it happens - u know women nah! some can be quite devious - a particular man i knew discovered recently that two of the four children he thought his wife had for him, were not his kids - they were children which the wife concieved after an unholy alliance with another man and in an attempt to cover her misdemeanor, chose to pass them off as her husband's children - needless to say, that was the end of the marriage - if it was you, what would you do? would you stick with a lady who has decieved you into raising another man's kids and lying to u they were yours?

Never, how would i allow such heartless woman to live under de same roof with me, never.

@poster
of course! no man would stay with such a lying rat but it also depends on how old the children are.

if the lil bastards are of young age then i will remove them from my life completely but if they are over 8/10yrs old then maybe i will stay in their lives as nothing can really change by then.
i will be totally honest with them about the paternity stating that although i am not their father, i still love them as much. i will make sure that they find who their real dad is so they can have closure on the issue.

as for their mom. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

More than a million American men are investing their love, time, and money in a child who isn't their own. But the worst part about this betrayal? How many people may be in on it

http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/raiseanothermanschild.html

Its quite rampant in nigeria.Chicks give the pregnancy to the man they deem the 'best' option of the many men they are fu/cking,Hoes!

She should get the Bleep out of the house nah.

What a thread. . .
How can a man discover if his own Child is a bastard
Poster, it seems you've been watching too much Nollywood.

no, in fact never ever.matter of fact,the marriage ends that moment.

mama-gee:

What a thread. . .
How can a man discover if his own Child is a naughty person
Poster, it seems you've been watching too much Nollywood.

havent you heard of blood test, paternity test, dna test and so forth?
some women will even be glad to throw the truth in a mans face when the relationship goes sour, just to try denting his ego.

MRbrownJAY:

havent you heard of blood test, paternity test, dna test and so forth?
some women will even  be glad to throw the truth in a mans face when the relationship goes sour, just to try denting his ego.

Then in that case the Child wasn't his in the first place
Or Don't you think so?

@mama gee: u ar not making sense. Whatz ur point?

this na the same baboon wey want him wife to call am lord, y she no go give u bastard child, pay bck is a bit=ch innit

I don't think I can forgive my wife.
Also I don't think i'll disown the kid either(it might well depend on the age of the kid)

mama-gee:


Then in that case the Child wasn't his in the first place
Or Don't you think so?

you may have misunderstood what the poster meant by "b.a.s.t.a.r.d". . . . . . . . . . . . .
he meant a child that wasnt his, an illegitimate child that his cheating wife conceived with her lover and then pretended that it was her husband's.

this poo happens everyday all over the world, women giving pregnancies to the more "suitable" person in the saga.

Will forgive her, but might not be able to forget or stay together

God forbid such a woman from entering my life.

Rubbish.

My brother, a confused man and in his late 30's is married to this pretty girl. She gave him their first child (now 17), and after  4 years, she started having an affair and got pregnant. She later moved out of the house.  A year later, she was back on her knees begging my brother to accept her back. She also brought her second child (now 13, don't want to call him names, he might turn out to be the president of Nigeria oneday)

He accepted her and the child and they now have 2 additional kids. Well, they're happy 2gether. Can't just judge these crazy people!

No way such a woman deserves to b kicked 2 d curb 4 such an act.The illegitimate children on d other hand i'll take as my responsibility.

well, of course i would get a divorce to that women. she lied and cheated on him!
she isnt worthy of his love, that what i say anyway -____-

no

Which kain mumu question be dis one? Is it deliver another man's baby in her father's house? or what?

Never!!!

Not a fucking day more in my house period!

I dont think i would have had a problem with her having those illegitimate children or my raising them, had she told me from the beginning. Its her deviousness that makes it unacceptable.

u go fear na, c girls dey provoke

Never be at the mercy of a woman because if you do,u are donefor.Never beg a woman for anything,not even ur own life.

Una don come again! Leave women alone abeg!
What happens to the men that impregnate women outside?

WHAT A LIFE, WHATS A MAN SUPPOSED TO DO, WOMEN ARE JUST TO CALLOUS, WELL AM NOT SUPRISED COS AT LEAST THEY ARE THE REASON WHY WE ARE ALL SUFFERING NOW, DATING BACK TO ADAM AND EVE, SO I CAN NEVA BE SUPRISED BY ANYTHING A WOMAN WOULD DO,

AS FOR ME, I WILL TAKE MY REAL KIDS AND FLEE, AUTOMATIC DIVORCE, NO NEED TO FILE ANY PAPERS OR COURT CASE, COS IT IS SAID THAT GIVE UNTO CEASER WHAT BELONGS TO CEASER SO THERE FORE SHE SHLD TAKE D KIDS BACK TO THEIR FATHER AND NOT COME BACK


PEACE

Wow!
I never even thought of this kinda issue before now but,
I dont think I`ll ever forgive her even if i do i`ll not keep her as my wife!

lol you can forgive her after you throw her out

If it happens then we'll talk about it. If he wants out and we're living in my house, he packs immediately, if its his, then I move on with the kids.
Life continues!

You people can post some dumb/mumu topics. 

yawns