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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Ayomathy01(m): 2:12pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
Sex, making children and cooking is useless? That’s all three necessities that most of you cannot do on your own, so I don’t think we are as uselsss as you claim grin
1.guys can cook now or better still we go to an eatery
2.sex..... We masturbate, sex doll we can substitute those for girls
3. We adopt kids or better still artificial insemination...
So Las Las where them girls @

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 2:16pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:

Well, I'm actually a 2 seconds man! Sharp sharp things cheesy
that is shorter than the time your dick gets erect lol.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by TonyeBarcanista(m): 2:21pm On Nov 11, 2018
funmisticqueen:
that is shorter than the time your dick gets erect lol.
Your head de there

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 2:23pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Kikikiki I hope you went to church today sha... that's the first step to your savagery redemption. grin cheesy


I'm doing good ooo, I love Sundays. No work grin . How are you doing too?
Lol, couldn't go o cry
Been cooking since 5 am for the week, lool. grin


I'm good too, thinking of the Herculean task ahead. cry
How's mum? smiley
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 2:23pm On Nov 11, 2018
I don't believe there is still Kid Guys This One Tu Mumu Oh

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 11, 2018
daben1:
baba, no Dey answer these type of girls, all they have to offer is their stupidity

As in eh?. They simply don't have anything to offer man and hu man ity.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 2:27pm On Nov 11, 2018
That men engage in it, talk about it, hunt for it more than anything else in this world, think about it from morning till night shows you that the average man cannot live without sex. And if he tries to, he will relapse within a year. You’re trying so hard to defend an argument that is not practical, you’re only fooling yourself. Majority wins, and I think you’re speakjng on the minority which is just plain stupid.

Sex may be cheap monetary wise, however societal wise it’s very expensive. The demand for sex will continue to be on a all time rise, and men will continue to be fools and manipulated for this “cheap” thing called sex. Sex is used a tool for various things around the world, it hypnotises the average man in all sectors of life. Keep on deceiving yourself.

Sex is overrated, unfortunately the actions of your gender don’t follow up with this phrase. You can shout sex is overrated from now till tomorrow, that doesn’t erase the fact that men will continue to prioritise this act, and persue it like it’s food. Talk about being living contradictions undecided

Masturbation cannot be a constant act for men. And you know this deep down, there is no substitution for a STRAIGHT man when it comes to sex. Masturbation has many negative effects on your health internally and externally so again, stop deceiving yourself. My question to is you what else do you value apart from sex in a relationship? I just need you to sit down and answer this question, and my argument with you is done. Thank youuu.
TonyeBarcanista:

That men engage in sex doesn't mean they can't live without it, THEY CAN. I love eating Pounded yam and spend my naira on it, but I can live without it 100%...

2. Sex is cheap! With a sachet of indomie or as little as N200 a lot of people engage in sex. Some other people even get sex for FREE. Go to the streets and neighborhood you will see sex being hawked by females.

3. Sex is overrated! Once the man ejaculates that's it. The pleasure is gone and nothing special anymore! Funny enough, masturbation gives same ejaculation/pleasure and comes with no STI unlike intercourse that makes one susceptible to various intercourse, especially from unhygienic and philandering lifestyle of most females.


Unfortunately for you, a lot of women crave for penetration, even the dildos women used to masturbate are penetrative, fingers inserted in your vagina is penetrative. So saying penetration doesn't pleasure women and at same time saying women masturbate for pleasure, is highly most irrational and illogical to say the least.


There is no issues with masturbation and the male anatomy is 100% supportive of it. I advice you to get yourself enlightened on the subject.

The reason most people frown at it is majorly religious dogma


Thats to tell you that the vagina has substitutes and people live without it! Thanks for acknowledging that


Men don't mind paying for sex, after all, a lot of people engage prostitutes for the service. However, the majority Nigeria woman only bring vagina to the table and masquerade it as "love". They manipulate the unfortunate men to spend their hard earned cash in return for emotional torture and frustrate the man's life.


