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kay9:
@MissRaine69

https://www.nairaland.com/4810814/meet-gigo-junior-lawson-bleached

Are you making a point or trying to say something?

MissRaine69:
Are you making a point or trying to say something?

Naa, more like here we were still debating whether or not skin tone discrimination is a real thing, and what could be the factors behind it... and this dude is already like Hold my beer - i don't need any reason, i just want to be fair skinned!

kay9:
Naa, more like here we were still debating whether or not skin tone discrimination is a real thing, and what could be the factors behind it... and this dude is already like Hold my beer - i don't need any reason, i just want to be fair skinned!

But he equates that to being happy? He bleached his skin now he thinks he is happy.

MissRaine69:
But he equates that to being happy? He bleached his skin now he thinks he is happy.

Sounds like you dont believe him...

Hmmm,but I prefer slim and dark/chocolate girls,but not too dark or too fair.

mystery22:
Hmmm,but I prefer slim and dark/chocolate girls,but not too dark or too fair.

That is your preference which is not the subject matter here this is about women who have dark skin tones being marginalised or made to feel inferior because they are dark skinned.

ogorwyne:
I think everyone has specific qualities they want in their partners. It's just a thing of choice. Although some talk about these things ignorantly sha. Light skinned men are really not my thing when it comes to love, even though there are a lot of them in the world.

So true. I've dated a couple of girls in the past. None of them ever liked dating light-skinned guys. Unfortunately , I left them while some actually left me, not because they're not pretty, neither did I treat them badly. But because of my sexx habit. They always say, they're tired while in bed with them. I went to seek medical advice from a doctor friend who said, nothing was wrong with me. He said I only had high libido and there are some men who are like that, naturally. He recommended a menage a trois for me( meaning a party). I tried it 2ice and I felt it was the right choice for me cos I still got the 2 gals tired. One of them bragged before we met that man had ever got her tired with sexx but she swallowed her words after 2 hours of nonstop encounter. She told me she's tired. I like ebony gals, but I don't just know how to keep one at a time, she'd get tired lol. I think I'd just try and be co moderate, not minding my situation

MissRaine69:
That is your preference which is not the subject matter here this is about women who have dark skin tones being marginalised or made to feel inferior because they are dark skinned.

what do you mean marginalizedif you feel inferior cos you are dark skinned,then that's your problems,I don't remember or have I seen any dark skinned girl been marginalised,most people don't even care about skin tone...the way you carry yourself matters,take good care of yourself and men will flock around you, e.g Genevieve nnaji and many more....go to Instagram for example and see black beauties rocking it,don't blame it on your skin tone when it doesn't go your way.

mystery22:
what do you mean marginalizedif you feel inferior cos you are dark skinned,then that's your problems,I don't remember or have I seen any dark skinned girl been marginalised,most people don't even care about skin tone...the way you carry yourself matters,take good care of yourself and men will flock around you, e.g Genevieve nnaji and many more....go to Instagram for example and see black beauties rocking it,don't blame it on your skin tone when it doesn't go your way.

All you have said shows how little you know about colourisim. A bit of objectivity and empathy from time to time also goes a long way.

fairfora:
So true. I've dated a couple of girls in the past. None of them ever liked dating light-skinned guys. Unfortunately , I left them while some actually left me, not because they're not pretty, neither did I treat them badly. But because of my sexx habit. They always say, they're tired while in bed with them. I went to seek medical advice from a doctor friend who said, nothing was wrong with me. He said I only had high libido and there are some men who are like that, naturally. He recommended a menage a trois for me( meaning a party). I tried it 2ice and I felt it was the right choice for me cos I still got the 2 gals tired. One of them bragged before we met that man had ever got her tired with sexx but she swallowed her words after 2 hours of nonstop encounter. She told me she's tired. I like ebony gals, but I don't just know how to keep one at a time, she'd get tired lol. I think I'd just try and be co moderate, not minding my situation

Not sure how being hypersexualised relates to the subject matter?
Has it occurred to you how very one sided all your sexual encounters are? Where is the intimacy? The passion the enjoyment?
You sound like an addict .....a sex addict

First off, colourism is a single variable from a whole bunch. So why the focus on colour?
Second, there's a difference, though a thin line between preference and discrimination. I prefer, I don't discriminate and I believe its same with all sensible guys who know what they want.

Being factual, you'd agree with me that people (ladies especially) are usually more attractive on a lighter skin tone.. Yeah not all the time, but let's not be in denial.

You don't have to change who are (bleach). I personally find a confident lady rocking her dark skin as attractive. Good intellectual prowess, carriage and mannerism is the new sexy.. For me at least

My point.. If I'm to choose one of two ladies who are much similar in specs and I know nothing about.. The lighter skinned one has got me. Simple.

MissRaine69:
Not sure how being hypersexualised relates to the subject matter?
Has it occurred to you how very one sided all your sexual encounters are? Where is the intimacy? The passion the enjoyment?
You sound like an addict .....a sex addict

I'm not an addict. I don't womanize. I'm already coping, making her enjoy every bit of it without bad feelings. Just narrated how I used to feel.

fairfora:
I'm not an addict. I don't womanize. I'm already coping, making her enjoy every bit of it without bad feelings. Just narrated how I used to feel.

Ooookay if you say so

MissRaine69:
Ooookay if you say so

How are you today