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Am Giving Up On Relationships by osaskywire: 10:31am On Mar 19, 2020
i don't just understand how people enjoy this relationship of a things,mine is always another story..I don't know wether I should just take a break and call it off..
There's this girl am dating I dey sure say e Never reach 1 month.we are both in school currently..
(wait before you start saying face your book relationship is not meant for you now make 1st class,I already have a good g.p and I study everyday ,I also have a source of income I don't depend on my parents).. back to the relationship talk ..
I have done much for this girl but she still shows little gratitude but that's not what getting me angry, what's pissing me off is she doesn't call me. anytime I call to ask her why she will be saying her phone is bad that she's just thinking of how she will get a new phone .. indirectly telling me to get 1 for her. U grab shey? So last week Thursday one of my friend got a new phone so I bought his former 1 tho still neat and good,I gave this girl the phone, tho before that day we had a quarrel so I just gave her the phone as a means to settle whatever issues we had, to my greatest surprise this girl collected the phone and told me thank you with a strong face .. since that day till this afternoon still no calls from her ...I think we might end this ship like this.
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by SUPERPACK: 10:42am On Mar 19, 2020
Focus on your studies for now and let her be.

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by donbachi(m): 10:45am On Mar 19, 2020
U don try..u don buy her tea(phone),try buy her (bread)once or twice wey she go deep inside d tea...if she no call,end am.

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by osaskywire: 10:47am On Mar 19, 2020
SUPERPACK:
Focus on your studies for now and let her be.
...
yea I think that's what I'll go back to

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by kokanepyramid: 10:49am On Mar 19, 2020
osaskywire:
i don't just understand how people enjoy this relationship of a things,mine is always another story..I don't know wether I should just take a break and call it off..
There's this girl am dating I dey sure say e Never reach 1 month.we are both in school currently..
(wait before you start saying face your book relationship is not meant for you now make 1st class,I already have a good g.p and I study everyday ,I also have a source of income I don't depend on my parents).. back to the relationship talk ..
I have done much for this girl but she still shows little gratitude but that's not what getting me angry, what's pissing me off is she doesn't call me. anytime I call to ask her why she will be saying her phone is bad that she's just thinking of how she will get a new phone .. indirectly telling me to get 1 for her. U grab shey? So last week Thursday one of my friend got a new phone so I bought his former 1 tho still neat and good,I gave this girl the phone, tho before that day we had a quarrel so I just gave her the phone as a means to settle whatever issues we had, to my greatest surprise this girl collected the phone and told me thank you with a strong face .. since that day till this afternoon still no calls from her ...I think we might end this ship like this.
you shouldn’t have given her the phone while you were in bad terms. You should have settled first cos now she’ll think she needs to be mad at you to get stuff.

Lastly this babe is not into you, a lady into you will even steal her mom’s phone just to hear from you bad phone is not an excuse. Stop investing ur time and resources on that babe.

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by kokanepyramid: 10:58am On Mar 19, 2020
I’ve always told guys to always gauge a lady’s interest within the first week of meeting her max 2 weeks. Read the signs to know if it’s worth your time or not.

You take a lady out on a first date she offers to foot the bill when you go on a second date, that’s some show of interest.

You’ve been talking after a first date, she missed your call, returned it and before you even say anything she’s explaining why she missed your call, that’s some show of interest.
I could go on with examples.

But y’all will meet babe the next day she is asking for money you send it, airtime you send, she’ll miss your call twice and won’t bother to return it you go ahead to call her the following day. This is how you invite disrespect. Cos she’s obviously not interested.

This works for both sex, so no one is forcing him or herself on anybody and get treated like trash.

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Bellotelli: 11:17am On Mar 19, 2020
donbachi:
U don try..u don buy her tea(phone),try buy her (bread)once or twice wey she go deep inside d tea...if she no call,end am.
Bro.. Make him collect back both the tea and bread. Women with Dia ungrateful attitude tongue

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Naomila: 11:19am On Mar 19, 2020
Why be in a relationship with someone that doesn't appreciate you.Why be in a relationship at all when you still have a long way to go in life.....You might need a companion ,yes! That's what friends are for..btw leave her alone and focus on your life generally

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by drLammy(m): 11:39am On Mar 19, 2020
Go to places you are celebrated not where you are tolerated

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by adexpa(m): 11:40am On Mar 19, 2020
chairman, relationship is good with the right person. i will advice you calm down before the girl start playing with your emotions. you can still take your time to know her but draw back a bit and relax your nerves( i dont want to jump into conclusion that she is not really into the relationship bcus people respond and react differently in relationships)

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Femzaremz(m): 11:45am On Mar 19, 2020
bros it pains me to tell you this! But you are dating an ungrateful,entitled,immature lady who does'nt give a damn about you my best advice to you is to call her with the pretence of having a discussion with her,COLLECT your phone and dump her silly ass!

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Nobody: 11:45am On Mar 19, 2020
SUPERPACK:
Focus on your studies for now and let her be.

Lol...dont let op woze you slap o.. He already said he doesn't want to hear that.
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Nobody: 11:47am On Mar 19, 2020
Stop forcing yourself on a girl. She's no longer interested. I think you should move on already.

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Romanoff(f): 11:49am On Mar 19, 2020
If you want to have any meaningful relationship, start as friends. Keep your feelings and get to know the person first.

When you two have a solid foundation, you can now put relationship on it, then marriage. A lot of these posts wey Una dey post go reduce if una follow this rule.