On the contrary, I have no problem with women, I value the women in my lives (my mother and female relatives) more than anything in life (of course my male relatives are highly valued), I can sacrifice my last penny for my female relatives and mother, because they are my world.

I have girlfriends, I treat them like my own without being a fool. It's mutual and I enjoy it!
Do I think with my private part? Absolutely NOT!

Guess what? I have no preference for choice gender (if I am to reincarnate) but I'm very comfortable with me being a man. If I were a woman, I will be like my MOM or Sisters and not like your kind! Beauties, productivity and Intelligence are their forth.

Unfortunately, same can't be said of your kind! Being a leech is not a virtue!

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Lol, couldn't go o cry
Been cooking since 5 am for the week, lool. grin


I'm good too, thinking of the Herculean task ahead. cry
How's mum? smiley
Seriously? you cook that much? That shouldn't have stopped you sha sad



Another weekend should come already hare cry ... She's fine, yours?
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 2:29pm On Nov 11, 2018
Ayomathy01:
1.guys can cook now or better still we go to an eatery
2.sex..... We masturbate, sex doll we can substitute those for girls
3. We adopt kids or better still artificial insemination...
So Las Las where them girls @
Is this practical in the land of Nigeria? From your 20s to old age? My friend go and sit down, I know this is the internet but you should also realise that this is planet earth and not Zuzu land. Men depend on women a lot more and it’s crazy how society tries to blind us from this.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 2:32pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Seriously? you cook that much? That shouldn't have stopped you sha sad



Another weekend should come already hare cry ... She's fine, yours?
Lol, babes, if I tell you how many things I cooked today you go pity me. cry cry

Well, wanted to go to mountain of fire but fortunately or unfortunately for Me, the lady I wanted to go with didn't show up so I continue with my food. cheesy

She's good too.
You have finally given her the cloth naaw
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Rextizzle(m): 2:34pm On Nov 11, 2018
funmisticqueen:
Girl wake up and smell the coffee, men do not know how to love. it is not part of their home training. If you go into a relationship expecting love and marriage, you are playing into the hands of chop and go ministries. Like men dont manipiulate women everyday.

since you are tired of being a woman, you are free to be a man
Because your father did not know how to love your mother, dosen't mean others don't.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by bizzibodi18: 2:37pm On Nov 11, 2018
Bloooody:

Your stupidity is amazing me.
A woman can never make it without a man. The richest people in the world are men, Women are just sub humans. They need a man to make them complete.
Difficult to comprehend.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 2:40pm On Nov 11, 2018
They can never answer my question they opt for insults as it’s the easy way out. Adioossss amigosssssss
Bloooody:

Your stupidity is amazing me.
A woman can never make it without a man. The richest people in the world are men, Women are just sub humans. They need a man to make them complete.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 2:41pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Lol, babes, if I tell you how many things I cooked today you go pity me. cry cry

Well, wanted to go to mountain of fire but fortunately or unfortunately for Me, the lady I wanted to go with didn't show up so I continue with my food. cheesy

She's good too.
You have finally given her the cloth naaw
Lol... if the food is sweet no problems grin Na you wan chop am abi... Pele


Oya lemme wear my ministerial robe and preach to you tongue . My sister in the lord, you must not relent in your heavenly race. No food, friend, hobby or job should stop you from going to the presence of God. Seek the kingdom of God first, every other things shall be added unto you. May God bless you as you obey in Jesus Name.

Oya type Amen! angry


I have done that since oooo, She loves it.. Going out today? smiley
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 2:44pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Lol... if the food is sweet no problems grin Na you wan chop am abi... Pele


Oya lemme wear my ministerial robe and preach to you tongue . My sister in the lord, you must not relent in your heavenly race. No food, friend, hobby or job should stop you from going to the presence of God. Seek the kingdom of God first, every other things shall be added unto you. May God bless you as you obey in Jesus Name.

Oya type Amen! angry


I have done that since oooo, She loves it.. Going out today? smiley
Hahahahha.
Abeg, which pastor school you graduate from?
Lols, oya amen. grin grin

I know she will like it, did you also sew the one you wore one time on your dp?

