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Amakavula:
I won't attempt to blame the lady but let's be honest here. This is a case of blackmail. She wanting a bady ( due to bad advice from friends or her own volition ) to hold on to Wizkid, and enjoy wealth and fame but him not wanting anything just a one night stand.

She knew what she was doing but it's now a really bad investment as he isn't willing nor consider her as worth his time. We are the gatekeepers of birth, if a lady doesn't want to get pregnant trust me she won't but she chose this and sadly I am sympathetic to her plight as a lady.

Best case scenario is for her to move on, and stop hoping Wizkid would one day change his mind as TuFace did. Wizkid is a useless drunk bastard with no fatherly love, he can replicate what he doesn't have or given.

I hate deadbeat Dad's but she allow this, if this was an arrangement between them, Wizkid wouldn't have denied paternity. Ladies should wise up, and learn those celebrities aren't worth it, go find responsible men and be happy.

You made a lot of sense , but paragraph 3 is off , knowing she choose the road she is on...if not for wizkids game ever al...would she be beating a dead horse like this?...it’s a lesson to some out there observing.

Mynd44:
What is wrong with this women? Where is their self worth and self respect for the love of God?

This childish dude has made it clear that he does not want you around him so why bother? Serioisly, if I was the woman, the child wont have Wizkid's name, I wont bother telling him about his father, I wont bother asking Wizkid for anything rather than be constantly degraded by the man-chikd you call a baby daddy.

You want Wizkid to be a part of his son's life. The same Wizkid that has shown that he is irresponsible? You are flogging a dead horse, close the chapter and move on and consider him dead.

I am not blaming this woman for Wizkid's irresponsibility but she as a human should pick up some respect and for her sake and sake of her sanity, move on and walk. This abusive madness on social media is nauseating.

It hurts to see a woman go through this madness at the hands of a man and not have eniugh sense to forget him and damn all consequence.

If you need help financially, go to court and sue for child support. After that, forget the dude

and someone is foolish enough to make you a mod with this senseless comment.

Amakavula:
I won't attempt to blame the lady but let's be honest here. This is a case of blackmail. She wanting a bady ( due to bad advice from friends or her own volition ) to hold on to Wizkid, and enjoy wealth and fame but him not wanting anything just a one night stand.

She knew what she was doing but it's now a really bad investment as he isn't willing nor consider her as worth his time. We are the gatekeepers of birth, if a lady doesn't want to get pregnant trust me she won't but she chose this and sadly I am sympathetic to her plight as a lady.

Best case scenario is for her to move on, and stop hoping Wizkid would one day change his mind as TuFace did. Wizkid is a useless drunk bastard with no fatherly love, he can replicate what he doesn't have or given.

I hate deadbeat Dad's but she allow this, if this was an arrangement between them, Wizkid wouldn't have denied paternity. Ladies should wise up, and learn those celebrities aren't worth it, go find responsible men and be happy.

You made a lot of sense , but paragraph 3 is off , knowing she choose the road she is on...if not for wizkids fame et al...would she be beating a dead horse like this?...it’s a lesson to some folks out there observing. We haven’t heard from wiz on his side of the story.

jessca048:
so because she use to insult him that makes it right for wizbaby to abandon his fatherly responsibilities and duties.

Your father is free to take up the responsibility

Mynd44:
What is wrong with this women? Where is their self worth and self respect for the love of God?

This childish dude has made it clear that he does not want you around him so why bother? Serioisly, if I was the woman, the child wont have Wizkid's name, I wont bother telling him about his father, I wont bother asking Wizkid for anything rather than be constantly degraded by the man-chikd you call a baby daddy.

You want Wizkid to be a part of his son's life. The same Wizkid that has shown that he is irresponsible? You are flogging a dead horse, close the chapter and move on and consider him dead.

I am not blaming this woman for Wizkid's irresponsibility but she as a human should pick up some respect and for her sake and sake of her sanity, move on and walk. This abusive madness on social media is nauseating.

It hurts to see a woman go through this madness at the hands of a man and not have eniugh sense to forget him and damn all consequence.

If you need help financially, go to court and sue for child support. After that, forget the dude

I agree that she needs to move on but life has made it that they’ll always have this connection between them, he has to share in the responsibilities of raising the child up, shouldn’t be left to her alone and access shouldn’t be denied to their baby. Erasing his name may not solve the problem cos when the child grows up and knows his dad is a celebrity, he’ll wonder why he has no share of his name and why he’s being denied access to him, no matter how much a woman tries to do her best... culture, peer pressure and need for a father figure and all that would influence him...

If she’s asking for respect when requesting to see his child, that’s okay, everyone deserves that including him... except she’s asking for things to go back to what they used to be... which may never happen.

