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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by DanDeeBoss(m): 12:51pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff.... Hmmmm continue... Chicken change

Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 12:51pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
I have not met the wrong guys. Most of you cannot provide anything apart from the chicken change you give to us. Even to provide emotional support you will be acting like an alpha male who has no feelings. Abeg please go and sit down.

Am glad u said most,not all men.Besides, as long as a man and woman re 2gether,sex is as natural as food instituted by God which they ve to engage in and just as some women don't regard is as a priority in a relationship, so it is to most men.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Maverickking1(m): 12:54pm On Nov 11, 2018
I swear if to say I b your friend I for don land you hot slap since. Better collect everything you bought and free the babe. She will never be satisfied.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Bloooody(m): 12:55pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
But really the question is, apart from money what can you offer us in realationships? Even that money sef, most girls can make it on their own. Shior
Women are nothing without men, Why do you think they wanna get married so desperately?

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 12:55pm On Nov 11, 2018
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Saff:
I asked you a question and you flip the question back at me, because your deluded brain cannot think of an answer.

The truth is women can live without your sex and money, most women are single and living fine. Men CANT. You need this so call fish hole like you need h20 and oxygen to breathe. The only thing you value in a relationship is sex, because remove it from the question and you follow in the same direction. If a woman provides emotional support, nurturing attributes, care and motivation to your life minus sex, you will not remain in that relationship.


So the real question is, what do you value the most in a relationship? grin
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Trash from A-Z . Trash... Without men, you stupid set of uncultured bastard would go into exile...

Women are so miserable set of species, and you're practically the leader. The modern age women are hungry for everything, like their 1% life depends on it...

Probably, the useless boys in your area are feeding your 17yrs old head with cheap attention. Wait till you reach 35yrs and let's see if your orientation won't be upgraded...

By the way, the long epistles you wrote is valueless, you can make it shorter next time, maybe i might be able to read some meanings to it (Saff)Staff undecided ...

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 1:02pm On Nov 11, 2018
Women are nothing without men really? Loooooool

The only reason why women want to get married is for the societal status , pressure and children. Nothing more and nothing less. Most divorced women in Nigeria over 35 after they’ve tasted marriage, fend for themselves financially, cook and clean and take care of their children by THEMSELVES by CHOICE. How many men can do this, if not that they’ll be looking for a 3rd 4th 5th wife to take care of them? Men are more dependent on women if we are going to be truthful, but society likes to paint the picture that you men are needed to boost your fragile masculinity. NEWSFLASH: You men are becoming more useless as the times are evolving. Shiooorrr
Bloooody:

Women are nothing without men, Why do you think they wanna get married so desperately?

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:02pm On Nov 11, 2018
Ladies on this thread gat no joy grin grin



Dear op, today is Sunday I will be nice. Don't be in a toxic relationship. If you feel you are sacrificing too much with no benefits/reward/gains in your relationship. then quit.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:05pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Ladies on this thread gat no joy grin grin



Dear op, today is Sunday I will be nice. Don't be in a toxic relationship. If you feel you are sacrificing too much with no benefits/reward/gains in your relationship. then quit.

The only sensible comments so far... Simply quit the goddam relationship... Unlike that ugly saff, claiming what she is not.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:07pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
Women are nothing without men really? Loooooool

The only reason why women want to get married is for the societal status and pressure. Nothing more and nothing less. Most divorced women in Nigeria over 35 after they’ve tasted marriage, fend for themselves financially, cook and clean and take care of their children by THEMSELVES by CHOICE. How many men can do this, if not that they’ll be looking for a 3rd 4th 5th wife to take care of them? Men are more dependent on women if we are going to be truthful, but society likes to paint the picture that you men are needed to boost your fragile masculinity. NEWSFLASH: You men are becoming more useless as the times are evolving. Shiooorrr

Masturbation wee kee you finally... Its so clear from your writeup....

Lemme leave this queen of masturbators alone.....

