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Iamtosignno:
Abi Na as if i am her parent

Alexaonfleek:
;Dlmao.


But I just imagined a case scenario where her parents are not alive or they are incapacitated


What will you do if that is the case and you can afford to pay the fees

Nobodys:
Why not give her if you have?.
It's not an obligation buh if you've thought of it then she probably needs it..
I don't know how to put this well buh you can't carry a calculator into relationship....You help if you want to and when you can......

rame18:
I was grateful for every kobo you spent and you know that.

dingbang:
shhhh... I dont spend money for sex..

rame18:
mini livered piece of shit, I just hate sissy guys. take a walk dude you are stale and expired.

dingbang:
Allen avenue girl spotted.. Always rude.. We know you.

lexotan:
A while back, a story broke out that a soldier had killed his girlfriend after dumping him. The reason for the brutal murder was the said girl had rejected him after paying her college fees. At such a point, as a mature man with all brain cells in tip-top condition, you’d just ask yourself ‘what would Jesus do?

It is not an isolated case. Many men out there have endured the burden of paying for school fees only for the girl to turn her back against him. Many have swallowed humble pie and let the situation slide, just as Jesus would have done.



The only reason that would guarantee you paying school fees, is when the two of you are married. Period. There’s no other reason. In so doing you will be improving someone who already belongs to you. Other than that, you shouldn’t, and here’s why.

You can’t buy love

Men who pay their girlfriends fees do so in the name of buying their love. It is akin to tying a yoke of expectations on these girl’s shoulders. In the end, you turn back and tell her, ‘you see I paid your school fees and you must love me.’ Love can never be bought. The unconditional love is the best, and if you must pay school fees then do so with an unconditional heart.

School fees is a parent's role

It is a parent’s role to pay for their child’s school fees. They may be poor but many have crossed oceans for their children to get an education so that they can uplift them from poverty. It just is not right for a man to do so, especially when you attach the condition of marriage to the gesture.

It is a sign of weakness on the man’s part

As earlier stated, paying school fees can be likened to buying love. If you try to win a woman’s heart with it then probably it is a sign of weakness from you. Alpha males do not need an external form of motivation to please a girl. They are just themselves and ladies will fall in love with them without having to extend monetary baits.

In conclusion,paying of school fees for one's girlfriend should not be a priority or duty,you can do such willingly or voluntarily with no strings attached,please dont come to nairaland and be lamenting how one babe you have been sponsoring her education dumped you oooo,lolzzz.

However,our dear ladies please and please,if you know you will not marry the man that want to or is sponsoring you education in future,abeg,just terminate the relationship on time,in order not to break a brother's heart oooo,lolzzz.

Love and at the same time,please use your brain......

lexotan:
A while back, a story broke out that a soldier had killed his girlfriend after dumping him. The reason for the brutal murder was the said girl had rejected him after paying her college fees. At such a point, as a mature man with all brain cells in tip-top condition, you’d just ask yourself ‘what would Jesus do?

It is not an isolated case. Many men out there have endured the burden of paying for school fees only for the girl to turn her back against him. Many have swallowed humble pie and let the situation slide, just as Jesus would have done.



The only reason that would guarantee you paying school fees, is when the two of you are married. Period. There’s no other reason. In so doing you will be improving someone who already belongs to you. Other than that, you shouldn’t, and here’s why.

You can’t buy love

Men who pay their girlfriends fees do so in the name of buying their love. It is akin to tying a yoke of expectations on these girl’s shoulders. In the end, you turn back and tell her, ‘you see I paid your school fees and you must love me.’ Love can never be bought. The unconditional love is the best, and if you must pay school fees then do so with an unconditional heart.

School fees is a parent's role

It is a parent’s role to pay for their child’s school fees. They may be poor but many have crossed oceans for their children to get an education so that they can uplift them from poverty. It just is not right for a man to do so, especially when you attach the condition of marriage to the gesture.

It is a sign of weakness on the man’s part

As earlier stated, paying school fees can be likened to buying love. If you try to win a woman’s heart with it then probably it is a sign of weakness from you. Alpha males do not need an external form of motivation to please a girl. They are just themselves and ladies will fall in love with them without having to extend monetary baits.

In conclusion,paying of school fees for one's girlfriend should not be a priority or duty,you can do such willingly or voluntarily with no strings attached,please dont come to nairaland and be lamenting how one babe you have been sponsoring her education dumped you oooo,lolzzz.

However,our dear ladies please and please,if you know you will not marry the man that want to or is sponsoring you education in future,abeg,just terminate the relationship on time,in order not to break a brother's heart oooo,lolzzz.

Love and at the same time,please use your brain......

mimimile93:
And I just paid ritylove's school fees.. Why didnt dis thread com up earlier? Damn!

ritylove:
when will you convert me to your main chick? Pls I'm tired of this friend zone

mimimile93:
Riri I don't know yet. Be patient. Nothing comes easy.

destinyy23:
stingy men

Iamtosignno:
I can do it but i will be afraid because nobody know tomorrow anything can change hands

Alexaonfleek:

rame18:
I was grateful for every kobo you spent and you know that.

rame18:
I was grateful for every kobo you spent and you know that.

lexotan:
Broke ass lady spotted

Iamtosignno:
How are you Beauty

Alexaonfleek:
I'm fine dear

lefulefu:

Iamtosignno:
How life treating you

Alexaonfleek:
;Dlmao.


But I just imagined a case scenario where her parents are not alive or they are incapacitated


What will you do if that is the case and you can afford to pay the fees

DaddyNimo:
in that case I'd marry her first, den will be paying her fees. spending on a gf is like investing in a ponzi scheme....it might close up anytime

lefulefu:
Money that a young man should invest on himself he will be using it to sponsor another man's future wife in school and when she graduates she will dump u and marry another man.some men mumu sha oo. Use dat money to further urself in school or expand ur business but u using it to sponsor one girl in the university. If i ever have such a son i will take him to a native doctor or pastor to cast out such foolish spirit in him.

DaddyNimo:
in that case I'd marry her first, den will be paying her fees. spending on a gf is like investing in a ponzi scheme....it might close up anytime

Alexaonfleek:
just there ooo