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Wrapped around her finger means you’re under her power, she has control over you, and you’ll do anything she wants and when she wants.

It means you’re putting her on a pedestal and putting her happiness before your own.

You have about a 75% higher chance of her wanting you as “more than a friend” if she thinks you’re a jerk than if she thinks she has you wrapped around her finger.

So avoid looking weak and unattractive, Here's are the 11 Ways You're Wrapped Around Her Fingers;

1. You Seek Permission

Since you’re so desperate for her approval, you’re seeking her permission before holding her hand, touching her, asking her questions, etc.

When keep seeking permission, she’s thinking you’re a scared little bitch. She wants you to be a man about it – of course, within societal and legal norms. I’m not encouraging rape. Use common sense.

 2 You’ll Do ANYTHING For Her

DO NOT be willing to do anything for her. It makes you look weak and desperate and she loses respect for you.

Never give her the idea that she can use you for whatever she wants.

3. You Believe It When She Says You’re Her “Best Friend”

Women can be VERY convincing, make you feel important, give you the pouty face, lots of eye contact, and give you the puppy dog eyes – BUT IT’S ALL AN ACT. It’s the same look she gives children and you should be offended that she would even think about treating you like a child.

If you buy it when she talks about what a great “friend” you are, you’re wrapped around her finger and she’s playing games.

4. You Tolerate Drama and Disrespect

Stop caring about her approval. Stop caring about hurting her feelings. Your self-respect and how others treat you is more important than her attention.

She wants the guy who isn’t afraid of losing her.

If she’s dramatic and disrespectful and you’re accepting it because you don’t want to piss her off, then you’re giving her your power and leading her to believe she has you wrapped around her finger.

5.You Don’t Call Her Out on Her BS

when she’s dramatic and disrespectful, you have to call her out on it and tell her to knock it off. Your brain will tell you it’s not a good idea because she’ll run away and never come back but, in reality, she’ll respect you more, appreciate you for making your boundaries clear, and feel more attraction.

6.You’re Always Available

Your life doesn’t revolve around her. It doesn’t revolve around catering to her needs. She’s only part of your life, not the center of it.

Stop being afraid of upsetting her if you don’t answer, reply, or call back right away.

Women rarely run away just because you didn’t answer, reply, or call her back immediately and if they do, you just saved yourself a big headache.

7.  You Drop Everything You’re Doing When She Wants

YOUR LIFE, PRIORITIES, AND GOALS COME FIRST. Her needs are secondary.

It sounds like a jerk move but IF you constantly put her first, she WILL eventually cheat on you or run away. If she doesn’t run away or cheat, she’ll definitely make you less of a priority. If you focus on your goals and priorities, she’ll fight for your attention and prove she wants to be in your life.

Stop dropping everything just to make her happy.

8.You Always Pay Her Bills, Buy Her Gifts, and Give Her Money

If you’re paying her bills, surprising her with expensive gifts, and handing her money, you’re in serious trouble. This is the ultimate red flag that you’re doing something wrong.

When you’re using money to influence her to like you, she’s positive she has you wrapped around her finger.
Don't do this especially if you're not able to get her to like you without giving her money.

9.She Uses You and You Stay Silent

When she gets HERSELF into trouble, let her clean up her own mess. She got herself into it, she can get herself out. You’re not her hero who comes running when she needs help. She should be smart and mature enough to keep herself out of trouble and fix her own problems.

Stop letting women take advantage of you and use you as a crutch. When she’s trying to walk all over you, make it clear you’re not that guy.

If she can have her way with you and you’re too weak of a man to speak up and say anything to her about it, she knows she has you wrapped around her finger.

10.She Makes You Wait Too long Knowing You Won’t Get Mad

When women selfishly and disrespectfully make you wait, you shouldn’t accept it. It’s a waste of your time. It’s a sign she doesn’t respect you or your time very much and she knows she can treat you however she wants.

11.You Don’t Say “N0

If you’re not able to tell her “no”, no matter how amazing she is, you will stay wrapped around their finger and she will never feel attraction for you.
“No” will turn your dating life around and help you maintain your peace of mind and ability to attract women.

That's it guys.

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nikkypearl:

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I Know You Dont Like The Truth

I concur

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