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Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

Please marry her, so you'll know you're spending/investing on your wife...

If she claims she loves you too, then you guys should settle down...

are you mad? like when see a good digger take her to gold mine and offer her a HOE because she's one.

like seriously are you okay. NIARALANDER please stop bn stupid and make one less angry

TonyeBarcanista:
This perhaps may be my last exchange with you on this subject

I am trying to understand the logic here! I think you have this mindset that the life of a man revolves around sex, which is unfortunate! Only a fool will put sex in front burner of his routine, I doubt such fools are even up to 10% of the male gender.

One who is productive spend his energy on pursuing a career, education and to better his life. Sex to him (like every sane mind) is to unwind after the day's troubles, some men unwind by visiting bars/drinking spots, while others read books and sleep. I don't know the caliber of men you associate with or your cycle but its a shame you have such mentality.





Only God understand what this means


I advice you to change your circle, I haven't seen any sane man that prioritise sex, only I'd.iots do. And such people end up being unfortunate and unsuccessful in life!




I have addressed this in previous post, I won't engage further in this please.


Actually, I value loyalty and the fact that there is this someone that have my back. But such don't exist in reality in this modern days, so I channel such energy to my family while I follow my girls as I please without committing anything except I choose to.


Thank you for your time..

the stupid males I av seen here recently do...they act like sex is everything.... from the comments av seen...they prioritize sex....they don't think b4 they Bleep obviously... the only thing on their mind is to enter Pussy....

U know the right action to take.

Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

Why so foolish oh yea son of man... Why so foolish?

Saff:
Men can’t live without sex? I laugh! How many of you can stay without sex for two years? Two years is too much, how many of your kind can stay without sex for a year? If you belive you cannot live without sex, speak for yourself. It is statistically proven that men in general prioritise sex even higher than money, so what is your argument oga? If it’s so cheap and overrated, why is it the most talked about thing even on this site from your gender? Why do men spend millions of Naira per year just to release Akamu from their penis? It’s very clear that you do not know much about your gender.

You say sex is mutually beneficial. Well newsflash, most women do not even derive pleasure from penetrative sex. YES. Most women pretend to enjoy it, but realistically 90% the time it is only enjoyed by one gender. MEN. You see, women can live off masturbation alone, men can’t. The male anatomy is not designed to masturbate 24/7 and that’s the reasons why you start developing major issues when you’re addicted to masturbation. Even as a gay man, you must penetrate in some kind of hole, so please miss me with that whole masturbation bullshit.

If you are going to call Nigerian women leeches, fine. But what else do you offer besides the small pennies you call money that you so much brag of? What will a women gain from dating a man who she cannot gain financially from. To me it’s a win win situation. Men place high importance on sex, women place high importance on money. Man and woman come together and they both gain what they desire. What’s the problem? Or are you upset that women are actually smarter than men and gain something more substantial that can benefit them for more than 5 minutes?

I think that is your problem. That’s the problem with most of you guys. It’s jealousy. If we had the opportunity to come back in a second life, most of you men will come back as women. You can’t understand that a woman can just lay down on her back and have money coming in from all sectors. That’s why you have so much resentment towards us. Well blame God for wiring your brain with your penis.

Ruthless. Merciless. Pitiless.

Why u give her gold to dig when U never dig well...

bizzibodi18:
I really didn't need you to. You that sits in the comfort of your room and knows how 'all' men act, think and crave for sex especially the Nigerians among them. They all are sinners while you remain a saint? Shows too much about you without you getting to say it.....

The thing taya me ooo

Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

my guy you are lust indeed, what is wrong with you? What do you meen by you can't leave is her pussy gold. Guy go find a decent girl that will turns your life around...

Saff:
Men can’t live without sex? I laugh! How many of you can stay without sex for two years? Two years is too much, how many of your kind can stay without sex for a year? If you belive you cannot live without sex, speak for yourself. It is statistically proven that men in general prioritise sex even higher than money, so what is your argument oga? If it’s so cheap and overrated, why is it the most talked about thing even on this site from your gender? Why do men spend millions of Naira per year just to release Akamu from their penis? It’s very clear that you do not know much about your gender.

You say sex is mutually beneficial. Well newsflash, most women do not even derive pleasure from penetrative sex. YES. Most women pretend to enjoy it, but realistically 90% the time it is only enjoyed by one gender. MEN. You see, women can live off masturbation alone, men can’t. The male anatomy is not designed to masturbate 24/7 and that’s the reasons why you start developing major issues when you’re addicted to masturbation. Even as a gay man, you must penetrate in some kind of hole, so please miss me with that whole masturbation bullshit.

If you are going to call Nigerian women leeches, fine. But what else do you offer besides the small pennies you call money that you so much brag of? What will a women gain from dating a man who she cannot gain financially from. To me it’s a win win situation. Men place high importance on sex, women place high importance on money. Man and woman come together and they both gain what they desire. What’s the problem? Or are you upset that women are actually smarter than men and gain something more substantial that can benefit them for more than 5 minutes?