Going out bawo

No friends or boo around. embarassed embarassed
You nko?
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 11, 2018
Rextizzle:
Because your father did not know how to love your mother, dosen't mean others don't.
its the rabid dog again
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Ayomathy01(m): 2:47pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
Is this practical in the land of Nigeria? From your 20s to old age? My friend go and sit down, I know this is the internet but you should also realise that this is planet earth and not Zuzu land. Men depend on women a lot more and it’s crazy how society tries to blind us from this.
I disagree with u but am not gonna argue with u on this, cause there is no way u are going to see the truth.. Cause u are a woman. lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by TonyeBarcanista(m): 2:48pm On Nov 11, 2018
This perhaps may be my last exchange with you on this subject
Saff:
That men engage in it, talk about it, hunt for it more than anything else in this world, think about it from morning till night shows you that the average man cannot live without sex. And if he tries to, he will relapse within a year. You’re trying so hard to defend an argument that is not practical, you’re only fooling yourself. Majority wins, and I think you’re speakjng on the minority which is just plain stupid.
I am trying to understand the logic here! I think you have this mindset that the life of a man revolves around sex, which is unfortunate! Only a fool will put sex in front burner of his routine, I doubt such fools are even up to 10% of the male gender.

One who is productive spend his energy on pursuing a career, education and to better his life. Sex to him (like every sane mind) is to unwind after the day's troubles, some men unwind by visiting bars/drinking spots, while others read books and sleep. I don't know the caliber of men you associate with or your cycle but its a shame you have such mentality.

Sex may be cheap monetary wise [s]however societal wise it’s very expensive. The demand for sex will continue to be on a all time rise, and men will continue to be fools and manipulated for this “cheap” thing called sex.[/s]


Sex is used a tool for various things around the world, it hypnotises the average man in all sectors of life. Keep on deceiving yourself.
Only God understand what this means

Sex is overrated, unfortunately the actions of your gender don’t follow up with this phrase. You can shout sex is overrated from now till tomorrow, that doesn’t erase the fact that men will continue to prioritise this act, and persue it like it’s food. Talk about being living contradictions undecided
I advice you to change your circle, I haven't seen any sane man that prioritise sex, only I'd.iots do. And such people end up being unfortunate and unsuccessful in life!



Masturbation cannot be a constant act for men. And you know this deep down, there is no substitution for a STRAIGHT man when it comes to sex. Masturbation has many negative effects on your health internally and externally so again, stop deceiving yourself.
I have addressed this in previous post, I won't engage further in this please.

My question to is you what else do you value apart from sex in a relationship? I just need you to sit down and answer this question, and my argument with you is done. Thank youuu.
Actually, I value loyalty and the fact that there is this someone that have my back. But such don't exist in reality in this modern days, so I channel such energy to my family while I follow my girls as I please without committing anything except I choose to.


Thank you for your time..

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by bizzibodi18: 2:50pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
That men engage in it, talk about it, hunt for it more than anything else in this world, think about it from morning till night shows you that the average man cannot live without sex. And if he tries to, he will relapse within a year. You’re trying so hard to defend an argument that is not practical, you’re only fooling yourself. Majority wins, and I think you’re speakjng on the minority which is just plain stupid.

Sex may be cheap monetary wise, however societal wise it’s very expensive. The demand for sex will continue to be on a all time rise, and men will continue to be fools and manipulated for this “cheap” thing called sex. Sex is used a tool for various things around the world, it hypnotises the average man in all sectors of life. Keep on deceiving yourself.

Sex is overrated, unfortunately the actions of your gender don’t follow up with this phrase. You can shout sex is overrated from now till tomorrow, that doesn’t erase the fact that men will continue to prioritise this act, and persue it like it’s food. Talk about being living contradictions undecided

Masturbation cannot be a constant act for men. And you know this deep down, there is no substitution for a STRAIGHT man when it comes to sex. Masturbation has many negative effects on your health internally and externally so again, stop deceiving yourself. My question to is you what else do you value apart from sex in a relationship? I just need you to sit down and answer this question, and my argument with you is done. Thank youuu.

