Not your fault madam when RCCG turned maga to feed you and your family excessively and you got too fat why won't you talk thrash.

Why didn't you fell out of love when your husband was a very poor lecturer

I don't blame you it's RCCG maga's fault.

foyeks2001:
Is Mummy justifying those married women cheating on their husbands? Like what if the man loses his source of income?
So women are permitted to fall out of love?

Exactly my thoughts..Her reasoning is so flawed and shallow. Money should never be used to quantify love or be the sole measure for a successful marriage.

Earthbound:

Please tell me this isn't real!

it's realer than real

SmartyPants:


What she said must be placed in context. She first said, cut your coat according to your size, and another statement to the effect that one should be sincere as to his or her status.

She also first said you should get a job before getting married. I believe that the proper interpretation here is that a man should be gainfully employed enough to take care of his home.

which context are u talking about? D contentious statement means that money is a condition 4 love. A man could loose his job in d middle of a marriage & "run out cash". In that case, what happens? D lady will "fall out of love", right?

EmpresFIDEL:
exactly oh.. many of the comments simply indicate that, majority of them lack understanding.

pls clarify what she meant

LifestyleTonite:
Pastor Foluke Adeboye, wife of the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor E.A Adeboye, has given marital advice to people who are looking forward to getting married.

According to Pastor Foluke Adeboye, a man needs to get a job before getting married, or else his wife will fall out of love with him when he falls out of cash.


At the day 4 of the Church’s annual youth convention, Pastor Foluke, who is popularly referred to as Mummy G.O, also gave advice to people whose marriage might be facing some crisis.

Below are some points from her sermon which were shared on the Church’s official Twitter account.





https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/10/pastor-foluke-adeboye-cash-wife-love/

NONSENSE

festwiz:
No wonder you've not left Daddy G.O.

The day "daddy" stops raking in money from his church and decides to give everything he has away, I'm pretty sure you'll leave as well.

Don't misunderstand the woman, she did not encourage what you think, she was just echoing what our society has become now. she went further to advice would be couples.

lol.

Jrevelation:
Like how many factories or industries /jobs your has create for the members now ,lol yeye dey smell

How many have you created? How many poor kids have you paid their fees? When last did you go to the orphanage to give something? When last did you send your parents allowance? Bro keep quiet and remove the dirt in your eyes before looking for who to do the duty of the govt.

Depending on the context in which she meant it that cud be a Bad advice.

lexy2014:
pls clarify what she meant

She stated the reality. No woman wants to suffer. So, before you go broke trying to impress a woman and society. Think!

I am ashamed for redeemed, what happened to for better for worse?

LifestyleTonite:
Pastor Foluke Adeboye, wife of the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor E.A Adeboye, has given marital advice to people who are looking forward to getting married.

According to Pastor Foluke Adeboye, a man needs to get a job before getting married, or else his wife will fall out of love with him when he falls out of cash.


At the day 4 of the Church’s annual youth convention, Pastor Foluke, who is popularly referred to as Mummy G.O, also gave advice to people whose marriage might be facing some crisis.

Below are some points from her sermon which were shared on the Church’s official Twitter account.





https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/10/pastor-foluke-adeboye-cash-wife-love/

foyeks2001:
Is Mummy justifying those married women cheating on their husbands? Like what if the man loses his source of income?
So women are permitted to fall out of love?

Yes...

abiodunalasa:

So it is because of money she remain in love with Pastor Adeboye

Nigerian women and money sha !!! Even this highly placed and respected woman is not left out of the parasitic mentality

When your ship is taking in water, you dont jump. You just simply grab a bucket.

Money should never ever be precursor to love. Period. Full stop.

Give three Gbossas to that Woman, for being able to call a spade, a spade! Everything she said is bang-on, though it might not be palatable to our ears

Look, we need to face REALITY.

Not just Nigerian women (other women to varying degrees though the Nigerian woman has taken it to unprecedented heights due to their greed) but ALL WOMEN are controlled by MONEY and the Material things Money can buy.

There is a reason, God did not create Woman, immediately he created man because he could have created both of them at once.
HE knew that the Man has to "acquire wealth" so to say, otherwise the Woman will just stray-away if he has nothing to show her as his wealth.
When Eve was finally created, EVERYTHING WAS SET, garden was like today's Mansion, Food was plenty, all animals were named and all WORK was ALREADY DONE, the Woman just "packed-in" to enjoy everything, just like the Women of today insist on a "made-man".