RevenGeMission:
Wow, women can be evil

That's why your fadar was irresponsible, battering your Mooom.

Momagic:
Wizkid is exhibiting signs of someone that’s on serious hard drugs. This explains his irrational behavior and unnecessary anger and outburst over everything. He thinks he’s on top of the world now. Let him go and ask Majek fashek how far. Anyways my advice to Shola is to be careful with having him alone with their kid until he gets help. Check into rehab or something.

I know Shola personally, I was kinda disappointed when she got pregnant for wizkid because I know she can do better. She’s not a gold digger. I can stand up for her anywhere. Shola if you’re reading this please know that friends and family love you always. You don’t need a deadbeat like wizkid. You were born into riches and wealth. And you will always be rich in life. God got you!

advice her to drop all these online posting...does more damage to the remaining relationship if any left

Davido is a million times more man and father than Wizkid.

That's her own problem, not ours.

Reading through this girl's story, I feel nothing but pity for her. She should dust herself up, take full responsibility for the shit coz Wizkid did not rape her...she agreed to open them legs for the fuuuck....plus...she should be grateful to God, what if na HIV wizPiken carry give am. Take responsibility and forge ahead. Creat a path for yourself and marry a responsible man.

If WizPiken wants to take the child....give him his son and focus on becoming better and independent. You will have more say as u begin to make your own money. Keeping the child will only hold you back. Let WizPiken take his child....u go find better work and move on. Lastly, go apologise to your parents for disgracing them and allowing an overgrown school child to drag them into shiiiit.


Move on already

hisexcellency34:
This Shola Ogudu is a bitch. Can't she just move on with her life? You think you can use pregnancy to tie a man down...mtshew

What sort of tie down? He has a responsibility to take care of his child. Did you father abandon you?

Any man that can not take care of his family especially children is not a man but a pig. The guy should grow up and find out how his fellow baby daddies are taking care of their own. Infact, the name wizkid is an abomination among we real men

Lovelife433:
since the lady got the mouth let her also do the money. Wizy is acting as a real man i love him he represent man in a good light

May somebody be this type of man to your daughter!

Mtchewww.

bammy777:
Mr man, child support isn't the issue here. If you can observe well, u will see she ain't complaining about the kid's bill not been paid, she wants at least little affection, little time spent with her, support for herself. getting a layer for this will be impossible.

Then you obviously didn't read it well.

Read the notes again.

Cant u just live ur life without him？ let him go plz, he doesnt wnt you in his life, my mum had 5 of us and she single handedly trained us when my father died when i was just 4 and my fathers family were not ready to support, my sweet mum manned up and produced 4 graduates and a barrister, the only son. we, d girls are married with responsible husbands, i learned a lot frm my mum, never rely on a man but be gud to them. in dis life, all man for himsef. dont be dependent abeg, no matter how rich he cud be.

jessca048:
so because she use to insult him that makes it right for wizbaby to abandon his fatherly responsibilities and duties.

You blamed him for disrespecting his babymamas but you can't blame the babymamas for disrespecting their baby daddy.

Who did this to you??

Talent not enough.

This is why I love people like Dbanj, Basket Mouth P square and even 2face with the plenty children he's still fatherly responsible.
Wizkid fall had and he's a disgrace.
Even if U hate the mother, U hate your son too?
Social media father.

If God do am the boy becomes great tomorrow, you will say "my son"

XaviDayo:
Reading through this girl's story, I feel nothing but pity for her. She should dust herself up, take full responsibility for the shit coz Wizkid did not rape her...she agreed to open them legs for the fuuuck....plus...she should be grateful to God, what if na HIV wizPiken carry give am. Take responsibility and forge ahead. Creat a path for yourself and marry a responsible man.

If WizPiken wants to take the child....give him his son and focus on becoming better and independent. You will have more say as u begin to make your own money. Keeping the child will only hold you back. Let WizPiken take his child....u go find better work and move on. Lastly, go apologise to your parents for disgracing them and allowing an overgrown school child to drag them into shiiiit.


Move on already

I feel pity for her too and I agree she should find a way of moving on, but the responsibility of raising the child should be shared between them or she could file for exclusive custody and wizkid only pays child support... as long as wizkid tries to belittle her role as a mom of his child, it will always get messy. He wouldn’t even say “please” and “thank you”... that’s probably all she wants. Which one is “I wanna see him tomorrow”? Be kind o man, say “can I see him tomorrow” or “please I wanna see him tomorrow” that should do...

