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Good Evening Lively Stones,

I’m 27 years old I have been dating a guy for 4 years now. When I met him I was working with an NGO in Kano state, we are from the same state (Kastina state precisely) so when we met it was easier to link up as I was not in a relationship then.

Just 3 months into our relationship he lost his job, but I stood by him and encouraged him that things will get better, I later got another job in Kaduna which was better than the one I was doing in kano so I had to relocate to Kaduna.

He became so insecure that I was going to leave him because even his friends were saying the same thing, but I assured him I will stay except if he is the one that decide to leave, after 1 year I rented an apartment and I ask him come stay with me at least we have better opportunities in Kaduna than Kano.

He came and we kept applying for any available vacancy then finally he got a job in June 2017 he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted the proposal. Then suddenly, his behavior changed totally.He became aggressive getting angry over every little thing, I complained about it severally but he will change after sometime he goes back to his old ways.

I told him to rent a house since he now has a salary. We still went ahead with the wedding preparations but deep inside of me I’m convinced he doesn’t love me anymore I try ....more




https://livelystones.com.ng/we-are-getting-married-because-it-is-too-late-to-stop-now/

Hmnnn

Follow ur heart dear

I see RED flag.

Tealess:
Follow ur heart dear

This is desperate pick me behavior. Your first mistake was standing by him, your second mistake was telling him to move in. Babes will never learn, the man is managing you until he finds his real girlfriend. You will not see broke men in threads like this, but if it is to label a woman above their league as olosho, they will be masturbating

Beke2020:
Good ing Lively Stones,

I’m 27 years old I have been dating a guy for 4 years now. When I met him I was working with an NGO in Kano state, we are from the same state (Kastina state precisely) so when we met it was easier to link up as I was not in a relationship then.

Just 3 months into our relationship he lost his job, but I stood by him and encouraged him that things will get better, I later got another job in Kaduna which was better than the one I was doing in kano so I had to relocate to Kaduna.

He became so insecure that I was going to leave him because even his friends were saying the same thing, but I assured him I will stay except if he is the one that decide to leave, after 1 year I rented an apartment and I ask him come stay with me at least we have better opportunities in Kaduna than Kano.

He came and we kept applying for any available vacancy then finally he got a job in June 2017 he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted the proposal. Then suddenly, his behavior changed totally.He became aggressive getting angry over every little thing, I complained about it severally but he will change after sometime he goes back to his old ways.

I told him to rent a house since he now has a salary. We still went ahead with the wedding preparations but deep inside of me I’m convinced he doesn’t love me anymore I try ....more




https://livelystones.com.ng/we-are-getting-married-because-it-is-too-late-to-stop-now/

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