Same way all girls get manipulated, funnily there's a million and one men out there who don't 'pay for sex' as you think, they only pay for a comfortable life and enjoy all that comes with it. Some of us see women as part of life so we just live life and have fun, not all of them were made for us so we don't thrive to game them all, neither do we game around, we only live life as it comes. Why being scared of rejection when its present in every aspect of life, why feel odd being rejected when everyone's been rejected at one time or the other of their lives? The earlier we as humans start to understand life as it comes, the better for us..... On to the next.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Rextizzle(m): 2:52pm On Nov 11, 2018
funmisticqueen:
its the rabid dog again
Says the girl with wide and smelling pvssy
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by bizzibodi18: 2:52pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:
Lol, couldn't go o cry Been cooking since 5 am for the week, lool. grin

I'm good too, thinking of the Herculean task ahead. cry How's mum? smiley
Let the multitude come? cheesy
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 2:54pm On Nov 11, 2018
bizzibodi18:


Let the multitude come? cheesy
Lol.
You are welcomed.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 2:54pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:


Thanks. Loyalty is what you value. That’s good. When a woman is loyal to you, but maybe denies you sex please stick by her. You’re one of a kind, have a lovely afternoon kiss
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Rextizzle(m): 2:57pm On Nov 11, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:
This perhaps may be my last exchange with you on this subject

I am trying to understand the logic here! I think you have this mindset that the life of a man revolves around sex, which is unfortunate! Only a fool will put sex in front burner of his routine, I doubt such fools are even up to 10% of the male gender.

One who is productive spend his energy on pursuing a career, education and to better his life. Sex to him (like every sane mind) is to unwind after the day's troubles, some men unwind by visiting bars/drinking spots, while others read books and sleep. I don't know the caliber of men you associate with or your cycle but its a shame you have such mentality.

I wonder why you keep replying that sex starved bush pig, the more you feed the thing with mentions, the more it gets orgasm.

can't you see the reason why it despise men is because it ex boyfriend fvcked her so hard and dump it sorry ass, it probably can't get over it, it feel so bad for being used and dumped because she was useless and worthless, hence it hatred for men.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Bloooody(m): 2:57pm On Nov 11, 2018
Saff:
They can never answer my question they opt for insults as it’s the easy way out. Adioossss amigosssssss
I feel it has an insult to answer such a biased question by a mentally disabled person.
Women can never be like a man even a transgender will admit that.
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Saff(f): 2:57pm On Nov 11, 2018
bizzibodi18:


Same way all girls get manipulated, funnily there's a million and one men out there who don't 'pay for sex' as you think, they only pay for a comfortable life and enjoy all that comes with it. Some of us see women as part of life so we just live life and have fun, not all of them were made for us so we don't thrive to game them all, neither do we game around, we only live life as it comes. Why being scared of rejection when its present in every aspect of life, why feel odd being rejected when everyone's been rejected at one time or the other of their lives? The earlier we as humans start to understand life as it comes, the better for us..... On to the next.
I really do not take what most of you men say serious, because you’re all living contradictions. I watch your actions, and most of you are sex crazed perverts, especially Nigerian men. You would risk your whole life for a few minutes of pleasure, So unfortunately I can’t relate to what you’re saying.

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Hahahahha.
Abeg, which pastor school you graduate from?
Lols, oya amen. grin grin

I know she will like it, did you also sew the one you wore one time on your dp?

Going out bawo

No friends or boo around. embarassed embarassed
You nko?
Holy Spirit my teacher pastor school grin grin


I really can't remember ooo. I was typing wrapper in recent pictures I uploaded I hardly do that seff.

