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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 9:54am On Sep 14, 2018
pocohantas:
How can someone keep calling this lady a feminist. This lady is clearly not okay.

How can she say her children will bear her husband's name and her father's name [who is in fact another man] put together. And some females are applauding her. My head aches already, trying to understand the rationale behind this.

Are these ones okay? Zicoraads you said it o. Come and see your babe.
pocohantas:
Exactly!!! Then saying the guy should adopt her own. Then one foolish one said their kids will bear both names.
What do you mean by 'she's not okay' ,she'd have been okay if she said she'll be a submissive goat to men, right?
It's like many of you on this site have comprehension issues . They didn't say their kids will bear the joint names of their own fathers and their husbands name, rather they said their kids will jointly bear their own names and their husbands names.

Every human has a choice. Men condeming them is understandable but you as a woman saying they're not normal because you don't agree with their choice isn't understandable. You are what i call "doublefaced" ,I said it before on this forum that “You change like a chameleon" You behave somehow in a period and behave the opposite in another period.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by boyjo: 10:51am On Sep 14, 2018
correctbae I don dey warn guys since.
Una see wetin "Make your own money" dey cause?

E no bad make woman work, but when you as a man shift responsibilty of providing to woman, or share am with woman and you dey boast about am, na something like this e dey cause o.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Saff(f): 11:14am On Sep 14, 2018
This is just ridiculous. Some women have mental issues and they don’t even know it.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by emmaodet: 2:03am On Sep 15, 2018
zinnyzee:
Exactly, it seems to me like they're striving to be recognised by spewing trash.

Feminism is on another whole concept, and it isn't what this dim-wits are protraying.
Tanks my sister
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by emmaodet: 2:10am On Sep 15, 2018
Saff:
This is just ridiculous. Some women have mental issues and they don’t even know it.
Tanx saff, i du enjoy your comments and always looking up to it
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Saff(f): 7:24am On Sep 15, 2018
emmaodet:
Tanx saff, i du enjoy your comments and always looking up to it
lol thank you
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Mizwisdom(f): 7:42am On Sep 15, 2018
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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Mizwisdom(f): 7:53am On Sep 15, 2018
olapluto:
Islam was ahead with this. My wife bears her father's name...and I'm happy with it.
Yeah, it's from the British people. They brought this law to us. Formerly, no one was obliged to change name in traditional setting but Christians learned from them. Zahara Buhari, still maintain her name, Dangote's daughter too. It's we Christians that copied this from British
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 11:06am On Sep 16, 2018
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Pounded yam and Edikaikong. wink.
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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by crackhaus: 2:13pm On Sep 16, 2018
Elder001:
What do you mean by 'she's not okay' ,she'd have been okay if she said she'll be a submissive goat to men, right?
It's like many of you on this site have comprehension issues . They didn't say their kids will bear the joint names of their own fathers and their husbands name, rather they said their kids will jointly bear their own names and their husbands names.
This is why she is not okay.

Think of it this way.
After her kids bear a hyphenated surname of hers and her husband, then her daughter comes of age and decides to do the same thing with her own kids. How many hyphenated names will the kids now bear considering she's already bearing her own father and mother's name?
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 2:29pm On Sep 16, 2018
crackhaus:
This is why she is not okay.

Think of it this way.
After her kids bear a hyphenated surname of hers and her husband, then her daughter comes of age and decides to do the same thing with her own kids. How many hyphenated names will the kids now bear considering she's already bearing her own father and mother's name?
Is this why you quoted me? Learn how to respect people's choices it'll help you a lot in life
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Ziggylady(f): 3:44pm On Sep 16, 2018
Nigerian male crybabies ranting around over any useless post on women versus man post they see on internet as usual..no matter how trivial....I wonder if these screeches will get you the jobs your government has denied you or put food on your tables

Frustrated,jobless crybabies everywhere..
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by crackhaus: 2:52pm On Sep 17, 2018
Elder001:
Is this why you quoted me? Learn how to respect people's choices it'll help you a lot in life
Boy shut your trap and read my comment again to understand this is not about choices but about common sense.