Wizpig Loves Pussy, More Than His Music Carrer

There us always two sides to a story this is the babymama part let's wizkid also say his own story

jessca048:
so because she use to insult him that makes it right for wizbaby to abandon his fatherly responsibilities and duties.

I guess she never thought he will be this rich so from d chat did u see any neglect she just piss he don't have time for her I guess if he was not as rich as he his nw she won't be making this fuss u can see he is really hurt on that chat so don't just pass judgement some lady can have a calm face but their actions can be worst dam d devil

clefstone:
Anybody that follows Nigerian artists(with a few exceptions) as role model is doomed. What do they inspire apart from drug abuse, unhealthy sex life and music without sense

Very well said

Wow I had no idea wizkid was this pathetic. Firstly it takes two to make a baby and so the blame should not go only to the lady. Wizkid being a celebrity should have known better and used condoms if he didn't want to take the risk of having a baby.

Secondly it doesn't matter whether he hates his babymama. His sole responsibility is to cater for his child and he is doing a very bad job of it.

Shola too seems to desperate. You can't force someone to be the way you what them to be. She needs to have some self respect for herself and let him be. She needs to concentrate on her son and being a good mother with or without wizkid's financial support.

This is a lesson to women all over. Never allow a man to make you into a babymama. Having a baby does not mean he will marry you, take care of you or your baby.

U talking Sense bro





This childish dude has made it clear that he does not want you around him so why bother? Serioisly, if I was the woman, the child wont have Wizkid's name, I wont bother telling him about his father, I wont bother asking Wizkid for anything rather than be constantly degraded by the man-chikd you call a baby daddy.

You want Wizkid to be a part of his son's life. The same Wizkid that has shown that he is irresponsible? You are flogging a dead horse, close the chapter and move on and consider him dead.

I am not blaming this woman for Wizkid's irresponsibility but she as a human should pick up some respect and for her sake and sake of her sanity, move on and walk. This abusive madness on social media is nauseating.

It hurts to see a woman go through this madness at the hands of a man and not have eniugh sense to forget him and damn all consequence.

If you need help financially, go to court and sue for child support. After that, forget the dude[/quote]

The Olosho is catching feelings already...gold digging gone sour. I love Wizzy for the calmness and maturity. The lazy opportunistic slayqueen is now looking for "I love you".... NNE go and manage THANK YOU. HAhahahahahahahahahha. You want to come and be first wife. Im happy that starboy is looking out for his baby. The abandoned property of a girl can go and pick her life from the gutters where she left it. NONSENSE AND INGREDIENTS. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA...ASHAWO MEAL TICKET. KILL YASEF!!

socialmediaman:
I agree that she needs to move on but life has made it that they’ll always have this connection between them, he has to share in the responsibilities of raising the child up, shouldn’t be left to her alone and access shouldn’t be denied to their baby. Erasing his name may not solve the problem cos when the child grows up and knows his dad is a celebrity, he’ll wonder why he has no share of his name and why he’s being denied access to him, no matter how much a woman tries to do her best... culture, peer pressure and need for a father figure and all that would influence him...

If she’s asking for respect when requesting to see his child, that’s okay, everyone deserves that including him... except she’s asking for things to go back to what they used to be... which may never happen.

I have read through the chats and I can't pinpoint any wrong done or said by Wizkid.

His only interest is the child, which is ideal, I can't figure the reason the lady trying to impose herself on him as if he owes her.

I just don't understand the problem of some ladies neither do I comprehend the reason for the endless rants.

Regardless of anything, wizkid for the sake of the child forgive and forget. Any man way support wizkid is evil

XaviDayo:
Reading through this girl's story, I feel nothing but pity for her. She should dust herself up, take full responsibility for the shit coz Wizkid did not rape her...she agreed to open them legs for the fuuuck....plus...she should be grateful to God, what if na HIV wizPiken carry give am. Take responsibility and forge ahead. Creat a path for yourself and marry a responsible man.

If WizPiken wants to take the child....give him his son and focus on becoming better and independent. You will have more say as u begin to make your own money. Keeping the child will only hold you back. Let WizPiken take his child....u go find better work and move on. Lastly, go apologise to your parents for disgracing them and allowing an overgrown school child to drag them into shiiiit.


Move on already

This is why a lot of men will never understand what it takes to be a mother. You carried your baby for 9months through everything and gave birth and you expect the mother to hand her baby over simply because you feel it will ruin her life. If she didn't want her baby then am sure she would have had an abortion.

Imagine if your mom decided to drop you off with your deadbeat dad who clearly does not care about your w welfare how do you think the child will grow up to be. Imagine all mother's just dumped their children away like rubbish because it's hard. Smdh woman are natural born nurturers and especially when kids are young I believe they need their mother.