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On a dark and lonely path when it seem all gloomy, too difficult to believe and the pain too grieve to bear where the death of one person seems to have made the world look too empty to you.

Still morose by the sudden silence of a dear mother, lost to the cold hands of death. wishing you were close to hear her say her last words that you can hold as a legacy to keep a fresh memory her and assent her leaving the world.

Ennui is the exact word that best describes your feeling, as the thought pondering in your mind was how you wanted to payback all her good deed and intentions towards you but could not because providence hasn't been on your side and you have still not become your dreams.

But I want you to know, after sobing for the demise of a loved one wether mother, father, siblings, friend or a partner, what is more disturbing is you being unable to lift your head high above the troubled waters.

Try to put yourself together sag the past and focus on new memories to create.

wipe your eyes and raise your head up because it is said you will never find a rainbow if you continue looking down.
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The worst thing that's ever happened to me was the death of my wife... Barely a month after marriage.
I understood a lot of things then,
Why people commit suicide, why people talk to themselves, why people lose focus... We were so young, I was 28, she was 25 and the love of my life .
I resigned a high paying job bcoz I couldn't focus, I haven't washed my clothes or cooked in over 3years of dating. But the worst of it was all the frequent calls and talking thru the day. I had no one to call, she was my best friend.
I was an angry wrecking ball, angry with God, life, everything. 3 years after, I'm still single, am healed of the hurt and anger but a part of me is gone.
Life felt so worthless then but Christ came for me. He showed me that something good can come from a bad situation, reminded me of all Gods generals... I saw that grief was a part of making me grow.
I still miss my wife... I still love her... We had dreams, she made the man from the boy I was.
But I know more the depths of God's love cos it found me when I even wanted to die.

The Lord will indeed get you a suitable replacement...u just have to be strong and be open minded to love again...

fykes:
The worst thing that's ever happened to me was the death of my wife... Barely a month after marriage.
I understood a lot of things then,
Why people commit suicide, why people talk to themselves, why people lose focus... We were so young, I was 28, she was 25 and the love of my life .
I resigned a high paying job bcoz I couldn't focus, I haven't washed my clothes or cooked in over 3years of dating. But the worst of it was all the frequent calls and talking thru the day. I had no one to call, she was my best friend.
I was an angry wrecking ball, angry with God, life, everything. 3 years after, I'm still single, am healed of the hurt and anger but a part of me is gone.
Life felt so worthless then but Christ came for me. He showed me that something good can come from a bad situation, reminded me of all Gods generals... I saw that grief was a part of making me grow.
I still miss my wife... I still love her... We had dreams, she made the man from the boy I was.
But I know more the depths of God's love cos it found me when I even wanted to die.