something to look forward to not something to dread!
Stop 'k...ng' someone. The 'k' word is annoying and greatly disheartening....
To finish up..on ...
https://www.sarahkaysblog.com/2018/09/everything-nigerian-girls-do-wrong-in.html

Op on point. Especially number 2. Naija girls can give you headache on top chat. No contributions whatsoever and you'll be cracking your brain like it's calculus just to keep the convo lively

Those one word answers tick me off
He: Hey how r U ?
She: Fine
He: Thats a lovely looking pic you got on your DP. Whats the story?
(After 5 years)
She: thanks
That delay..
Then she expects you to hang around. If you dont she says you were never serious.SMH

:-

Tamarapetty:
Some guys are boring too, the one wey dey pain me reach heart is 'HMMM'. Gawd! It's so annoying.

And you don't know the meaning of "hmmm" or you don't understand the message a person is trying to pass when he/she uses the word 'hmmm'?

kushercain:


Op on point. Especially number 2. Naija girls can give you headache on top chat. No contributions whatsoever and you'll be cracking your brain like it's calculus just to keep the convo lively

I dont bother O. I beleive friend ship should b easy and flow. If no flow then leave matter. When I met wifey that was the one of the things that attracted me and kept me going. She can make convo. Even when we were apart those are some of the things that kept us going.

Come to think of it, some guys are so boring too...

Sarahkay:
Hello everyone, it's another day to write about another wonderful topic and this time around I'll be focusing on the girls and the so many things we do wrong while conversing with someone especially on social media.
First, I didn't just wake up to write this. I saw a very captivating post about a guy saying why he would rather chat with a foreign girl than a Nigerian girl (picture below) and it got me wondering..what did we do so wrong?

In my last post, I talked about how to know if you're a boring conversationalist, well, turns out most guys think Nigerian girls are clearly BORING online!
So I did some research and I've been able to put together the different things Nigerian girls do wrong in a conversation.
1.Everyone is a suspect!
This couldn't be more true. To a Nigerian girl, once you say 'hi' and your number isn't saved on her contact list... you're an automatic suspect. For all she knows, you could be a kidnapper or simply someone trying to woo her. Girls, let's calm down. Not everyone who says hi wants to take you to the alter, some just wants to make friends. Funny enough, the very first thing a girl ask when you tell her 'hi' is 'who gave you my number '?... without a reply whatsoever, it doesn't go well with the guys. Settle, be friendly and make them relax, that way, your question will be answered even without you asking. And guys, really, try to be less suspicious. You get a girl's number for the first time and chat her up..cool.. introduce yourself first and do not give her reasons to be someone you'll hate!.

2.Can't keep up conversation.
It's typical of most Nigerian girls to expect the guy to keep the conversation going. To them, if you wanna chat, you have to come up with all chat ideas. That's wrong!. It's a two way thing. I've been opportune to see different chats of Nigerian guys with foreign girls and honestly, it is DIFFERENT!. The girl should put in just as much effort as the guy in a conversation, do not chat like a robot, be lively and bring up interesting topics to talk about. BUT...guys let's be honest, most girls intentionally ignore your chats because you keep talking about perverted things and keep repeating things..see this;
Lol... I have seen this way too much.... For me the fact that I am a lazy texter... I hate small talks actually too... Most times I rather not even chat or start a conversation if we keep asking or talking about the same thing everyday (how you doing and your day?)... Most guys don't even know how to hold a conversation... The talk so dumb...especially does ones that have not even gotten to a limit of closeness with you.... WTF what are you wearing?? Tell me more about yourself... Uncle what exactly do you want to know.. I miss you.. Do you miss me Someone you barely know.. What the you want me to reply Biko..
So the above statement was made by a concerned Nigerian girl over the too much complains about Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are mostly disciplined and if they sense any act showing you're a pervert, you're off the conversation.

3.Easily look down on a person.
This one is bad... actually, almost everyone does it. You get a chat and the next thing you do is look at the profile picture to see the kind of person it is. If they don't come off as too rich or handsome..it's off. Nigerian girls will automatically ignore someone if they are not too good looking and financially stable...it doesn't speak well.

4. Seem desperate at first chat!
This is done by few actually . I still don't understand if it's a way of testing your capabilities or just pure desperation but asking someone you just met online for help is not a good act to depict. Having the mindset that anybody who comes your way is definitely one to take to the slaughter is a very bad mindset and a total turnoff. And guys really need to stop showing off.

5.you chat like you're doing them a favor.
Lastly, chatting with someone is not doing them a favour, it's a choice and they're not getting paid for it. Don't chat with someone and make them feel like you're doing them a favour by giving your time, they're giving theirs too.

I would go on and on but I intend to make this as short as possible. In conclusion, we should be more accommodating. Give these guys benefit of the doubt and make our conversations something to look forward to not something to dread!
Stop 'k...ng' someone. The 'k' word is annoying and greatly disheartening....
To finish up..on ...
https://www.sarahkaysblog.com/2018/09/everything-nigerian-girls-do-wrong-in.html

Thanks for this post... I am avoiding you lot regardless, I am not an atm or jesus to carry all the problems of a Nigerian woman. She is way too needy, selfish, ungrateful, promiscuous and cannot be trusted.

what more can I say?

Are we still on this?

MariaLavina:
Are we still on this?

Don't worry, Maria. I will still be finding time away from my foreign girls to chat with you.

who cares who they wanna chat with?

Bidobado1:


Thanks for this post... I am avoiding you lot regardless, I am not an atm or jesus to carry all the problems of a Nigerian woman. She is way too needy, selfish, ungrateful, promiscuous and cannot be trusted.

Learn to read well and comprehend before you rush to comment. Salopad#

@op

Not only nigerian girls that are boring to chatwith. Most african girls are like that.
The main reason i think is that most of them don't know how to write or spell correctly.

Tamarapetty:
Some guys are boring too, the one wey dey pain me reach heart is 'HMMM'. Gawd! It's so annoying.

But you do it to guys, don't lie

iceblock:


Learn to read well and comprehend before you rush to comment. Salopad#

@op

Not only nigerian girls that are boring to chatwith. Most african girls are like that.
The main reason i think is that most of them don't know how to write or spell correctly.

You are a Cvnt. Just accept your fate and move on.

Bidobado1:


You are a Cvnt. Just accept your fate and move on.

Keep quiet and stop talking out of point
Dumbskull

95% of Naija girls are boring as fukk. They can't converse intelligently and keeps the vibes high.