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by ednut1(m): 11:52am On Mar 19, 2020
Collect your phone back
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by TerryMcGinis(m): 1:11pm On Mar 19, 2020
osaskywire:
i don't just understand how people enjoy this relationship of a things,mine is always another story..I don't know wether I should just take a break and call it off..
There's this girl am dating I dey sure say e Never reach 1 month.we are both in school currently..
(wait before you start saying face your book relationship is not meant for you now make 1st class,I already have a good g.p and I study everyday ,I also have a source of income I don't depend on my parents).. back to the relationship talk ..
I have done much for this girl but she still shows little gratitude but that's not what getting me angry, what's pissing me off is she doesn't call me. anytime I call to ask her why she will be saying her phone is bad that she's just thinking of how she will get a new phone .. indirectly telling me to get 1 for her. U grab shey? So last week Thursday one of my friend got a new phone so I bought his former 1 tho still neat and good,I gave this girl the phone, tho before that day we had a quarrel so I just gave her the phone as a means to settle whatever issues we had, to my greatest surprise this girl collected the phone and told me thank you with a strong face .. since that day till this afternoon still no calls from her ...I think we might end this ship like this.
guy collect your phone and break up with her, BTW, how far how you take de school de get money.. Help a brother biko

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by sammyesx: 4:50pm On Mar 19, 2020
Romanoff:
If you want to have any meaningful relationship, start as friends. Keep your feelings and get to know the person first.

When you two have a solid foundation, you can now put relationship on it, then marriage. A lot of these posts wey Una dey post go reduce if una follow this rule.

There is a high probability of getting friendzone if it takes too long,, it's better to define the relationship from start
If it works, fine. If it doesn't you bounce

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by osaskywire: 5:01pm On Mar 19, 2020
Femzaremz:
bros it pains me to tell you this! But you are dating an ungrateful,entitled,immature lady who does'nt give a damn about you my best advice to you is to call her with the pretence of having a discussion with her,COLLECT your phone and dump her silly ass!
...
hmmm I'll just leave the phone 4 her jare at least she will remember me for something

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by osaskywire: 5:02pm On Mar 19, 2020
TerryMcGinis:
guy collect your phone and break up with her, BTW, how far how you take de school de get money.. Help a brother biko
...
investe in btc bro

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by OlawaleBammie: 5:08pm On Mar 19, 2020
kokanepyramid:
I’ve always told guys to always gauge a lady’s interest within the first week of meeting her max 2 weeks. Read the signs to know if it’s worth your time or not.

You take a lady out on a first date she offers to foot the bill when you go on a second date, that’s some show of interest.

You’ve been talking after a first date, she missed your call, returned it and before you even say anything she’s explaining why she missed your call, that’s some show of interest.
I could go on with examples.

But y’all will meet babe the next day she is asking for money you send it, airtime you send, she’ll miss your call twice and won’t bother to return it you go ahead to call her the following day. This is how you invite disrespect. Cos she’s obviously not interested.

This works for both sex, so no one is forcing him or herself on anybody and get treated like trash.


Guy you too get sense abeg, a no know why but ur sense is top notch.





Do u eat snake meat?? and wash it down with palmie?? i need to get it for u

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by OlawaleBammie: 5:13pm On Mar 19, 2020
osaskywire:
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hmmm I'll just leave the phone 4 her jare at least she will remember me for something

And this is maturity

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Romanoff(f): 5:42pm On Mar 19, 2020
sammyesx:


There is a high probability of getting friendzone if it takes too long,, it's better to define the relationship from start
If it works, fine. If it doesn't you bounce

What's there to lose if you get friendzoned.

Isn't it better to gain a friend than to get an ex?

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by kokanepyramid: 9:28pm On Mar 19, 2020
OlawaleBammie:



Guy you too get sense abeg, a no know why but ur sense is top notch.





Do u eat snake meat?? and wash it down with palmie?? i need to get it for u
Snake meat??

Thanks I’ll pass
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by OlawaleBammie: 9:35pm On Mar 19, 2020
kokanepyramid:
Snake meat??
Thanks I’ll pass
wetin do snake??
snake wey hin meat b like chinkin.
anyways, tanks for that admonition, u said it well

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 19, 2020
Please collect the old phone and buy her a new one! And a house too.Dont forget to pay her school, That's what REAL Men do. grin

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by hkidola00(m): 9:45pm On Mar 19, 2020
OlawaleBammie:

wetin do snake??

snake wey hin meat b like chinkin.

anyways, tanks for that admonition, u said it well
i can't actually believe people eats snake.. vomits*
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Nobody: 9:50pm On Mar 19, 2020
grin grin grin
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Okoroawusa: 9:52pm On Mar 19, 2020
Good for you
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by Skmoda360(m): 9:53pm On Mar 19, 2020
SUPERPACK:
Focus on your studies for now and let her be.
keep quiet, you still don't pick his draft.....ode grin
Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by OlawaleBammie: 9:57pm On Mar 19, 2020
hkidola00:
i can't actually believe people eats snake.. vomits*

Guy wetin u dey talk naaa??
Eat snake one day abeg, pls just try.


If its possible, eat the eggs as well, snake egg dey tick for mouth like gala. ahh, dis guy dey miss oo
E b like say u b get inside boy cool

Wat about Bat(bush own o, no b ous own o), giant lizard, monkey, frog, hav u tasted any of dem?

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by SweetCunt97(f): 9:58pm On Mar 19, 2020
When u force a lady to be with u... B ready to eat shiit to keep her... Bloody simp

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Re: Am Giving Up On Relationships by SUPERPACK: 10:09pm On Mar 19, 2020
Skmoda360:

keep quiet, you still don't pick his draft.....ode grin
Empty drum.

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