They (love, lust and infatuation) all look alike at the beginning but soon show their actual colour.

You need to know as early as possible what you are feeling for the opposite sex to either back out on time before you do something stupid or pursue your object of attention with vigour!

Here is the difference.

1. LOVE begins with an attraction, a special feeling for someone. You like them, admire them, respect them and likes to spend time with them.

INFATUATION begins with a strong, intense feeling for someone that focuses basically on physical attributes like her blue eyes, his well-chiselled Jaw or her curvy body. It is called “falling head over heels in love” because of the whirlwind feelings that come with it. It focuses more on the physical than lasting attributes.

LUST: Begins with a strong, intense feeling of strong sexual desire.

2. LOVE focuses on giving and how to make the life of this person better without seeking anything in return.

INFATUATION focuses on giving unreasonably as a bait to get “love” and a relationship in return.

LUST focuses on giving to get sex in return. After the sex, it focuses on taking and taking.

3. LOVE waits for sex: it controls its sexual feelings till the wedding night.

INFATUATION always desire and yearn for sex.

LUST is impatient for sex. It can’t wait to have sex. It asks for sex as soon as possible.

4. LOVE makes sacrifices to help the other person achieve greatness.

INFATUATION can make sacrifices, but it must get something in return.

LUST can also make sacrifices, but it must get sex in return.


5. LOVE sticks with you regardless of the problem you face.
INFATUATION runs away at the sight of problems.

LUST create problems for you and disappears into thin air!
6. LOVE admires the person’s total package: character, beauty, handsomeness, spirituality, weaknesses, and strength.

INFATUATION only focuses on beauty/physical attraction and strengths. It despises them for their weaknesses.
LUST focuses on the body alone.

7. LOVE is rational, down to earth honest and truthful to the other person.

INFATUATION is irrational, very emotional, pretends a lot and do uncomfortable things always to get acceptance from their partner. E.g., she bleaches her skin to get him to like her more. He steals or borrows an unreasonable amount of money to buy her things so she can keep “loving” him.

LUST pretends and lies a lot to get sex.


https://elitethrive.com/love-lust-simply-infatuated/


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Love is just not a feeling..

I think I'm in all

What I got from this thread is that men are incapable of love because they always want sex.

well, I'm in love with my best friend and lover.

hahahahahaha:
What I got from this thread is that men are incapable of love because they always want sex.

Wrong assertion!


Men fall in love, real hard

QueenSekxy:
well, I'm in love with my best friend and lover.

Chai, they haff hooked my sista

I feel all those three for someone

MariaLavina:
Wrong assertion!


Men fall in love, real hard

You are blinded by whoever you're in love with at the moment & that's why you're so quick to back the male gender as a whole.. Hope it works out for you

MariaLavina:
Chai, they haff hooked my sista

hahhhaa.
baby, I can't unhooked myself oo.

hahahahahaha:
You are blinded by whoever you're in love with at the moment & that's why you're so quick to back the male gender as a whole.. Hope it works out for you

Lol at blinded . Love doesn't blind you, It helps to overlook flaws. Lust and infatuation blind not love.

The fact that one is capable of love shows the possibility of others falling in love too. Men love sex no doubt, but there is a certain stage in their lives where they want more than sex. They look beyond the physical attributes of a woman to seek a place in her heart. Men want love too.

That said, This mentality of yours is why men will only seek for sex from you, because you will only offer what you think they want/need (sex). And that is the biggest misconception women have of Men.

QueenSekxy:
hahhhaa. baby, I can't unhooked myself oo.

I know the feelings sis

MariaLavina:
Lol at blinded . Love doesn't blind you, It helps to overlook flaws. Lust and infatuation blind not love.

The fact that one is capable of love means shows the possibility others falling in love too. Men love sex no doubt, but there is a certain stage in their lives where they want more than sex. They look beyond the physical attributes of a woman to seek a place in her heart. Men want love too.

That said, This mentality of yours is why men will only seek for sex from you, because you will only offer what you think they want/need (sex). And that is the biggest misconception women have of Men.

finally someone has spoken the truth

MariaLavina:
I know the feelings sis

QueenSekxy:

i will do anything to get you

HeWrites:

They (love, lust and infatuation) all look alike at the beginning but soon show their actual colour.

