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Five Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair With Your Maid by Vianna(op): 4:41pm On Sep 20, 2018
House girls/maids have wrecked many marriages in the past. Many relationships have come to a sudden end because the man resorted to ‘eat the house girl's forbidden fruit’. According to experts, determining whether your man is having an affair with the house girl can be tricky. Here are signs your husband is sleeping with your house girl.

He keeps defending her
When the house help does anything wrong, the man is quick to defend her. The acts could mean they are dating in the background. Be careful with the changes.

He buys her gifts
It is not normal for a man to gift the house help. Never assume when he keeps buying her gifts. The gifts could be a sign of pleasing her for the other ‘services’ she's been offering.

He wants to be closer to her all the time
Why would a man want to be closer to his house girl? Well, there is something brewing up. Take action before it is too late.

Change in attitude
If his attitude towards you changes all of a sudden, then there are possibilities he is sleeping with someone else and it could be the maid. Never ignore such signs in your marriage lest you wake up when it is too late.

Drastic Makeover
If your house girl undergoes a drastic makeover, there are chances she is having an affair with your husband. The changes can be attributed to the desire to make herself more attractive to him. She will improve her personal hygiene and grooming habits to please your man.

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Re: Five Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair With Your Maid by Vianna(op): 4:46pm On Sep 20, 2018
Royalroy, Dominique
Re: Five Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair With Your Maid by HRHQueenPhil(f): 5:24pm On Sep 20, 2018
dats not all
1.wen he shouts on her unnecessarily.
2.when he likes closing early and going wen u are not there
3.when he likes being in the room wen d lady is cleaning up
4.when he likes 2 come home 2 have his lunch
5. when u av observed that is is a womanizer..loves looking at women breast and butt stylishly
Re: Five Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair With Your Maid by KanwuliaExtra:
Dumebi Kachikwu were born by the House Maid. . . . She had EIGHT CHILDREN!

Ibe Kachikwu was born by Wife #1. wink

Housemaids are humans too. kiss

Where a man finds love. . . . He finds love!

When your man finds a new love . . . Please, respect yourself and STEP ASIDE! You don lose! grin

Re: Five Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair With Your Maid by 1Sharon(f): 8:41pm On Sep 20, 2018
KanwuliaExtra:
Dumebi Kachikwu were born by the House Maid. . . . She had EIGHT CHILDREN!

Ibe Kachikwu was born by Wife #1. wink

Housemaids are humans too. kiss

Where a man finds love. . . . He finds love!

When your man finds a new love . . . Please, respect yourself and STEP ASIDE! You don lose! grin
You are mad oo grin
Re: Five Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair With Your Maid by KanwuliaExtra: 9:42pm On Sep 20, 2018
1Sharon:
You are mad oo grin
Yessssoh! Tell it like it is!
Housemaids nor get feelings? grin
Coming from a poor home does not take away being a human abi?

There are some housemaids worth falling for.

They are WOMEN with “skills” to any man’s heart too.

If housemaid collect ya man. . . . GAME OVER!
Go find your a MOLUE DRIVER! grin
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