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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by dangoteinlaw: 10:36am On Nov 01, 2018
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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by mimimile93: 10:38am On Nov 01, 2018
Eberechi24 see why I say Nigerian ladies gat no brains.. Just read the trash this hoe made

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 10:40am On Nov 01, 2018
this is so true. that's why as a man if you aren't ready and don't have some minimum things set down u shouldn't woo a girl. don't make make girl fall and promise her marriage once things are set. set them first b4 that talk. Infact at a certain age any man or woman should b ashamed of using the words bf and gf to describe their relationship

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 10:41am On Nov 01, 2018
Skepticus:
cool

I always knew this donkey was an attention-seeking who.r.e.

RIP to the brains of all our ladies who look up to her.

Fo shizzle, my nizzle cheesy

Only a brain dead asshat would take relationship advice from someone like her.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Gunnax(m): 10:42am On Nov 01, 2018
Biglittlelois:
She is right this time, men like that are destiny wasters, ladies, dont let any guy decieve you with "in 5 years time, we'lll get married" what happened to right now? before getting into any relationship, define it from the onset, tell him your commitment longevity, if he's not good with it, bounce!!!
Unto contract level abi, i think say una no need us
Las las wolf na dog wey join confra
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by SarkinYarki: 10:43am On Nov 01, 2018
When will this thing get it into her head that she is not wife material and no man who has God can marry her
.she is merely food for pleasure and not food for growth

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 10:43am On Nov 01, 2018
Biglittlelois:
She is right this time, men like that are destiny wasters, ladies, dont let any guy decieve you with "in 5 years time, we'lll get married" what happened to right now? before getting into any relationship, define it from the onset, tell him your commitment longevity, if he's not good with it, bounce!!!
what if the guy truly wants to marry you but is just not ready yet. what would you do?

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by agboaustine: 10:44am On Nov 01, 2018
Bleep you enjoy nkoh ooooo
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by xynerise: 10:46am On Nov 01, 2018
If I want to marry you, 1 year is even too much for dating. If I don't understand you within one year that means I won't understand you forever.


And if I am not ready financially, then I won't mention marriage until pepper rest and that won't take years( be positive)

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by KanwuliaExtra: 10:46am On Nov 01, 2018
All a matter of choice or circumstance.
No guarantees any way you look at it.

No general rule to successful marriage or relationships.

When 2 people get involved, LUCK is the only favorable ccomponent to success. Every other factor like a missing piece of a puzzle or on game of chess board. kiss

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 10:46am On Nov 01, 2018
BlackAdam55:
of course she is.some people they will be doing bf and gf till they grow White hair like wft
I have seen some people dating for 10 yrs,in the end they didn't even up marrying each other. I was like wft,how how can you be doing bf and gf for that long. undecided

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by InstaX: 10:46am On Nov 01, 2018
[b][/b]she's spot on, this time. www.betaexchangeng.com
dabrin:
Media personality, Toke Makinwa while speaking in her new vlog said that dating a guy for over 5 years is a waste of time.

Toke who is divorced from ex-husband, Maje Ayide, said she is talking from experience as she has also being in a long term relationship. She stated that having a long term relationship does not translate to a happy married life when the couple decide to tie the knot. She said;

“I do not understand why you should date someone for more than two and a half years. That is my take. I feel like if you meet someone, two years is decent, two and half years is decent, By three years, its like ‘what again are your trying to find out’.

What didn’t you find out in the first and second year. I feel like 5 years is taking the piece and for seven years, you are absolutely having a laugh. By 10 years, it’s like ”are you the lord of the rings? I can say this because I have been in a long term relationship so I can tell you how I feel about it. My answer is no because I feel like often times, long courtships do not translate to a happy marriage.

Sometimes you find people who date forever and when they get married, they don’t make it past that year or two or three years. You find people who get married in a year and a half and 10 years down the line, they are still together. When people show you who they are, you have to believe them.

If you find yourself in a five year, seven years 10 years relationship, it is enough for you to sit back and ask the guy what is going on and where are we going to?

Why would you want to date someone for seven years. In that seven years, some people have gotten together, gotten married, had children, divorced and you are still this person’s girlfriend. There is nothing that you would not find out in three years that you want to find out in eight years.”

On the recent breakup between Cassie and Diddy, Toke said



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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by BlackAdam55(m): 10:50am On Nov 01, 2018
savior22:
i have seen some people dating for 10 yrs,in the end they didn't even up marrying each other. I was like wft,how can you be doing bf and gf for that long undecided
I have no ideal.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by iamlahmee(m): 10:50am On Nov 01, 2018
this is rubbish..for how many years did sarkodie dated his gf before taking her to the alter?for how many did omeruo dated his gf before taking her to the alter?for how many years did damilola adegbite dated her ex husband before getting married and later split up?this is bull shit ..it's all about understanding.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by husbandsnatcha(f): 10:50am On Nov 01, 2018
Toke shut d fvck up, U ar novice dating wise

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Eberechi24(f): 10:53am On Nov 01, 2018
mimimile93:
Eberechi24 see why I say Nigerian ladies gat no brains.. Just read the trash this hoe made
Mimi, what do you mean when you say "ladies gat no brains "

Mind you, she expressed her opinion based on experiences. Read peoples opinion without emotions We are not cajoled to live by her opinion. Women are not brainless
Women are not hoes. Change this perception and see the beautiful nature women.