Your type go even dey service all dicks around the area.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 1:09pm On Nov 11, 2018
OfficialDad:
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Trash from A-Z . Trash... Without men, you stupid set of uncultured bastard would go into exile...

Women are so miserable set of species, and you're practically the leader. The modern age women are hungry for everything, like their 1% life depends on it...

Probably, the useless boys in your area are feeding your 17yrs old head with cheap attention. Wait till you reach 35yrs and let's see if your orientation won't be upgraded...

By the way, the long epistles you wrote is valueless, you can make it shorter next time, maybe i might be able to read some meanings to it (Saff)Staff undecided ...

To answer my question you cannot do, but to be saying a bunch of nothing garnished with stupid insults is your speciality. You’re not very good at defending your gender are you? smiley I suggest you take a chill pill, because I feel your temperature rising from these posts. grin

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:12pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:


She thinks it is a fabricated experience.Women re doing worse than this at d moment.Most of them don't love anymore.It is all about money money money. Competing amongst themselves in who has d best phones,clothes and jewelry

Lol... are you saying we should believe everything we read online? There are lots of fake broke ass people online claiming what they are not. She didn't doubt your story but your status. grin


BTW I thought Nigerian guys are now too 'woke' orientated and exposed to fall victims these days, what's happening? Your advice, motivational talks, movements against women on Nairaland no reach offline ni? grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:13pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
To answer my question you cannot do, but to be saying a bunch of nothing garnished with stupid insults is your speciality. You’re not very good at defending your gender are you? smiley I suggest you take a chill pill, because I feel your temperature rising from these posts. grin

Make it a little shorter. At least you listened to my previous advice to make your epistles a bit short so i could easily comprehend... 1% sign that you're a submissive girl, but internet is making you stupid.

See, be yourself, and fvck this internet gangster sh!t .

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:13pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Ladies on this thread gat no joy grin grin



Dear op, today is Sunday I will be nice. Don't be in a toxic relationship. If you feel you are sacrificing too much with no benefits/reward/gains in your relationship. then quit.

This is a lady that has sense cool

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Ucheosefoh(m): 1:15pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
Love? Is love real? Men cannot offer emotional security, they can’t offer us peace of mind. They can’t offer us orgasms or sexual pleasure. They can’t offer us domestic benefits. Nothing. The only thing that most of you offer us is the chicken change you call money and you still complain on top of that? Kaaaaaii you men are pitiful, nothing to write home about. Failures to your gender.
Run she is an attention seeking lesbian
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:16pm On Nov 11, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Saf f.... Hmmmm continue... Chicken change
Mosquito change nko? Chicken still get value grin grin

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by DanDeeBoss(m): 1:17pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Mosquito change nko? Chicken still get value grin grin




gringringrin No mind that girl joor....
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?
the point of golddigging is that the man spoils the woman as you have without him feeling a pinch. GOLDDIGGING ONLY APPLIES TO MEN WITH SUCH MONEY TO SPARE you don't fit in that category . If you buy all those things and are running into debt, then you are broke not rich. it is called leeching, not gold digging. Babe is disgracing the gold digging legacy. so you know what to do.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by DanDeeBoss(m): 1:21pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Ladies on this thread gat no joy grin grin



Dear op, today is Sunday I will be nice. Don't be in a toxic relationship. If you feel you are sacrificing too much with no benefits/reward/gains in your relationship. then quit.
Always on point!!!

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:22pm On Nov 11, 2018
Op u better break up with dat girl b4 u sell ur papa coco yam farmland and family house and give the girl all d money. Anyway u under a strong spell and dat girl has u around her finger. I just wonder wich babalawu in ijebu ode give dat girl the strong decimal 10:10 wey she dey use on ucheesy.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:23pm On Nov 11, 2018
[s]
Saff:
I asked you a question and you flip the question back at me, because your deluded brain cannot think of an answer.