Let us stop blaming women, let us just recognise them for who they are: Materialistic, Opportunistic and Unreliable Sex Partner.
End of story!

And just look at what Eve did immediately Adam was out of sight: She made friend with "another Man", obeyed the starnger even more than her Husband and God.... and brought desolation ot his household and generation.

Somebody should tell me or show me how the "average woman" of today is DIFFERENT from the above discription.
No difference, only 'times' has just evolved and become more sophisticated.

Women are who they are, love them for who they are but be aware of what you are getting into, when you encounter one.
Me, l will always love women but l make "allowance" for their treacherous nature because l know it must come to play, sooner or later.

foyeks2001:
Is Mummy justifying those married women cheating on their husbands? Like what if the man loses his source of income?
So women are permitted to fall out of love?

She just said the plain truth. To avoid your wife of bring tempted into cheating, keep having the money. Stop acting as if you don't know this.

Saff:
Get a CAREER before you get married. A job can easily be lost, a career will be with you wherever you go.

Keep sounding philosophical.

Confussion everywhere..nah her mind she use play play talk like dat.....tank God say d husband they listen.....

IsaacBuchi:


When God word is taught with him human wisdom, you might think you're sounding intelligent but then you'll end up stupid.

what wisdom or your foolishness? her statement is very clear without any ambiguity.Cash and carry.to her money answereth all things.

Radiant1020:
See the way some nairalanders just misinterpreted the message

I don't blame them sha, it's the economy I blame

am a redemer a vocalist and a keyboardist, can you pls explain what she meant to me?

Radiant1020:
See the way some nairalanders just misinterpreted the message

I don't blame them sha, it's the economy I blame

am a redemer a vocalist and a keyboardist, can you pls explain what she meant to me?

xbernardx:
I am ashamed for redeemed, what happened to for better for worse?

That phrase was coined by the White Colonialist who wanted to impose their own way oflife on us, while denying us of the same benefit they get from it.

Our fore-fathers never married one wife so the issue of "For Better, for Worse" does not arise.
The White man who brought tha idea is also a "Serial Philanderer", marrying, divorcing and re-marrying an average of three time in his life time, so where is the For better, For Worse" in that one?

Its all deception, "Do as l say, but Dont do as l Do".

The Woman has just said the truth, the reality that we are all running away from.

No Leader of Religion ever married a single wife, whether Christian or Muslim so where did the idea come from? Even Pagans dont do so because they all know that Women are materialistic by their very nature and Men are Polygamous, from their very nature,

Though, Mankind has tried to "change" this HUMAN NATURE because they think it is not good but Nature is Nature, it is in the DNA and would always erupt, least when you expect it, no matter how long you suppress it

This is very disappointing coming from a revered pastor's wife. Such comment puts too much pressure on men and drive some to commit crime in other to meet his wife's tastes. It can also drive some wives to commit adultery or file for divorce. She should be encouraging young wives to assist her husband in ways they can. Our religious leaders are the ones indirectly fuelling the immorality and criminality that is growing at an alarming rate.

Johnrake69:
Na wa ooo. The evils of capitalism. It finds it's way to your politics (without #22M you can't buy form), Religion (You go to hell if you don't pay tithe), Family system (Your wife will fall out of love with you when you fall out of cash). If we continue on this part humanity is doomed.

actually you wont go to hell if you dont pay tithe

Saff:
Get a CAREER before you get married. A job can easily be lost, a career will be with you wherever you go.

You are the wisest woman on the whole of nairaland and in the entire world as a whole.

Money is vital even in your family none reckons with you without it.

dominique:
This is very disappointing coming from a revered pastor's wife. Such comment puts too much pressure on men and drive some to commit crime in other to meet his wife's tastes. It can also drive some wives to commit adultery or file for divorce. She should be encouraging young wives to assist her husband in ways they can. Our religious leaders are the ones indirectly fuelling the immorality and criminality that is growing at an alarming rate.

