₦airaland Forum

how do I tell this girl to stop bleaching?

She used to be a beautiful chocolate girl, I mean she's so beautiful without flaws.

But of recent, I noticed a change in her complexion as she began to look so white.


Please how do I tell her to stop bleaching without hurting her and successfully convince her.

Just tell her she will die of skin cancer.

If she's not ur girlfriend or a relation or a very close friend then i take amadioha take beg u..biko mind ur business and dey ur own lane.

If you're close to her as a friend, your words would mean a lot to her. So, sit her down and appreciate her for who she is and let her know about the consequences of her actions.

Everyone is entitled to their choice, so you need to draw a line where you seem like you're in someone else's business

madridguy:
Just tell her she will die of skin cancer.

abeg put am in practical terms, if you were to be me

lefulefu:
If she's not ur girlfriend or a relation or a very close friend then i take amadioha take beg u..biko mind ur business and dey ur own lane.

a distant relative.. I have been minding my business all these years, but this one touch me well well

sirusX:
If you're close to her as a friend, your words would mean a lot to her. So, sit her down and appreciate her for who she is and let her know about the consequences of her actions.

Everyone is entitled to their choice, so you need to draw a line where you seem like you're in someone else's business

thanks. I don't want to sound as oversabi sha

Casemiro:
thanks. I don't want to sound as oversabi sha

Sometimes there is never an easy way to get things done. You just do what you have to do

Casemiro:
a distant relative.. I have been minding my business all these years, but this one touch me well well

then sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her. Mehn its sad when u see a beautiful dark skin lady destroyin her skin with those harsh cream. I wonder who influenced her mind to result to such.it must be d friends she rolls with.

Just tell her that her skin is becoming brighter than her future. She will get the message .

Compliment her on her radiance and ask her for the name of her cream. You can pretend to google it up on your phone or simply just google it up and then look appalled after reading your search. If she didn't ask you what is wrong, you can proceed to tell her that it is a bleaching cream and it contains some dangerous stuffs like hydroquinone or mercury. Proceed to educate her about the dangers of bleaching and stress it out loud that she is beautiful just the way she is and she doesn't need to bleach. This would work if you're a close friend of hers. If you're nothing close at all then honestly, I think you should mind your business. Or it'll go south fast.

Believe me, you must be blunt at times.

I corrected a girl from indecent dressing years ago and happy for she heed to my advise" I sat close to her and look directly into her eyes and said" You think exposing your dry bo*bs will make guys comes your way? Mtchew, It will only attract chop and run guys and when they successfully paralyzed it then you eyes will clear" she asked me what have I done to deserve this, I replied " stop exposing your chest. I walked away.
The next day she covered up and asked me if this is better, I replied, I won't commend you yet till I see that truly you're now a new person.

If you like the lady in question, call her by name i.e Atiku stop bleaching because when you develop skin cancer, those guys you think you're bleaching for will run away to ladies with natural skin and you alone will suffer the pains.

Casemiro:
abeg put am in practical terms, if you were to be me

Tell her that her future x looking too bright... N u know too much of everything ain't good...

sirusX:
Sometimes there is never an easy way to get things done. You just do what you have to do

I just hope she will heed to my advice

Tell her that her skin is glowing as that of Bobrisky

you don't have to say anything to her
just open this page and give her the phone

Casemiro:
how do I tell this girl to stop bleaching?

She used to be a beautiful chocolate girl, I mean she's so beautiful without flaws.

But of recent, I noticed a change in her complexion as she began to look so white.


Please how do I tell her to stop bleaching without hurting her and successfully convince her.

Bleach your skin first, so that you can now advice her from experience. You have to behave like a mad man to get the attention of the mad man. Good luck.