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Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 10:48pm On Oct 06, 2018
Ivanmykel:
07039709843

OP, is this your phone number?
Are you Ifetexoracle?
Sorry for the late response. that isn't me. i am dealing with everyone on this thread or via my email.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 10:49pm On Oct 06, 2018
ifyalways:
Okay. Noted. So they paid the bills in 2012.
Yes, '12 and not 11'. I mixed up my dates.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 10:51pm On Oct 06, 2018
Damitism:
MadHeadLeft2 Hmmmnnn! So sorry to read about your plight. I have also passed through a lot in life. If you read my past topics on nairaland, especially those I made in 2013, you will see I have had some rough ride too. I have been sponsoring myself too from the money I make from freelancing and to God be the glory, I'm just few months away from finishing my study. I can help you with upwork accounts and tips on how to start again on upwork. My attention was brought to this topic by OldBeer who quoted the post I made some hours ago. You can send me an email via my username. I will reply you via the email. We can share phone number from there and I will add you to my group.

Also, don't be offended by the post made by ifyalways. She's actually nice as at the last time I chatted with her in 2015. I believe she is still. She was among those that helped me when I gained admission into the university in 2014. It's just that it is sometimes had to believe some stories on the internet due to the high level of scam. Let's meet on WhatsApp and talk. All the best.
I am not offended at all. It is great she challenged me. At the very least she made me clear some doubts people might have had.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 10:53pm On Oct 06, 2018
yvelchstores:
ifeanyi, pls I sent a token to u. It's well with you. I am pleading with you to ;
1)pay the tithe out of that bit
2)pls I am begging u, attend a Christ embassy church tmrw morning. Services start by 8am
3)when u go, pls pick up a copy of Rhapsody of reality for the month of October.

Don't be angry at the above points not because of anything but because I feel a connection to your issue and I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT GOD IS INTERESTED IN YOU.
Give him a chance o nwannem.
thank you very much sis. really appreciate your chipping in for me. there's loveworld close to my street, will pop in tomorrow to feel the atmosphere. might be what i need -- i haven't gone to church in a long while, but i will pop in tomorrow.

dalu.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2:
Not me.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2:
UNwanted spiel.
Re: Tough Life by Damitism: 12:51am On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2 I have responded to your application and email.
Re: Tough Life by Ishilove: 6:17am On Oct 07, 2018
I'm very sceptical. I'm trying so hard to believe the OP but I'm still very sceptical.
Re: Tough Life by Ivanmykel(f): 6:55am On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2:
i can see why you asked me this -- no, that's not my ifeanyi. my first and last names are quite popular from my part of imo state. Facebook will return over 300 results for that first and last name combo.

there is a difference between us -- he studied accounting, i am not a graduate; he lives in abuja, i live in lagos.

So, no -- that's not me.
Alright
Re: Tough Life by Nobody: 11:17am On Oct 07, 2018
Ishilove:
I'm very sceptical. I'm trying so hard to believe the OP but I'm still very sceptical.
You should give reasons why you feel so.
Re: Tough Life by Ishilove: 12:37pm On Oct 07, 2018
Chubhie:
You should give reasons why you feel so.
It's just a gut feeling. Maybe I'm being paranoid but I just can't shake it off.
Re: Tough Life by ifyalways(f): 12:48pm On Oct 07, 2018
Ishilove:
I'm very sceptical. I'm trying so hard to believe the OP but I'm still very sceptical.
He indeed worked with KFC very briefly. He was sick and was kinda laid off. The over 500K bill was B.S. but that does not really matter now.

I was told a lot of things about his family situation which does not correlate with the picture he painted here of his family ie being mistreated, suffering etc.
Someone wanted to link me up to his people but with what they told me already and all, I declined.

@OP, I wish you well. smiley
Re: Tough Life by ifyalways(f): 12:50pm On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2:
Yes, '12 and not 11'. I mixed up my dates.
No wahala.

All the very best. Apologies if my earlier post(s) offended you. smiley

God bless.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2:
I don't think that spiel is still needed.
Re: Tough Life by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 07, 2018
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It's just a gut feeling. Maybe I'm being paranoid but I just can't shake it off.[/quote]I think detective Ify has given a tactical greenlight.
Re: Tough Life by ifyalways(f): 1:22pm On Oct 07, 2018
Madheadleft, You win.

I have nothing else to contribute to your thread. I won't respond to you or anyone else on this thread.

God be with you and have a good day.