You need to know as early as possible what you are feeling for the opposite sex to either back out on time before you do something stupid or pursue your object of attention with vigour!

Here is the difference.

1. LOVE begins with an attraction, a special feeling for someone. You like them, admire them, respect them and likes to spend time with them.

INFATUATION begins with a strong, intense feeling for someone that focuses basically on physical attributes like her blue eyes, his well-chiselled Jaw or her curvy body. It is called “falling head over heels in love” because of the whirlwind feelings that come with it. It focuses more on the physical than lasting attributes.

LUST: Begins with a strong, intense feeling of strong sexual desire.

2. LOVE focuses on giving and how to make the life of this person better without seeking anything in return.

INFATUATION focuses on giving unreasonably as a bait to get “love” and a relationship in return.

LUST focuses on giving to get sex in return. After the sex, it focuses on taking and taking.

3. LOVE waits for sex: it controls its sexual feelings till the wedding night.

INFATUATION always desire and yearn for sex.

LUST is impatient for sex. It can’t wait to have sex. It asks for sex as soon as possible.

4. LOVE makes sacrifices to help the other person achieve greatness.

INFATUATION can make sacrifices, but it must get something in return.

LUST can also make sacrifices, but it must get sex in return.


5. LOVE sticks with you regardless of the problem you face.
INFATUATION runs away at the sight of problems.

LUST create problems for you and disappears into thin air!
6. LOVE admires the person’s total package: character, beauty, handsomeness, spirituality, weaknesses, and strength.

INFATUATION only focuses on beauty/physical attraction and strengths. It despises them for their weaknesses.
LUST focuses on the body alone.

7. LOVE is rational, down to earth honest and truthful to the other person.

INFATUATION is irrational, very emotional, pretends a lot and do uncomfortable things always to get acceptance from their partner. E.g., she bleaches her skin to get him to like her more. He steals or borrows an unreasonable amount of money to buy her things so she can keep “loving” him.

LUST pretends and lies a lot to get sex.


https://elitethrive.com/love-lust-simply-infatuated/


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

nice one

That feeling of love

Most time Temptation leads to Lust.


Discontentment leads to Infatuation.

As for love, it is what it is.

MariaLavina:
Lol at blinded . Love doesn't blind you, It helps to overlook flaws. Lust and infatuation blind not love.

Sounds like blindness to me. Also do you think when they say love is blind they actually mean you can't see? No! it's metaphoric. It means overlooking flaws... etc everything you mentioned above.

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Sounds like blindness to me. Also do you think when they say love is blind they actually mean you can't see? No! it's metaphoric. It means overlooking flaws... etc everything you mentioned above.

Lol I know it's metaphor. Love overlook flaws, lust/infatuation does not see flaws. It only focus on what it sees (attractive features).

We can go on and go, but to what use?

MariaLavina:
Lol I know it's metaphor. Love overlook flaws, l

Excatly, which is why I said you are blinded by love.

hahahahahaha:
Excatly, which is why I said you are blinded by love.

Yes Ma

hahahahahaha:
What I got from this thread is that men are incapable of love because they always want sex.

Wat Men Are Capable Of Is Due 2 Ur Actions

Ikio:
Wat Men Are Capable Of Is Due 2 Ur Actions

If you're going to place conditionality on Love, then I might as well just break to ya: You've never experienced love before, sorry.

hahahahahaha:
If you're going to place conditionality on Love, then I might as well just break to ya: You've never experienced love before, sorry.

Maybe I Hav Not, But Its True U Reap Wat U Sow... daht life 4 u.
u might have experienced love but that does not mean love wouldn't respect d rules of life
If U Hav Experienced Heartbreak Its Due 2 U Jst U.

no man its evil but its sad e hav 2 go through wickedness becos it was created by man...

daht d law

Ikio:
Maybe I Hav Not, But Its True U Reap Wat U Sow... daht life 4 u.
u might have experienced love but that does not mean love wouldn't respect d rules of life
If U Hav Experienced Heartbreak Its Due 2 U Jst U.

no man its evil but its sad e hav 2 go through wickedness becos it was created by man...

daht d law

WAAAAaayy out of context.

hahahahahaha:
WAAAAaayy out of context.

Becos U Clearly not reading it.