You can take yourself out nah, believe me it's nice. I've tried it once just that I didn't leave the place alone.lipsrsealed



Not what you are thinking ooo just friendship. We became friends grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 3:16pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
Holy Spirit my teacher pastor school grin grin


I really can't remember ooo. I was typing wrapper in recent pictures I uploaded I hardly do that seff.

You can take yourself out nah, believe me it's nice. I've tried it once just that I didn't leave the place alone.lipsrsealed



Not what you are thinking ooo just friendship. We became friends grin
Hehehe please, I like that type of friendship. grin
Believe Me, it turns out to be the best.
Lol, I can only go out when I'm being compelled to.
I don't just go out hoping to see the fun later, rather surf the net or sleep, but lemme See, next year might bring out the different version of me.


So, hows our friendship doing today?
Any inner gist? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2018
Rextizzle:
I wonder why you keep replying that sex starved bush pig, the more you feed the thing with mentions, the more it gets orgasm.

can't you see the reason why it despise men is because it ex boyfriend fvcked her so hard and dump it sorry ass, it probably can't get over it, it feel so bad for being used and dumped because she was useless and worthless, hence it hatred for men.
May God help us.

Actually, I don't know how they get this ideology that men can't do without sex.

A personal experience:

When I moved in to my new apartment in August, there is this neighbor next to my flat. She started famzing and stuff, we had sex same day (that was enough for me and it came FREE). However, she kept disturbing me with WhatsApp messages of her private and calls, I ignored for long but I had to give her stern warning to stay off me as I don't have time for such (I think she thought I'll appreciate more sex). To me, the one night fun was enough... And that's it! I even value my PlayStation3 and green bottle more than sex. What I value the most is FOOD and FAMILY, I can't live without both not sex.

Our Naija girls should understand that sex isn't a priority to most men contrary to what the media project. And life doesn't revolve around sex!

Meanwhile, use of vulgar languages to make known your point should be relegated please...

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Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 3:32pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Hehehe please, I like that type of friendship. grin
Believe Me, it turns out to be the best.
Lol, I can only go out when I'm being compelled to.
I don't just go out hoping to see the fun later, rather surf the net or sleep, but lemme See, next year might bring out the different version of me.


So, hows our friendship doing today?
Any inner gist? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
kikikiki I don't see that happening... friends and that's it. Wait I didn't state any gender right? grin . Bad child! grin

You mean you can't go to see movie alone? perhaps a blockbuster or one you missed and no one is willing to see again?well I had the same opinion too until I was convinced by a friend to try it out. it wasn't bad sha. As a matter of fact you get to form your perspective of things without friend's influence.

We haven't spoken today, He's a guy... I tend to be courteous relating with Guys these days before they start imagining things. But He sounded cool the last time we talked so I believe he is okay.

Next year , I will be trying out some new things too. lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by highqueen(f): 3:36pm On Nov 11, 2018
MariaLavina:
kikikiki I don't see that happening... friends and that's it. Wait I didn't state any gender right? grin . Bad child! grin

You mean you can't go to see movie alone? perhaps a blockbuster or one you missed and no one is willing to see again?well I had the same opinion too until I was convinced by a friend to try it out. it wasn't bad sha. As a matter of fact you get to form your perspective of things without friend's influence.

We haven't spoken today, He's a guy... I tend to be courteous relating with Guys these days before they start imagining things. But He sounded cool the last time we talked so I believe he is okay.

Next year, I
Hehehe.
Well, I just don't like the idea of stepping out of the house, don't know why, maybe I'm being sluggish or lazy about that.

Okay, when next he calls, extend my greetings to my prospective in law Okay? grin
Re: I Need Advice!my Girlfriend Is A Goldigger by Nobody: 3:44pm On Nov 11, 2018
highqueen:

Hehehe.
Well, I just don't like the idea of stepping out of the house, don't know why, maybe I'm being sluggish or lazy about that.

Okay, when next he calls, extend my greetings to my prospective in law Okay? grin
I understand.... you will change someday, not necessarily on frequent basis but you will go out more.

PROSPECTIVE... that's a very long word. I will tell him an online match maker says 'Hello' .

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