*thread unfollowed*
Re: Tough Life by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2018
You write AMAZINGLY WELL! I pray you find the help you seek.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2018
yettymuse:
You write AMAZINGLY WELL! I pray you find the help you seek.
Thank you very much.
Re: Tough Life by thorpido(m): 1:41pm On Oct 07, 2018
Madheadleft,I replied your pm.

So much skepticism on the thread but all the same I'll see you.
Re: Tough Life by yvelchstores(f): 1:55pm On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2:
thank you very much sis. really appreciate your chipping in for me. there's loveworld close to my street, will pop in tomorrow to feel the atmosphere. might be what i need -- i haven't gone to church in a long while, but i will pop in tomorrow.

dalu.
oh wonderful. Thank you for your reply. Thank you for also considering my request.
How far? Were you able to attend? There is live Communion service with Pst Chris this evening by 4.30pm. It's usually every 1st Sunday of the month. Any christ embassy near u will still air it live. I know u will get some lift in your spirit.
Re: Tough Life by Ishilove: 1:56pm On Oct 07, 2018
ifyalways:
He indeed worked with KFC very briefly. He was sick and was kinda laid off. The over 500K bill was B.S. but that does not really matter now.

I was told a lot of things about his family situation which does not correlate with the picture he painted here of his family ie being mistreated, suffering etc.
Someone wanted to link me up to his people but with what they told me already and all, I declined.
Detective Ify! cheesy

Ehen, so I wasn't entirely wrong. There were elements of BS in his narrative which my shitometre picked up.

It is well with you, OP. I hope you get the help you seek
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 2:00pm On Oct 07, 2018
yvelchstores:
oh wonderful. Thank you for your reply. Thank you for also considering my request.
How far? Were you able to attend? There is live Communion service with Pst Chris this evening by 4.30pm. It's usually every 1st Sunday of the month. Any christ embassy near u will still air it live. I know u will get some lift in your spirit.
not gonna lie, i didn't stay very long. I stayed for about 20 minutes. it got unbearable for me so i left.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 2:02pm On Oct 07, 2018
Ishilove:
Detective Ify! cheesy

Ehen, so I wasn't entirely wrong. There were elements of BS in his narrative which my shitometre picked up.

It is well with you, OP. I hope you get the help you seek
i wish you people will stop accusing me. i wish you would stop acting so sure of my circumstances. it is tearing me down.


where is the false narrative?

where is the lie?

Please, point out the lies that you have detected. stop accusing me of lying. please.

it would be better not to contribute than try to tear me down. please.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 2:03pm On Oct 07, 2018
thorpido:
Madheadleft,I replied your pm.

So much skepticism on the thread but all the same I'll see you.
sorry, didn't receive a pm from you. i have also checked. if you don't mind, please email me at contactify0@gmail.com. thanks
Re: Tough Life by yvelchstores(f): 2:10pm On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2:
not gonna lie, i didn't stay very long. I stayed for about 20 minutes. it got unbearable for me so i left.
OK. Do you think you can make it for the live stream Communion service this evening tho? It will be an opportunity to pick up the rhapsody too. Plsssss, I dey kneel down beg, biko?
Re: Tough Life by yvelchstores(f): 2:23pm On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2:
not gonna lie, i didn't stay very long. I stayed for about 20 minutes. it got unbearable for me so i left.
not every child loves to go to school, some wail everyday to school yet they must learn discipline to do the needful.
I don't know how to express to you the deep realities of your situation. God is saying to you, you have strived and toiled enough, I want to come in now and take the wheel. It's not magic, u have to let him. First you have to compel your body to subject itself to be taught, to be able to listen, to hear the voice of God.

Believe me, most medical diagnosis are spiritually inflicted. Even the ones that are natural are subject to spiritual intervention so at the end of the day, whatever the root cause, Jesus has the answer and is more willing to help than u can imagine.

You have to take that step and start your journey with Him. Suppress those voices, they know their days are numbered now, cos God says "it's enough"

Can you attend the Communion service?
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 2:36pm On Oct 07, 2018
yvelchstores:
not every child loves to go to school, some wail everyday to school yet they must learn discipline to do the needful.
I don't know how to express to you the deep realities of your situation. God is saying to you, you have strived and toiled enough, I want to come in now and take the wheel. It's not magic, u have to let him. First you have to compel your body to subject itself to be taught, to be able to listen, to hear the voice of God.

Believe me, most medical diagnosis are spiritually inflicted. Even the ones that are natural are subject to spiritual intervention so at the end of the day, whatever the root cause, Jesus has the answer and is more willing to help than u can imagine.