The truth is women can live without your sex and money, most women are single and living fine. Men CANT. You need this so call fish hole like you need h20 and oxygen to breathe. The only thing you value in a relationship is sex, because remove it from the question and you follow in the same direction. If a woman provides emotional support, nurturing attributes, care and motivation to your life minus sex, you will not remain in that relationship.


So the real question is, what do you value the most in a relationship? grin
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Only a deluded mind would think men can't live without sex. What am I even saying sef? The so called sex is overrated and cheap! Beside, sex is not favor done to men by women, it is one thing that is mutually beneficial. Unfortunately, this is the only thing most Naija women has to offer!

And in case you don't know, there is substitute to sex, which is MASTURBATION! ironically, it is safer and cost nothing yet gives same ejaculation! MORE LIKE SELF-HELP!

A lot of you are leech, unproductive, parasitic and have sense of entitlement of another man's sweat- shamefully, we have media and entertainment industry that aren't helping matters.

Relationship between a man and woman is 100% scam, remove money from the equation and most women will have no reason to "love". You see relationship as employment opportunity due to your leeching mentality. You keep praying for a man in your life that will become your burden bearer without contributing anything to the mix. God knows majority Nigeria girls, whether employed or not are ingrained with the idea that being a leech is their entitlement.

Anyway, I blame most guys that fall into the scam of such manipulation. If you can't be productive stay in your lane, NO man owe you anything.


This comment is without prejudice to the few productive and virtues women.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by IamD18: 1:23pm On Nov 11, 2018
I can't imagine myself arguing with an obvious lesbian.

Damn! Just damn!

It's glaring mehn! It's fvcking glaring.

Most guys on this section are the reasons why dild0-dependent-lesbians are attention served.

Just keep ignoring them with their attention-seeking-assertions, no matter how annoying it might look. They will be ones to quote you pleading for your attention indirectly with aggressive comments.

Their attentions are damn cheap grin

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:

Love


I usually don't do this. But you are a stupid, foolish, ugly insecure guy who allow a lady fvck around with.


Do you have male friends? Have you talked to them about your fake gf? I guess not, because you know deep down that they gon laugh at your stupidity.

Be a man and tell her fvck off... We Fvcking done, b***h.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:24pm On Nov 11, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
gringringrin No mind that girl joor....
I no mind ooo but she get point sha.

Take money and sex out of relationships these days ehn everything na wash! grin Just sweet talks, free money and free sex .
Gone are those days when our parents marry/court on true love and purpose. Everything these days ehn...

Nevertheless, there are still some sane people out there seeking love and purposeful relationship. These people are few and old smiley .
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:25pm On Nov 11, 2018
Lemskey:


She thinks it is a fabricated experience.Women re doing worse than this at d moment.Most of them don't love anymore.It is all about money money money. Competing amongst themselves in who has d best phones,clothes and jewelry

Do men even know know what love is?
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by ImaIma1(f): 1:32pm On Nov 11, 2018
I don't understand why you are complaining. You have the money and you have decided to spend it lavishly on her. Did she hold a gun to your head? Have you been tied to her that you cannot leave?

You probably wooed her with these pretty and expensive things and showed her that you have plenty money to spend. And now you are complaining that she is a golddigger.

You don't need advice. Advise yourself.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by DanDeeBoss(m): 1:32pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:


Take money and sex out of relationships these days ehn everything na wash! grin Just sweet talks, free money and free sex .
Gone are those days when our parents marry/court on true love and purpose. Everything these days ehn...
This is entirely true.... If I as a guy spends on you, I should expect sex and as a lady vice versa.... Many relationships are based on money and sex that's why we have many broken marriages and high number of breakup.. Advice is there is more to sex and money in a relationship.... cheesycheesycheesy
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 1:33pm On Nov 11, 2018
lefulefu:
Op u better break up with dat girl b4 u sell ur papa coco yam farmland and family house and give the girl all d money. Anyway u under a strong spell and dat girl has u around her finger. I just wonder wich babalawu in ijebu ode give dat girl the strong decimal 10:10 wey she dey use on ucheesy.
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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by DanDeeBoss(m): 1:36pm On Nov 11, 2018
ImaIma1:
I don't understand why you are complaining. You have the money and you have decided to spend it lavishly on her. Did she hold a gun to your head? Have you been tied to her that you cannot leave?