I must agree with you, I still gradually believing by the day, that religion was brought to Africa as a means to Rob and divide us, else how come the whites are not so religious


And that is why churches have turned business centers, I will not debate on the correctness of her assertion, but it really paints a negative picture


I have been to the redemption camp, and it confirmed to me that it's just another business center under the umbrella of religion


Good truly sees our heart and intents

Daboomb:




That phrase was coined by the White Colonialist who wanted to impose their own way oflife on us, while denying us of the same benefit they get from it.

Our fore-fathers never married one wife so the issue of "For Better, for Worse" does not arise.
The White man who brought tha idea is also a "Serial Philanderer", marrying, divorcing and re-marrying an average of three time in his life time, so where is the For better, For Worse" in that one?

Its all deception, "Do as l say, but Dont do as l Do".

The Woman has just said the truth, the reality that we are all running away from.

No Leader of Religion ever married a single wife, whether Christian or Muslim so where did the idea come from? Even Pagans dont do so because they all know that Women are materialistic by their very nature and Men are Polygamous, from their very nature,

Though, Mankind has tried to "change" this HUMAN NATURE because they think it is not good but Nature is Nature, it is in the DNA and would always erupt, least when you expect it, no matter how long you suppress it

Blessed woman of God.

Maybe its not as it is stated here in social media. I'm sure she (cos she was married her husband in poverty for a good number of years) did not mean it as its been put here!


People are actually falling out of cash today through no fault of theirs. Imagine that even 150k cannot sustain a family today! But love keeps waxing strong.


Let's be wise. Money is not everything.

Most people here are making one mistake, thus mis-interpreting what the Mummy G.O has said.

When she says "MONEY", she is not just referring to CASH.

MONEY in the context of her statement, stands for EVERYTHING OF COMFORT.

Remove COMFORT from ANY Marriage and see if that Marriage will not collapse very qucikly.

Women are created IN Confort, FOR Comfort..and they do provide some COMFORT to the male.
That is the very NATURE of WOMEN.

That is why God did not create a Woman, when there was WORK to be done in the Garden but created her ONLY when all the WORK was COMPLETED, God has rested and the garden was now COMFORTABLE.
Just sit back and ask yourself: Why create the Woman when everything was "set", when Adam was instructed at one stage to take care of the garden (work), to name all the living things (Work), e.t.c" Why was the woman not created to assist him from the beginning?
Think about it.

Are you surprised that Women just love Comfort?
Are you surprised they just hate to stay anywhere, as long as the Comfort has disappeared?

Think about how many men are comfortable and marry, then when they run into financial trouble and the comfort disappears, the wife runs away sharp-sharp but if the Man later in life makes a comeback and has Money to buy all the Comfort back, she is begging to come back and blames her initial decison to run, on the Devil

MONEY = COMFORT = MONEY.

Mama G.O knows what she is saying and she is 101% CORRECT,

She is talking Nonsense

360great:
True talk my brother, come to my parish you will weep for the true essence of Christianity. All what they are interested is your money. The church don tire me o

then leave am sure your absense wouldn’t even be noticed.

deebrain:
Blessed woman of God.

Maybe its not as it is stated here in social media. I'm sure she (cos she was married her husband in poverty for a good number of years) did not mean it as its been put here!


People are actually falling out of cash today through no fault of theirs. Imagine that even 150k cannot sustain a family today! But love keeps waxing strong.


Let's be wise. Money is not everything.

Point of correction!

She did not marry her husband in POVERTY... He may not be stinkingly rich yet but she married him a graduate, with "POTENTIAL-CERTAIN" to be RICH...and he is rich as expected!

SMART Women knows that POTENTIAL si what you look for in a man ...and a Graduate of Mathematics in thos days surely has POTENTIAL.

Anyone with Potential is already Rich because it is Potential that brings Money (except in these 'Buhari days' of Ritual money )

Why would she marry a graduate, when she could have married a lazy young man who plays Baba Ijebu/NairaBet all day, doing nothing else?

Women equates Marriage to COMFORT, MONEY BRINGS COMFORT and any Man with POTENTIALS, will eventually have MONEY
Its a simple equation

lexy2014:
which context are u talking about? D contentious statement means that money is a condition 4 love. A man could loose his job in d middle of a marriage & "run out cash". In that case, what happens? D lady will "fall out of love", right?

I have already clearly shown the context.

She did not make the statement in isolation, she said other things. Collectively, these provide a context for as to what she was talking about. She was specifically talking to people who don't have jobs but want to get married.