[size=8pt][size=8pt] Relationship Gurus, please take your time to read my messages and give me advice on what to do.

my english is not very good , please bear with me, i ll try to pass my message accross .

i am currently inlove with a Love peddle who works at a Brothel , i have been with her for over 6years but i never spake to her of having any relationship but just to knack each other , pay her and go, we have been doing this for the past 6 years.

Truely she caught my attention because shes good in bed and i dont know whether that is what made me fall inlove with her, i perceive that i m in Love with her but dont know if she feels thesame for me too.

i cheated on her with her neighbour next door , her freind or friends told her about it and she querried me of it , i admitted and she sent me out of her room, i tried to apologise to her but she wouldnt listen, she was very angry that i feared she could harm me while angry. so i fled.

thinking that i can do without her, so i continued with sexing the nieghbour , the lady next door , opposite to her's . now when ever i m sexing her(the lady i m in-love with) neighbor her thoughts do come to me. whenever i think of her i grow weak, could this be Love?
if its love , why did it come to me without my consent? why did it come to me unawares?

one day i d visit the brothel where she works or Husstle , i met her and apologise that we continue our sexcapade but she refused, she says she has forgiven me but will never sex me again. she says that i downgraded her that while she was calling for me i didnt answer her. i never meant to downgrade her , i was only scared of looking at her direction after she shouted at me in her room, since after that her shout at me, i became scared of her and avoided her, i thought i wouldn't need her anymore, i didnt know i was inlove with her.

now these days whenever she sees me she hates me, i tried to talk to her she wouldn't grant me audience or listen to me , no oppourtunity to speak with her, she feels sad whenever i m around

oneday i prayed that i should never see her again that God should remove her from that Brothel where i do see her, so that my Love for her would die but it seems Satan answered my prayer by bringing her closer to where i work(treckable , closeby brothel), as i write to you now my heart is feeling the pain that the person i m inlove with is bittered about me.

please guys advise me i dont know what to do next.

how can you be inlove with someone and be sleeping with another person?

i end up loving this lady of which i never planed for.

she prays for me secretly , she affirmed it onetime, and another time i saw her in my dreams defending me against my enemies who attacked me, shes like an angel to me and at the same time good in bed. i find it difficult to let her go.

ever since i discovered that i love her , i stopped sleeping with that her former neighbor i cheated with. i have said that i will never do anything again to hurt her. but she never knows that these are my thoughts .

No Lady i know is as this one i m inlove with. i have dated a lady who happens to be more religious than her and who claims to be of good morals. but this my Olosho Lady is a blessing to me. the other religious lady i one dated brings me set backs (please this is not to discredit any religion)

please guys how do i get her back, help me, my heart has been bleeding for almost a year now ever since we had this misunderstandings

please advise me on what best to do

What the hell is wrong with this guy.....falling in love is not the problem here but you going to brothel to have sex for complete 6 yrs is the problem....
Just a little calculation
Lets say 1 yr is 365days...
365×6=2190..
Let say you go there 4 times a week...
2190÷4=547.5
You pay a minimum of 1,500k....
547.5×1,500k=821,250k......
821,250.......clap for yourself......

((yawns))...I learnt brothel girls are very diabolic. Are you sure you are not in a spiritual love web

gabinogem:
((yawns))...I learnt brothel girls are very diabolic. Are you sure you are not in a spiritual love web

Brother i dont know, you judge my situation for me

Dem don use toto water corrupt this one mind

Chai! see wetin pesn pikin(wey kul himself youth) use pride dey talk. you have been dating a girl who have been into prostitution for 6 FUKN YEARS.do such person have plan for a better life someday,or she wanna be a harlot all her life. you,on your own side,she is sad that you patronize(cheat) her neighbore whereas her job is sex(cheating) with boy,man,old man,aboki,yoruba,igbo,ritualist,pastor,slowpoke,trader,mallam,hiv patients etc. guy,both you and the said lady are LAZY AND JOBLESS

1) ".......for 6 years......."


i no dey judge you o but guy man na wah for you o....................you just dey visit ashawo corner for the past 6years...........6years!!!...........6years!!!!!!!..............even buhari no go rule for 6years wey you just waste throway for ashawo body......
By rough estimate, i sure say you suppose don dey reach 30 while the ahsawo wey be the love of your life suppose dey btw 29-40............na wah o


2) "......i cheated on her.......".