You probably wooed her with these pretty and expensive things and showed her that you have plenty money to spend. And now you are complaining that she is a golddigger.

You don't need advice. Advise yourself.
Another sensible comment..... smiley

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by daben1(m): 1:38pm On Nov 11, 2018
guy, if this your story is not a cooked one, if you're not lying, then you're a very big ueseless fool!
sorry!!
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 1:41pm On Nov 11, 2018
Men can’t live without sex? I laugh! How many of you can stay without sex for two years? Two years is too much, how many of your kind can stay without sex for a year? If you belive you cannot live without sex, speak for yourself. It is statistically proven that men in general prioritise sex even higher than money, so what is your argument oga? If it’s so cheap and overrated, why is it the most talked about thing even on this site from your gender? Why do men spend millions of Naira per year just to release Akamu from their penis? It’s very clear that you do not know much about your gender.

You say sex is mutually beneficial. Well newsflash, most women do not even derive pleasure from penetrative sex. YES. Most women pretend to enjoy it, but realistically 90% the time it is only enjoyed by one gender. MEN. You see, women can live off masturbation alone, men can’t. The male anatomy is not designed to masturbate 24/7 and that’s the reasons why you start developing major issues when you’re addicted to masturbation. Even as a gay man, you must penetrate in some kind of hole, so please miss me with that whole masturbation bullshit.

If you are going to call Nigerian women leeches, fine. But what else do you offer besides the small pennies you call money that you so much brag of? What will a women gain from dating a man who she cannot gain financially from. To me it’s a win win situation. Men place high importance on sex, women place high importance on money. Man and woman come together and they both gain what they desire. What’s the problem? Or are you upset that women are actually smarter than men and gain something more substantial that can benefit them for more than 5 minutes?

I think that is your problem. That’s the problem with most of you guys. It’s jealousy. If we had the opportunity to come back in a second life, most of you men will come back as women. You can’t understand that a woman can just lay down on her back and have money coming in from all sectors. That’s why you have so much resentment towards us. Well blame God for wiring your brain with your penis.
TonyeBarcanista:
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Only a deluded mind would think men can't live without sex. What am I even saying sef? The so called sex is overrated and cheap! Beside, sex is not favor done to men by women, it is one thing that is mutually beneficial. Unfortunately, this is the only thing most Naija women has to offer!

And in case you don't know, there is substitute to sex, which is MASTURBATION! ironically, it is safer and cost nothing yet gives same ejaculation! MORE LIKE SELF-HELP!

A lot of you are leech, unproductive, parasitic and have sense of entitlement of another man's sweat- shamefully, we have media and entertainment industry that aren't helping matters.

Relationship between a man and woman is 100% scam, remove money from the equation and most women will have no reason to "love". You see relationship as employment opportunity due to your leeching mentality. You keep praying for a man in your life that will become your burden bearer without contributing anything to the mix. God knows majority Nigeria girls, whether employed or not are ingrained with the idea that being a leech is their entitlement.

Anyway, I blame most guys that fall into the scam of such manipulation. If you can't be productive stay in your lane, NO man owe you anything.


This comment is without prejudice to the few productive and virtues women.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 1:43pm On Nov 11, 2018
Are you scared to quote me? Keep on talking and you will be exposed. I’ve just been watching you. Don’t cross my path, you wont like it.
IamD18:
I can't imagine myself arguing with an obvious lesbian.

Damn! Just damn!

It's glaring mehn! It's fvcking glaring.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 1:43pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
You need to give your life to Jesus

Can of worms bawo? grin
Hehe babez how you Doing? grin

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