I think that is your problem. That’s the problem with most of you guys. It’s jealousy. If we had the opportunity to come back in a second life, most of you men will come back as women. You can’t understand that a woman can just lay down on her back and have money coming in from all sectors. That’s why you have so much resentment towards us. Well blame God for wiring your brain with your penis.

Keep talking talking trash. I wonder where u got that dumb stats from when with the latter u can buy the former & party till kingdom come.

Most women pretend to enjoy sex There u go again with ur baseless assumptions.. Why not speak for ur self

How can a man ever be jealous of a woman a whole lot of u are naturally dependent on men for everything except the air u breathe & God knows i would never in a million years wish to come out as that gender that needs to capitalise on mutual pleasures & pretend its a means to an end. Most women are relentlessly shallow, and care only about what is of immediate benefit to them, the
acquisition of money (in ur case the little pennies ) is the absolute bottom line in all their choices about the male population.

Staying 10 years off sex is no big feat or a means of parading ur strength.. You have only succeeded in confirming what i already know that u lots are bloody liars even to urselves that u do not like or need sex. Yes we men can be sexually driven but it doesn't mean we prioritise sex above all things else only a f00lish f00l would & such men don't ever end well (these are the ones who loose money carelessly, die prematurely & are just plain F00ls like the OP) .Get ur head right before u begin to type rubbish & feel u have made any sense.. DON'T MAKE ME COME BACK HERE !!!

Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

Stop spending your hard earned money. You shouldn't use material things to bring someone into staying with you.

JoanOluchi:
Please marry her, so you'll know you're spending/investing on your wife...

If she claims she loves you too, then you guys should settle down...

She will wreck him financially. Infact if he becomes broke tomorrow she will sleep with his rich friend.

He should stop giving her so lavishly and see if she will stay.

JoanOluchi:
Please marry her, so you'll know you're spending/investing on your wife...

If she claims she loves you too, then you guys should settle down...

will you shut up

Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

Truth is u are a bloody fööl
Two things...
1. Continue with her & u are guaranteed self destruction.
2. Change course & u MAY be able to hustle ur redemption because from that rubbish u wrote u are so far gone.
I don't even believe u can be saved again... Honestly speaking

Great Bedroom skills and a high level of emotional intelligence are more valuable when it comes to keeping a woman than money. In fact, women don't need money that much....at least when compared to men. Men who are successful with women knows this, and they don't make the mistake of impressing a lady with money.

I would keep saying it: the fact that ladies are such emotional creatures, and yet men find it hard to be in control these days points at some obvious facts...The men of these days are dull, weak, lack adequate emotional intelligence and a God-given appearance of authority.

Thank God I grew with the right orientation of what it means to be a real man. Currently I've girls who can't wait for me to warm their beds. Most of them tell me they need just my permission to come over(I hate uninvited guests. I hate surprises too. You must inform me before you can come to my place. Anything otherwise is a breach of personal privacy). The truth is that girls love sex far more than their male counterparts, though they are very coded about it. But at my age, I refuse to be a sex-toy to randy girls, some of who I'm older than. Sowing wild oats needlessly is not in my personality.

"Women and children can be careless, but a man cannot afford to be careless"-Vito Corleone in the 'Godfather'. Kings, you all can't afford to be careless for even one second.

highqueen:
Lol. You are welcomed.

We're still on our way ooo!

Erums:
Why so foolish oh yea son of man... Why so foolish?

LOL,
add this one.....VERILY VERILY I SAY UNTO YOU SON OF MAN,RECEIVE SENSE TODAY AND FOREVER MORE IN JESUS NAME.AMEN

Saff:
Love? Is love real? Men cannot offer emotional security, they can’t offer us peace of mind. They can’t offer us orgasms or sexual pleasure. They can’t offer us domestic benefits. Nothing. The only thing that most of you offer us is the chicken change you call money and you still complain on top of that? Kaaaaaii you men are pitiful, nothing to write home about. Failures to your gender.

That I can bed you with my 'chicken change' only shows how cheap you are, 'chicken change' can be accessed anywhere and by anybody, why the likes of you end up with low lifers, thieves, criminals, con artists and fraudsters or just anybody, tasteless!! You'll hardly find a real seriously hard working and successful young diligent professionals, career men, young CEOs and Entrepreneurs in your circle. Too damn sure my dear.

nomenclature:
LOL,
add this one.....VERILY VERILY I SAY UNTO YOU SON OF MAN,RECEIVE SENSE TODAY AND FOREVER MORE IN JESUS NAME.AMEN

Hahahaha.... I no. Know how i wan take tellam.. The guy dey mad

DateMynd44:
will you shut up

Stop displaying your ignorance... It is people like you that will come back here to cry foul when she leaves you for another guy...

Finally, you made no meaningful contribution that means you made NO SENSE

[quote author=Lemskey post=72867831][/quote]You will lose her n there is nothing you can do about it except she come to you truly remorseful regretting her action. Very few girls do that this days. Once a girl does not adore you learn to understand she want something more or something else. Learn to chop n clean mouth n look to those that adore you. Just so you understand but her a car she will still fucq around n that’s me talking from experience. You are here talking of iPhone.