The question again is, how many hyphenated surnames will her grand daughter have if her daughter (who will bear a hyphenated surname) also chooses to hyphenate in the name of 'choices'?
If you don't have any coherent thought put together on how to understand this logic, then be silent instead of offering advice to your betters.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 3:23pm On Sep 17, 2018
crackhaus:
Boy shut your trap and read my comment again to understand this is not about choices but about common sense.

The question again is, how many hyphenated surnames will her grand daughter have if her daughter (who will bear a hyphenated surname) also chooses to hyphenate in the name of 'choices'?
If you don't have any coherent thought put together on how to understand this logic, then be silent instead of offering advice to your betters.
Are you crazy?? You just jumped into my mentions and started dropping insults.

I don't read the bullshîts you type. Everybody has a choice - If they want joint names for their kids, it's okay as long as they find a man who shares that ideology. A man like me won't even find anything wrong with their choice.

Their life, their choice. Get your own family and tell your wife to bear your name and your kids also bear your name. Now get the fvck off my mentions.

Disrespectful kid in adult form.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by crackhaus: 3:43pm On Sep 17, 2018
Elder001:
[s]Are you crazy?? You just jumped into my mentions and started dropping insults.

I don't read the bullshîts you type. Everybody has a choice - If they want joint names for their kids, it's okay as long as they find a man who shares that ideology. A man like me won't even find anything wrong with their choice.

Their life, their choice. Get your own family and tell your wife to bear your name and your kids also bear your name. Now get the fvck off my mentions.

Disrespectful kid in adult form.[/s]
Between you and I, little wonder who is disrespectful. I asked a basic question to understand your thought-process and you started dishing out advice to your ancestors.

And what's the meaning of 'MY MENTIONS' by the way? Like you own it and paid for it?

Do you consider yourself the adult because of the conspicuously noticeable 'Elder' in your moniker?
Could you be any more obvious?
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 3:47pm On Sep 17, 2018
crackhaus:
Between you and I, little wonder who is disrespectful. I asked a basic question to understand your thought-process and you started dishing out advice to your ancestors.

And what's the meaning of 'MY MENTIONS' by the way? Like you own it and paid for it?

Do you consider yourself the adult because of the conspicuously noticeable 'Elder' in your moniker?
Could you be any more obvious?
Which kind wahala be this one??
Is it by force to answer your question? Your question is inhumane and a degradation of the female gender therefore I owe you no response.

I only owe you an advice because God won't forgive me if I allow you to go stray. LEARN HOW TO RESPECT PEOPLE'S CHOICES -it'll help you a lot in life.
You also need to learn how to respect women.

Further mentions from you shall be ignored.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by crackhaus: 4:23pm On Sep 17, 2018
Elder001:
Which kind wahala be this one??
Is it by force to answer your question? Your question is inhumane and a degradation of the female gender therefore I owe you no response.

I only owe you an advice because God won't forgive me if I allow you to go stray. LEARN HOW TO RESPECT PEOPLE'S CHOICES -it'll help you a lot in life.
You also need to learn how to respect women.

Further mentions from you shall be ignored.
My question was inhumane and a degradation of the female gender? cheesy

Either you don't know the meaning of those words, or you definitely have an undiagnosed form of dyslexia.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 17, 2018
crackhaus:
My question was inhumane and a degradation of the female gender? cheesy

Either you don't know the meaning of those words, or you definitely have an undiagnosed form of dyslexia.
Bros, He doesn't understand what you wrote up there. Biko leave him to wallow on NL grin
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 7:43pm On Sep 17, 2018
crackhaus:
My question was inhumane and a degradation of the female gender? cheesy

Either you don't know the meaning of those words, or you definitely have an undiagnosed form of dyslexia.
You and the dullard who quoted you are stupid...

Don't ask me useless questions. The way it's been easy bearing men's name so would it be easy passing from one generation to another bearing hyphenated names. Hypenated names would only be surnames not main names.

You can go share your undiluted misogynistic views elsewhere.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by rossyc(f): 3:46am On Sep 18, 2018
Uniquetani1:
Nice idea Good it was brought up Y should I forgo my Dad's name bcoz of marriage? My title changing from Miss to Mrs is enough. God doesn't support oversabi
Lol...u are right.
Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by crackhaus: 10:33pm On Sep 19, 2018
cruchenutii:
Bros, He doesn't understand what you wrote up there. Biko leave him to wallow on NL grin
He's just a typical NL airhead.
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