This phrase just burst my head................so you cheated on your olosho with another olosho...........issoraite


3) "........i perceive i'm in love with her......".
".......i cannot do without her......".
"......if this is love, why did it come to me without my consent?. Why did it come to me unawares"................


Hahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahha...............lwkmd!!!!


4) ".....my heart have been bleeding for almost a year now ever since we had this misundrstanding."

so the misunderstanding has lasted a year?.............so technically, you fvcked your ashawo, the love of your life for 6years and then cheated on her with her next door neighbor, whom you fvcked for a year...............meaning you have been visiting the brothrel and fvcking oloshos for 7years in total and not 6years as earlier presumed.................issoraite......




What you should do?


As a typical black man and a fellow human and nairalander, i will advice you to stop visiting the brothrel and then go for intense and immense delieverance in a bible believing church so your destiny, worth, sense, and reasoning can be restored, and your bleeding heart healed..


But as a man who gives zero fvck about your life, i'll advice you to follow your heart and find a way to make her forgive you (buy her gifts, give her money, take her out etc) and later propose to her and marry her!

Wow. That's a lot of shìt to take in.

Anyway, your title should be a prostitute in love with a prostitute. Because you both are prostitutes just that in your case, nobody pays a dime for your services.

Guy, I believe you are only wasting your time.
Just give up and forget about her she'll never be yours.

Even if you miraculously end up together, she will always sell her body to the next bidder & you will always go after another woman. You'd both cheat on each other till you both get tired and walk away!

That happy ending will never come. So forget about her!

Mr Oga, I just have one thing for you,it's choice on how to seek for help/solution :-XMr Oga, I just have one thing for you,it's choice on how to seek for help/solution

college12:

Brother i dont know, you judge my situation for me

I also learnt that sex is the easiest act women use to charm men...my advice for u is for u to go meet a strong spiritualist & narrate this ur story to him/her & seek their counsel...cuz as it stands u don't know if u are charmed.

gabinogem:
I also learnt that sex is the easiest act women use to charm men...my advice for u is for u to go meet a strong spiritualist & narrate this ur story to him/her & seek their counsel...cuz as it stands u don't know if u are charmed.

No i dont think i am Jazzed. what is happening to me is not common. even the so called innocent/ religious girls can be in her stead. i think its common among women to use love as a tool against men.

For starters, you won't get any meaningful advice here but condemnations. Nigerians are very judgmental.


And as for your issue, I know that it is infatuation. Give it some time and you will get over her. I wouldn't say you should quit the brothels outrightly(because it's not easy), but try and find one normal girl to be chatting with. Not that the normal girls are better than the brothel girls, but you can marry them to produce children.

Abi na the Ashewo you wan marry?

,Chaii Dem done use this wan destiny dey play long tennis ,I hope say u never go jam mammi water, being married for six years n hitting d same spot can be boring,talk more of hitting d same @$hawos spot for six good years,n it seems u r d baba for Dem gals,dix one wey u sabi all d spots for yuh area , now listen closely i believe u v jammed a titled marine spirit,whom felt insulted wen u left her for her neighbor n blv me, those folks don't take insults lightly,n!gga u r in a thick spiritual web,n need urgent spiritual attention,dat b!tch shouldn't be yuh priority right now buh yuh spiritual sanity should... Go n get help ASAP

college12:


No i dont think i am Jazzed. what is happening to me is not common. even the so called innocent/ religious girls can be in her stead. i think its common among women to use love as a tool against men.

then if u feel u are having genuine love for her, u should go for her...if she truly loves u, she will surely accept u back.

Hey man, try and cut her off and if you like her, wife her but the marriage might/might not end up well....

Olosho/Ashewo sef na human being.

I know many who are now respectably married.

But I sure do think the OP is infatuated. He needs to sit down and talk with the lady. That's what any mature man will do.

resurgent4oodua:
For starters, you won't get any meaningful advice here but condemnations. Nigerians are very judgmental.


And as for your issue, I know that it is infatuation. Give it some time and you will get over her. I wouldn't say you should quit the brothels outrightly(because it's not easy), but try and find one normal girl to be chatting with. Not that the normal girls are better than the brothel girls, but you can marry them to produce children.