You have to take that step and start your journey with Him. Suppress those voices, they know their days are numbered now, cos God says "it's enough"

Can you attend the Communion service?
thank you so much.

i don't know about belief. belief to me means giving up control in the areas where i might have control.

i really want to go the medical route for the solution to my problems. it is all in my head. i could attend the communion service, but i know myself, i would only mock the preacher from where i am seated. same thing happened this morning which is why i said it ws unbearable for me. then when i came home i was overcome with so much guilt i cried for a long time.

maybe i would attend, maybe i wouldn't, but any which way, please do not feel offended by my frankness.
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2:
smiley
Re: Tough Life by yvelchstores(f): 2:47pm On Oct 07, 2018
MadHeadLeft2:
thank you so much.

i don't know about belief. belief to me means giving up control in the areas where i might have control.

i really want to go the medical route for the solution to my problems. it is all in my head. i could attend the communion service, but i know myself, i would only mock the preacher from where i am seated. same thing happened this morning which is why i said it ws unbearable for me. then when i came home i was overcome with so much guilt i cried for a long time.

maybe i would attend, maybe i wouldn't, but any which way, please do not feel offended by my frankness.
I appreciate your honesty, I will rather hear it. I can relate to your attitude to the preacher because I was once there but the most important thing to me is that I left that behind and charged on, by the help of God's spirit and grace.

If u notice my previous post, I mentioned discipline. Just like an addict experiencing withdrawal symptoms and is yearning some substance. You have to FORCE yourself to staying sitted even when it feels "unbearable". If u can over come that, it's a step to overcoming SO MUCH MORE.

You claim your have a psychological /mental illness. But this discipline is also a psychological exercise no?
Pardon me for using the word "claim" because I know that it's subject to change upon contact with the light of God's word.

I can tell you are a very intelligent man. If you can this once allow your spirit to lead you than your intellect.

Udo nwannem. Thanks for your response smiley
Re: Tough Life by Eketem: 2:47pm On Oct 07, 2018
yvelchstores:
not every child loves to go to school, some wail everyday to school yet they must learn discipline to do the needful.
I don't know how to express to you the deep realities of your situation. God is saying to you, you have strived and toiled enough, I want to come in now and take the wheel. It's not magic, u have to let him. First you have to compel your body to subject itself to be taught, to be able to listen, to hear the voice of God.

Believe me, most medical diagnosis are spiritually inflicted. Even the ones that are natural are subject to spiritual intervention so at the end of the day, whatever the root cause, Jesus has the answer and is more willing to help than u can imagine.

You have to take that step and start your journey with Him. Suppress those voices, they know their days are numbered now, cos God says "it's enough"

Can you attend the Communion service?
God bless you for your assistance but faith is something one finds by themselves, at this point he is has shown some resistance let him decide on his own when and if he wants to return to church.




MadHeadLeft2:
i wish you people will stop accusing me. i wish you would stop acting so sure of my circumstances. it is tearing me down.


where is the false narrative?

where is the lie?

Please, point out the lies that you have detected. stop accusing me of lying. please.

it would be better not to contribute than try to tear me down. please.
Calm down, it is a default setting and it is not normal in today's world to give a stranger benefit of doubt except one has faced hard times and understands life happens.

Please don't bother with them anymore, it's a routine, make accusations when people seek for help, when the person defends themselves they leave and still cast aspersions at the persons credibility. I don't know what they get from that.

Life happens, not everybody will believe you. Calm down and respond those who actually care about giving you a chance
Re: Tough Life by MadHeadLeft2: 2:52pm On Oct 07, 2018
thanks @eketem.

will pay them scant attention onwards.
Re: Tough Life by yvelchstores(f): 2:54pm On Oct 07, 2018
Eketem:
God bless you for your assistance but faith is something one finds by themselves, at this point he is has shown some resistance let him decide on his own when and if he wants to return to church.







Calm down, it is a default setting and it is not normal in today's world to give a stranger benefit of doubt except one has faced hard times and understands life happens.

Please don't bother with them anymore, it's a routine, make accusations when people seek for help, when the person defends themselves they leave and still cast aspersions at the persons credibility. I don't know what they get from that.

Life happens, not everybody will believe you. Calm down and respond those who actually care about giving you a chance
I see op as my brother. I am sure if he was my biological brother, I will not just let it go like that, I don't mean to be nosy or persuasive but sometimes people need a little push. I will not feel bad if he picks offense because I know if there is a small chance of him agreeing, it will be worth the effort /trouble.
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