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I've been married for three years now but I think I might've made a big mistake. I used to be sexually attracted to women before I gave my life to Christ and it's been amazing so far. I'm blessed with a couple of kids which I love and adore but I'm afraid, I haven't been fulfilled.

Ofcourse, I love my husband and he's been nothing but amazing but I don't think i'm sexually compatible.
I've never been aroused by a man.
Never enjoyed kissing a man
I've never been sexually attracted to men, no matter how gentle they are. I've tried. Prayed. Fasted.
I seem to achieve all these easily with women.

I think I need help
Even my husband notices how sexually lazy I've been towards him. I'm so worried.

You gave your life to Christ, you overcame lesbianism and lived happily? Why then did you take your life back from Christ?
You should tell your husband the truth about yourself and stop deceiving the innocent man. If he accepts you "for whom you are " make I borrow una language, and still loves you, he can get you a lesbian sex doll for you and you guys might even be having thre*some with the doll.

You are about to crash someone's life o. You didn't know this before you married him? Why now?

hell is ur potion in jesus name.

I won't condemn you, but I have to advise you to do away with those lesbian friends...

Do it for your marriage and the kids.

I don't have problem with lesbians but my problem is with gays...

I can even marry a lesbian as long as she's not going to cheat on me with another man...

if I caught my wife in bed with another woman I will be very happy to use my 9inch preek scatter two of them in a thréesome way...

This isn't rocket science. You're a lesbian. He's an heterosexual man. Don't punish him any further. Divorce him.



He'd get joint custody of the kids. Everybody's happy. You can finally chase that orgasm. Cest fini.
Why people think they can just pray their sexual orientation away is just baffling and the apex of stupidity.

FluidQueen:
This isn't rocket science. You're a lesbian. He's an heterosexual man. Don't punish him any further. Divorce him.



He'd get joint custody of the kids. Everybody's happy. You can finally chase that orgasm. Cest fini.
Why people think they can just pray their sexual orientation away is just baffling and the apex of stupidity.

What? Just to reach a land of 2mins pleasure, you want her to break a home. A knot being tied up in the church and blessed. What do you mean sexual orientation? Are you okay? Nobody was born gay or les! Its just a self decision and western societal orientation.
My sister get that shitty mindset off your head.

FluidQueen:
This isn't rocket science. You're a lesbian. He's an heterosexual man. Don't punish him any further. Divorce him.



He'd get joint custody of the kids. Everybody's happy. You can finally chase that orgasm. Cest fini.
Why people think they can just pray their sexual orientation away is just baffling and the apex of stupidity.

What? Just to reach a land of 2mins pleasure, you want her to break a home. A knot being tied up in the church and blessed. What do you mean sexual orientation? Are you okay? Nobody was born gay or les! Its just a self decision and western societal orientation.
My sister get that shitty mindset off your head.

Oreofepeters:
I don't have problem with lesbians but my problem is with gay...

You need to fuck_ off .

In 2017 ur kids were 6 and 3. Now u say uve been married for 3 years

ednut1:
In 2017 ur kids were 6 and 3. Now u say uve been married for 3 years

Are you a minner?

If you're not, you should become one.


You are wasting your talent on NL mining old posts.

You can't pray away the gay; it'd only make matters worse. All I could imagine is the poor girl you left 3years ago to go chase this charade of a life, you live now..

Take responsibility for your darn actions, stay miserably in that marriage and make it work regardless, after all you consciously knew what you were getting into, yet you chose the life, so bear the consequences however unsuitable it feel.

ednut1:
In 2017 ur kids were 6 and 3. Now u say uve been married for 3 years

Bros, most of these stories may be fictitious but knowledge are acquired and lessons learnt.

I think you should let your husband know the truth. And I also recommend seeing a sex therapist. They have a lot tools that can help you achieve orgasm and you'll enjoy your sex life. Again.

The solution is simple, anytime you and your husband want to perform gymnastics activities in your room you invite one more lesbian to join

Very simple! get a very clean house help for yourself and let her touch you when you want.

You're confused and your hormones are all over the place. Best chance, you're bisexual. If you're brave enough to tell your husband, it might be the best decision you ever made. Goodluck

You're confused and your hormones are all over the place. Best chance, you're bisexual. If you're brave enough to tell your husband, it might be the best decision you ever made. Goodluck.

Sounds like a fake story to me!

christyanah:
I've been married for three years now but I think I might've made a big mistake. I used to be sexually attracted to women before I gave my life to Christ and it's been amazing so far. I'm blessed with a couple of kids which I love and adore but I'm afraid, I haven't been fulfilled.

Ofcourse, I love my husband and he's been nothing but amazing but I don't think i'm sexually compatible.
I've never been aroused by a man.
Never enjoyed kissing a man
I've never been sexually attracted to men, no matter how gentle they are. I've tried. Prayed. Fasted.
I seem to achieve all these easily with women.

I think I need help
Even my husband notices how sexually lazy I've been towards him. I'm so worried.

Yiu were not born a lesbian and nobody is born gay, dont take the advice that its who you're.

The most important question is, are you ready to fight to overcome this?

Oreofepeters:
I don't have problem with lesbians but my problem is with gay...

Both are equally bad. Why are you justifying one over the other? Pray you don't encounter a lesbian because she will shorten your life

Op r you d one? Else my advice will be a waste

If true then this is not a bog deal.

Divorce and go each others way.

ednut1:
In 2017 ur kids were 6 and 3. Now u say uve been married for 3 years

She could not even change moniker to post

Does he know your past? Encourage him to do more pre-intimacy before sex. Free your mind and explore.... gay/lesbianism is punishment, it's an improvisation of good sex.

Nawao.

Its not easy.
I won't judge u.

46O1CE:
You need to fuck_ off .

Myndd44 lalasticlala

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Donaluta:
Myndd44 lalasticlala

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Who’s this clown?

christyanah:
I've been married for three years now but I think I might've made a big mistake. I used to be sexually attracted to women before I gave my life to Christ and it's been amazing so far. I'm blessed with a couple of kids which I love and adore but I'm afraid, I haven't been fulfilled.

Ofcourse, I love my husband and he's been nothing but amazing but I don't think i'm sexually compatible.
I've never been aroused by a man.
Never enjoyed kissing a man
I've never been sexually attracted to men, no matter how gentle they are. I've tried. Prayed. Fasted.
I seem to achieve all these easily with women.

I think I need help
Even my husband notices how sexually lazy I've been towards him. I'm so worried.

go ahead and tell your man, just be open with him.
If he is someone like me, I wouldn't mind, really!!!

I could even join a party with ur lesby partner.