Abi na the Ashewo you wan marry?

The bolded says it all.

samysmoothfresh:
1) ".......for 6 years......."


i no dey judge you o but guy man na wah for you o....................you just dey visit ashawo corner for the past 6years...........6years!!!...........6years!!!!!!!..............even buhari no go rule for 6years wey you just waste throway for ashawo body......
By rough estimate, i sure say you suppose don dey reach 30 while the ahsawo wey be the love of your life suppose dey btw 29-40............na wah o


2) "......i cheated on her.......".


This phrase just burst my head................so you cheated on your olosho with another olosho...........issoraite


3) "........i perceive i'm in love with her......".
".......i cannot do without her......".
"......if this is love, why did it come to me without my consent?. Why did it come to me unawares"................


Hahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahha...............lwkmd!!!!


4) ".....my heart have been bleeding for almost a year now ever since we had this misundrstanding."

so the misunderstanding has lasted a year?.............so technically, you fvcked your ashawo, the love of your life for 6years and then cheated on her with her next door neighbor, whom you fvcked for a year...............meaning you have been visiting the brothrel and fvcking oloshos for 7years in total and not 6years as earlier presumed.................issoraite......




What you should do?


As a typical black man and a fellow human and nairalander, i will advice you to stop visiting the brothrel and then go for intense and immense delieverance in a bible believing church so your destiny, worth, sense, and reasoning can be restored, and your bleeding heart healed..


But as a man who gives zero fvck about your life, i'll advice you to follow your heart and find a way to make her forgive you (buy her gifts, give her money, take her out etc) and later propose to her and marry her!

this got me cracking

Op its very obvious the babe don give u decimal 10:10 chop. U not the one speaking but the love portion inside u. Many of these ashis are diabolical.so wetin u chop from her wey come turn ur head.u need deliverance from a strong pastor. The ashi babe don spin her web charms all around u.

Some guys are wired differently. He may truly be in love.

Op seat her down talk to her and make moves to take her out of that brothel. Ask her if she can truly be faithful to u and stop fucking other men. If she says yes she can.. Then ask about other necessary questions and see how it goes.

Prostitutes are human beings, they are not lepers.
But if she can change? And be a good girl? Then bravo! She can't change, op run for your life and go for deliverance.

i have tried to initiate a conversation for both of us but shesnever interested in any talk, i been considering to write her a letter and send her a card[i](im sorry card)[/i] and maybe buy her flowers. i dont know if that will work

resurgent4oodua:
Olosho/Ashewo sef na human being.

I know many who are now respectably married.

But I sure do think the OP is infatuated. He needs to sit down and talk with the lady. That's what any mature man will do.

victorian:
Some guys are wired differently. He may truly be in love.

Op seat her down talk to her and make moves to take her out of that brothel. Ask her if she can truly be faithful to u and stop fucking other men. If she says yes she can.. Then ask about other necessary questions and see how it goes.

Prostitutes are human beings, they are not lepers.
But if she can change? And be a good girl? Then bravo! She can't change, op run for your life and go for deliverance.

thankyou victorian, i tell you if love had asked me who to choose, i wouldnt have gone for such an angry/easily ofended lady who wouldnt look out to forgive me when i make mistakes. but here am i today inlove with a lady whos got all i want in a woman, prayerful and good in bed but she can be harsh at times , not tender, .

now shes not even giving me any oppourtunity for a conversation with her

and i go to that brothel, i see other guys sexing the lady i love but i am left with no room for any conversation.

is it a crime to love our Nigerian ladies?

college12:
i have tried to initiate a conversation for both of us but shesnever interested in any talk, i been considering to write her a letter and send her a card[i](im sorry card)[/i] and maybe buy her flowers. i dont know if that will work

wow!.......oga is trully in love o


send her the apology card, coupled with a few gifts and as added bonus, some flowers


lets just hope it's gonna be worth


though i still think this is either a case of "the vagina too sweet to let go" or "babe don jazz maga"


anyways, op good luck!!

college12:
i have tried to initiate a conversation for both of us but shesnever interested in any talk, i been considering to write her a letter and send her a card[i](im sorry card)[/i] and maybe buy her flowers. i dont know if that will work

You wan send ashawo love latter and Flowers?

Your case is beyond redemption