Amongst gold you will find Stone.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Dude397(m): 10:55am On Nov 01, 2018
She made lots of sense this time
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by AnalQueenluci: 10:56am On Nov 01, 2018
grand matron of small girl big god , but she is ryt dis time around...

Men ar so delaying, if wait 4 dem ,u go reach menopause! ladies be wise not 2 waste ur ample time on dem
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by toprealman: 10:58am On Nov 01, 2018
This girl na confirmed owere!
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Papadoh(m): 11:00am On Nov 01, 2018
princeemmma:
and dating five guys within five years is awesome, olosho family
Logged in just to like this comment.
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by okwabayi(m): 11:00am On Nov 01, 2018
Since when did this woman become an authority on anything? Kai, Nigerian blogs are making stupid people famous. I don’t blame bloggers, I blame unemployment which makes others keep up with these fakes.
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 11:01am On Nov 01, 2018
You met this guy when he's in his early twenties, you started dating and after seven years, this guy is still there chasing ordinary first degree. Someone who's still struggling to get off the hook of unrejectable school expenses, that's the same guy you wanna hold by his lungs forcing him to marry you cos you've dated for many years?? My point is it should be how successful the dude his already and not the matter of years

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by adedayoa2(f): 11:04am On Nov 01, 2018
Tallesty1:
And in your sperm filled head, everyone is in a relationship to get married? Sometimes it is not about how long but why? Why is this guy still with this girl after so many years? Why is she still with him?


OK, let's look at it this way.



Girl A has been in a happy relationship for the past seven years, they're happy in the relationship but nobody knows if it will end in marriage. The future is uncertain.

Girl B have been jumping from one guy to another for the past seven years and she's not sure if the guy she's currently seeing will marry her. The future is always uncertain.

Between this two people, who do you really think is wasting her time and life?

Find out why people are doing what they're doing before you start forcing your opinion on them.
you missed where she said 'my take' shes not forcing her opinion on anybody.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by princeemmma(m): 11:04am On Nov 01, 2018
Papadoh:
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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by adedayoa2(f): 11:06am On Nov 01, 2018
husbandsnatcha:
Toke shut d fvck up, U ar novice dating wise
nobody get degree for relationship, you fit think sey this one go work make e no work. Na your mind you know, so novice or no novice nobody be expert.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by Zieina(f): 11:06am On Nov 01, 2018
To say Cassie is stunning is an understatement. Back then, I'd marvel at her beauty.
Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by DaddyNimo(m): 11:06am On Nov 01, 2018
their lives revolves around us, there every existence is cos of us...so if guy A doesn't propose after 2yrs, you jump to guy B, if he doesn't propose again u jump to guy C. Guys do u see how powerful y'all are? these holes will keep jumping like monkeys if we don't marry dem, there's nothing they can do on their own about that...thats why you should never allow a woman boss u...cos you're doing her a favour dating her.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by joenor(m): 11:22am On Nov 01, 2018
one thing a lady should know is, is he ready, if yes, what are his plan with u in the feature? if he's ready n the finance is not there, how can you then support him as a lady, after prayer? is see hw u can make him stand... if might be ready but the money is not there to achieve his plan so help out.

#We can only make it, if all hands are on deck.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by linearity: 11:24am On Nov 01, 2018
Biglittlelois:
She is right this time, men like that are destiny wasters, ladies, dont let any guy decieve you with "in 5 years time, we'lll get married" what happened to right now? before getting into any relationship, define it from the onset, tell him your commitment longevity, if he's not good with it, bounce!!!

Why get a marriage advice from someone whose marriage failed within two years?

Chances are, she must have applied the same principles she is now parroting into getting a ring into her fingers, but where did that leave her?

If she had waited a little bit....maybe she would have found out that, her husband to be is still shagging the old gf instead of blindly rushing into the marriage only to back out after a mere two years on the flimsy excuses that, the husband impregnated his ex-gf.

Yes, I called it flimsy because, if she is half sophisticated as she claimed, she would known before saying ‘I do’ that the guy is still drinking from the old water pot and pregnancy is a mere natural God ordained progression following continual shagging barring all medical situations.

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Re: Dating A Guy For Over 5 Years Is A Waste Of Time – Toke Makinwa by soliddust2020: 11:30am On Nov 01, 2018
Toke for the fact it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others. It worked for my brother, female cousin and i know of friends it didn't work for. Just as some people will don't go abroad nothing dey there because they didn't make while others are making it big time there. So many idiots just wakes up this days to turn to relationship experts and motivational speakers on social media.

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